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AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?

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ILikeDinosaurs · Yesterday 11:03

Another video showing the violence against a woman at the Reform conference. They are actually PULLING A WOMAN DOWN ON THE FLOOR and KICKING HER.

A man in a suit and a man with a lanyard both kicking her. The man with the walking stick in the other videos (identified as Stephen Cooling) looks like he's pulling her down and possibly kicking her too. Women are just watching with no care for the victim.

This is Fascism. Given Nigel's horrifyingly GLEEFUL response to this, this violence will become the norm under Reform.

How can people defend this?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Mods please don't take this down, this mustn't be allowed to be ignored.

Joshua ABD on Instagram: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different protesters. Different attendees. Repeated...

1,718 likes, 438 comments - joshualabd on September 5, 2026: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different prote...

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi?stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

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emuloc · Yesterday 16:12

She got what was coming to her though, according to those unwilling to condemn the violence meted out to her. Robert Jenrick's reaction was absolutely deplorable, not unsurprising though. That says a lot about the type of person he is. No condemnation from the top tier of that ghastly party.

ColadhSamh · Yesterday 15:59

disgusting that some women think this is acceptable. Mob violence against women who are peacefully (if loudly) protesting has to be condemned by all. Some images of one of the women attacked. Images currently under review

AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?
AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?
TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:57

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:48

You don’t understand so there is not point in explaining which makes me desperately sad.

The agrees, likes and loves suggest that other women do. I recommend you read Invisible Women by Caroline Carado Perez .

With kindness maybe volunteer locally in women’s charities and there could be hope for you as you appear to want to learn.

Learn about what? Your first sentence made no sense, which is why I asked you to explain. I understood perfectly the second sentence.

I thought perhaps

"The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns"

might be suggesting that left-wing women "love" that working class white girls in shit towns are the victims of grooming gangs. But I am sure that is not what you meant as it is clearly not true.

Yorkshirelass04 · Yesterday 15:56

Can't believe some of the comments on this thread.

So hecklers deserve a beating from crowd members now is it?

The woman was asking for it you mean? Where have we heard that before.

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 15:55

I would be certainly extremely wary of the green party it's almost like the momentum arm of the left.

The older gentleman the way he grapples her ! He even looks gleeful whilst doing it

She's at a very akward angle and someone has her hair. And he's grappling with her and has his hand over or in her mouth 😮.

It's all very ungainly and I hope she is ok.

Having said that I think realistically pulling these stunts anywhere may lead to pushing and shoving. Esp after people have been attacked. I assume people have to go through metal detectors and so on ?

I think she was very silly ,I hope she's ok.

blackbunny · Yesterday 15:52

BlueSherbet · Yesterday 11:41

I agree with Robert Jenrick's response - "Oh boo hoo". 😂

For too long, leftist agitators have felt entitled to walk over others in society with a total lack of respect.

It doesn't matter what the event is - a protest, a political rally, a meeting, a religious service - whatever it is, these people have felt entitled to invade and disrupt proceedings, showing complete lack of respect to those present, as well as to their rights to assemble and express reasonable opinions etc.

I am pleased to see there is now some push back against these arrogant bullies and I found it deeply satisfying to see them being manhandled out of the Reform conference.

Indeed I think they got off pretty lightly.

Do you think the protester would have”got off pretty lightly” if that thug had broken her skull with his walking stick? He was the arrogant bully.
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The protester was exercising her democratic right to protest peacefully. She had the right to be there, she had bought a ticket.
I don’t want to be part of a society that condones physical violence against people voicing their beliefs in a peaceful and legal way. That is a very slippery slope.
I hope that thug is prosecuted for his violence.

Soitshoteh · Yesterday 15:52

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:48

You don’t understand so there is not point in explaining which makes me desperately sad.

The agrees, likes and loves suggest that other women do. I recommend you read Invisible Women by Caroline Carado Perez .

With kindness maybe volunteer locally in women’s charities and there could be hope for you as you appear to want to learn.

I think it's more that the sentence didn't gramatically or contextually make sense...

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:49

piscofrisco · Yesterday 15:47

No words

I can think of a few, but I'd be reported.

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:48

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:37

You don't want to explain? OK.

You don’t understand so there is not point in explaining which makes me desperately sad.

The agrees, likes and loves suggest that other women do. I recommend you read Invisible Women by Caroline Carado Perez .

With kindness maybe volunteer locally in women’s charities and there could be hope for you as you appear to want to learn.

piscofrisco · Yesterday 15:47

BlueSherbet · Yesterday 11:41

I agree with Robert Jenrick's response - "Oh boo hoo". 😂

For too long, leftist agitators have felt entitled to walk over others in society with a total lack of respect.

It doesn't matter what the event is - a protest, a political rally, a meeting, a religious service - whatever it is, these people have felt entitled to invade and disrupt proceedings, showing complete lack of respect to those present, as well as to their rights to assemble and express reasonable opinions etc.

I am pleased to see there is now some push back against these arrogant bullies and I found it deeply satisfying to see them being manhandled out of the Reform conference.

