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What are your 9 year olds doing today (Saturday)

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thesurreymum · 05/09/2026 14:12

I have two boys age 9 and other than tutoring this morning they are sat on the sofa watching YouTube. One has done some Lego. If I leave them they will stay on devices until bedtime. It’s such a nice day and I feel that they should be doing something. The only club they do is a weeknight they are not interested in anything else. I do usually take them out on bikes/scooters but have some work I need to do at home. Just interested to see what other 9 year olds are doing today

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dontforgetme · 06/09/2026 22:51

My 9 year old had a couple of hours playing Fortnite with his friends this morning. We then drove over to the next town for a dog walk and look around the shops, had a drink in the pub garden. Watched some Netflix/youtube whilst dinner was cooking, ate that, had a bath, watched a Mr Beast YouTube video with his dad then read in bed for 30mins.

Duckyneedsaclean · 06/09/2026 22:00

I have 9 year old twin girls. After breakfast one drew, the other played chess with older brother.
Both them played a fairly insane game of 'Amazon adventurers' with little brother. Went to church. Watched a film after lunch. Played with play doh, finished chess game and drawing. Read. Played in garden. Watched Lego masters before bed.

Annoyedbyhusband · 06/09/2026 21:59

My 8 year old hates all sports and activities that involve other people. So we went on a dog walk, and then to a climbing wall where he can climb on his own. Had dinner. The rest of the day he was watching YouTube. I really struggle to fill the time with things. He won’t do schoolwork outside school so can’t practice stuff like handwriting and he won’t read outside school, I have tried extensively. He will only do individual activities. He is ND.

WorkCleanRepeat · 06/09/2026 21:51

Saturday my 10 year old went to football training in the morning and went to watch our local team play football in the afternoon.

After tea time he did play Fortnite online with his friends for a couple of hours.

toomanyplasticfiles · 06/09/2026 21:51

Lego. Playing in garden. Trip to shops. Lego. Swimming.

UsernameShmusername2024 · 06/09/2026 21:44

8 and 11 year old DCs. Yesterday they played with sylvanian families first thing, then went to their performing arts club 10 - 1, then lunch and more sylvanian families. After not playing with them for a long time they've suddenly been a massive hit again this weekend.

Today they watched TV (The Worst Witch current fave) for a few hours this morning, then 8 year old got showered and dressed before lunch and spending afternoon at a friend's house, the 11 year old made a birthday card for his grandad, listened to music in his room, did some baking and played Minecraft. He would usually be playing out with friends but no-one was about today. After tea they played sylvanian families together again, 11 year old and me read our books together and then we all battled over bedtime!..

No tablets or YouTube in our house but they do watch a fair bit of TV - mainly either CITV or quiz shows as a family.

AhBiscuits · 06/09/2026 21:41

My 8 year old had football and then him and his 10 year old sister just played most of the day with a few neighbour kids. We live in a cul-de-sac, there's several of similar age and they play out the front on bikes and scooters, go on trampolines, play ball games or just make up various games. Usually have to drag them back in for dinner.

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 06/09/2026 21:36

pimplebum · 06/09/2026 20:11

Swimming lesson
screens
screen and on his swing

no one is honest about screens mine do hours snd hours at the weekend

Well yes, they do if you let them 🤷‍♀️

RVectensian · 06/09/2026 21:35

We were up early to take a teen to training, so were on the beach by 0730. Took dog for a lovely walk, then the other teen was dropped off for her stint training. Had tea and toast/pancakes at a cafe on the beach, then another walk and some rock pooling. Didn't have our swimmers annoyingly. This took us through to around midday.

Then a drive around to drop teen at boyfriend's house, and the afternoon chilling at home playing VR/watching TV while I sorted the garage.

Late night (well, 2030) dog walk.

holkhamhighkicks · 06/09/2026 21:29

Spidey66 · 05/09/2026 14:54

School on a Saturday? Is that just hobbies or do they do academic stuff as well?

Edited

Uk private school, hobbies and sports year 3 to year 8 then academic from 9 onwards, with sports in the afternoon.

ChuisEpuisee · 06/09/2026 21:18

My 10-yr old did an hour of footy training and two hours of tennis club (very low-key).

It was his sibling's birthday, so after lunch we had some family around then went for a walk. Later after tea he went to the rec nearby to meet a friend to play football. Also did some Zelda on the Switch and probably watched some rubbish football clip compilations on YouTube! That's a pretty standard Saturday.

