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AIBU to think tourism can ruin places we once loved?

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Sausagenbacon · 05/09/2026 18:36

We visited Tiblisi several years ago, and liked it, but have just returned. What a disappointment. It's absolutely overrun with tourists (and I am aware that I'm part of the problem).
AIBU to think that tourism destroys destinations?

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Smokeywater · 07/09/2026 06:57

I live in the SW Scotland and the last train from Edinburgh, even during the festival, is 8.10pm and 6.10 pm on the Saturday - Festival definitely not meant for us. Of course you can drive a couple of hours but driving and parking in Edinburgh during festival is hard work.
To add that many of the trains to Edinburgh are fully booked so you must book well in advance. Surely an extra carriage or two would be possible.

pulpJarvis · 07/09/2026 06:42

I first travelled 35 years ago, through Europe, China, Russia, Japan….ive fairly recently started travelling again (Russia pre Ukraine war). Bloody hell there’s a lot more tourists! And it’s Chinese and Korean tourists as well. Who do tend to travel in large groups and in the case of the Chinese, stay in Chinese run hotels.

And I know I’m part of the problem, but I try and stay on locally owned hotels , use local guides, …etc etc…

GustyGertie · 07/09/2026 06:34

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 15:02

Cavtat is a beautiful little town, I agree. Hope it doesn't get "discovered" by the masses. It's 5 min from the airport. 30 min by local bus, or a short boat ride that costs 10 euros and takes you straight to Old Town.

Sharing on social media is exactly how places are discovered. I have started to keep my favourite places to myself. If you don’t want it to be discovered you might be better to keep it offline.

NOTANUM · 07/09/2026 06:28

The issue is that locals want to turn the tourism tap on and off and who can blame them?
Most of Europe is only attractive Jun-Sept for weather and daylight reasons and people with kids have a small window in July and August. Yet a perfect scenario is to spread the tourism out over the year.
The big cities like London and Paris are workable all year around but it’s rare.

ArtieChoke · 07/09/2026 06:21

weebarra · 06/09/2026 20:58

I live just outside Edinburgh and my PILs live on the NC500 route in the Highlands.
Every resident of the city breathes a big sigh of relief when August ends and the festival is over, but it does bring a lot of money to the city.
I think a lot of people were pissed off thie year that because the schools went back earlier than usual, residents and their children weren’t able to access events. Makes it feel even more that the festival isn’t for us.
The rubbish and detritus left by tourists ‘doing’ the NC500 is appalling.

I did the north coast 500 before it was invented, back in 1978. We had hired a camper van

i looked at returning last year, but the prices of camping were pricey. I eventually decided to stay around Pitlochry and Aviemire instead. I stayed in hostels.

it’s basically cheaper for me to go to Normandy and stay in bed and break than it is to camp in Scotland. Possibly because I choose out of the way places that are not popular.

nobody on the beach in July, bar half a dozen dog walkers

Planesmistakenforstars · 07/09/2026 06:18

Georgia (and Uzbekistan) are two of the big current insta and travel blog trends, so will probably be noticeably busier than a few years ago, or five years from now. And if you go almost anywhere from mid July to early September, you are asking for it to be overrun with tourists.

Smokeywater · 07/09/2026 06:16

It must all be in the mind - there’s a financial crises at the moment and fuel costs very high - Gov intent on relieving poverty - are we all being conned?

ArtieChoke · 07/09/2026 06:09

ShitFacedShakespeare · 05/09/2026 18:38

No tourism = No money

That'd ruin places of interest even quicker.

Especially historical buildings which are incredibly expensive to maintain.

Yet they’ve survived for hundreds of years before they were “ over run” with tourists

TempestTost · 07/09/2026 06:06

Sartre · 06/09/2026 05:46

Provides employment and is often the main source of income for many towns and cities. It feels awful to live or work in those places, particularly during the summer but there you go. Oxford is one of the worst I’ve visited personally. Such a tiny city with narrow as hell pavements and tourists absolutely everywhere all of the time.

The income thing is mixed though.

Sure there's some employment, but it can also create some significant costs, parking, traffic and other types of infrastructure, and especially wear and tear on the environment.

Plus in many cases locals can be driven out altogether. I was speaking to a woman who lives in a World Heritage Site, she leaves June through September. You caught around town and services aren't easy to access. So who is the town even for at that point?

It can get to the point where it doesn't seem like a real town but instead is like one of those fake historical recreations.

I had a terrible time when I visited Oxford from overseas. We ended up not doing anything in town at all, it was too busy.

