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Temptree · 07/09/2026 22:34

As stated by Miriam Margolyes today, as she gets worse and worse...... and worse.

Link to previous thread:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5574225-omg-miriam-margolyes-andi-peters?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

It was intolerable what she said on This Morning last week.
And now what she's saying today by way of defending herself is even further intolerable.

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Holidaymodeon · 13/09/2026 00:10

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 18:54

That is how they have to deal with her I think. It’s a shame as I would like to see someone verbally take her apart and expose her for the nasty racist bigot that she is

Me too, these feckers need to start getting the message, they just think they can say whatever repulsive things they like and then cry woke snowflakes when people complain . I despise them

Anarchy99 · 12/09/2026 08:11

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:22

I think this could be true.

She has always been an offensive arsehole - why are people trying to excuse it now? It’s not like she was a pleasant person in interviews previously.

Telling stories about farting and wanking off men has always been her ‘thing’.

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:22

YourAmplePlumPoster · 11/09/2026 19:42

I think she has dementia. Her agents need to be looking out for her.

I think this could be true.

AquamarinePearlGold · 11/09/2026 23:21

CarbonArtist · 08/09/2026 07:14

Miriam’s comments to Andi Peters were tasteless and unnecessary, but I suspect the reason she is being targeted with such ire is because she spoke up about the genocide.

Erm no, it’s because she was very racist.

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 20:05

YourAmplePlumPoster · 11/09/2026 19:42

I think she has dementia. Her agents need to be looking out for her.

Then she has had dementia for years. She’s always been offensive

Lomonald · 11/09/2026 19:52

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 18:54

That is how they have to deal with her I think. It’s a shame as I would like to see someone verbally take her apart and expose her for the nasty racist bigot that she is

Sadly it is fluffy day time TV smoothing things over was probably for the best.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 11/09/2026 19:42

I think she has dementia. Her agents need to be looking out for her.

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 18:54

Holidaymodeon · 10/09/2026 11:07

Yep she just smoothed everything over for mm to feel more comfortable even though mm knew exactly what she had done and her motives for doing so

That is how they have to deal with her I think. It’s a shame as I would like to see someone verbally take her apart and expose her for the nasty racist bigot that she is

Holidaymodeon · 10/09/2026 11:07

LuckyHazelFox · 09/09/2026 10:00

Ah thanks. Went off her after I saw her sneery face interviewing Giovanni Pernice from Strictly. So she's a coward.

Yep she just smoothed everything over for mm to feel more comfortable even though mm knew exactly what she had done and her motives for doing so

EuripidesTrousersEumenidesTrousers · 10/09/2026 09:21

TotaleclipseinFrance · 10/09/2026 08:25

'Useful idiot' who's so right on with her love of the boat people has managed to make herself unpopular with both sides. Lol.

This is the trouble with wokeism - you have to keep up with what's in and what's out.

Though to be honest even if you don't subscribe to the cult of woke what she said to Andi Peters was beyond the pale and unacceptable even to those who are not woke at all.
I mean for goodness sake, I hate woke but not even I would say that. It's grossly offensive ffs.

I bet even Farage himself was cringing with embarrassment.

'Cult of woke' 🙄

Holidaymodeon · 10/09/2026 08:36

Anarchy99 · 10/09/2026 08:19

Those saying she may be ND - as someone who is ND myself I have managed to avoid deliberately being racist to someone just to get attention

Same

TotaleclipseinFrance · 10/09/2026 08:25

'Useful idiot' who's so right on with her love of the boat people has managed to make herself unpopular with both sides. Lol.

This is the trouble with wokeism - you have to keep up with what's in and what's out.

Though to be honest even if you don't subscribe to the cult of woke what she said to Andi Peters was beyond the pale and unacceptable even to those who are not woke at all.
I mean for goodness sake, I hate woke but not even I would say that. It's grossly offensive ffs.

I bet even Farage himself was cringing with embarrassment.

Anarchy99 · 10/09/2026 08:19

Those saying she may be ND - as someone who is ND myself I have managed to avoid deliberately being racist to someone just to get attention

Anarchy99 · 10/09/2026 08:12

AInightingale · 10/09/2026 08:04

But she doesn't have to be like this. She's got an impressive knowledge of Charles Dickens and Victorian Britain and women in history, so why the hell she goes onto shows and tells dirty stories and swears her head off is beyond me. It's really very sad that she seems over the years to have re-adapted herself for a popular culture that's aimed at the LCD and thrives on shock and controversy. She wasn't like this years ago, I remember her.

