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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 18:30

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

If the difference between a trans identifying man and a man is their personal recognition of themselves, none of those reasons stand, do they?

How can they be outed? Why are they at risk in the mens but not a risk to women in women's spaces. Why would they be harassed in the mens but not in the womens spaces?

Are you seriously talking about presentation? Do women need to use the mens if they dress in a suit and tie?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:30

Dadalus · 11/09/2026 18:24

And as a woman, my mind is entirely at rest that one cannot infer offending rates in the general trans-woman population from the composition of the prison population

What data would you accept then? Arrest rates? Even if the trans status of arrested people were routinely collected and published, surely you would then just say that an arrest isn't a proof of guilt.

The best evidence would come from large, representative longitudinal cohort data, where you can follow people over time and compare offending outcomes across groups using an appropriate population denominator.

But those data are admittedly difficult to obtain, especially for relatively small populations. Administrative data can therefore be important too — arrests, convictions, court records, prison data, etc. — but each source has its own limitations and biases.

Arrest data are influenced by policing practices and, as you say, do not establish guilt. Conviction data are closer to proven offending but still reflect which offences are detected, prosecuted and successfully convicted.

Prison data are the most highly selected of these sources, because they describe people who have passed through multiple stages of selection before ending up in custody. They can tell you about the composition of the prison population, but I would not accept them as evidence of offending rates in the wider trans population. For that, you need data with an appropriate population denominator, ideally supported by triangulation across different sources.

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 18:27

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:20

The difference is that a trans woman has a persistent recognition of herself as female despite having been born with male-typical anatomy. That is the entire phenomenon we have been discussing.

As for why she might use different spaces from men: she does not necessarily “need” separate space in some absolute sense. But we live in a society where men and women are sometimes separated in facilities and activities largely for social, cultural, privacy or practical reasons.

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

And in those same contexts is it not ok for a woman to not want to share a space with biological males?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:26

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:20

The difference is that a trans woman has a persistent recognition of herself as female despite having been born with male-typical anatomy. That is the entire phenomenon we have been discussing.

As for why she might use different spaces from men: she does not necessarily “need” separate space in some absolute sense. But we live in a society where men and women are sometimes separated in facilities and activities largely for social, cultural, privacy or practical reasons.

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

Why not?

Given the very real physical and social consequences of sex, it's a far more coherent and fair position than

"this male person claims to have a sense of being female, we have no idea what that actually means or whether in reality he's any more like a woman than any other man is, but he says you don't need to feel uncomfortable undressing with him or having a smear from him because his eyes are actually women's eyes and his hands are actually women's hands, and he feels really sad and worried in men's spaces so can we all agree it's ok to have him in here instead? No? Well tough luck cos he's coming in anyway, bigot!"

SwirlyGates · 11/09/2026 18:25

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:20

The difference is that a trans woman has a persistent recognition of herself as female despite having been born with male-typical anatomy. That is the entire phenomenon we have been discussing.

As for why she might use different spaces from men: she does not necessarily “need” separate space in some absolute sense. But we live in a society where men and women are sometimes separated in facilities and activities largely for social, cultural, privacy or practical reasons.

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

It's quite simple. The reasons the transwoman wants to use the women's space do not override the needs of the actual women in that space, whether it's toilets, changing rooms, sports, rape crisis centres, hospital wards or the WI - because of OUR dignity, vulnerability, risk of being harassed, or simply because we want a space free from male domination and mansplaining. We say NO.

Dadalus · 11/09/2026 18:24

And as a woman, my mind is entirely at rest that one cannot infer offending rates in the general trans-woman population from the composition of the prison population

What data would you accept then? Arrest rates? Even if the trans status of arrested people were routinely collected and published, surely you would then just say that an arrest isn't a proof of guilt.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 18:24

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:20

The difference is that a trans woman has a persistent recognition of herself as female despite having been born with male-typical anatomy. That is the entire phenomenon we have been discussing.

As for why she might use different spaces from men: she does not necessarily “need” separate space in some absolute sense. But we live in a society where men and women are sometimes separated in facilities and activities largely for social, cultural, privacy or practical reasons.

