Except for the fact they aren't always right! We were told at 20 weeks that DD2 was severely brain damaged, and suggested we consider abortion as she would likely be severely disabled. That's a horrific decision to have to make, and on top of that needing to consider the financial implications.
She is now 7, thriving, kind, funny, creative and top of her class academically. A scan after birth still showed brain abnormalities. The thought that we might have listened to them and aborted our perfectly healthy daughter haunts me every day.
Do you also plan to apply that logic to any health condition which could be seen as 'self inflicted'. A car accident? Well you chose to drive. A sports injury? Your fault for doing that sport? Skin cancer? Should have stayed out the sun. No, of course we don't, because that would be cruel and ridiculous