Just shows I guess that all the knowledge in the world can’t stop someone being a total arsehole

Holidaymodeon · 10/09/2026 08:11

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 16:36

Wouldnt you expect his empoloyers to have said something? Or perhaps they have, Ive missed it?

Im wondering if she does have some sort of condition, Ive mentioned EUPD, could be ND, impulsive and socially deaf?

Unfortunately I have had many many people like her in my life, I am mixed heritage but some family members are very similar as well as a job which constantly put me in proximity with these colonial types. They are vile, and they try to soften it with a laugh and a smile or feigned innocence.
all of them ‘posh’, many of them ‘christian’.
colonialism still walks among us

AInightingale · 10/09/2026 08:04

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 07:46

Old dogs and new tricks springs to mind. She's made a living off being controversial. If she wasn't who she was, she would be called a grifter.

But she doesn't have to be like this. She's got an impressive knowledge of Charles Dickens and Victorian Britain and women in history, so why the hell she goes onto shows and tells dirty stories and swears her head off is beyond me. It's really very sad that she seems over the years to have re-adapted herself for a popular culture that's aimed at the LCD and thrives on shock and controversy. She wasn't like this years ago, I remember her.

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 07:46

Gloriia · 10/09/2026 07:30

They would of course have expected something but usually a slightly cringeworthy comment about farts or knickers. I doubt they'd have expected her to ask a black man 'what are you'. Imo Peters should've been firmer with her and said politely 'it is really inappropriate to ask someone that' intead of all the giggling and enabling.

Until people call her out at the time and let her know firmly and clearly she is being absolutely offensive she'll never change.

Old dogs and new tricks springs to mind. She's made a living off being controversial. If she wasn't who she was, she would be called a grifter.

Gloriia · 10/09/2026 07:30

They would of course have expected something but usually a slightly cringeworthy comment about farts or knickers. I doubt they'd have expected her to ask a black man 'what are you'. Imo Peters should've been firmer with her and said politely 'it is really inappropriate to ask someone that' intead of all the giggling and enabling.

Until people call her out at the time and let her know firmly and clearly she is being absolutely offensive she'll never change.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 10/09/2026 07:15

They should have expected something shocking as she likes running her mouth.

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 20:34

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 19:53

You aren't making any sense. The producers are not going to invite her on and then tell her off on live air are they. They expected this from here. Anyway im not going in circles with you.

Let me tell you something

It really is not me, that is not making sense.

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 19:53

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 18:28

Because if you manage to follow the thread, there was a discussion about why Andi's employers had not said something to castigate her and support their employee, to show support, to end the silence that we were referring to

So I said 'why havent his employers said something' or WTTE, on the back of that conversation. You then piped up and said, 'oh but they did, in his ear piece'

That is clearly not what the conversation was about. Follow the thread properly.

You aren't making any sense. The producers are not going to invite her on and then tell her off on live air are they. They expected this from here. Anyway im not going in circles with you.

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 18:28

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 18:25

im not misunderstanding why would the producers do that? They were expecting her to say such things...... do you get MY point.

Because if you manage to follow the thread, there was a discussion about why Andi's employers had not said something to castigate her and support their employee, to show support, to end the silence that we were referring to

So I said 'why havent his employers said something' or WTTE, on the back of that conversation. You then piped up and said, 'oh but they did, in his ear piece'

That is clearly not what the conversation was about. Follow the thread properly.

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 18:27

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 18:05

Is that your biggest concern?

He could well have had a white parent, people come in all colours and shades (without wanting to be all MM about it)

Do you think I dont know that? She assumed he had a "white daddy" you shouldn't assume. We could all XYZ 🙄🙄

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 18:25

im not misunderstanding why would the producers do that? They were expecting her to say such things...... do you get MY point.

likelysuspect · 09/09/2026 18:19

Parcelpass · 09/09/2026 17:56

The producers DID. They spoke to Andi in his ear piece and he even said on air that the producers are getting worried. The producers are and were fully aware that MM is tone deaf. She just took NO notice. Andi just sort of laughed it off. He did well.

They spoke to Andi on his ear piece and said 'Im so sorry you should not have to be exposed to this while working and we will protect you'?

Surely you're not misunderstanding what Ive written?

I saying his employers should have issued a statement after the event PUBLICLY to express disapproval and criticise MM?

Not muttering in his ear piece to shut her up because its bad TV for them

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