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To bring you this Tom Jones tea?!

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hotmumshit · 08/09/2026 13:09

ITV sacked him from The Voice, then decided to reframe it as; hes some kind of super coach

Only they arent paying him properly

ITV is notably having money problems, we know that from them axing their studio audiences for shows like Loose Women and Big Brother

How amazing that we've still got celebs who can do this, without being 'media trained' aka dull

😬

(If you dont like celeb goss, thats fine, please do not bully me for your lack of sparkle and joy)

To bring you this Tom Jones tea?!
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Thesearenotthedroids · 08/09/2026 21:05

AlwayAnxious · 08/09/2026 18:14

Not against the law though. Morally maybe

But as long as consenting adults, its noone else's business

Yes and I have no doubt he verified the age of every groupy he went with.

NeedyLimeMember · 08/09/2026 21:21

For all those times I've rolled my eyes and said 'old people should NOT be allowed on social media' ...
I take it back!
Poor Tom!

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 21:24

I thought this was a thread about what Tom Jones eats for tea

He's great

And there isnt any 'gossip' to come out about him, everything known about him is already known, he had lots and lots of affairs while his loyal wife sat at home for him and very sadly passed away. He was devastated by it, it was recent (although recent for me could be in the last decade)

He's not vile.

NeedyLimeMember · 08/09/2026 21:28

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 21:24

I thought this was a thread about what Tom Jones eats for tea

He's great

And there isnt any 'gossip' to come out about him, everything known about him is already known, he had lots and lots of affairs while his loyal wife sat at home for him and very sadly passed away. He was devastated by it, it was recent (although recent for me could be in the last decade)

He's not vile.

I'm sorry - have I misunderstood? Are you genuinely saying 'he had lots and lots of affairs' and 'he'a not vile?' I wonder what someone has to do to be vile in your book.

And are we also expected to believe that all those affairs he had in the 80s were with adult women and there wasn't a hint of coercion involved?

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 21:56

NeedyLimeMember · 08/09/2026 21:28

I'm sorry - have I misunderstood? Are you genuinely saying 'he had lots and lots of affairs' and 'he'a not vile?' I wonder what someone has to do to be vile in your book.

And are we also expected to believe that all those affairs he had in the 80s were with adult women and there wasn't a hint of coercion involved?

Ive no idea bout your last paragraph

I have lot of adjectives about him, untrustworthy, a let down, a failure as a husband and father, immoral, disappointing

I work with people who are genuinely vile, you get spat at, kicked, punched, go in their dirty filthy homes and manage to tread in dog shit in their own homes, they're high on drugs or drunk, they smell, got no teeth, their kids are all in care, they're recidivists, they'll happily put nails in your car tyres so you are in danger when you leave (this has happened to me several times), they abuse and neglect their animals, they make their neighbours lives a misery, I could go on. Thats vile.

Trouble is on this forum, people dont seem to understand degrees of anything.

duckydoo234 · 08/09/2026 22:09

I was in the audience of The Voice a couple of years ago, and even then he had to be assisted to his seat, generally didn't seem to know what was going on most of the time, and I kind of felt sorry for this old man who would really have been more comfortable anywhere else. I'm not surprised there's an insurance risk, he didn't seem fit to be in the environment, let alone part of the show.

hotmumshit · 08/09/2026 22:21

duckydoo234 · 08/09/2026 22:09

I was in the audience of The Voice a couple of years ago, and even then he had to be assisted to his seat, generally didn't seem to know what was going on most of the time, and I kind of felt sorry for this old man who would really have been more comfortable anywhere else. I'm not surprised there's an insurance risk, he didn't seem fit to be in the environment, let alone part of the show.

Oo thats interesting - maybe it was for his own good 👀

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Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 22:23

I don’t get the insurance point- what workplace insurance risk could he present that a younger person wouldn’t?

hardshoulderr · 08/09/2026 22:23

TV is dead as a format. There's no money in Channel 4 just made 300 people redundant. There is no money to pay people like him.

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 22:26

Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 22:23

I don’t get the insurance point- what workplace insurance risk could he present that a younger person wouldn’t?

Dropping dead on the show

Its a shame though because his voice hasnt gone, it normally does as you age, he has been very lucky there.

Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 22:27

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 22:26

Dropping dead on the show

Its a shame though because his voice hasnt gone, it normally does as you age, he has been very lucky there.

If he’s going to drop dead he’s going to drop dead. That doesn’t affect the workplace insurance.

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 22:32

Backedoffhackedoff · 08/09/2026 22:27

If he’s going to drop dead he’s going to drop dead. That doesn’t affect the workplace insurance.

