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Bed bugs in hotel.

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Imdunfer · 05/09/2026 08:09

I came back from a short stay in a budget hotel with bites all over me. Picture below (when it clears).

I only mention budget not because it wasn't clean, it was, but because I didn't spend much money and I'm not looking for compensation.

I've told the hotel but now I'm wondering if I should have told them I wanted some money back. I've already told them I don't, but what would you have done?

IABU. I should have asked for a hefty refund

IANBU Hotels everywhere are struggling with bed bug problems, it's not their fault.

Bed bugs in hotel.
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SunsetDrifter · Yesterday 09:55

Imdunfer · 05/09/2026 15:54

I'm going to be in A&E later if the 2nd antibiotics at 6pm doesn't sort this out!

I'm not an expert, but I had the misfortune to experience bedbugs on several occasions when I was backpacking in my 20's across asia, Oz and nz. These bites don't look anything like bedbug bites. Bedbugs bites look more like defined red spots, like someone else posted after your photo, they usually go in lines and the bug walks along biting you! I think something else has had a nibble at you.

I always lift up the sheets and check the mattress wherever I stay, I usually stay in v nice hotels with work, but you bet I am looking at the edge of that mattress before I'm sleeping on it!! Also I don't allow bags/cases when we have been anywhere, anywhere near upstairs or bedrooms. Washing done in the kitchen and then back in storage under the stairs or in the garage! I think my experience made me paranoid!

susiedaisy1912 · Yesterday 10:02

Well I’ve had bed bugs and it was one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. It was dreadful. The upheaval, the expense, the amount of work involved, good luck op.

butidid · Yesterday 10:16

The areas of clearing are unusual. Have a look at erythema multiforme and erythema migrans pictures. Would be good to see a Dr?

Imdunfer · Yesterday 10:18

I don't know what pictures people are looking at but there are plenty online that look exactly like my bites do.

How defined the spots are depends on your immune system. Mine is forever in overdrive, I have multiple autoimmune health issues, and I didn't take the first photo until a good time after I first saw them and the later ones are infected.

The chemist thought they were bed bug bites and she sees quite a few.

There really isn't anything else that fits the picture.

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Lillers · Yesterday 13:39

I reacted exactly like this when I was bitten by chiggers last year. Really similar to bed bugs but insanely itchy - at the worst point I had 25 bites. They started showing up when I was still staying at the place I was, so I could rule out bed bugs pretty easily. I did end up bringing the chiggers home on my clothes - I thought I’d got rid of them by hot washing/throwing away anything I’d taken, but a couple of months later I used the same overnight bag and got bitten to death again - seems they’d stayed alive in there! When I looked it up, it seems they can stay dormant for weeks.

Anyway, hopefully your bites recover soon and your home remains bug-free, whatever kind of bug it is!

Pallisers · Today 01:46

What do you think I should do?

I think you should put everything you had in that hotel room through a very hot wash/dry.

I think you should monitor your own bed and surroundings for bugs.

I thought you said you had new bites since you came home but I seem to have misread you on that.

Those of us who have had bedbugs will generally advise to do whatever it takes to make sure they don't get into/establish themselves in your home. They got into that hotel room from somewhere - they will go from that hotel room too.

I feel like I am annoying you by saying this though so won't say anymore - I've posted because I wouldn't wish them on anyone.

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