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AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?

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Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

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HambleTheDoll · 05/09/2026 17:33

I can only picture him with shit hanging off his nose. It’s a shame really but it’s glued into my memory

biggestcatmom · 05/09/2026 17:07

ExtraOnions · 05/09/2026 13:21

Oh no … whenever I see him I just think about that bit in The Inbetweeners Movie, where he is walking round with shit under his nose

Me too, I just can’t like him after that role, I’ve no idea why because I’ve never felt like this about any other actor

UniquePinkSwan · 05/09/2026 16:01

I was just saying this to my DH last night. He is gorgwous

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:57

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:39

Sorry, but that was pretty 🤑
Who is she and what was she trying to mime? 😂

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Jameela Jamil - sex 😩

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:55

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 15:52

No my darlings not Theo James….mine is the actor Alan Ritchson who plays Reacher….fully expecting a pile on of disagreements 😂x

I agree! I would happily climb him like a mountain 😏

He's so hot

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 15:52

No my darlings not Theo James….mine is the actor Alan Ritchson who plays Reacher….fully expecting a pile on of disagreements 😂x

Katflapkit · 05/09/2026 15:49

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/09/2026 13:24

He'll always be the lad with shit on the end of his nose in The Inbetweeners Movie

No, he'll always be Kemal Pamuke from Downtown. He died in the middle of the night shagging Lady Mary.

CorvusPurpureus · 05/09/2026 15:47

He’s objectively good looking, but I’m not keen on the gym bod. Also, he’s got a bit of a squint.

so based on no further information (I don’t know who he is) I’m going to say OP is welcome to him 🙂

fiveyo · 05/09/2026 15:45

i went to school with him. Well, he went to the boys school and I went to the girls school opposite. We were in the same friendship group so although we weren’t good mates I went to his house on a couple of occasions. He was always a nice bloke. It’s surreal watching him on TV 😂

Ratbag7 · 05/09/2026 15:40

I know his brother, lovely family, parents adopted a number of kids when they were young

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:39

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:36

🤷‍♀️ I am only human ladies

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Sorry, but that was pretty 🤑
Who is she and what was she trying to mime? 😂

ItsmeMargo · 05/09/2026 15:36

LividRoasting · 05/09/2026 13:17

So. No.

I find him borderline creepy looking. Smarmy.

That advert where he's driving Range Rovers over stately homes is awful.

And every time there's a "who should be James Bond" post and his name comes up repeatedly I want to stab my eyes with a fork.

There's just something... regressive about him.

You don't have to agree. But it's visceral.

I find him incredibly creepy.

I kind of get that he should be good looking: that he is good looking. But there’s something about him that makes my flesh crawl.

I can’t watch anything that he’s in.

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:36

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:34

Eewwww, wtf is this 👆

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🤷‍♀️ I am only human ladies

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2026 15:35

OtterlyAstounding · 05/09/2026 14:10

Oh gosh, his abdomen actually disturbs me a little here. It's like he has sausages sewn under his skin.

Otherwise, his features remind me a little too much of an ex who was a bastard and smarmy to boot. I can see the appeal, but as a pp said, he's got a cold, arrogant look that I'd swerve now if I were single and he offered himself up to me (very unlikely 🤣)

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He was good at playing that type in White Lotus.

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:34

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 12:56

Yanbu

Eewwww, wtf is this 👆

MrsShawnHatosy · 05/09/2026 15:31

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:28

No.

He's one of those men you feel you ought to find attractive but there is nothing I find even remotely sexy about him. No idea why.

Now, Idris Elba or Jason Momoa? - YUM

Beauty in a man is not always sexy imo and in ime!

tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 15:30

tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 14:09

Loved him in the Divergent movies, loved him in the first season of The Gentleman, looking forward to watching season 2. Initially saw him in a movie years ago about an all boys club in Oxford, movie was a bit hard to watch, but I stuck with it because of him 🙈
Interestingly, he has a half brother who is an Irish politician and very different.
Yes I’ve googled him, as yes I think he is a most beautiful man

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Apologies, I mixed him up with Max Irons for the earlier film and half brother.

Max Irons is also a very beautiful man!!

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:28

No.

He's one of those men you feel you ought to find attractive but there is nothing I find even remotely sexy about him. No idea why.

Now, Idris Elba or Jason Momoa? - YUM

PerdreLeBleu · 05/09/2026 15:25

calflions · 05/09/2026 12:58

he's nice but he's got a little rosebuddy mouth. reminds me of a doll I used to have

Exactly this. I’ve always thought he had a weird mouth that spoilt his looks.

Millytante · 05/09/2026 15:24

Thecatspantaloons · 05/09/2026 14:29

He reminds me of my brother too much 😣.

Snap! He’s a dead ringer for mine, too. (The lucky so and so inherited beauty genes from my mother’s very handsome father’s family, I think. Grrr)

MrsShawnHatosy · 05/09/2026 15:21

No. This man is. Sex on legs.

AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?
DreamingOfGeneHunt · 05/09/2026 15:20

No not for me. I'm sure he's a very nice man.

The most beautiful man in the world is Wesley Snipes. Or Martin Shaw, or Brendan Fraser, or all three.

SquirrelFan · 05/09/2026 15:16

He looks a bit like Russell Brand... So, no.

Userengage · 05/09/2026 15:11

I’m enjoying him in The Gentlemen, didn’t know his name before I started watching it.

Dweetfidilove · 05/09/2026 15:05

CarpeVitam · 05/09/2026 13:07

Oh yes! (Image pending)

This is not a great picture. Abs look like that movie with those dreadful cgi fish things. I feel terrible, as I thought he looked fine on that Netflix series.