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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 20:51

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 14:40

Of course.

"gender critical theory/ feminism" is a political movement which gained traction in the UK in the late 2010s around the time of the proposed reforms to the gender recognition act. "gender critical" feminists argued that replacing the "objective" construct of "sex" with the "subjective" construct of "gender" in law, was a threat to the “sex”-based rights of women and girls, compromising fairness, service provision, accurate data collection, dignity, safety, and protections against discrimination and violence.

The problem with gender critical theory/ feminism is that it rests of a number of overly simplistic and ultimately erroneous core assumptions that result in contradictions. The most important of these are: the positing of “sex” as an objective, fixed and unitary measure, and second (relatedly), the framing of “sex” and “gender” as fundamentally distinct and separable constructs.

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Ooo. It's very superficial and has nasty little sets of scare quotes (you just couldn't help yourself could you?), but it's actually better than I expected. I mean, the AI helped of course, but kudos for sort of trying.

Of course, you've missed the fundmentals out, without which it really doesn't stand up as a good representaion.

For example

The Second Wave Feminist analysis of Gender vs Sex and the repressive action of Gender upon women's social experiences and self knowledge which is critical to understanding the GC position - remember, GC isn't anti trans, it's anti gender. Trans people only get the flack because the TRA movement wants to reify Gender when really any progressive society should be challenging it as something that serves no purpose other than to limit human potential.

You've listed "fairness, service provision, accurate data collection, dignity, safety, and protections against discrimination and violence" as "sex-based rights" but completely failed to mention the historic and indeed contemporay treatment of female-bodied people by male that caused these rights to exist in the first place, leaving the impression that there is no real basis for them to exist, which is hardly accurate.

You haven't mentioned the injustice of having no name at all for the female (and indeed male) half of humanity, nor the injustice of disconnecting us from our history and from each other.

You haven't mentioned that many women simply don't see themselves as part of an identity/personality-based group of female-bodies so-called "cis" women and male-bodied so-called "trans" women, finding this to be a more sexist and reductive way to think about women than simply as female people with a full range of diversity of mind and identity, and that these women find having an identity imposed upon them for the benefit of male-bodied trans women an act of sexist aggression and marginalising of the embodied female experience.

These are all signficant foundations of the Gender Critical Feminist position. I'm quite surprised you did not realise that.

But now I know that you don't understand the GC perpsective well enough to describe it, no wonder your arguments against us are so, well, poorly made!

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:50

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:46

Hmmm
actually your use of these words is doing more work than you acknowledge.

“Correct” can mean factually accurate, but when you apply it to a person’s identity or way of being it also easily takes on a normative — even moral or religious — sense of being the “right” or “proper” kind of person.

My point is that being trans is not usefully understood as either a factual mistake or a moral error. A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

That experience is not a false proposition about anatomy; it is a neurocognitive reality that they have to live with everyday. So I don’t think that whether a trans person is “correct” or “incorrect” about who they are is a meaningful or relevant question.

A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

“A person can know they’re not Jesus Christ while still recognising/ perceive themselves as Jesus Christ”

STOP. TALKING. SHITE.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 20:49

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:46

Hmmm
actually your use of these words is doing more work than you acknowledge.

“Correct” can mean factually accurate, but when you apply it to a person’s identity or way of being it also easily takes on a normative — even moral or religious — sense of being the “right” or “proper” kind of person.

My point is that being trans is not usefully understood as either a factual mistake or a moral error. A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

That experience is not a false proposition about anatomy; it is a neurocognitive reality that they have to live with everyday. So I don’t think that whether a trans person is “correct” or “incorrect” about who they are is a meaningful or relevant question.

To be fair, it doesn’t really matter to anyone else what they think about themselves. As long as they use the spaces and facilities relevant to their sex they’ll be grand.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:46

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:39

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

Your attempts to conflate the material and moral senses of the word “correct” are much more obvious than you think they are. Try again.

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Hmmm
actually your use of these words is doing more work than you acknowledge.

“Correct” can mean factually accurate, but when you apply it to a person’s identity or way of being it also easily takes on a normative — even moral or religious — sense of being the “right” or “proper” kind of person.

