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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 20:57

likelysuspect · 06/09/2026 20:35

He's a complete professional, he's not going to get angry or upset on live telly.

He was very professional but it showed in his eyes he wasn’t amused

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 20:58

Temptree · 06/09/2026 20:14

Still don't think there's been enough media attention about this since Thursday.
It's very disappointing.

I know! It blew up on various socials, papers picked it up, I was expecting it to be bigger news this morning, be interesting to see if itv issues anything official

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 21:02

LuckyHazelFox · 06/09/2026 14:19

Absolutely, her late Majesty was something else. Don't suffer fools gladly is the expression.

Oh yes that is it

Thanks

Aluna · 06/09/2026 21:23

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 18:23

Reading some of your remarks throughout this thread, I am beginning to wonder what you are tbh.

Are you? Would you like to ask me what colour my parents are?

Sounds like you and MM are peas in a pod.

GoldTie · 06/09/2026 21:24

Andi Peters dealt with it incredibly well. He had to walk a very fine line of not making a scene, as it’s a lightweight morning show, but at the same time not just unquestioningly accepting her comments.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 21:27

wheresthesnowgone · 06/09/2026 20:23

Listened to a recent interview. She's from Oxford, not Glasgow, and her parents sent her to elocution.

She doesn't have a posh accent, that's quite different and often sounds slurred, she has slightly exaggerated but clear annunciation.

She does a good impression of posh amongst her wide repertoire of accents.

Her father was from Glasgow, and she said her father’s experience of poverty is what drove him to train as a GP. They moved to Oxford at some point.

wheresthesnowgone · 06/09/2026 21:35

Aluna · 06/09/2026 21:27

Her father was from Glasgow, and she said her father’s experience of poverty is what drove him to train as a GP. They moved to Oxford at some point.

Miriam was born in Oxford and went to school in Oxford then Cambridge university.. Her father was Glaswegian and her mother was Scouse.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 22:03

We’ve covered this.

NotAnotherScarf · 06/09/2026 22:46

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 12:45

No you cant, so why not, in certain conversations talk about it?
It's not the bloody elephant in the room, it's a part of who a person is, and if their hair colour, skin colour, heritage comes into it...why shy away from it.

You do understand the phrase 'CONTEXT IS ALL...' don't you?

Because there's a time and place. Yes you can discuss skin colour i have with the parents of mixed race kids. But out of the blue on national TV?

And why hasn't there been the outcry like there was when the late queens lady in waiting asked someone in African dress where they were from?

ec5881 · 06/09/2026 22:56

Temptree · 03/09/2026 13:58

Yes I found this confusing actually. You're right, she did say at the end "I haven't said anything wrong have I?" in a rather dramatic faux innocent voice/facial expression, and the bit that confused me was that Andi himself replied "No you haven't". And Christine said "You've been lovely".
She'd said multiple 'wrong' things in 7 minutes. The abject racism towards Andi. The mocking of Christine's accent. The shaming of this unknown daughter with her mother in a care home (she even used the word "shoved" in to a care home in relation to the elderly woman she is apparently visiting this afternoon).
IDK maybe they just wanted to hurry up and get her off their couch. But I really hope they were both thinking something totally different in their minds.
How can we get this mumsnet thread to Andi & Christine? I want them both to read it!

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Oh don’t worry they will be feeling it. Have you ever been in situations like this, or SA, or anything awful? The nervous system does and says and responds in all sorts of ways that when you’re on the outside you just can’t understand. Your body is in fight or flight survival mode, and interestingly psychologists have just found another stress response mode - placate mode, and I suspect their response will be that. I think he followed up with a SM comment “you have to be ready for anything” so I suspect his words in private would be more explicit about it all. I watched it after seeing your thread, absolute madness. Didn’t hear the care home bit but sounds truly awful. Hope you enjoyed your day off!!

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:42

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 11:35

I guarantee HE wasn't.
Skin colour is not a taboo subject, something to be hidden away.
Like I said, context is all.

Sure.

If you say so.

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:43

NotAnotherScarf · 06/09/2026 22:46

Because there's a time and place. Yes you can discuss skin colour i have with the parents of mixed race kids. But out of the blue on national TV?

And why hasn't there been the outcry like there was when the late queens lady in waiting asked someone in African dress where they were from?

They have both been in the news. What more / additional were you wanting to see?

I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

NotAnotherScarf · 07/09/2026 11:57

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:43

They have both been in the news. What more / additional were you wanting to see?

I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

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The reason Ngozi Fulani got a huge backlash is that she was particularly vile and wasn't willing to accept that the upper classes of the lady's generation use the word people to indicate family. So when she asked "where are your people from " she used it in the same way that Sebastian Flytes did in Brideshead revisited "come and stay with my people in the summer half"

The reporting vile and out of context abuse of Peters has vanished within a couple of days with no come back or cancelling of Margolyes...strangely the left don't cancel their own

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:59

NotAnotherScarf · 07/09/2026 11:57

The reason Ngozi Fulani got a huge backlash is that she was particularly vile and wasn't willing to accept that the upper classes of the lady's generation use the word people to indicate family. So when she asked "where are your people from " she used it in the same way that Sebastian Flytes did in Brideshead revisited "come and stay with my people in the summer half"

The reporting vile and out of context abuse of Peters has vanished within a couple of days with no come back or cancelling of Margolyes...strangely the left don't cancel their own

How was she vile?

