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AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?

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ILikeDinosaurs · Yesterday 11:03

Another video showing the violence against a woman at the Reform conference. They are actually PULLING A WOMAN DOWN ON THE FLOOR and KICKING HER.

A man in a suit and a man with a lanyard both kicking her. The man with the walking stick in the other videos (identified as Stephen Cooling) looks like he's pulling her down and possibly kicking her too. Women are just watching with no care for the victim.

This is Fascism. Given Nigel's horrifyingly GLEEFUL response to this, this violence will become the norm under Reform.

How can people defend this?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Mods please don't take this down, this mustn't be allowed to be ignored.

Joshua ABD on Instagram: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different protesters. Different attendees. Repeated...

1,718 likes, 438 comments - joshualabd on September 5, 2026: "I’ve now seen a third clip from Reform’s conference. It appears to show another so-called “patriot” kicking a female heckler while she is already on the floor. Three clips. Different prote...

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6q8iAuUzi?stkn=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D

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Triskellion75 · Yesterday 18:33

There's not much that shocks me anymore but this really has, not just the horrible violence and naked hate but those trying to justify it. Fuck off, there's no excuse for physically attacking anyone. Nasty bastards.

kirinm · Yesterday 18:31

ILikeDinosaurs · Yesterday 17:30

Robert Jerkface commenting on the BBC. He said Boo hoo to the woman being assaulted!! Why was there no pushback on this from the BBC? This is where we are at now.

https://www.threads.com/@gingerrob/post/Dc8MIb5Dg1-?xmt=AQG0nHCIkPAzEw7ue24shgxqgscyHgE2GrZj4T6acFaHI1e5TIcm3iZTA_aITzKcWzWy6FVB&slof=1

It was on sky and I’m pretty sure the interviewer was appalled.

kirinm · Yesterday 18:30

UnaGatita · Yesterday 14:17

I’m not convinced the footage isn’t AI generated, potentially using existing footage which has then been doctored. The first clip in particular looks suspect.

You need to get a grip.

Visiblyabove25 · Yesterday 18:21

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 18:18

She was heckling at a party conference. It's behaviour that competent politicians can deal with in their sleep.

If Reform genuinely thought this was a serious problem they would increase security checks at the door, not leave it up to the audience to thwack hecklers with crutches.

I agree - and Reform’s response makes them look weak and incompetent, not at all like a party you could trust to form a strong, stable government.

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 18:18

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:25

@NoWordForFluffy fine ! Take what you want but she put herself in that position.
How did anyone know she didn't have somerhng more dangeous on her ?

She was heckling at a party conference. It's behaviour that competent politicians can deal with in their sleep.

If Reform genuinely thought this was a serious problem they would increase security checks at the door, not leave it up to the audience to thwack hecklers with crutches.

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 18:15

UnaGatita · Yesterday 14:17

I’m not convinced the footage isn’t AI generated, potentially using existing footage which has then been doctored. The first clip in particular looks suspect.

Pretty sure this is not AI.

AIBU to be shocked at the violence towards women at the Reform conference?
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Soitshoteh · Yesterday 17:28

Soitshoteh · Yesterday 15:52

I think it's more that the sentence didn't gramatically or contextually make sense...

@JenniElection also, I've actually read that book. And I have to say, citing Caroline Criado Perez on this particular thread is a choice. CCP wrote about how institutions systems and data fail women by being designed around male defaults. It is genuinely not, and how you got there I have absolutely no idea, an argument that the left caused grooming gangs or that progressive politics is responsible for failing working class white women in the way Reform likes to claim (which I think is the point you were getting at but honestly it is so hard to tell from your nonsence)
So either you haven't read it, or you read it and missed the entire point in a quite breathtaking way, or you've read it and are deliberately misrepresenting it to "win " an argument. I'm genuinely not sure which is worse.
And then to suggest @TemperanceWest should "volunteer at a women's charity", delivered with such magnanimous condescension (oh, sorry "with Kindness" 🙄) on a thread specifically about women being kicked on the floor at a political conference, with supporters of that party responding with everything from shoulder shrugging to what I can only describe as barely concealed delight, is quite something.
You still haven't explained that first sentence. Now there's a whole second post that makes even less sense. At some point you are going to have to either clarify what you meant or accept that there isn't actually a point in there. We're waiting.

TemperanceWest · Yesterday 17:02

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:25

@NoWordForFluffy fine ! Take what you want but she put herself in that position.
How did anyone know she didn't have somerhng more dangeous on her ?

but she put herself in that position

is the sort of victim blaming that has been used to excuse VAWG since time immemorial.

YourWatermelonship · Yesterday 16:52

"In fact, this morning Lee Anderson joked, joked about it by offering to buy a new cane for the man who assaulted me"

Said one of the assaulted women on the article above

YourWatermelonship · Yesterday 16:48

https://metro.co.uk/2026/09/06/i-assaulted-reforms-conference-party-celebrates-attacks-women-29546795/

Reform UK keeps on joking about violence against women.

