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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:52

Ducketta · 10/09/2026 19:49

And that’s mental ill health. Just like thinking you’re in the wrong body. Like anorexia.

No it's not necessarily mental illness at all - it's a different type of neurological phenomena. It can be caused, for example, a stroke.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 19:52

I give it 3 pages before clownfish are co-opted into this batshit argument to prove men can be women. Or seahorses.

Ducketta · 10/09/2026 19:49

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:21

Ahh, that would seem intuitive, but there are well-known neurological phenomena in which people experience a limb as not belonging to them despite knowing perfectly well that it is physically attached, and phantom-limb phenomena show the reverse.

So “it’s attached, therefore the brain must experience it straightforwardly as part of the self” is not neurologically sound.

The point is that the brain’s representation of the body does not always map perfectly onto anatomy. And these kinds of neurological phenomena are experienced directly by the individual — they do not depend on some external benchmark, or on assumptions about what other people are experiencing.

And that’s mental ill health. Just like thinking you’re in the wrong body. Like anorexia.

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Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:48

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:26

But are those people then told by everyone around them that their leg is no longer their leg?

Obviously for each condition you need to look at the risks and benefits of different 'treatment' options.

But you might be surprised to learn that one treatment used for phantom-limb pain is essentially to alter the brain’s visual feedback - using mirrors cleverly you can create the visual illusion that the missing limb is present and moving normally, and this can reduce phantom-limb pain in some people.

The point is that treatment does not necessarily consist of repeatedly telling the person, “Your perception is wrong; accept the physical reality.” Sometimes treatment instead works with the brain’s internal representation of the body.

And there's no suggestion we should march around tut tutting about how ridiculous, dishonest, deluded, mentally ill and pretentious people with phantom limbs are!

moderate · 10/09/2026 19:47

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 16:45

The act of recognising or being aware of one’s sex does not take place within ones sexual anatomy - it's a neurobiological, cognitive psychological process that is carried out by the brain.

Anatomy is one source of information about the body; the brain is what perceives, integrates and interprets that information as part of a person’s recognition/ awareness of self.

So it does not follow that someone who recognises themselves as female despite having male anatomy is simply mistaken about what anatomy they have. They may understand their anatomy perfectly well, and yet they still perceive themselves as the opposite sex.

someone who recognises themselves as female despite having male anatomy

And what about someone who recognises themselves as Jesus Christ despite having the anatomy of someone other than Jesus Christ? Are they also the authority on the matter of whether or not they are Jesus Christ?

However many times you repeat your fatuous nonsense, it remains fatuous nonsense.

FrippEnos · 10/09/2026 19:40

The problem is that you are mixing up people finding something offensive with transphobia.

It is possible that JKR has said things that trans people, trans lobby, TRAs and their allies find offensive because that is subjective and we knw that they have taken offense at what she has said.

However she has nothing that is transphobic, and as the trans lobby et al have expanded the meaning of transphobia to mean anything that we find offensive and that that the trans lobby et al don't agree with the word is effectively meaningless.

Unless you are trying to get someone fired. But even in that case it is an understandable fear.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 19:37

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:32

Actually, people can experience phantom limbs despite having been born without the limb in question, so once again your assumptions - and the sweeping conclusions you are drawing from them are simply wrong. buddy.

So rather than the analogy “falling at the first hurdle”, your objection actually demonstrates the very assumption I was challenging — that the brain can only represent a body state it has physically experienced before. Neurologically, that simply isn’t true.

Also fyi the type of neurological phenomenon I am describing really can't be cured by 'therapy'.

Buddy no, just no. I know you’re desperately trying to prove men can be women if they really really want to be, but you're just not getting it are you. So far you have not brought up one coherent argument as to why a male should be treated as and recognised as a woman. Males can never know what it feels like to be female, just like my cat will never know what it is to be human. I do give you props for persistence and comedy value though.

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 19:35

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:21

Ahh, that would seem intuitive, but there are well-known neurological phenomena in which people experience a limb as not belonging to them despite knowing perfectly well that it is physically attached, and phantom-limb phenomena show the reverse.

So “it’s attached, therefore the brain must experience it straightforwardly as part of the self” is not neurologically sound.

The point is that the brain’s representation of the body does not always map perfectly onto anatomy. And these kinds of neurological phenomena are experienced directly by the individual — they do not depend on some external benchmark, or on assumptions about what other people are experiencing.

But the limb does belong to them doesn’t it? No one suggests we should affirm their belief that it doesn’t. Or that we should remove it.

akkakk · 10/09/2026 19:34

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 18:12

You are still treating gender identity as though it were a false factual proposition, and that is the mistake.

A delusion is a false belief about reality — “I am Napoleon Bonaparte”, “the government has implanted a chip in my head”, and so on. A trans woman is not usually claiming that she was born with ovaries, XX chromosomes or female reproductive anatomy. She can understand those facts perfectly well.