What exactly did she say that was vile? She was asked a rather offensive question and answered it.

How does that justify abuse, death threats and blocking the phone lines of a vital service for abused women?

What extra do you think happened in the Fulani case that did not happen here? It made news, she has been criticised in mainstream news and on social media. She has actually had far less defence than what Lady Hussey had (such as you defending her while criticising MM when both engaged in the same degree of othering). And Andi Peters has received next to no criticism.

What is “enough” for you? What needs to happen?

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:04

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:43

They have both been in the news. What more / additional were you wanting to see?

I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

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I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

Seems unlikely, given that Peters tried to downplay it whereas Fulani tried to milk it.

The other difference is that Hussey was forced out by pressure from the Left whereas no such pressure has been brought to bear by the Left on Margoyles.

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:06

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:04

I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

Seems unlikely, given that Peters tried to downplay it whereas Fulani tried to milk it.

The other difference is that Hussey was forced out by pressure from the Left whereas no such pressure has been brought to bear by the Left on Margoyles.

How did she milk it?

She did not even originally name her:

https://abc7ny.com/amp/post/lady-susan-hussey-resigns-news-comments/12512260/

Buckingham Palace, which has not named the household member involved in the incident, said earlier today that the individual concerned had apologized and "stepped aside from her honorary role with immediate effect."

Sistah Space said that it "serves no purpose to name & shame" the person in question on its Twitter account on Wednesday, adding "it is the system that needs to be revised."

"Yes the person was offensive, but it serves no purpose to name & shame her, it would make us just as bad. We prefer that this be handled kindly," Sistah Space said.
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British media have identified the Buckingham Palace official as Lady Susan Hussey, who served as the late Queen Elizabeth II's lady in waiting for more than 60 years and is a godmother to the Prince of Wales.

The British media identified her and Fulani simply said it felt like an interrogation. How is that vile and “milking it”.

Lady Susan Hussey resigns: Buckingham Palace official quits after racist comment toward Black charity CEO, Ngozi Fulani | abc7ny.com

Lady Susan Hussey has resigned after a Black charity founder said she was questioned about whether she was really British at a royal reception.

https://abc7ny.com/amp/post/lady-susan-hussey-resigns-news-comments/12512260/

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:07

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:04

I do wonder if Peters will receive the same level of backlash and hatred that Ngozi Fulani received after that interaction….

Seems unlikely, given that Peters tried to downplay it whereas Fulani tried to milk it.

The other difference is that Hussey was forced out by pressure from the Left whereas no such pressure has been brought to bear by the Left on Margoyles.

Where do you want MM forced out from and what evidence do you have that Hussey was “forced out by the left”?

NovemberMorn · 07/09/2026 12:10

Aluna · 06/09/2026 21:23

Are you? Would you like to ask me what colour my parents are?

Sounds like you and MM are peas in a pod.

I wasn't talking about your colour....more what planet you are on.

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:10

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:07

Where do you want MM forced out from and what evidence do you have that Hussey was “forced out by the left”?

🤣🤣🤣

bafta16 · 07/09/2026 12:10

Cardisncocktails · 04/09/2026 23:51

She is a horrible old woman.
I genuinely dont understand all this 'national treasure' shite which some saddos suggest.
The sooner she is binned the better.

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Her sex talk makes me puke.

Friends in the right places.

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:11

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:06

How did she milk it?

She did not even originally name her:

https://abc7ny.com/amp/post/lady-susan-hussey-resigns-news-comments/12512260/

Buckingham Palace, which has not named the household member involved in the incident, said earlier today that the individual concerned had apologized and "stepped aside from her honorary role with immediate effect."

Sistah Space said that it "serves no purpose to name & shame" the person in question on its Twitter account on Wednesday, adding "it is the system that needs to be revised."

"Yes the person was offensive, but it serves no purpose to name & shame her, it would make us just as bad. We prefer that this be handled kindly," Sistah Space said.
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British media have identified the Buckingham Palace official as Lady Susan Hussey, who served as the late Queen Elizabeth II's lady in waiting for more than 60 years and is a godmother to the Prince of Wales.

The British media identified her and Fulani simply said it felt like an interrogation. How is that vile and “milking it”.

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I suggest you look into how the story was broken.

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:19

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:11

I suggest you look into how the story was broken.

The link says it there. Sistah Space shared the interaction but did not identify the individual.

So I don’t see how discussing an unpleasant experience makes and individual “vile and milking it”.

If the recent exchange with MM was not televised would you call Andi Peters “vile and milking it” for discussing it?

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:20

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:10

🤣🤣🤣

Just say you can’t answer it.

NovemberMorn · 07/09/2026 12:23

JHound · 07/09/2026 11:42

Sure.

If you say so.

There are black, brown, white and some in-between people of colour in my own family, and friends group, so yes, I do say so.

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:25

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:19

The link says it there. Sistah Space shared the interaction but did not identify the individual.

So I don’t see how discussing an unpleasant experience makes and individual “vile and milking it”.

If the recent exchange with MM was not televised would you call Andi Peters “vile and milking it” for discussing it?

Fulani put it on her own Twitter account first. You can’t even get basic facts correct.

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