Sausagenbacon · 07/09/2026 03:41

It's interesting to hear from a Dubrovnik resident, thank you. We were so disappointed by the city. It feels totally denatured (like Tiblisi), as though it only exists for tourism..
Kotor, further along the coast, is even worse in a way, as it's small, and the moored cruise ships literally dwarf the town.
Part of the answer must be to limit the number of cruise ships. But they probably make the local mayor rich.

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HRTQueen · 06/09/2026 23:11

Yes it has but we are all part of the problem if we visit somewhere

easy to blame those who just won’t a photo opportunity but it’s the numbers that are the issue and of course some are disrespectful but it’s really down to numbers

and I don’t think tourists are any worse today I went to see the Mona Lisa 25 years ago and everyone wanted a picture in front of the painting

im pleased I have been able to visit many places when there were less tourists but I am still part of the tourist problem

RaraRachael · 06/09/2026 23:01

There's always been tourism but it's the Instagrammers that ruin it for me. Previously you'd have stood and taken a photo then moved on. In Rhodes two girls must have taken 30 photos of each other at an archway as a queue built up. When I asked if they could hurry up, they said, "It's for our content". Nobody gives a shit - stop being so selfish.

WiltonGal · 06/09/2026 22:48

I have been to Rome in March and December, busy but not crowded with plenty of places with nobody around. I particularly liked December, very Christmassy, tasteful lights.

St Ives, only a lunatic would go in the school holidays. March and September are ok!

tourdefrance · 06/09/2026 21:05

We were in Salzburg a couple of years ago and I bought a copy of their Big Issue and there was an article about their efforts to encourage the 'right' type of tourists (ones who stayed locally, ate out, went to the concerts) and those less beneficial (day trippers on coaches, who bought a sandwich at most). They'd restricted coach access to the centre to make it much more pleasant for the locals and visitors.

weebarra · 06/09/2026 20:58

I live just outside Edinburgh and my PILs live on the NC500 route in the Highlands.
Every resident of the city breathes a big sigh of relief when August ends and the festival is over, but it does bring a lot of money to the city.
I think a lot of people were pissed off thie year that because the schools went back earlier than usual, residents and their children weren’t able to access events. Makes it feel even more that the festival isn’t for us.
The rubbish and detritus left by tourists ‘doing’ the NC500 is appalling.

user1464187087 · 06/09/2026 20:51

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 15:02

Cavtat is a beautiful little town, I agree. Hope it doesn't get "discovered" by the masses. It's 5 min from the airport. 30 min by local bus, or a short boat ride that costs 10 euros and takes you straight to Old Town.

Yes Cavtat is great for the airport.
A few years ago me and my partner were having a beach day on the rock beach at Cavtat. We went for a late lunch at a restaurant called Rokotin nearby and a glass of wine turned into 4. It was a very pleasant afternoon!
I have so many good memories of Cavtat, Dubrovnik, Trogir, Plitvice Lakes, Krka Waterfalls, Split, Zadar and Slatine.
I was very emotional when I went to the war museum at the top of Mount Srd in Dubrovnik.
Your country is beautiful.
Sorry to go off topic!

ChocolateApples · 06/09/2026 20:49

Like many things it's a question of degree. Any historic city etc will benefit hugely from a manageable influx of tourists providing money, making certain businesses viable. As a Londoners I enjoy all sorts of London attractions that are partly viable because of tourists. But past a certain point it's an issue and a place becomes a bit of a theme park. Plus the seasonal aspect can be very difficult to deal with.

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 20:42

I remember in 80s, wow the tourism was booming. And it was great. We had a war so it slowed down. 2000 ish it went mental, after the COVID, oh dear me.....
People from Russia, Germany, and England have been buying properties with cash, inflating property prices. Let me just say, so many people were or still are, laundering the money, so I blame the Government.
Luckily, I have a few properties in Dubrovnik (thanks to my parents) but looking at the property prices now, they are more expensive than properties in Surrey. And that is wrong.

I don't know where this is heading, but we need some kind of adjustment so that local people, on local salaries, can buy their own home.
Everything is turning into rental.

OneOpalOwl · 06/09/2026 20:41

CoffeeAndACroissant · 05/09/2026 20:23

I live in the Lake District. Traditional tourists staying in hotels etc are fine.

But now we're over run by van lifers and "wild" campers who leave their literal shit and rubbish everywhere, damage trees and dry stone walls for their fires, park in passing places overnight etc., contributing nothing to the local economy.

They can fuck right off.

The highlands is the same. I am so sick of campervans and rental cars.

The highlands economy certainly isn’t reliant on tourism money, but it’s a nice bonus.

