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AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?

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Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

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Junobaby · 06/09/2026 10:56

Yeah he's gorgeous, I wouldn't say no, but it's Joe Alwyn that does it for me for some reason. And I'm not even that keen on blonde men

Themsofcoffee · 06/09/2026 10:54

He's good-looking sure, but to me its more that he's got the personality to make a film or tv series.

That sort of knowing smirk he does. The Stephen King film , Monkey (?) where he stars as twin brothers was a great film because he was in it.

truebIood · 06/09/2026 10:47

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 10:37

I agree with you about over ripped bodies! I mean, I like nice pecs and arm muscles, but six pack abs are overrated imo.

That's absolutely ok- I will deal with those six pack abs men for you.

I am very kind. 😂

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 10:37

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 19:56

I do not find his OTT ripped body and sausages under the skin type abs remotely appealing. And he reminds me facially of Andrew Tate!😖 And as has been said, I can't get past him having shit on his face in The Inbetweeners movie.

It's a big fat NO from me. Can't see the appeal in him at all...

I agree with you about over ripped bodies! I mean, I like nice pecs and arm muscles, but six pack abs are overrated imo.

Deadringer · 05/09/2026 20:42

He is very handsome

Peachee · 05/09/2026 20:39

Ew no all I can think about is the inbetweeners..

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 20:37

Thecatspantaloons · 05/09/2026 20:29

Loved that you felt you had to clarify 🤭 I see it too.

Yep, it is not just that they are 'similar colouring' (as a pp tried to kid herself! Grin) Theo James and Andrew Tate look very similar!

BognorRegenia · 05/09/2026 20:31

You're not wrong. He's like a better looking James Franco

lippylip · 05/09/2026 20:30

@tinaabbotsorry

Thecatspantaloons · 05/09/2026 20:29

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 20:11

Here's what I mean about how I think he looks like Andrew Tate. That's enough of a turn off for me! 😬

(Andrew Tate left, Theo James right...)

Loved that you felt you had to clarify 🤭 I see it too.

tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 20:29

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:36

@tinaabbotI don’t think he has a brother like that

@lippylip Sorry, I corrected myself up thread, I was mixing him up with Max Irons (my other fantasy crush!!)

lippylip · 05/09/2026 20:29

@PrettyLittleRosethey have similar colouring but that’s it. Different eyes, nose, bone structure, jaw etc 😆

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 20:11

Here's what I mean about how I think he looks like Andrew Tate. That's enough of a turn off for me! 😬

(Andrew Tate left, Theo James right...)

AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?
AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?
FaceIt · 05/09/2026 20:08

Yes he’s lovely and a really good actor. So cool.

RaininSummer · 05/09/2026 20:00

Hadn't heard of him but no, not keen on his looks.

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 19:56

I do not find his OTT ripped body and sausages under the skin type abs remotely appealing. And he reminds me facially of Andrew Tate!😖 And as has been said, I can't get past him having shit on his face in The Inbetweeners movie.

It's a big fat NO from me. Can't see the appeal in him at all...

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:40

@fiveyowas he always hot? 😆

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:37

grinandslothit · 05/09/2026 14:09

No, he has these narrow beady little eyes and no upper lip

He has full lips though…

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:36

@tinaabbotI don’t think he has a brother like that

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:33

He is so sexy, his voice! 🫠

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:32

truebIood · 05/09/2026 19:26

🤣 Love it!

I watched episode 6 of season 4 this afternoon in fact, and he took his shirt off at one point.

His body is so ripped!

Oh God he is beyond ripped !!!!! I’m a menopausal woman but I’d happily forget that for him …lol…I do tell my husband all this , he just nods and smiles 😂yes ep 6 …the plot really hitting up now…but with him looking as he does , who gives a shit about the plot 😂x

truebIood · 05/09/2026 19:26

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:07

Omg omg !!!! I actually use the phrase “ I’ d climb it” when I talk about him…. Hello sister of my soul 😁x

🤣 Love it!

I watched episode 6 of season 4 this afternoon in fact, and he took his shirt off at one point.

His body is so ripped!

faint GIF
Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:07

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:55

I agree! I would happily climb him like a mountain 😏

He's so hot

Omg omg !!!! I actually use the phrase “ I’ d climb it” when I talk about him…. Hello sister of my soul 😁x

KittyCatPuss · 05/09/2026 18:12

He was in the Time Traveller's Wife playing said time traveller. A very strange and borderline pedo concept (effectively grooming his future wife when she’s a very young girl), never mind the scene where he has sex with himself. I know it’s not the actor’s fault, but unfortunately he’s the face of a plot that requires brain bleach. Hard no from me.

HambleTheDoll · 05/09/2026 17:34

biggestcatmom · 05/09/2026 17:07

Me too, I just can’t like him after that role, I’ve no idea why because I’ve never felt like this about any other actor

That’s me too! I don’t understand why