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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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backformoreofthesame · 11/09/2026 08:00

“Despite me being male I think I am not “

is really no basis for anything other than occasionally sympathy

the brain misfiring is not a reason to accept that output as any kind of truth.

it also shows a complete disregard for what the word female means.

despite having male anatomy I think I am a person who had female anatomy _ can you not see the stupidity ?

you are doing you best to make this sound like a mental illness which is then denied

I presume what you want to do is make people believe there is a genetic disorder to this. A genetic disorder not of the sexual chromosomes. A type of genetically driven neurodiversity. hence the continual need to link trans with DSD in other parts of the trans ideology ????

but that is all so incredibly rude - vile - to women who have suffered and still suffer terribly form people believing that there is something different in women’s brains to men’s brains. We can’t tell the difference between a male and female brain in the dissecting table. We can’t tell the difference in male and female brain outputs / creative, logical, musical if we hide the sex of the creator

note that we don’t assume people with mysogenistic hideous beliefs are neurodivergent- we just know they are wrong in the same way as a child who reads cot as cat is wrong . That’s their mental image and it’s wrong

mental images can just be wrong

moderate · 11/09/2026 07:55

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:50

My heart goes out to individuals who don’t fit into neat categories. I can feel empathy because I think there are few of us who haven’t felt something in the same universe (obviously not the same or as severe) at some point in our lives.

❤

My heart also goes out to individuals who mistakenly believe themselves to be Jesus Christ.

They too have pitted themselves against reality which must inevitably end up worse for them than if they had not picked this losing battle.

moderate · 11/09/2026 07:52

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:44

Yes — this is much clearer and shows where the actual disagreement lies.

However, what is important to recognise is that a trans woman is not saying, “I literally have female anatomy because I feel female.” She is saying, “Despite having male anatomy, I have a persistent and enduring recognition of myself as female.”

Whether that recognition means she should be described as a woman is a separate conceptual and linguistic argument. It depends, among other things, on whether you define “woman” exclusively by reproductive anatomy.

You cannot settle that argument simply by restating the biological definition you started with and then using it to conclude that trans women are not women. That is the circular reasoning here: the conclusion is already built into the definition.

It’s not recognition.

If I believe I have recognised my friend across the street, but when I text her later it turns out she’s in a different country, I did not recognise her; I just erroneously thought I did. If I persist in claiming to have recognised her, I am deluded.

Trans-identified men do not recognise themselves as women. If they believe they do, they are deluded.

What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic
Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:52

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:50

My heart goes out to individuals who don’t fit into neat categories. I can feel empathy because I think there are few of us who haven’t felt something in the same universe (obviously not the same or as severe) at some point in our lives.

❤

So your heart goes out to everyone. Lovely. That’s so sweet.

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:51

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:49

I don’t care

Yes you have made it very clear how you feel. I hear you and I am not here to dispute that.

So you are agreeing a male cannotever be a woman. Awesome. So why do you believe they should be treated and referred to as women?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:50

EvelynBeatrice · 11/09/2026 07:45

Personally I would feel arrogant asserting what’s in anyone else’s mind or disputing their identity. I’m open minded about what we may yet prove scientifically and how other individuals experience life.

However I don’t think it does or should makes a difference in any practical sense to public life. Single sex spaces and adjustments have always been based on the material reality of the recognition of the two types of biological person, with different needs and risk profiles.

The female individual has different biological characteristics and needs - and other needs flowing from that - to the male. Their biology means that eg they don’t just use toilets for waste but for menstruation, miscarriage, menopausal flooding, pregnancy sickness and the greater incidence of bowel and bladder disorders and digestive issues that arise in females due to biology. They take longer in the loo, undress more, and are more likely to have small children to cater for.

Males carry out 98 per cent of violent crime and all rape. The overwhelming majority of females will have experienced sexual harassment of some kind in the period from adolescence onwards, virtually always from the male class.

For hundreds of years, the sexes have been split for these reasons and for longstanding cultural and religious reasons when undressed etc. Therefore it makes sense for society to protect places where females are vulnerable or incapacitated for their safety, privacy and dignity e.g . hospital wards, prisons, changing rooms. This is necessary for the wellbeing of the majority.

Biology is also the key determinant in sporting prowess and success in most - not all, but many - feats of strength and sporting prowess This has always been recognised until very recently by separate categories for the sexes in sport.

My heart goes out to individuals who don’t fit into neat categories. I can feel empathy because I think there are few of us who haven’t felt something in the same universe (obviously not the same or as severe) at some point in our lives. But a society that doesn’t recognise the reality of the biological separation of the sexes and the safety and privacy needs of females is deluded and rotten. We have to run public life for the greatest good of the greatest number. That doesn’t mean not recognising the needs of the minority and trying to protect them from harm - but that can’t be at the expense of the valid reasons for the sex differential.