My point is that being trans is not usefully understood as either a factual mistake or a moral error. A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

That experience is not a false proposition about anatomy; it is a neurocognitive reality that they have to live with everyday. So I don’t think that whether a trans person is “correct” or “incorrect” about who they are is a meaningful or relevant question.

Minasama · 10/09/2026 20:43

I think the original comment that set people off was in response to a notice or post that referenced “pregnant people.” Lots of people got very upset when she said “There used to be a word for those - women” or something similar. Then she was public enemy number 1.

Of all the things to get upset about…

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 20:40

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:36

I don’t think it’s a question of whether something is “correct” or “incorrect”. Why are you so determined that trans people must be "wrong"?

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

A trans person can be fully aware of their physical anatomy while still having a persistent sense of themselves as male or female that does not correspond to the sex associated with that anatomy. That is a neurocognitive and psychological experience; it is not the same thing as being factually mistaken about what body parts they have. it's not a proposition that can meaningfully be marked as right or wrong, it's simply an cognitive reality that some people have to live with.

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That’s fine. They can live with it whilst using the facilities and spaces relevant to their sexed body and not a nebulous feeling in their head can’t they.

LVPLVT · 10/09/2026 20:40

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:08

No. I’m saying I disagree with your dogmatic and rather self-important insistence that your preferred use of language is the only objectively legitimate one.

No one is asking you to pretend that trans women were born with female reproductive anatomy. They are not asking you to pretend anything.

They are asking you to recognise that being trans is a real human experience, and to allow language and social treatment to reflect that reality rather than insisting that reproductive anatomy must dictate every aspect of how a person is described and treated in society.

You are perfectly entitled to think birth sex or reproductive anatomy matters in particular contexts. What you are not entitled to do is turn your preferred definition of the word “woman” into an empirical proof that trans people are deluded.

In fact, the pretence runs the other way: you are asking trans people to deny or suppress a deeply rooted aspect of themselves because it does not fit your preferred linguistic framework.

Preferred definition of the word “woman”? How many definitions are there of “woman”?

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:39

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:36

I don’t think it’s a question of whether something is “correct” or “incorrect”. Why are you so determined that trans people must be "wrong"?

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

A trans person can be fully aware of their physical anatomy while still having a persistent sense of themselves as male or female that does not correspond to the sex associated with that anatomy. That is a neurocognitive and psychological experience; it is not the same thing as being factually mistaken about what body parts they have. it's not a proposition that can meaningfully be marked as right or wrong, it's simply an cognitive reality that some people have to live with.

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It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

Your attempts to conflate the material and moral senses of the word “correct” are much more obvious than you think they are. Try again.

localnotail · 10/09/2026 20:37

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 11:00

When you look at yourself in the mirror and recognise yourself as female, that is your gender identity. The fact that it feels completely unremarkable or invisible to you doesn’t mean you don’t have one — it simply means that your gender identity aligns with your birth sex, so you’ve never had any reason to notice or question it.

What bullshit. I dont have any fucking gender identity, I AM female. Because of my sex. I literally am my human personality plus my hormones and my body and its role in the reproductive process. Everything else is dictated by society and is optional.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 20:37

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:58

No one is asking you to affirm a “delusion”. They are asking you to recognise that their neurocognitive experience is real, and to treat them in ways that do not unnecessarily intensify the psychological distress or discordance associated with that experience.

You can disagree about the boundaries of law, medicine, sport or particular sex-based spaces without pretending that the underlying experience itself is fake, delusional or merely attention-seeking.

Are we also expected to do the same for the ‘trans’ people who don’t have that ‘neuro cognitive experience’? Many people who claim a trans identity don’t. I hope you are not denying their identity or ‘transness’.

They are asking you to recognise that their neurocognitive experience is real, and to treat them in ways that do not unnecessarily intensify the psychological distress or discordance associated with that experience..

What about the unnecessarily intensified psychological distress caused to many women and girls by experiencing men in what should be female only spaces? Does that figure in your thinking or are we an irrelevance to you? Our presence is just required so that men can kid themselves that they are ‘one of the girls’?

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:36

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 20:24

Your examples are examples of the brain mapping the body incorrectly. Which would suggest when a transperson claims to be the other sex - because that is ‘what their brain is telling them’ - they are also incorrect.