It seems that there were male protesters at the conference, too, but for some reason the crowds held their punches when faced with men.

Misogynistic cowards.

'I was assaulted at Reform's conference - the party celebrates attacks on women'

https://metro.co.uk/2026/09/06/i-assaulted-reforms-conference-party-celebrates-attacks-women-29546795/

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 16:44

NoWordForFluffy · Yesterday 16:39

Security were dealing with her. There is no legal defence for beating somebody who is just shouting.

West Midlands Police asked on X yesterday for the assaulted woman to identify herself to them so they can take action. The aggressors are very stupid to do what they did in a brightly lit hall full of people with phones.

NoWordForFluffy · Yesterday 16:39

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:25

@NoWordForFluffy fine ! Take what you want but she put herself in that position.
How did anyone know she didn't have somerhng more dangeous on her ?

Security were dealing with her. There is no legal defence for beating somebody who is just shouting.

SocksAndTheCity · Yesterday 16:38

I agree with Robert Jenrick's response

There's a sentence you don't hear every day 🤣

ikeepforgetting · Yesterday 16:35

I just saw a video about a bot farm. Just saying.

I sincerely hope the protestors sue the arses off the men who assaulted them. Heckling at conferences has been around forever, like it or not. And every party has it. At no point is walloping someone with your walking stick acceptable.

It's fairly straightforward stuff.

ILikeDinosaurs · Yesterday 16:33

ColadhSamh · Yesterday 15:59

disgusting that some women think this is acceptable. Mob violence against women who are peacefully (if loudly) protesting has to be condemned by all. Some images of one of the women attacked. Images currently under review

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Poor woman. I hope she presses charges.

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SevenYellowHammers · Yesterday 16:26

Wasn’t the sight of Farage on stage with Jordan Bardella horrific. That’s where we are ladies. We need to stop this party. Labour, LibDem and - can’t believe I’m saying this - even Conservative women need to stand up against Reform, Restore and the idiotic Yaxley.

IdaGlossop · Yesterday 16:25

Only because I expect some Reform supporters to be violent have I voted that you are being unreasonable. Farage enables such behaviour when he walks around surrounded by shaven-headed heavies, a display we do not see with any other party leader. It rather undermines Sarah Pochin's fringe event on reducing violence against women and girls when there is unseemly punching and kicking taking place on their own conference floor.

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:25

@NoWordForFluffy fine ! Take what you want but she put herself in that position.
How did anyone know she didn't have somerhng more dangeous on her ?

OhLookASquirrrel · Yesterday 16:22

The behaviour of these people is sickening. They had no right to assault her even if her shouting was disruptive.

Can you imagine the furore if it was in the reverse and the elderly man was the heckler while young woman pulled him by his hair, hit him with a stick, and grabbed him in his face? Surely everyone would be horrified by an elderly person being treated in this manner. Why do these people think it acceptable for a young woman to be treated like this?

The older people in the videos are fucking scum. I hope they are prosecuted.

Pumpkindice · Yesterday 16:22

JenniElection · Yesterday 15:48

You don’t understand so there is not point in explaining which makes me desperately sad.

The agrees, likes and loves suggest that other women do. I recommend you read Invisible Women by Caroline Carado Perez .

With kindness maybe volunteer locally in women’s charities and there could be hope for you as you appear to want to learn.

There is abuse of girls of all races, by perpetrators of all races. The fact that you're implying that not being racist equates to supporting the abuse of white girls is just nonsense.
If you think the right really care about women and girls, just look at the conviction rates of many of those in the party, including leadership. And the supporters, who assault women on camera, like in this instance.

NoWordForFluffy · Yesterday 16:19

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:15

This is terrible and I hope she presses charges.

But if I did the same thing anywhere like that I know I risk being manhandled.

The problem is she was safe and unarmed and just verbally disruptive but nowadays people simply don't know. .

I hope she is ok there is a nasty bruise on her spine.

No, sorry, but you're excusing what happened to her. She was assaulted for heckling. There is no legal defence to that.

Escorted out by security? Expected. Assaulted by beating? Nope, no excuse.

Septembersunrays · Yesterday 16:15

ColadhSamh · Yesterday 15:59

disgusting that some women think this is acceptable. Mob violence against women who are peacefully (if loudly) protesting has to be condemned by all. Some images of one of the women attacked. Images currently under review

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This is terrible and I hope she presses charges.

But if I did the same thing anywhere like that I know I risk being manhandled.

The problem is she was safe and unarmed and just verbally disruptive but nowadays people simply don't know. .

I hope she is ok there is a nasty bruise on her spine.

Boomer55 · Yesterday 16:13

It was another woman that pulled her hair. According to the cameras.