It must do, imagine you are halfway through the series and filming and one of the main stars drops dead, you either carry on and your ad revenue isnt going to be as high because people may not watch the episodes without the person and therefore your funding and investment is less , or you dont carry on and therefore the series is shelved

And the risk is surely higher for someone of 86 than 56.

Davros · 08/09/2026 22:42

I was expecting Green Green Grass mini sandwiches, Delilah tea and some What’s New Pussycat cakes

Backedoffhackedoff · 09/09/2026 09:00

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 22:32

It must do, imagine you are halfway through the series and filming and one of the main stars drops dead, you either carry on and your ad revenue isnt going to be as high because people may not watch the episodes without the person and therefore your funding and investment is less , or you dont carry on and therefore the series is shelved

And the risk is surely higher for someone of 86 than 56.

But insurance doesn’t protect you against lost revenue because your product isn’t as popular as you expected! It protects you against employer liability.

KnickerlessParsons · 09/09/2026 09:22

Thesearenotthedroids · 08/09/2026 13:21

Tom Jones is vile. I suspect itv have heard rumours and wanted shot of him before it all comes out.

Noooo! What’s our Tom done? ☹️

Takingtigermountainbystrategy · 09/09/2026 09:25

slippingthroughmyfingers1 · 08/09/2026 13:26

Tea is young person speak for gossip I believe. My teens often say ooh do you want to hear some tea when they have gossip. No idea how it started though lol.

I think it is because Americans say spill the tea instead of spill the beans

Tryagain26 · 09/09/2026 09:33

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 08/09/2026 13:23

What? What's he done?
Quite a mystery thread this.

He had multiple affairs all through his marriage . He married his wife when they were both 16 so she was his age. When he had affairs they were with much younger women.
I have never liked him because of that.

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 09/09/2026 10:07

Tryagain26 · 09/09/2026 09:33

He had multiple affairs all through his marriage . He married his wife when they were both 16 so she was his age. When he had affairs they were with much younger women.
I have never liked him because of that.

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Ugh, that's vile 😡

ObelixtheGaul · 09/09/2026 10:09

duckydoo234 · 08/09/2026 22:09

I was in the audience of The Voice a couple of years ago, and even then he had to be assisted to his seat, generally didn't seem to know what was going on most of the time, and I kind of felt sorry for this old man who would really have been more comfortable anywhere else. I'm not surprised there's an insurance risk, he didn't seem fit to be in the environment, let alone part of the show.

He still tours, though, he has just been to a venue near me. At least he can sit down on the Voice.

ExtraOnions · 09/09/2026 10:11

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 21:24

I thought this was a thread about what Tom Jones eats for tea

He's great

And there isnt any 'gossip' to come out about him, everything known about him is already known, he had lots and lots of affairs while his loyal wife sat at home for him and very sadly passed away. He was devastated by it, it was recent (although recent for me could be in the last decade)

He's not vile.

Men who abandon their children are vile.

LeedsLoiner · 09/09/2026 10:13

ObelixtheGaul · 08/09/2026 13:46

Every time something about Tom Jones comes up, I just know somebody's going to make the 'it's not unusual' joke, and no matter how many times they do, it still makes me laugh.

Why ? Why ? Why ?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/09/2026 10:20

LeedsLoiner · 09/09/2026 10:13

Why ? Why ? Why ?

Grin

Well, I've learned something from this thread. 'Spill the tea' appears to mean much the same as 'What's new, Pussycat?'

HRHCurmudgeon · 09/09/2026 10:20

Backedoffhackedoff · 09/09/2026 09:00

But insurance doesn’t protect you against lost revenue because your product isn’t as popular as you expected! It protects you against employer liability.

He’d have Key Man insurance against him (or would have done in the past). If he became unavailable due to ill health and production had to be halted, insurance pays out for studio costs, extending contracts, paying for a replacement (and associated costs of stylist, wardrobe etc). The older your Talent, the more likely this is to happen. Insurance companies might have refused to insure him and therefore the production is at risk. ITV / the production company clearly don’t want to take on that financial risk.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/09/2026 10:23

I've always been amazed that Clint Eastwood was able to get insurance to carry on making films as long as he did. It was only confirmed this year that he has now retired, and he's 96. His last film came out two years ago. Shock

Obviously cut from the same genetic cloth as David Attenborough.

B9waiting · 09/09/2026 10:24

I agree with the PP who said he’s 86 - time to retire & let someone else have a chance. Personally, I’ve never watched the Voice but I would if Cheryl was on it!