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

That looks very much as though you are privileging the desires of transwomen above everyone else’s

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:22

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 18:19

I'm not sure you'd be saying this if you were a victim of sexual and physical violence by a man.

I think it's entirely wrong to make assumptions about another person's experiences in that respect.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:20

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:12

I wouldn't police anything. Sex segregation is a product of social convention - it is about the social and cultural aspects of sex, not about gametes and genitals.

And the other question..... examples? Got any?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:20

Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 18:13

What is the difference between a man and a trans identifying man?

Why do they need space away from each other?

The difference is that a trans woman has a persistent recognition of herself as female despite having been born with male-typical anatomy. That is the entire phenomenon we have been discussing.

As for why she might use different spaces from men: she does not necessarily “need” separate space in some absolute sense. But we live in a society where men and women are sometimes separated in facilities and activities largely for social, cultural, privacy or practical reasons.

In those contexts, there may be good reasons for a trans woman to use the women’s space — because of dignity, transition status, vulnerability, presentation, risk of being outed or harassed, and because the purpose of the space may be better served that way than by requiring her to use the men’s.

You cannot answer every one of those questions simply by saying “male at birth, therefore male space” and treating everything else as irrelevant.

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 18:19

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:12

I wouldn't police anything. Sex segregation is a product of social convention - it is about the social and cultural aspects of sex, not about gametes and genitals.

I'm not sure you'd be saying this if you were a victim of sexual and physical violence by a man.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:19

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:12

I wouldn't police anything. Sex segregation is a product of social convention - it is about the social and cultural aspects of sex, not about gametes and genitals.

So you don't mean segregation at all, you just mean consumer choices.

I refer you to my previous post about the interaction of body sex with cultural and social constructs.

Most Feminist women see the cultural and social constructs assigned to our bodies as sexism, not some sort of empowering personal expression.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 18:15

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:03

If you want my views on policy, the bottom line is that I don’t think policing access to toilets, swimming pools, sports competitions, knitting associations, etc. on the basis of the presumed shape of someone’s genitals has anything to do with safeguarding or preventing sexual and gender-based violence.

Sex segregation is largely a product of social and cultural convention, and I’m not opposed to it. But there is no obvious reason why that has to translate into a rigid anatomy-at-birth rule in every context, or why trans people should therefore be excluded as a matter of principle.

You can acknowledge that bodies sometimes matter — for example in healthcare — without turning sex segregation into a kind of anatomical fundamentalism. I don’t see a coherent logical argument or convincing evidence base for applying that kind of rigid rule across every social context in which services or facilities happen to be divided into male and female.

So on what basis are you suggesting separating access to toilets, swimming pools (I assume you mean changing rooms) sports competitions etc if not by (as you put it) the presumed shape of someone’s genitals (or sex as others might call it)? Or are you suggesting a free for all?

And why of access to toilets and changing rooms is nothing to do with safeguarding do TW claim to be unsafe in the men’s?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:15

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:09

You know what I would like? If you would stop calling me a ‘TRA’ and positioning me in opposition to ‘women’ and to what ‘women think’. I am a woman — not one standing outside Parliament with a placard, just someone who thinks and writes about this kind of stuff and enjoys chatting on Mumsnet.

And as a woman, my mind is entirely at rest that one cannot infer offending rates in the general trans-woman population from the composition of the prison population

I'm speaking generally. Your blase position with respect to sex offense stats is one I've seen far too many times from far too many people.

TRA - Trans rights activist/advocate. You advocate for trans rights. It's not an insult. But if you prefer I will use Genderist (one who believes in Gender rather than sex as a way of organising society) instead.

Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 18:13

What is the difference between a man and a trans identifying man?

Why do they need space away from each other?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:12

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:10

Thing is, if you aren't going to consider the needs of sex relevant, what is the coherent logical argument that segregate is still necessary, but by gender?

In what situations do you think sex doesn't matter, but gender matters enough to justify not just people tending to choose pink or blue, but there being actual segregation by gender?

And how would you "police" it? Personality inspections?

I wouldn't police anything. Sex segregation is a product of social convention - it is about the social and cultural aspects of sex, not about gametes and genitals.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:10

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:03

If you want my views on policy, the bottom line is that I don’t think policing access to toilets, swimming pools, sports competitions, knitting associations, etc. on the basis of the presumed shape of someone’s genitals has anything to do with safeguarding or preventing sexual and gender-based violence.