What differs is her internal recognition of herself as female. That is not the same kind of claim as “I am Napoleon”. It is not a mistaken belief about an external fact; it is a feature of how she experiences and understands herself.

The existence of that internal recognition is itself a fact. It is you who are denying an observed reality when you insist that this experience cannot genuinely exist.

You can insist that anatomy should determine the words “male” and “female” in every possible context, but that is a philosophical and linguistic position. It does not turn a person’s gender identity into a delusion or a mental illness.

Love your valiant attempts…

but…

language has a meaning
woman and female have meanings

men can never be a woman or be female - they can’t even know how to feel female as they have no experience - so to make those claims is indeed delusional and a mental health issue…

and if all ‘trans’ people were doing was men locating their ‘feminine side’ whatever that means, there would be no issues - but they don’t they claim that they are women and they claim women’s rights and they claim access to women’s areas

and as being a woman is physiological not psychological they can be proven to be wrong

to believe something probably wrong is a mental health issue

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:32

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 19:24

But people with who claim the limb does not belong to them don’t get it cut off. (Well not by reputable doctors). They get therapy. People with phantom limb actually had that limb once. No male has ever been female so your analogy falls at the first hurdle. Sorry buddy.

Actually, people can experience phantom limbs despite having been born without the limb in question, so once again your assumptions - and the sweeping conclusions you are drawing from them are simply wrong. buddy.

So rather than the analogy “falling at the first hurdle”, your objection actually demonstrates the very assumption I was challenging — that the brain can only represent a body state it has physically experienced before. Neurologically, that simply isn’t true.

Also fyi the type of neurological phenomenon I am describing really can't be cured by 'therapy'.

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:26

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:21

Ahh, that would seem intuitive, but there are well-known neurological phenomena in which people experience a limb as not belonging to them despite knowing perfectly well that it is physically attached, and phantom-limb phenomena show the reverse.

So “it’s attached, therefore the brain must experience it straightforwardly as part of the self” is not neurologically sound.

The point is that the brain’s representation of the body does not always map perfectly onto anatomy. And these kinds of neurological phenomena are experienced directly by the individual — they do not depend on some external benchmark, or on assumptions about what other people are experiencing.

But are those people then told by everyone around them that their leg is no longer their leg?

sunshine244 · 10/09/2026 19:24

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:10

I don't have a premium account where I can filter posts, but the point that there must be some external benchmark on which a trans person is assessing themselves as female has been brought up and answered many times, that poster is just not engaging with the responses.

For example -

because you are still assuming that recognising oneself as female must either be reducible to anatomy, or else it must depend on access to some universal “female feeling”. But those are not the only possibilities, and both models fail to account for what trans people actually report experiencing.

The existence of no single, universal way to “feel female” does not mean that a person cannot have a stable internal recognition of themselves as female. Nor does that recognition have to be based on either sexist stereotypes or physical anatomy.

You are treating the absence of a simple external frame of reference as proof that the experience cannot be real. But that conclusion does not follow at all. That's not how mental/ cognitive processes work. You can have a stable sense of something without possessing an external measuring stick for it. For example, you can recognise that a particular body part feels like “yours”, that a movement feels natural or alien, or that you are anxious, without comparing yourself against some universal template of how everyone else experiences those things.

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That all is about what a trans female isn't.

If it isn't anatomy, and it isn't a universal female feeling... what is it? And how does that differentiate from being male?

Or to use your analogy above just someone who feels alien, different?

I grew up feeling very different. I wasnt the same as most other girls in my class. Turns out I'm an ND woman. Most trans people are autistic. What if the different feeling is just being autistic?

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 19:24

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:21

Ahh, that would seem intuitive, but there are well-known neurological phenomena in which people experience a limb as not belonging to them despite knowing perfectly well that it is physically attached, and phantom-limb phenomena show the reverse.

So “it’s attached, therefore the brain must experience it straightforwardly as part of the self” is not neurologically sound.

The point is that the brain’s representation of the body does not always map perfectly onto anatomy. And these kinds of neurological phenomena are experienced directly by the individual — they do not depend on some external benchmark, or on assumptions about what other people are experiencing.

But people with who claim the limb does not belong to them don’t get it cut off. (Well not by reputable doctors). They get therapy. People with phantom limb actually had that limb once. No male has ever been female so your analogy falls at the first hurdle. Sorry buddy.

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:23

I also think it should be acknowledged that the vast majority of people had absolutely no problem with trans people for years. People happily co existed but when a woman is suddenly forced to share a female only ward, female toilets or changing rooms with any male who says they are a woman and some men start to abuse this then I think it's absolutely fair that there is some pushback from women.