Bellaphant · 06/09/2026 20:56

Ds - 7, yesterday he did some chores in the morning, and then had a fair amount of screen time, then we went to town, spent some time in the library, shoe shopping, then home for a movie. Today, we went to church, had a snacky lunch outside, went to a story telling activity, then he's played some games on the t computer with Dh, then helped make some school lunchbox snacks, then a movie.

WavyDaizy · 06/09/2026 20:43

Yesterday for ds8 was screen time, then homework then judo then lunch. In the afternoon he finished making a rather tricky Lego technical car. Then he helped mow the lawn. Then we watched a movie then screen time, bath, reading and bed.

Today was screen time then a swim at 8.45 so we were out until 10.30am. Then Minecraft. 15 mins of reading. After lunch played with his drone in the park) and helped me clear out some old toys (which meant he played with some of the things we re-discovered). Then practised piano, had roast chicken dinner and then screen time and bed.

Usually we would do a big cycle (25km+) on a Sunday but we are all getting over a cold so decided to be less active than normal.

NerrSnerr · 06/09/2026 20:34

Yesterday mine had a football match mid morning. He spent the afternoon on his iPad and playing with his sister (some Roblox and some non screen related playing). We watched soccer Saturday on telly too.

Halesi · 06/09/2026 20:25

On Saturday we had a swimming lesson, cinema trip, climbing trees in the park, cycling locally, ice cream parlour. We tend to avoid screen time by being out of the house a lot, we are usually out and about on Saturdays.

Today we had a full on day at a theme park, we don't often go but dc usually does a club on Sundays and it hasn't started yet for the term so we had the whole day free.

pimplebum · 06/09/2026 20:11

Swimming lesson
screens
screen and on his swing

no one is honest about screens mine do hours snd hours at the weekend

Christmassy24 · 06/09/2026 20:10

My 9 & 8 year old spent most of today playing out with friends. DH and I were decorating all day so it was good for them to get out of my hair!
DS spent a good couple of hours in his iPad before he went out about 10.30. DD has been playing Lego and on bikes all day - with friends. She is just watching a bit of TV now before bed

ladygindiva · 06/09/2026 20:05

Spidey66 · 05/09/2026 14:54

School on a Saturday? Is that just hobbies or do they do academic stuff as well?

Edited

When I started school abroad we went to school Saturdays and Sundays and had Thursdays and Fridays off. Maybe the pp lives somewhere similar.

Getalittle · 06/09/2026 20:01

My 8 year old is sick today so has been watching tv or playing computer games all day, following an appointment this morning.

On a typical non sick day, they are usually burned out from school week as they are autistic so I don’t book in any clubs on the weekends.

A typical Saturday would probably be watching tv and eating breakfast in the morning. We would try to get them out the house to move at least once in the day (if the weather isn’t horrendous). Ranges from climbing wall, swimming, play date, playground or out on rollerskates. Sometimes just getting them to do anything is a feat so a trip to the cinema or shops will do.

Usually do some sort of drawing:crafts and finish day with a film and dinner.

Generally let my 8 year old watch films and decompress as long as we get out at least once and as long as they have a bit of non screen time.

My mantra is do something physical, something creative and then do what you want.

Rockfordpeach · 06/09/2026 19:53

My 9 yr old DS has had some time gaming, a couple of hours out with his friends around the village and did some lego with a friend and then more gaming

Fridaygin · 06/09/2026 19:52

Late to this, but yesterday mine didn't get dressed until lunch, watched a film in the morning. Afternoon he 'helped' with some baking (about 15 mins) and eventually agreed to a walk round the very close park, where we bumped into friends and couldn't get him to leave 😂

ElefantAndCastle · 06/09/2026 19:51

Ours have been to church. They are singing in the choir.
Doing music practise and math homework after lunch. Took them an hour. Done an hour of reading.
Netflix/YouTube for the rest of the day I suppose.

Pinkflamingo10 · 06/09/2026 19:47

Three boys here 11,8,2
no YouTube allowed at all
we’ve gone on a 2 hour bike ride
baked cupcakes
gone to a big playground where met cousins- brought a picnic basket for lunch (with our cakes in)
went for pizza afterwards
Bath time then cuddled up for a movie night in the evening- moana 🌊

SlowSloths · 05/09/2026 15:07

My 8 and 10 year old DDs have done between them:
maths homework
work on their girl guide badge
Reading
Minecraft
Watched TV
Played guitar
Drawing
Emptied the dishwasher
Made own breakfast and lunch

piscesangel · 05/09/2026 15:04

Picking mine up from dancing shortly - she’s been there since 9:30, mixture of classes and carrying on with her friends in between. When she gets home likely chilled rest of day - some tv, some bead craft (current obsession). We try to play a board game as a family after dinner on Saturdays when we can