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To wonder if Reform voters actually realise that Farage and his cronies are responsible for the increase in migrant boats reaching the UK

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Meadowlands · 04/09/2026 23:15

Because Brexit , for which Farage was a leading advocate, put a stop to the UK being able to send the boats back. Before Brexit there was a returns agreement in place.
So be careful if you think he actually has a clue what he is doing.

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Goggga · 05/09/2026 14:07

I'm support the Tories

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 13:59

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:48

Yes, of course I've seen people call Reform supporters stupid. I've also seen people call 'lefties' stupid (and naive, woke, snowflakes, uncaring of rape and grooming victims, spiteful, jealous etc etc) and repeatedly twist our words to fit their stereotypes. As you have done by accusing me of being 'annoyed' when I'm nothing of the sort.
What I don't agree with is your claim its 'Labour' who call Reform voters stupid, when I'm fairly certain there will be posters who vote Conservative, Green, Libdem and Binface who believe them to be and may be impolite enough to say so.
I also think that while it happens, its happens a great deal less than Reform voters using it as a preemptive strike or distraction technique. Someone on this thread accused me of it with no grounds at all.
Much like the TRA cry of "You don't want us to exist", "You are calling us stupid" has become the silencer of choice. The DARVO that allows them to be as aggressive, offensive and devoid of all facts as they wish, then pull that out of the hat to close down challenge.
I'm surprised you haven't spotted it.

Oh well. It’s there, it builds a picture of how some, whose voting is often obvious, speak about people.

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:48

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 13:31

So you agree it is there, but annoyed Labour are seen to do it most. Ok

Yes, of course I've seen people call Reform supporters stupid. I've also seen people call 'lefties' stupid (and naive, woke, snowflakes, uncaring of rape and grooming victims, spiteful, jealous etc etc) and repeatedly twist our words to fit their stereotypes. As you have done by accusing me of being 'annoyed' when I'm nothing of the sort.
What I don't agree with is your claim its 'Labour' who call Reform voters stupid, when I'm fairly certain there will be posters who vote Conservative, Green, Libdem and Binface who believe them to be and may be impolite enough to say so.
I also think that while it happens, its happens a great deal less than Reform voters using it as a preemptive strike or distraction technique. Someone on this thread accused me of it with no grounds at all.
Much like the TRA cry of "You don't want us to exist", "You are calling us stupid" has become the silencer of choice. The DARVO that allows them to be as aggressive, offensive and devoid of all facts as they wish, then pull that out of the hat to close down challenge.
I'm surprised you haven't spotted it.

titbumwillypoo · 05/09/2026 13:45

Out of interest, for the people who support Reform, how much a week should be given to the people who as you say haven't put in? Can I have a rough amount to what you think is acceptable?

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 13:31

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:29

How do you know people who are calling Reform voters stupid are 'Labour'? There is negative feeling towards Reform and its supporters from every other party and their supporters.
Some of that negativity manifests as calling their supporters stupid, but there is no reason for you to claim this is solely the preserve of Labour voters, other than to get a bit of a dig in, is there?

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So you agree it is there, but annoyed Labour are seen to do it most. Ok

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:29

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 13:21

Threads do tend to have that on here. Usually Labour with the they’re stupid, thickos etc

How do you know people who are calling Reform voters stupid are 'Labour'? There is negative feeling towards Reform and its supporters from every other party and their supporters.
Some of that negativity manifests as calling their supporters stupid, but there is no reason for you to claim this is solely the preserve of Labour voters, other than to get a bit of a dig in, is there?

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 05/09/2026 13:23

EmeraldRoulette · 05/09/2026 00:23

Not this again

I can’t stand the man

But for God sake, the Dublin agreement and losing it through Brexit has nothing to do with the numbers we’ve seen since then. How many did we return under that agreement? Maybe 300 a year maybe 200 a year? I don’t have the exact figure to hand and I’m supposed to go to bed so I’m not going to look it up.

@Meadowlands How do you explain all the other EU countries who have experienced exactly the same thing we have?

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@EmeraldRoulette , some people wouldn’t recognise the truth and facts if they were hit around their smug faces with them.

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 13:21

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:16

Funny. I often think how much Reform supporters sound like TRA.
Very emotionally driven and resistent to any evidence that doesnt suit their narrative. Very angry and aggressive. Any disagreement or attempt to challenge their world view and they immediately assume the role of persecuted victims "You all hate us! You think we're stupid! You wish we didn't exist! You want to silence us!"
That's before we get started on the recent scenes of men attacking a woman at their conference. Pulling her hair, going for her with a walking stick, all because a woman dared to challenge them. Remind you of anyone?

Threads do tend to have that on here. Usually Labour with the they’re stupid, thickos etc

5128gap · 05/09/2026 13:16

Windsurf · 05/09/2026 11:18

They are like the trans activists were and still are. The ones who are the most predjudiced against normal people have written scripts that bear no relation to reality, but they all learn them and roll them out on repeat. It's unions, leftist parties, academics, public sector workers, they all have the exact same bizzare claims like "is hard of thinking skills". What does that actually mean?