My heart goes out to individuals who don’t fit into neat categories. I can feel empathy because I think there are few of us who haven’t felt something in the same universe (obviously not the same or as severe) at some point in our lives.

❤

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:49

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 07:48

No trans women are not claiming that they have female anatomy but they are demanding to be treated as though they do. The fact that they know they don't have female anatomy makes the demands to enter female only spaces even worse than if they were completely convinced they had female anatomy.

Exactly. @Lacksie if TIM know they are not female because they do not have female anatomy, why do you believe they should be treated as female?

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:49

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:45

A TIM can claim he feels female all he likes. He’ll still never be female and never be allowed in female spaces. This may make him sad. I don’t care.

I don’t care

Yes you have made it very clear how you feel. I hear you and I am not here to dispute that.

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 07:48

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:34

If someone with an amputated limb says, “I physically still have that limb,” then yes, that claim about their anatomy is false. But if they say, “I vividly experience the limb as still being there,” that is not false. That experience is genuinely occurring in their brain.

Likewise, a trans woman is not necessarily claiming, “I have female reproductive anatomy.” She knows what anatomy she has. The claim is that despite that anatomy, she has a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of self as female.

So calling her “wrong” only works if you quietly replace the claim she is actually making with a different one — a claim about anatomy.

No trans women are not claiming that they have female anatomy but they are demanding to be treated as though they do. The fact that they know they don't have female anatomy makes the demands to enter female only spaces even worse than if they were completely convinced they had female anatomy.

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:47

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:44

Yes — this is much clearer and shows where the actual disagreement lies.

However, what is important to recognise is that a trans woman is not saying, “I literally have female anatomy because I feel female.” She is saying, “Despite having male anatomy, I have a persistent and enduring recognition of myself as female.”

Whether that recognition means she should be described as a woman is a separate conceptual and linguistic argument. It depends, among other things, on whether you define “woman” exclusively by reproductive anatomy.

You cannot settle that argument simply by restating the biological definition you started with and then using it to conclude that trans women are not women. That is the circular reasoning here: the conclusion is already built into the definition.

A woman is an adult human female. The only criteria to be a “transwoman” is to be male. Therefore a male cannot ever be a woman. Simple really. He can have all the “womanly feelings” he wants. Still never gonna be a woman. Sucks to be him. .

EvelynBeatrice · 11/09/2026 07:45

Personally I would feel arrogant asserting what’s in anyone else’s mind or disputing their identity. I’m open minded about what we may yet prove scientifically and how other individuals experience life.

However I don’t think it does or should makes a difference in any practical sense to public life. Single sex spaces and adjustments have always been based on the material reality of the recognition of the two types of biological person, with different needs and risk profiles.

The female individual has different biological characteristics and needs - and other needs flowing from that - to the male. Their biology means that eg they don’t just use toilets for waste but for menstruation, miscarriage, menopausal flooding, pregnancy sickness and the greater incidence of bowel and bladder disorders and digestive issues that arise in females due to biology. They take longer in the loo, undress more, and are more likely to have small children to cater for.

Males carry out 98 per cent of violent crime and all rape. The overwhelming majority of females will have experienced sexual harassment of some kind in the period from adolescence onwards, virtually always from the male class.

For hundreds of years, the sexes have been split for these reasons and for longstanding cultural and religious reasons when undressed etc. Therefore it makes sense for society to protect places where females are vulnerable or incapacitated for their safety, privacy and dignity e.g . hospital wards, prisons, changing rooms. This is necessary for the wellbeing of the majority.

Biology is also the key determinant in sporting prowess and success in most - not all, but many - feats of strength and sporting prowess This has always been recognised until very recently by separate categories for the sexes in sport.

My heart goes out to individuals who don’t fit into neat categories. I can feel empathy because I think there are few of us who haven’t felt something in the same universe (obviously not the same or as severe) at some point in our lives. But a society that doesn’t recognise the reality of the biological separation of the sexes and the safety and privacy needs of females is deluded and rotten. We have to run public life for the greatest good of the greatest number. That doesn’t mean not recognising the needs of the minority and trying to protect them from harm - but that can’t be at the expense of the valid reasons for the sex differential.

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:45

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:34

If someone with an amputated limb says, “I physically still have that limb,” then yes, that claim about their anatomy is false. But if they say, “I vividly experience the limb as still being there,” that is not false. That experience is genuinely occurring in their brain.

Likewise, a trans woman is not necessarily claiming, “I have female reproductive anatomy.” She knows what anatomy she has. The claim is that despite that anatomy, she has a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of self as female.

