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To bring you this Tom Jones tea?!

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hotmumshit · 08/09/2026 13:09

ITV sacked him from The Voice, then decided to reframe it as; hes some kind of super coach

Only they arent paying him properly

ITV is notably having money problems, we know that from them axing their studio audiences for shows like Loose Women and Big Brother

How amazing that we've still got celebs who can do this, without being 'media trained' aka dull

😬

(If you dont like celeb goss, thats fine, please do not bully me for your lack of sparkle and joy)

To bring you this Tom Jones tea?!
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Eightfor15 · 10/09/2026 12:07

ObelixtheGaul · 08/09/2026 13:15

Didn't the BBC do that to him as well before it moved to ITV and he got reinstated?
Smacks of ageism.

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TaptheCap · 10/09/2026 12:04

likelysuspect · 08/09/2026 21:56

Ive no idea bout your last paragraph

I have lot of adjectives about him, untrustworthy, a let down, a failure as a husband and father, immoral, disappointing

I work with people who are genuinely vile, you get spat at, kicked, punched, go in their dirty filthy homes and manage to tread in dog shit in their own homes, they're high on drugs or drunk, they smell, got no teeth, their kids are all in care, they're recidivists, they'll happily put nails in your car tyres so you are in danger when you leave (this has happened to me several times), they abuse and neglect their animals, they make their neighbours lives a misery, I could go on. Thats vile.

Trouble is on this forum, people dont seem to understand degrees of anything.

I don't think those people you described are vile. I also work with them.

I do think Tom Jones is vile. Using his fame and fortune to manipulate, abuse and coerce.

Woodfiresareamazing2 · 09/09/2026 21:20

LeedsLoiner · 09/09/2026 10:13

Why ? Why ? Why ?

... Delilah

😬

ShitFacedShakespeare · 09/09/2026 21:16

duckydoo234 · 08/09/2026 22:09

I was in the audience of The Voice a couple of years ago, and even then he had to be assisted to his seat, generally didn't seem to know what was going on most of the time, and I kind of felt sorry for this old man who would really have been more comfortable anywhere else. I'm not surprised there's an insurance risk, he didn't seem fit to be in the environment, let alone part of the show.

And yet I saw him perform a year ago at Colchester Castle and he was full of life and energy.

He even danced.

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 21:04

Dweetfidilove · 09/09/2026 10:29

This thread is a different read as I've always seen and heard commentary around how much he loved hos Linda.
I always wondered how you could claim to love someone so dearly, and still be such a prolific cheat.

He did, its documented everywhere, not just from him.

But people are complicated. Its not so long ago, certainly on the continent, that most men were not faithful (in fact I dont know if that is still the case now really), but it doesnt mean he didnt love her. He was devastated when she died. Probably hugely guilty too, as he should be.

TellHerIFeelFine · 09/09/2026 13:33

This thread has been coming up since yesterday and I have been ignoring it because I also thought TJ was bringing out some kind of tea brand and I can't abide tea.
What other threads am I missing because I don't understand new meanings of words?!

LeedsLoiner · 09/09/2026 13:19

GaaNeen · 09/09/2026 10:45

He’s had such a long run on this show -
that I haven’t watched for a long time,
I think it’s OK to switch it up and get new people in -
surely that’s not a bad thing ??

maybe people like Tom sometimes make the mistake of thinking they ARE the show -
and they aren’t -
how many people would actually tune into a ‘Tom Jones show’ these days ????
move on gracefully- that’s the industry

I saw him a few years ago (in his seventies) and he was great. Unlike a lot of his contemporaries he's still got a voice (Hello Elton) he's also been clever enough to do material that suits his voice - his blues album from a couple of years ago, "Praise and Blame" is nothing like his heyday stuff but it's really good.

MenopauseSucks · 09/09/2026 12:32

MrsBroccolini · 08/09/2026 14:24

He specifically states it's about the insurance. He's 86, he's probably uninsurable now, and that also might be off the back of a health check. A show that big has to have solid insurance because if filming goes to a standstill last minute because someone carks it, that can cause huge unexpected costs to pay everyone not to work and then extend filming schedules.

The same thing happened with NCIS employing & insuring David Mccallum as he was in his mid-to-late 80s & still playing an important character.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 09/09/2026 12:08

I can appreciate that Tom Jones has a set of pipes on him but I'm still a bit traumatised by seeing him pelvic thrusting whilst singing Sex Bomb on TOTP as a teen.

Whosthetabbynow · 09/09/2026 11:33

It used to be spill the beans now it’s tea. Poor old Tom. Grew up with him. Not in the literal sense but he was popular when I was a kid.

Palebluecashmere · 09/09/2026 11:30

GaaNeen · 09/09/2026 10:45

He’s had such a long run on this show -
that I haven’t watched for a long time,
I think it’s OK to switch it up and get new people in -
surely that’s not a bad thing ??

maybe people like Tom sometimes make the mistake of thinking they ARE the show -
and they aren’t -
how many people would actually tune into a ‘Tom Jones show’ these days ????
move on gracefully- that’s the industry

Actually, I would. I would pay to see him sing live again too if he came somewhere near me. I love the voice.

