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"How do black people feel? How do brown people feel? How do cripples feel? How do fat people feel?"

316 replies

Temptree · 07/09/2026 22:34

As stated by Miriam Margolyes today, as she gets worse and worse...... and worse.

Link to previous thread:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5574225-omg-miriam-margolyes-andi-peters?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

It was intolerable what she said on This Morning last week.
And now what she's saying today by way of defending herself is even further intolerable.

OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters | Mumsnet

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exha...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5574225-omg-miriam-margolyes-andi-peters

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senua · 08/09/2026 08:53

She is a product of the media age where "there is no such thing as bad publicity". She has a book to sell, Morning TV has hours of air-time to fill, social media needs people to froth, etc, etc.
We should know better and treat slebs the same way we treat children: do not encourage bad behaviour by rewarding it with attention.

I am well aware that I have added to the froth!Blush Grin

GentlemanJay · 08/09/2026 08:53

I went to an “audience” with her once. Not my pick. We were both glad when it had finished. Even the person that thought it was a good idea and booked the tickets. lol.

DierdreDaphne · 08/09/2026 08:53

Gloriia · 08/09/2026 08:47

She's a celeb not some isolated person living in the sticks unaware of what is pc.
She gets away with it because of her fake eccentric 'whoopsie have I been naughty' image.
She needs cancelling from chat shows. All the Graham Norton types enabling and seal clapping are complicit.

She's also considered very 'woke' and I think probably thinks of herself that way too. It's not as though she has been closeted away taking notes at the parish council and bookkeeping for the local builders merchants all her life.

LuckyHazelFox · 08/09/2026 08:50

malificent7 · 08/09/2026 07:12

Racism is trendy nowadays what with all the flag shaggers and concerned young. (white Christian) men who are desperate to protect us from nasty brown rapists so I doubt she will be stopped.
Likewise it is acceptable to bash fat people and those with disabilities...people are emboldened.

Why are you mentioning those men? This is about MM being racist, not anyone else. I know also if this had been anyone on the right saying what she did, the threads would be flooded with the usual rhetoric you started out with. Hypocrites.

Hummusfiend · 08/09/2026 08:50

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2026 08:46

Interesting to see how some on the left are defending her though. Must be difficult for them to process this when she has also been an advocate for a lot of left leaning ideologies. She probably just doesn’t care, like a lot of elderly people, who develop a ‘no filter’ mindset where anything that was previously hidden in their head just comes out.

Who on the left are defending her? Not being goady - just haven't seen any defence?

StandFirm · 08/09/2026 08:50

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Oh I know there are raging racists out here on MN but I'm very disappointed to hear such a disgraceful thread would be allowed to stand... Mind you I had a surreal exchange with what sounded like a proponent of the Nuremberg laws yesterday and their comments were absolutely allowed to stand.

Gloriia · 08/09/2026 08:47

UnwillingAdvocate · 08/09/2026 08:42

She’s 85 years old. How many of your 85 year old parents aren’t stuck in their ways and living in a different reality? She’s from an entirety different world altogether. It doesn’t make it right. It doesn’t make it palatable. But it does explain why she doesn’t understand the modern world.

She's a celeb not some isolated person living in the sticks unaware of what is pc.
She gets away with it because of her fake eccentric 'whoopsie have I been naughty' image.
She needs cancelling from chat shows. All the Graham Norton types enabling and seal clapping are complicit.

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2026 08:46

Interesting to see how some on the left are defending her though. Must be difficult for them to process this when she has also been an advocate for a lot of left leaning ideologies. She probably just doesn’t care, like a lot of elderly people, who develop a ‘no filter’ mindset where anything that was previously hidden in their head just comes out.

Lentilcakes · 08/09/2026 08:46

She actually said ‘cripple’?

DierdreDaphne · 08/09/2026 08:43

CarbonArtist · 08/09/2026 07:14

Miriam’s comments to Andi Peters were tasteless and unnecessary, but I suspect the reason she is being targeted with such ire is because she spoke up about the genocide.

I don't think that's it at all. There is no context in which what she said was OK. As with posters on the other thread, I broadly agree with her on Israel/Gaza, but find her genrally annoying and in this particular instance, shockingly awful.

UnwillingAdvocate · 08/09/2026 08:42

She’s 85 years old. How many of your 85 year old parents aren’t stuck in their ways and living in a different reality? She’s from an entirety different world altogether. It doesn’t make it right. It doesn’t make it palatable. But it does explain why she doesn’t understand the modern world.