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Funny. I often think how much Reform supporters sound like TRA.
Very emotionally driven and resistent to any evidence that doesnt suit their narrative. Very angry and aggressive. Any disagreement or attempt to challenge their world view and they immediately assume the role of persecuted victims "You all hate us! You think we're stupid! You wish we didn't exist! You want to silence us!"
That's before we get started on the recent scenes of men attacking a woman at their conference. Pulling her hair, going for her with a walking stick, all because a woman dared to challenge them. Remind you of anyone?

zurigo · 05/09/2026 13:05

Windsurf · 05/09/2026 11:18

They are like the trans activists were and still are. The ones who are the most predjudiced against normal people have written scripts that bear no relation to reality, but they all learn them and roll them out on repeat. It's unions, leftist parties, academics, public sector workers, they all have the exact same bizzare claims like "is hard of thinking skills". What does that actually mean?

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PMSL. I couldn't be further from the descriptions on this list if I tried!

dustabsorber · 05/09/2026 11:41

Reform say they will increase tax-free allowance to 15k. That will take me out of income tax.

LuckyHazelFox · 05/09/2026 11:35

Windsurf · 05/09/2026 11:18

They are like the trans activists were and still are. The ones who are the most predjudiced against normal people have written scripts that bear no relation to reality, but they all learn them and roll them out on repeat. It's unions, leftist parties, academics, public sector workers, they all have the exact same bizzare claims like "is hard of thinking skills". What does that actually mean?

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👏 ✌️ hear hear. They accuse others of lacking critical thinking skills whilst applying that exact approach. There's the die hard omnicause lot, then there's the middle class white lefty, who rushes to take offence at the bare mention of BAME related issues. They do offered more hindrance than help. Normally found working in schools/universities/hospitals and the civil service. Always but always represented by a Union.

5128gap · 05/09/2026 11:29

Windsurf · 05/09/2026 09:51

I haven't parroted anyone's nonsense, I'm simply mocking your string of clichés about people you despise and what you want to pretend they think, as if you either know or care. You don't. You despise them at the same time as claiming to know what they "wish for".

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You're barking up the wrong tree with me I'm afraid. I don't despise people on benefits or low incomes. I'm a working class woman from a deprived area who's spent most of my career in roles supporting people others look down on. I don't mock ordinary people, so clearly you and I differ on that. The only people I despise are the corrupt chancers getting rich from exploitating us.
So save your feeble attempts to portray me as sneering at the ordinary folk in order to justify your support for a party who will bring us nothing but harm to feather their own nests. Its tiresome, its old and it doesn't wash anymore I'm afraid.

HouseMouseSamosa · 05/09/2026 11:28

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 11:10

Jealous much ?
No arguments just insults, a poor show.

Jealous of what? 😵‍💫

Windsurf · 05/09/2026 11:18

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 11:11

Another poster with no rational argument just hurling abuse, sad.

They are like the trans activists were and still are. The ones who are the most predjudiced against normal people have written scripts that bear no relation to reality, but they all learn them and roll them out on repeat. It's unions, leftist parties, academics, public sector workers, they all have the exact same bizzare claims like "is hard of thinking skills". What does that actually mean?

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 11:11

zurigo · 05/09/2026 11:10

Of course they don't OP, anyone who votes Reform is hard of thinking skills. They're not even a proper party, they're a populist protest movement. They could no more govern this country than I could.

Another poster with no rational argument just hurling abuse, sad.

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 11:10

HouseMouseSamosa · 05/09/2026 00:41

Touché.

He doesn’t even try to hide it, that’s the funniest thing. I knew he was a massive cunt but watching the speeches he made whilst cosying up to Trump on the documentary about the Cambridge Analytica scandal was next level cuntery. Anyone who thinks he’s got anyone’s interests other than his own and his rich mates’ at heart needs a check up from the neck up.

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Jealous much ?
No arguments just insults, a poor show.

zurigo · 05/09/2026 11:10

Of course they don't OP, anyone who votes Reform is hard of thinking skills. They're not even a proper party, they're a populist protest movement. They could no more govern this country than I could.

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 11:07

KatiePricesKnickers · 05/09/2026 10:48

Stop it with all your facts.
It was Brexit! Brexit! Your hear me?

😆

Goggga · 05/09/2026 11:03

I might not like Nigel. But I don't like the boats.

ITMA2000 · 05/09/2026 10:59

HouseMouseSamosa · 05/09/2026 00:41

Touché.

He doesn’t even try to hide it, that’s the funniest thing. I knew he was a massive cunt but watching the speeches he made whilst cosying up to Trump on the documentary about the Cambridge Analytica scandal was next level cuntery. Anyone who thinks he’s got anyone’s interests other than his own and his rich mates’ at heart needs a check up from the neck up.

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I think you are using Touché in the wrong context. It signals you recognise a riposte, not agreement.

KatiePricesKnickers · 05/09/2026 10:48

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 10:47

This isn’t the case. Brexit isn’t a factor for where people claim.

Stop it with all your facts.
It was Brexit! Brexit! Your hear me?

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 10:47

Sereine · 05/09/2026 10:45

That might work if we offered a means of claiming asylum support before coming to the country. It would have been perfectly possible but for Brexit. As it is, most asylum seekers have no choice but to come without visas etc and that means they are entering legally.

This isn’t the case. Brexit isn’t a factor for where people claim.

Sereine · 05/09/2026 10:45

ItWasnaMeGuv · 05/09/2026 10:03

Enter illegally? Sent home. Enter legally? Let us hear your story.

That might work if we offered a means of claiming asylum support before coming to the country. It would have been perfectly possible but for Brexit. As it is, most asylum seekers have no choice but to come without visas etc and that means they are entering legally.

Chickenlittlelaidanegg · 05/09/2026 10:38

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 10:21

We had that earlier but it got scrapped.

Yes and I can confirm it was acting as a deterrent and migrants were heading for Southern Ireland