Sex segregation is largely a product of social and cultural convention, and I’m not opposed to it. But there is no obvious reason why that has to translate into a rigid anatomy-at-birth rule in every context, or why trans people should therefore be excluded as a matter of principle.

You can acknowledge that bodies sometimes matter — for example in healthcare — without turning sex segregation into a kind of anatomical fundamentalism. I don’t see a coherent logical argument or convincing evidence base for applying that kind of rigid rule across every social context in which services or facilities happen to be divided into male and female.

Thing is, if you aren't going to consider the needs of sex relevant, what is the coherent logical argument that segregate is still necessary, but by gender?

In what situations do you think sex doesn't matter, but gender matters enough to justify not just people tending to choose pink or blue, but there being actual segregation by gender?

And how would you "police" it? Personality inspections?

Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 18:09

If sex isnt relevant, why do trans identifying men want to be in women spaces away from men?

Why don't these men show how safe 'mixed gender' spaces are?

They use male violence statistics when the dont want to use male spaces, but say they are irrelevant when they want access to the female spaces.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:09

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:04

You know, I'd have so much more trust in TRAs if they would just say "yeah, the prison stats are concerning. I do firmly believe TWAW and I expect when we look at it it will prove to be explainable, but we should look into that properly if only so we can put women's minds at rest".

They don't see how handwaving away hard questions actually weakens their support.

You know what I would like? If you would stop calling me a ‘TRA’ and positioning me in opposition to ‘women’ and to what ‘women think’. I am a woman — not one standing outside Parliament with a placard, just someone who thinks and writes about this kind of stuff and enjoys chatting on Mumsnet.

And as a woman, my mind is entirely at rest that one cannot infer offending rates in the general trans-woman population from the composition of the prison population

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 18:04

You know, I'd have so much more trust in TRAs if they would just say "yeah, the prison stats are concerning. I do firmly believe TWAW and I expect when we look at it it will prove to be explainable, but we should look into that properly if only so we can put women's minds at rest".

They don't see how handwaving away hard questions actually weakens their support.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 18:03

Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 17:53

You want to remove sex in safeguarding.

The largest indicator in perpetrators of violence and sexual is being male. There is nothing about transition that changes a person's sex.

The surgery a man has, the drugs he takes, his build are not part of safeguarding. Its his sex that matters. Thats not a matter of opinion, thats the truth.

You are coming to safeguarding from the wrong way - you want to remove sex then ask us to justify why it should be included. Its you who needs to justify why you want to remove sex from safeguarding.

If you want my views on policy, the bottom line is that I don’t think policing access to toilets, swimming pools, sports competitions, knitting associations, etc. on the basis of the presumed shape of someone’s genitals has anything to do with safeguarding or preventing sexual and gender-based violence.

Sex segregation is largely a product of social and cultural convention, and I’m not opposed to it. But there is no obvious reason why that has to translate into a rigid anatomy-at-birth rule in every context, or why trans people should therefore be excluded as a matter of principle.

You can acknowledge that bodies sometimes matter — for example in healthcare — without turning sex segregation into a kind of anatomical fundamentalism. I don’t see a coherent logical argument or convincing evidence base for applying that kind of rigid rule across every social context in which services or facilities happen to be divided into male and female.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 17:56

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 17:49

I don’t think you understand that different kinds of data answer different kinds of questions.

Individual descriptions are entirely appropriate evidence for understanding subjective experience. If you want to know what a particular phenomenon feels like to people who experience it- first-person accounts are directly relevant. When similar descriptions recur across many people and are also reflected in clinical literature, they can help characterise a recognised psychological or medical phenomenon.

What individual accounts cannot do is establish prevalence or comparative population rates.

So I can reasonably say, “this is how trans people consistently describe the experience of being trans,” because personal accounts are evidence about experience.

I cannot say, however,m, “30% of trans people experience severe gender dysphoria” on the basis of collecting individual testimonies from people who describe severe dysphoria. To make that claim, I would need data capable of estimating the proportion in the wider trans population.