So calling her “wrong” only works if you quietly replace the claim she is actually making with a different one — a claim about anatomy.

A TIM can claim he feels female all he likes. He’ll still never be female and never be allowed in female spaces. This may make him sad. I don’t care.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:44

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 07:31

I think the point is that you can accept the phantom limb pain as real while also accepting that the limb itself is not real/not there.

Just like you can accept the feeling of a man who feels like they're a woman but that doesn't actually make them a woman.

A trans person saying "no I actually am a woman because I feel like one" when they're male is the equivalent of someone with phantom limb pain saying "no I actually do have a leg because I'm feeling pain in it"

Yes — this is much clearer and shows where the actual disagreement lies.

However, what is important to recognise is that a trans woman is not saying, “I literally have female anatomy because I feel female.” She is saying, “Despite having male anatomy, I have a persistent and enduring recognition of myself as female.”

Whether that recognition means she should be described as a woman is a separate conceptual and linguistic argument. It depends, among other things, on whether you define “woman” exclusively by reproductive anatomy.

You cannot settle that argument simply by restating the biological definition you started with and then using it to conclude that trans women are not women. That is the circular reasoning here: the conclusion is already built into the definition.

moderate · 11/09/2026 07:40

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:34

If someone with an amputated limb says, “I physically still have that limb,” then yes, that claim about their anatomy is false. But if they say, “I vividly experience the limb as still being there,” that is not false. That experience is genuinely occurring in their brain.

Likewise, a trans woman is not necessarily claiming, “I have female reproductive anatomy.” She knows what anatomy she has. The claim is that despite that anatomy, she has a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of self as female.

So calling her “wrong” only works if you quietly replace the claim she is actually making with a different one — a claim about anatomy.

The claim is that despite that anatomy, she has a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of self as female.

That claim is wrong. He might have a persistent, enduring feeling of himself as female, but he does not have a recognition of himself as female, any more than some other madman “recognises” himself to be Jesus Christ. It’s not “recognition” in any sense of the word.

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 11/09/2026 07:39

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Yes I would like it spoon fed to me as my MH makes it very difficult for me to take in information in more than bite-sized chunks. I’d like facts not opinions; the whole thing has become so big I don’t know where to start

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 07:36

Have they addressed my question about sexual offences yet?

Why do these ever so female brains want to commit sexual offences at a higher rate than even the rest of the male population?

What part of the phantom limb pain brain makes them want to rape and assault those that have what they want?

moderate · 11/09/2026 07:35

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:15

If I had said “people with phantom limb pain feel something to be true that isn’t”

But that's the point! It makes no sense at all, to tell someone that the pain they are feeling "isn't true", because pain is a cognitive experience generated in the brain. That's all it is. Their pain is real, because that's the reality of what they are experiencing! We know that the pain doesn't actually derive passively from the limb, because the limb isn't there (which the person is fully aware of themselves), but that doesn't mean the experience of pain is false or imaginary. Likewise the person doesn't need to be deluded or mentally ill to be experiencing/ to know they are experiencing that pain - it doesn't derive from a false belief that they have a limb.

That's precisely why it's a helpful analogy for making sense of gender incongruence.

Edited

Nobody is denying that trans-identified men feel they would rather be women.

We’re pointing out that describing this feeling as “recognising themselves to be women” is a load of misogynistic claptrap and everybody outside of your cult immediately recognises as such.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:34

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 07:20

Nice try. They do not have a limb. They are wrong. The person who believes, or feels or whatever word you want to use, that the limb they do have is not theirs is wrong. The man who believes or feels or whatever he is a woman is wrong. The person who believes or feels or whatever that they have no sex is wrong. You are correct. It is a helpful analogy.

If someone with an amputated limb says, “I physically still have that limb,” then yes, that claim about their anatomy is false. But if they say, “I vividly experience the limb as still being there,” that is not false. That experience is genuinely occurring in their brain.

Likewise, a trans woman is not necessarily claiming, “I have female reproductive anatomy.” She knows what anatomy she has. The claim is that despite that anatomy, she has a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of self as female.

So calling her “wrong” only works if you quietly replace the claim she is actually making with a different one — a claim about anatomy.

moderate · 11/09/2026 07:32

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:07

Saying there is no single, universal “way it feels to be a woman” outside of biology, does not mean that an awareness of being female does not exist. That simply does not follow. One is not the logical consequence of the other.

There is no single subjective experience shared by every autistic person, and no one sensation that defines chronic pain or migraine. That does not mean those experiences are unreal.

I am aware that I am a woman, and you are aware that you are a woman. You say that this is simply because you have a female body, and that may accurately describe your own experience. But your conscious awareness of your body and of yourself is not generated passively by your anatomy; it is constructed/ produced by / in the brain.