Indeed I think they got off pretty lightly.

No words

thepariscrimefiles · Yesterday 15:45

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 11:35

A fascist wants to control thought - she is a fascist who didn't belong but wanted to cause trouble. She certainly found it. No gaslighting here.

Fascism is a far-right, authoritarian, and ultranationalist political ideology. That description accurately describes Farage and his followers, particularly the ones who attacked the protester, not the climate change protester herself.

The sight of that hideous old man positively drooling with excitement as he pulled her hair and hit her with a walking stick was disgusting.

SevenYellowHammers · Yesterday 15:45

CurlewKate · Yesterday 15:02

Was Jo Cox killed by an Islamist or a lefty? Do we know the motive behind Ann Widdecome’s murder?

The motive remains unknown. He had some “clippings” about Nigel Farage.

That’s it.

The only thing we know is that he was male, he had been a lift engineer and had become a recluse since death of father. Neighbours thought he didn’t live there anymore.

I would wager that whatever he thought his motive was, the cause was his mental health.

I remain sad that AW died a horrific death as she did but fail to see how it justifies the threat of the country voting in a fascist or near fascist party.

And we have to be realistic about that threat and open about our fears and what’s at the root of them.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:37

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:33

I can’t help you then 😥

You don't want to explain? OK.

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 15:37

BlueSherbet · Yesterday 12:05

Bear in mind we live in an era where nothing is safe - MPs have been murdered at their surgeries or in their own home. There are random attacks on innocent people in the street. Even an ariana grande concert was blown up.

All these things results from two sources - islamism and leftist violence.

And so if an aggressive malcontent suddenly reveals themselves at a crowded gathering, its only right to ensure they are quickly and effectively subdued in the interests of public safety.

You cant take any chances with safety in this day and age.

Jo Cox MP was murdered in the street outside her constituency office by a far-right extremist shouting "Britain first" as he shot and stabbed her.

SevenYellowHammers · Yesterday 15:33

Pumpkindice · Yesterday 14:59

You show your true colours using 'woke' as a pejorative. It's like getting angry at people for being kind, fair, and having morals, because that's pretty much what it means - and if that's something you object to, it shows what type of person you actually are. At least you've found your tribe with reform and restore!

That’s all they can think of to say: “You’re woke!” That’s it, reform manifesto reduced to the only two words want to know.

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:33

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:29

The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns

Sorry but I don't understand what you are trying to say here?

I can’t help you then 😥

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 15:33

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:17

The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns.

How many unisoned public service workers looked the other way .

I have been a long-time lurker on MN and not once did I see a thread 'I pay one set of tuition fees for my dc - I am now volunteering to pay a set of fees for a migrant child'. Not once. Or, 'we took in 2 migrants into our 5-bedroom house since our children are at uni'. Not a single thread like that, only virtue-signalling at the expense of the British dispossessed. You are so right.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:29

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:17

The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns.

How many unisoned public service workers looked the other way .

The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns

Sorry but I don't understand what you are trying to say here?

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 15:25

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 13:36

It's also become associated with milkshake throwing, party conference gatecrashers. Talking of suspicious minds, I often wonder if Steve Bray is posting on MN. It does work both ways.

The fact that you can mention milkshake throwing in the context of violent assault against two women protestors whose only "crime" was to wave a banner and heckle shows just how skewed your viewpoint has become.

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 15:18

LuckyHazelFox · Yesterday 13:27

Where have I said I condone it? I said I have zero sympathy for fascists.

Greenpeace protestors are fascists? Seriously? 🙄Given that Reform and the Tories can't wait to reject Net Zero and let the planet burn, despite the warnings inherent in the weather we've been having in recent years, the protestors deserve a medal. At least they're concerned about something worthwhile.

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:17

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 15:03

being kind, fair, and having morals - AT SOMEBODY ELSE'S expense.

The left love that the evidence is that is clearly falls at the feet of working class white girls in shit towns.

How many unisoned public service workers looked the other way .

Pumpkindice · Yesterday 15:16

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 15:03

being kind, fair, and having morals - AT SOMEBODY ELSE'S expense.

The Cambridge dictionary defines woke as 'aware of social problems, such as racism and inequality'.

So you're angry that people are being fair and kind and having morals in a way that hinders racist people from being racist? At the expense of racism? You're really not helping the case for reform and restore supporters here are you?

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:13

UnaGatita · Yesterday 14:17

I’m not convinced the footage isn’t AI generated, potentially using existing footage which has then been doctored. The first clip in particular looks suspect.

Jenrick confirmed the footage was genuine by his dismissal of the assaults and his implication that the women had it coming . If the footage was fake he would have said so.

YourWatermelonship · Yesterday 15:11

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 14:35

You are trying to talk sense - it won't be supported on this woke thread. People just want to bash Reform and Restore, no particular reason is needed. And virtue-signal as well.

"No particular reason" = thread is literally about a group of Reform supporters assaulting a heckler while she was being moved out by security, recorded on video, from several angles, while the party leader laughed at her

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 15:11

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