Lomonald · 08/09/2026 08:39

CarbonArtist · 08/09/2026 07:14

Miriam’s comments to Andi Peters were tasteless and unnecessary, but I suspect the reason she is being targeted with such ire is because she spoke up about the genocide.

She is being targeted because she is a racist and bigot who thinks it is her right to insult people she is being interviewed by!

DierdreDaphne · 08/09/2026 08:36

Stormwhale · 08/09/2026 05:49

I totally understand that this is totally innapropriate in person, but on a message board where people come to debate ideas, learn new view points, discuss current research and understanding of various topics… is it not possible to have an educational conversation about these things or does it need to be avoided totally? I feel it should not be taboo, but definitely handled respectfully, which it doesn’t seem to have been previously.

Seriously?? I think not!

Bloody hell.

hattie43 · 08/09/2026 08:34

Cherrytree86 · 08/09/2026 08:31

She is thick as fuck.

She’s not thick she’s just horrible and knows exactly what she’s doing .

Cherrytree86 · 08/09/2026 08:31

She is thick as fuck.

Gloriia · 08/09/2026 08:23

'I can't get excited about what she said tbh, in the grand scheme of things there's much worse going on.'

Of course there's worse stuff going on but it's the whole snap shot. She represents many celebs who desperately virtue signal then seem to have no idea they are also a massive problem with the langauge that they use and the beliefs that they spout.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 08/09/2026 08:13

TheFairyCaravan · 08/09/2026 07:58

She’s being calling disabled people, like me, a cripple for years which is incredibly offensive and she knows it but doesn’t care. So if I want to call her a nasty old hag, I bloody well will.

Ok, but the reason not to use hate speech even against people who probably deserve it is that it doesn’t just harm the person you are using it against, it hurts everyone else in the group the term targets. If you call someone a hag it implies that old womanhood itself is worthy of hatred, which is an attack on even the decent non-ableist old women who wouldn’t dream of using the word cripple.
Margolyes is a dick but that doesn’t make it open season on all the hateful terms that can be used to describe her.

Summer26woohoo · 08/09/2026 08:13

She's losing her marbles is my considered opinion.

Yes there are plenty of fully with it people in their 80's but there are plenty who aren't. She's losing what little filter she had, which I suspect is age related.

I can't get excited about what she said tbh, in the grand scheme of things there's much worse going on.

TheGoddessFrigg · 08/09/2026 08:10

Pplareasthickasshit · 08/09/2026 06:40

I'm not sure you can take the moral high ground when you're ageist and sexist yourself.

Im an old woman myself and think she is absolutely vile. However Im also fat and a 'cripple' so she would probably hate me anyway.
She lived through some times of great liberation in the 70s and 80s. So did my parents and I can't imagine they ever asking what colour someone's parents were. In fact, I saw them interact with several black people and they never felt compelled to ask this!

catsarethefuture · 08/09/2026 08:09

Surely she should know how fat people feel

Gloriia · 08/09/2026 08:08

CarbonArtist · 08/09/2026 07:14

Miriam’s comments to Andi Peters were tasteless and unnecessary, but I suspect the reason she is being targeted with such ire is because she spoke up about the genocide.

No it's because she asked a black man 'what are you??' and then went on to dig a deeper hole with more offensive langauge.

Gloriia · 08/09/2026 08:05

tsmainsqueeze · 07/09/2026 23:38

She is utterly loathesome and I believe she knows exactly what trouble she creates and enjoys it.

Yes she does know what trouble she's causing. She'll be loving it as getting lots of publicity for her silly book. For some reason whilst yes many of us are appalled by her offensive crap she seems to get away it because she's a fat, woke leftie.

Anyone else would be hung out to dry.

TheFairyCaravan · 08/09/2026 07:58

Pplareasthickasshit · 08/09/2026 06:40

I'm not sure you can take the moral high ground when you're ageist and sexist yourself.

She’s being calling disabled people, like me, a cripple for years which is incredibly offensive and she knows it but doesn’t care. So if I want to call her a nasty old hag, I bloody well will.

JoshLymanSwagger · 08/09/2026 07:46

I thought she'd died years ago. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Soontobe60 · 08/09/2026 07:46

Pplareasthickasshit · 08/09/2026 06:40

I'm not sure you can take the moral high ground when you're ageist and sexist yourself.

Yep!