A trans woman is not claiming: “I know exactly what every woman feels like, and my experience matches theirs.” The claim is: “Despite having male anatomy, I have a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of myself as female.” That is not circular, it is not meaningless, it's a description of a real, neurocognitive/ psychological experience , that has been reliably observed in population studies across cultures.

“The claim is: “Despite not being Jesus Christ, I have a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of myself as Jesus Christ.” That is not circular, it is not meaningless, it's a description of a real, neurocognitive/ psychological experience , that has been reliably observed in population studies across cultures.”

STOP. TALKING. SHITE.

TheJuryIsOut · 11/09/2026 07:31

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:15

If I had said “people with phantom limb pain feel something to be true that isn’t”

But that's the point! It makes no sense at all, to tell someone that the pain they are feeling "isn't true", because pain is a cognitive experience generated in the brain. That's all it is. Their pain is real, because that's the reality of what they are experiencing! We know that the pain doesn't actually derive passively from the limb, because the limb isn't there (which the person is fully aware of themselves), but that doesn't mean the experience of pain is false or imaginary. Likewise the person doesn't need to be deluded or mentally ill to be experiencing/ to know they are experiencing that pain - it doesn't derive from a false belief that they have a limb.

That's precisely why it's a helpful analogy for making sense of gender incongruence.

Edited

I think the point is that you can accept the phantom limb pain as real while also accepting that the limb itself is not real/not there.

Just like you can accept the feeling of a man who feels like they're a woman but that doesn't actually make them a woman.

A trans person saying "no I actually am a woman because I feel like one" when they're male is the equivalent of someone with phantom limb pain saying "no I actually do have a leg because I'm feeling pain in it"

Rollingpinofdoom · 11/09/2026 07:26

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:07

Saying there is no single, universal “way it feels to be a woman” outside of biology, does not mean that an awareness of being female does not exist. That simply does not follow. One is not the logical consequence of the other.

There is no single subjective experience shared by every autistic person, and no one sensation that defines chronic pain or migraine. That does not mean those experiences are unreal.

I am aware that I am a woman, and you are aware that you are a woman. You say that this is simply because you have a female body, and that may accurately describe your own experience. But your conscious awareness of your body and of yourself is not generated passively by your anatomy; it is constructed/ produced by / in the brain.

A trans woman is not claiming: “I know exactly what every woman feels like, and my experience matches theirs.” The claim is: “Despite having male anatomy, I have a persistent, consistent and enduring recognition of myself as female.” That is not circular, it is not meaningless, it's a description of a real, neurocognitive/ psychological experience , that has been reliably observed in population studies across cultures.

Ummm no. Sorry bud. I know I’m female because I have a female body. That’s it. I don’t wake up every morning going “oooh I’m female”. So no, a male cannot know what it is to be female as he does not have a female body. He is male whatever delusions he has, and must therefore use the spaces relevant to his sexed body. Even if it makes him very sad.

Keepgettingolder81 · 11/09/2026 07:24

Speak the truth…

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 07:20

SockPlant · 11/09/2026 07:18

God you lot are tedious with your out of context selective quotes.

If being pro-women's rights is "transphobic" Being a TRA is woman phobic. Or misogyny

‘You lot’ suggests a group of people rather than just the latest iteration of a frequent flyer.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 07:20

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 07:15

If I had said “people with phantom limb pain feel something to be true that isn’t”

But that's the point! It makes no sense at all, to tell someone that the pain they are feeling "isn't true", because pain is a cognitive experience generated in the brain. That's all it is. Their pain is real, because that's the reality of what they are experiencing! We know that the pain doesn't actually derive passively from the limb, because the limb isn't there (which the person is fully aware of themselves), but that doesn't mean the experience of pain is false or imaginary. Likewise the person doesn't need to be deluded or mentally ill to be experiencing/ to know they are experiencing that pain - it doesn't derive from a false belief that they have a limb.

That's precisely why it's a helpful analogy for making sense of gender incongruence.

Edited

Nice try. They do not have a limb. They are wrong. The person who believes, or feels or whatever word you want to use, that the limb they do have is not theirs is wrong. The man who believes or feels or whatever he is a woman is wrong. The person who believes or feels or whatever that they have no sex is wrong. You are correct. It is a helpful analogy.

SockPlant · 11/09/2026 07:18

Lacksie · 08/09/2026 18:48

I take pride in my ‘transphobia’.

Right. That would have been a distinctly more honest framing of the thread .

God you lot are tedious with your out of context selective quotes.

If being pro-women's rights is "transphobic" Being a TRA is woman phobic. Or misogyny

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