Palebluecashmere · 09/09/2026 11:28

AutumnRussett · 09/09/2026 11:18

His sexual partners were willing grown adults . He has done nothing wrong , except cheat on his late wife but that was between Linda and Him .

Yes that’s the way I see it. I don’t particularly like it but it’s actually not my business.

AutumnRussett · 09/09/2026 11:18

Palebluecashmere · 09/09/2026 10:36

Not excusing the poor behaviour but you could probably find dozens and dozens of promiscuous famous people from the sixties and seventies. Are they all “vile”??? To be “cancelled”? Dont we often separate the art from the artist? If you were young in the sixties, seventies or early eighties his affairs were very public.

I don’t like the behaviour but I adore his voice which is as good now as it was when he was in his twenties. And I enjoy him on the Voice probably the only reason I watch.

His sexual partners were willing grown adults . He has done nothing wrong , except cheat on his late wife but that was between Linda and Him .

AutumnRussett · 09/09/2026 11:15

Tom is 86 but knows his stuff . I noticed a lot of the acts tend to pick the younger coaches though , which is a shame as Tom has the wisdom and experience to get them through it .

Whisperwaves · 09/09/2026 10:53

Tom Jones often looks like he hasn't a clue what's going on.

Thesearenotthedroids · 09/09/2026 10:53

Palebluecashmere · 09/09/2026 10:36

Not excusing the poor behaviour but you could probably find dozens and dozens of promiscuous famous people from the sixties and seventies. Are they all “vile”??? To be “cancelled”? Dont we often separate the art from the artist? If you were young in the sixties, seventies or early eighties his affairs were very public.

I don’t like the behaviour but I adore his voice which is as good now as it was when he was in his twenties. And I enjoy him on the Voice probably the only reason I watch.

I think having standards is important. Standards shift over time. That means we don't necessarily want people who fail to meet current standards being lauded as rock gods. I am sure there are plenty of talented artists out there who don't have such a chequered past who could do with some limelight. If tom was a true mentor in the industry he would have suggested deserving others to take the place.

Backedoffhackedoff · 09/09/2026 10:52

I love the phrase “bringing the tea”

also “I bought a mug because this tea is hot”

peakyblenders · 09/09/2026 10:49

Did anyone else come on to this thread expecting to see a mug of tea with milk/froth on the top resembling Tom Jones's face? 😊😆

(Note to self: must start keeping up better with celeb culture vernacular 😄)

GaaNeen · 09/09/2026 10:45

He’s had such a long run on this show -
that I haven’t watched for a long time,
I think it’s OK to switch it up and get new people in -
surely that’s not a bad thing ??

maybe people like Tom sometimes make the mistake of thinking they ARE the show -
and they aren’t -
how many people would actually tune into a ‘Tom Jones show’ these days ????
move on gracefully- that’s the industry

Backedoffhackedoff · 09/09/2026 10:42

HRHCurmudgeon · 09/09/2026 10:20

He’d have Key Man insurance against him (or would have done in the past). If he became unavailable due to ill health and production had to be halted, insurance pays out for studio costs, extending contracts, paying for a replacement (and associated costs of stylist, wardrobe etc). The older your Talent, the more likely this is to happen. Insurance companies might have refused to insure him and therefore the production is at risk. ITV / the production company clearly don’t want to take on that financial risk.

Edited

That makes more sense. Using insurance is an excuse is somewhat disingenuous, when the actual reason is they think the risk of him not being able to complete the job is too high.

SnowFrogJelly · 09/09/2026 10:37

Thesearenotthedroids · 08/09/2026 13:21

Tom Jones is vile. I suspect itv have heard rumours and wanted shot of him before it all comes out.

Why is he vile

Palebluecashmere · 09/09/2026 10:36

Not excusing the poor behaviour but you could probably find dozens and dozens of promiscuous famous people from the sixties and seventies. Are they all “vile”??? To be “cancelled”? Dont we often separate the art from the artist? If you were young in the sixties, seventies or early eighties his affairs were very public.

I don’t like the behaviour but I adore his voice which is as good now as it was when he was in his twenties. And I enjoy him on the Voice probably the only reason I watch.

Dweetfidilove · 09/09/2026 10:29

This thread is a different read as I've always seen and heard commentary around how much he loved hos Linda.
I always wondered how you could claim to love someone so dearly, and still be such a prolific cheat.

Oldsu · 09/09/2026 10:25

Every time I see him I am reminded of my dear old Dad some daft mare once told him he looked like him and of course it went to his head. Every Christmas he got up to sing green green grass of bleeding home. Well he may have looked vaguely like him in a certain light but he couldn't sing like him silly old fool couldn't carry a tune in a bucket

B9waiting · 09/09/2026 10:24

I agree with the PP who said he’s 86 - time to retire & let someone else have a chance. Personally, I’ve never watched the Voice but I would if Cheryl was on it!

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