Similarly , personal testimonies can establish that trans people sometimes offend and provide evidence of how that is experienced at a personal level . It cannot establish the rate of offending among trans people as a population, or show that this rate is higher than in another population, unless you have an appropriate denominator and representative or otherwise valid population-level data.

That isn’t “picking and choosing” evidence. It is basic methodology: the evidence has to be capable of answering the question being asked.

Oh I understand that.

I also understand that you are taking anecdotes and using them to justify changes at the population level that they do not in fact justify, while at the same time refusing to even consider that the prison stats indicate a potential risk that should be explored before bringing trans identifying men into women's single sex protections.

Pingponghavoc · 11/09/2026 17:53

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 17:40

The problem is the assumption in “it will be the same for every group”. You don’t know that from prison statistics. in fact we know that different groups do not pass through the criminal justice system in identical ways. Criminal justice data show well-documented disproportionalities and biases, especially by ethnicity. Different populations can differ in detection, policing, prosecution, offence profile, sentencing, previous convictions and routes into custody. The characteristics of people who have reached prison cannot simply be treated as the offending rate of the wider population.

And I have never disputed that some trans women commit sexual offences, or that sex differences may be relevant to some behavioural differences. Hormonal differences in particular , can evidently affect behaviour.

What I dispute is the much larger inference that is being drawn from that.
There are three separate claims here:

  1. Some trans women commit sexual offences.
  2. Trans women as a population commit sexual offences at a disproportionate rate.
  3. Therefore blanket sex segregation based on birth sex is a necessary and proportionate safeguarding response.

The first is obviously true. It does not establish the second, and even if the second were established, it does not justify the third.

im also troubled by the implication that behavioural differences should be viewed as biologically fixed- to me that seems to justify naturalising sexual violence as an inevitable consequence of male biology.

Sexual offending is a complex behaviour with biological, psychological, developmental and social determinants.

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You want to remove sex in safeguarding.

The largest indicator in perpetrators of violence and sexual is being male. There is nothing about transition that changes a person's sex.

The surgery a man has, the drugs he takes, his build are not part of safeguarding. Its his sex that matters. Thats not a matter of opinion, thats the truth.

You are coming to safeguarding from the wrong way - you want to remove sex then ask us to justify why it should be included. Its you who needs to justify why you want to remove sex from safeguarding.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 17:49

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 17:13

I support better data collection from trans / gender diverse populations.

I don't think any of your claims about safeguarding are rational, or evidence based.

I don't think you can back your last sentence up.

Please highlight what claims you think are not rational or evidence based, bearing in mind of course that when it comes to evidence I am taking the "don't poke a hole in the dam until you are sure the water has gone down" approach to safeguarding not the "hey, I'm not 100% sure there is water there, poke away!" approach.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 17:49

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 17:40

But on this thread you are quite comfortable extrapolating trans people's individual descriptions to some sort of hand wavy "theory of trans" and on that basis making claims for trans womens inclusion in the female peopulation at least lingustically and socially.

So given that you will base population level decisions on anecdote when it suits you, I don't think you have a leg to stand on picking and choosing which sources are relevant to the wider population and which are not.

I don’t think you understand that different kinds of data answer different kinds of questions.

Individual descriptions are entirely appropriate evidence for understanding subjective experience. If you want to know what a particular phenomenon feels like to people who experience it- first-person accounts are directly relevant. When similar descriptions recur across many people and are also reflected in clinical literature, they can help characterise a recognised psychological or medical phenomenon.

What individual accounts cannot do is establish prevalence or comparative population rates.

So I can reasonably say, “this is how trans people consistently describe the experience of being trans,” because personal accounts are evidence about experience.

I cannot say, however,m, “30% of trans people experience severe gender dysphoria” on the basis of collecting individual testimonies from people who describe severe dysphoria. To make that claim, I would need data capable of estimating the proportion in the wider trans population.

Similarly , personal testimonies can establish that trans people sometimes offend and provide evidence of how that is experienced at a personal level . It cannot establish the rate of offending among trans people as a population, or show that this rate is higher than in another population, unless you have an appropriate denominator and representative or otherwise valid population-level data.

That isn’t “picking and choosing” evidence. It is basic methodology: the evidence has to be capable of answering the question being asked.

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