I don’t think it’s a question of whether something is “correct” or “incorrect”. Why are you so determined that trans people must be "wrong"?

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

A trans person can be fully aware of their physical anatomy while still having a persistent sense of themselves as male or female that does not correspond to the sex associated with that anatomy. That is a neurocognitive and psychological experience; it is not the same thing as being factually mistaken about what body parts they have. it's not a proposition that can meaningfully be marked as right or wrong, it's simply an cognitive reality that some people have to live with.

backformoreofthesame · 10/09/2026 20:31

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

It doesn’t matter what is going on in their heads really - there is an arrogance in thinking that we should make allowances for what’s going on in their head - especially if they are not suffering any mental illness

male is male

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:29

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

You weren’t making a point. You were flailing around trying to distract from your failure to answer the question: without resorting to circularity or regressive stereotypes, what does it mean to “feel like a woman”?

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:26

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/09/2026 20:18

Hang on, though. Lacksie clearly believes that you are, and that, by Lacksie's lights, makes it a fact. Now what?

Now everyone discovers that Lacksie is wrong about yet another thing.

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 20:24

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

Your examples are examples of the brain mapping the body incorrectly. Which would suggest when a transperson claims to be the other sex - because that is ‘what their brain is telling them’ - they are also incorrect.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 20:23

Ooooo, it's playbook time!

Looking forward to my words being requoted in bad faith many times as "proof" just how nasty Feminists are.

Looking fowrad to it because I have plenty of bookmarks to my posts explaining what I actually meant to prove the bad faith of anyone who tries to do this.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 20:22

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 19:32

Actually, people can experience phantom limbs despite having been born without the limb in question, so once again your assumptions - and the sweeping conclusions you are drawing from them are simply wrong. buddy.

So rather than the analogy “falling at the first hurdle”, your objection actually demonstrates the very assumption I was challenging — that the brain can only represent a body state it has physically experienced before. Neurologically, that simply isn’t true.

Also fyi the type of neurological phenomenon I am describing really can't be cured by 'therapy'.

Neurological abnormalities or dysfunction still don’t require the rest of the world to agree that a person really does have legs (in the case of the neurological disorder where the patient doesn’t recognise their leg).

Similar neurological abnormalities are not a pre-requisite or universal in people that identify as ‘trans’.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 20:21

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 14:29

It's mocking and deriding trans experience.

It's mocking and deriding the arguments that are made for including trans women in female-only provisions is what it is.

Because these arguments are facile, incoherent and deserve to be mocked.

I literally have to make myself think stupider sometimes just to be able to articulate TRA arguments without undermining them by trying to make them coherent.

So please, for the love of God, if you actually have ebetter arguments - bring them!.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 20:21

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

Yes yes, but it’s bodies that determine which spaces people use, so therefore men are not allowed in female spaces whatever their brains are telling them. It may make them sad, but that’s on them to deal with.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:16

Straw man. I’m not claiming that a brain injury is the same as mental illness. Try again.

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/09/2026 20:18

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:16

Straw man. I’m not claiming that a brain injury is the same as mental illness. Try again.

Hang on, though. Lacksie clearly believes that you are, and that, by Lacksie's lights, makes it a fact. Now what?

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:17

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:01

If it’s not delusional, answer me this without resorting to circularity or regressive stereotypes.

What does it mean to feel like a woman?

Hey @Lacksie, don’t forget to answer this question!

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 20:17

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:16

Straw man. I’m not claiming that a brain injury is the same as mental illness. Try again.

Careful, you’ll be called very unreasonable if you keep arguing 😂😂😂😂😂

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 20:16

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 14:21

Just because it's directed at trans women and not trans men doesn't mean it's not transphobic. I'ts mocking trans women.

It's mocking TRAs hun. Not trans people.

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:16

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:11

A specific brain injury is not a mental illness. No. And it's not helpful to think of it that way or assume it can be cured through psychological treatments and therapy, or that it say anything about about the person’s wider mental health or psychological wellbeing.
A neurological injury can alter perception, cognition or body representation without making the person mentally ill in the broader psychiatric sense.

Straw man. I’m not claiming that a brain injury is the same as mental illness. Try again.

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