I have absolutely no problem with people living however they want, I honestly don't care. But I have been the victim of some quite extreme abuse from men (one of whom is serving 14 years) and the thought of being trapped in a small changing area or hospital ward with men sends a shiver down my spine. I (and thousands of other women) should not have to feel that way, we should have our spaces protected. And I'm thankful that JK Rowling is so passionate about it because otherwise things may not have been done about it.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:21

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:15

But the law dictates that female spaces cannot be accessed by trans women, therefore surely that is the benchmark of what being female is?

Also the body part thing is daft, you know it's part of your body because it's literally attached to your body.

Ahh, that would seem intuitive, but there are well-known neurological phenomena in which people experience a limb as not belonging to them despite knowing perfectly well that it is physically attached, and phantom-limb phenomena show the reverse.

So “it’s attached, therefore the brain must experience it straightforwardly as part of the self” is not neurologically sound.

The point is that the brain’s representation of the body does not always map perfectly onto anatomy. And these kinds of neurological phenomena are experienced directly by the individual — they do not depend on some external benchmark, or on assumptions about what other people are experiencing.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 19:17

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:10

I don't have a premium account where I can filter posts, but the point that there must be some external benchmark on which a trans person is assessing themselves as female has been brought up and answered many times, that poster is just not engaging with the responses.

For example -

because you are still assuming that recognising oneself as female must either be reducible to anatomy, or else it must depend on access to some universal “female feeling”. But those are not the only possibilities, and both models fail to account for what trans people actually report experiencing.

The existence of no single, universal way to “feel female” does not mean that a person cannot have a stable internal recognition of themselves as female. Nor does that recognition have to be based on either sexist stereotypes or physical anatomy.

You are treating the absence of a simple external frame of reference as proof that the experience cannot be real. But that conclusion does not follow at all. That's not how mental/ cognitive processes work. You can have a stable sense of something without possessing an external measuring stick for it. For example, you can recognise that a particular body part feels like “yours”, that a movement feels natural or alien, or that you are anxious, without comparing yourself against some universal template of how everyone else experiences those things.

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I answered you. People are female because they have female bodies. No man can know what it is to be female. So they are either lying or delusional. So how would a male know he “felt female”. What is he basing these feelings on? He is a male. Which female is he claiming to feel like?

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:15

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:10

I don't have a premium account where I can filter posts, but the point that there must be some external benchmark on which a trans person is assessing themselves as female has been brought up and answered many times, that poster is just not engaging with the responses.

For example -

because you are still assuming that recognising oneself as female must either be reducible to anatomy, or else it must depend on access to some universal “female feeling”. But those are not the only possibilities, and both models fail to account for what trans people actually report experiencing.

The existence of no single, universal way to “feel female” does not mean that a person cannot have a stable internal recognition of themselves as female. Nor does that recognition have to be based on either sexist stereotypes or physical anatomy.

You are treating the absence of a simple external frame of reference as proof that the experience cannot be real. But that conclusion does not follow at all. That's not how mental/ cognitive processes work. You can have a stable sense of something without possessing an external measuring stick for it. For example, you can recognise that a particular body part feels like “yours”, that a movement feels natural or alien, or that you are anxious, without comparing yourself against some universal template of how everyone else experiences those things.

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But the law dictates that female spaces cannot be accessed by trans women, therefore surely that is the benchmark of what being female is?

Also the body part thing is daft, you know it's part of your body because it's literally attached to your body.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:10

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 18:54

I might have missed the answer to that specific question. Can you direct me to where it has been answered please? (Or provide a quick précis here)

I don't have a premium account where I can filter posts, but the point that there must be some external benchmark on which a trans person is assessing themselves as female has been brought up and answered many times, that poster is just not engaging with the responses.

For example -

because you are still assuming that recognising oneself as female must either be reducible to anatomy, or else it must depend on access to some universal “female feeling”. But those are not the only possibilities, and both models fail to account for what trans people actually report experiencing.

The existence of no single, universal way to “feel female” does not mean that a person cannot have a stable internal recognition of themselves as female. Nor does that recognition have to be based on either sexist stereotypes or physical anatomy.

You are treating the absence of a simple external frame of reference as proof that the experience cannot be real. But that conclusion does not follow at all. That's not how mental/ cognitive processes work. You can have a stable sense of something without possessing an external measuring stick for it. For example, you can recognise that a particular body part feels like “yours”, that a movement feels natural or alien, or that you are anxious, without comparing yourself against some universal template of how everyone else experiences those things.

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 19:05

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:02

It's irrelevant because their is no good reason for thinking that the two things have anything to do with each other for reasons above

Of course they do, it's someone believing they are something they aren't. Do you think that trans women are women? Or do you think they're a man who believes they are a woman?