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 20:29

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 15:05

Over the years, I've noticed how much Dubrovnik has changed, it has become busier. Many locals dislike tourists from cruise ships because they hardly spend any money and typically use their own tour guides. Our local guides should be telling tourists about our rich history, including the war and the experiences we, as locals, went through—not guides who can’t even pronounce the name of our town correctly.

Most cruise ships don’t have their own guides for every port, they do use local guides and local transport and the excursion will often include a lunch or at least refreshment of some kind or a break for people to buy their own refreshments.

Unfortunately, that’s not what I’ve heard from my tour guide friends. They have been expressing their concerns to our mayor about this issue. To become a tour guide, you need a license and knowledge of local history. It’s disheartening when someone from, let’s say, Spain tours tourists around and shares information about our history without any passion or true understanding of us as a nation.
I agree, some of them do take a local guide but it's not common.

Ponoka7 · 06/09/2026 15:07

The world is overpopulated. Everywhere is feeling more crowded, more built on, more stressed.

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 15:05

Over the years, I've noticed how much Dubrovnik has changed, it has become busier. Many locals dislike tourists from cruise ships because they hardly spend any money and typically use their own tour guides. Our local guides should be telling tourists about our rich history, including the war and the experiences we, as locals, went through—not guides who can’t even pronounce the name of our town correctly.

Most cruise ships don’t have their own guides for every port, they do use local guides and local transport and the excursion will often include a lunch or at least refreshment of some kind or a break for people to buy their own refreshments.

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 15:02

user1464187087 · 06/09/2026 14:41

I absolutely love Dubrovnik!
I agree that it get's very busy when the cruise ships are there though.
We have never stopped in Dubrovnik itself, we stay at nearby Cavtat and catch the bus (is it number 10) .
I love that part of the world.

Cavtat is a beautiful little town, I agree. Hope it doesn't get "discovered" by the masses. It's 5 min from the airport. 30 min by local bus, or a short boat ride that costs 10 euros and takes you straight to Old Town.

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 15:01

EmeraldRoulette · 05/09/2026 21:54

@Shloopie ”We're all part of the problem!”

I don’t know. I don’t really go places. So that’s nice. I can not be part of one problem 😂

I talked about a lovely family run B&B that I went to in the old days, and talked on here to someone who posted about how they just realised that Airbnb was ruining everything! And they used it. I’m not saying people shouldn’t go anywhere. Perhaps a bit of thought needs to happen. I have a contact who went to Rome this year and said it really made her think and she was quite shocked by it all

She doesn’t really go places either. She didn’t really want to travel in the first place, but her friend really wanted to go. She also used to live in London but she said the Rome situation was just absolutely awful in terms of tourist numbers even compared to London.

Yes Rome is absolutely awful now. The first time I went there it was on a day trip from Sorrento 35 years ago. The square where the Trevi Fountain was busy but not crowded. I was able to walk straight up to it and DH took a photo of me sitting on the edge. Went back three years ago and it was absolutely rammed. Took ages to actually get to the fountain and when I tried to sit on the edge got shouted at by a security guard. We went back late at night thinking it might be quieter but it was exactly the same!

user1464187087 · 06/09/2026 14:41

Historyinme · 06/09/2026 14:28

Every summer, we go to Dubrovnik for five weeks during the school holidays. (We live in Surrey). I was born in Dubrovnik, and we have a house there. The last time we experienced a quiet summer was in 2020 due to the Covid lockdown. It was beautiful—not too busy, yet still lively.

Over the years, I've noticed how much Dubrovnik has changed, it has become busier. Many locals dislike tourists from cruise ships because they hardly spend any money and typically use their own tour guides. Our local guides should be telling tourists about our rich history, including the war and the experiences we, as locals, went through—not guides who can’t even pronounce the name of our town correctly.

Also, our little town has become wealthier, leading to an increased demand for workers in the hospitality industry. As a result, we now import workers from countries like Nepal and India, as there aren't enough local people to fill these roles.
Those workers do not speak Croatian so I have to speak English.

My parents started renting rooms and apartments, which are part of our family home, in the early 80s so I remember as a kid it was very busy then but we didn't have cruise ships at that time so it was nice busy.

Honestly, If I wasn't from Dubrovnik, I would never go on holiday during the summer, it's the most expensive time of the year to travel, very busy and too hot.
The best time for me is October, the sea is still warm and clean, I can walk around the town or City walls without anyone pushing me.

I absolutely love Dubrovnik!
I agree that it get's very busy when the cruise ships are there though.
We have never stopped in Dubrovnik itself, we stay at nearby Cavtat and catch the bus (is it number 10) .
I love that part of the world.

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