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:02

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 18:56

Ok but equally someone could come along and ask you what gives you the right to deny their experience and tell them they can't change race. You might argue against them (much in the way that people on here are arguing against you) but what gives you the right to say being transgender is fine and everyone should accept it and accommodate them in ways that mean that their own personal safety is compromised but being trans racial is not fine "because it's not the same thing"?

It's irrelevant because their is no good reason for thinking that the two things have anything to do with each other for reasons above

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 18:59

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 16:45

The act of recognising or being aware of one’s sex does not take place within ones sexual anatomy - it's a neurobiological, cognitive psychological process that is carried out by the brain.

Anatomy is one source of information about the body; the brain is what perceives, integrates and interprets that information as part of a person’s recognition/ awareness of self.

So it does not follow that someone who recognises themselves as female despite having male anatomy is simply mistaken about what anatomy they have. They may understand their anatomy perfectly well, and yet they still perceive themselves as the opposite sex.

The act of recognising or being aware of a dog does not take place within the dog - it's a neurobiological, cognitive psychological process that is carried out by the brain.

Nevertheless, the dog exists outside the brain, and if the neurobiological, cognitive psychological process misfires and recognises the dog as a cat (or a wife as a hat), it remains itself a dog.

There are may reasons I might look at a dog but recognise it as a cat. It doesn't have to be a delusion or an issue in my eyes or brain.

Perhaps I've never seen a dog before, only read about them, or maybe seen cartoon dogs that act like humans. Perhaps I've only ever seen big dogs and this is a yappy terrier. Perhaps some weird person gave a dog surgery to look more cat-like because they felt it was really more like a cat than a dog in how it acted.

Nevertheless, it's still a dog. It exists outside my subjective experience as well as in my mind.

TheJuryIsOut · 10/09/2026 18:56

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 18:45

There are more than eight billion people in the world. The fact that you can find a handful of individuals who say they identify as another race does not establish the existence of a comparable medical, developmental or population-level phenomenon.

There is no recognised body of evidence showing that “transracial identity” operates like transgender identity, and there is no reason to assume that race and sex should produce analogous forms of identity in the first place.

As stated - race and sex are very different kinds of categories. Sex is rooted in reproductive biology and involves anatomy, hormones, chromosomes and development. Racial categories are much more heavily shaped by ancestry, history, culture and changing social classification.

Ok but equally someone could come along and ask you what gives you the right to deny their experience and tell them they can't change race. You might argue against them (much in the way that people on here are arguing against you) but what gives you the right to say being transgender is fine and everyone should accept it and accommodate them in ways that mean that their own personal safety is compromised but being trans racial is not fine "because it's not the same thing"?

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 18:54

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 18:31

No, because the analogy does not map across.

There is no recognised medical or developmental phenomenon equivalent to gender dysphoria in which people consistently experience themselves as belonging to a different race from the one associated with their ancestry and social classification.

And race is not biologically organised in the same way as sex. Sex is a biological system tied to reproductive development, anatomy, hormones and chromosomes. Race is a much looser social classification built around ancestry, appearance and history, with boundaries that vary across societies.

So to say that a person can have a stable internal sex/gender identity that is incongruent with their anatomy, does not logically imply that you must also believe that someone can simply "identify into" another race. The comparison only works if you first assume that race and sex identity are the same kind of phenomenon, and there is no good reason to assume that.

So uniquely sex. Not skin colour or height or any other physical attribute of the body. Sex alone?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 18:54

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 18:39

you are just asking the same questions over and over again without reading or thinking about the responses.

I might have missed the answer to that specific question. Can you direct me to where it has been answered please? (Or provide a quick précis here)

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 18:51

MoistVonL · 10/09/2026 17:49

Correct. Your sexed body is material reality, and your brain is part of that material reality too.

And if your brain perceived your body as being something it cannot be (like a woman with testicles or a man with a clitoris and ovaries) then there is something wrong with your mind's function.

If I believed I had an extra toe or only one lung or that my left leg didn't belong to me, I would require psychiatric help to accept the truth about myself. A woman claiming her ovaries make her no less of a man would require the same thing.

It doesn't matter how honestly, devoutly and earnestly that perception is experienced; it's not something that can be true because sex is binary and immutable in mammals.

if I believed I had an extra toe or only one lung or that my left leg didn't belong to me, I would require psychiatric help to accept the truth about myself.

Yes that’s a good example. It reminds me of the book I really enjoyed years ago by Oliver Sacks - The Man who Mistook his Wife for a Hat.

Many examples of psychiatric patients whose brains refused or were unable to recognise reality. One man was convinced that his leg was not his own and fell out of bed because he was trying to throw this interloper leg out but it turned out to be attached to his body.

In some cases of people with a trans identity it appears that there is a genuine condition driving their feelings but in other cases, the subjects themselves report a variety of different motivations at play.

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