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OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters

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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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NoEligibilityRequirementsApply · 05/09/2026 10:43

Cardisncocktails · 05/09/2026 10:38

'It's well known..' Is it????
My own mother is 89 and would be horrified to hear what MM said, and would NEVER use language like that nor judge a person on the colour of their skin. Still less would she think it was appropriate to randomly ask a black person about their parents, and/or use offensive terminology.
Generalising incorrectly about older people is ageist but on MN it appears to be a form of discrimination which is seen by some-many apparently-as acceptable. It is not.
Miriam Margoyles is not an offensive racist because she is older. She is that way because she is a deeply unpleasant woman.

100%.

NovemberMorn · 05/09/2026 10:42

Cardisncocktails · 05/09/2026 10:38

'It's well known..' Is it????
My own mother is 89 and would be horrified to hear what MM said, and would NEVER use language like that nor judge a person on the colour of their skin. Still less would she think it was appropriate to randomly ask a black person about their parents, and/or use offensive terminology.
Generalising incorrectly about older people is ageist but on MN it appears to be a form of discrimination which is seen by some-many apparently-as acceptable. It is not.
Miriam Margoyles is not an offensive racist because she is older. She is that way because she is a deeply unpleasant woman.

I agree.

I tend to skip over this person's posts in this thread....they are simply based on her own prejudices.

Cardisncocktails · 05/09/2026 10:38

Aluna · 03/09/2026 13:22

It’s well known that people from older generations are racist in a way that would not be considered unacceptable now. In fact when I looked at care homes for my parents they mentioned it was mentioned that their carers were trained to understand this.

'It's well known..' Is it????
My own mother is 89 and would be horrified to hear what MM said, and would NEVER use language like that nor judge a person on the colour of their skin. Still less would she think it was appropriate to randomly ask a black person about their parents, and/or use offensive terminology.
Generalising incorrectly about older people is ageist but on MN it appears to be a form of discrimination which is seen by some-many apparently-as acceptable. It is not.
Miriam Margoyles is not an offensive racist because she is older. She is that way because she is a deeply unpleasant woman.

NovemberMorn · 05/09/2026 10:33

bafta16 · 04/09/2026 19:56

I am at the stage in life where I wondering what kind of old person I will be ( it won't be long)
Not like her, hideous.

Unless some form of dementia kicks in, you will be just as you are now, maybe a little more patient or impatient with people, depending on your personality.

If you have a sense of humour, style, are pleasant to people and love life....hopefully that won't change.

LynnThese4reSEXPEOPLE · 05/09/2026 08:08

Andi Peters barely looks a day older than his broom cupboard days.

MM... I'd love to say I was surprised but I'm not.

KippyMcKippy · 05/09/2026 07:54

Awful woman. I wonder if it was a calculated move to get some press coverage before her tour and book. It was obnoxious and intentional.

Temptree · 05/09/2026 07:43

Firefliesdancing · 05/09/2026 07:26

I found a page with the full interview on and was open mouthed the entire time. She is vile in every way, I don’t understand why this nasty piece of work is given air time.

I was opened mouthed watching it, too. Literally had my hand over my dropped jaw.
I could not believe what I was watching from her.
The youtube videos are only showing a short clip. The entire 7 minute interview was much more awful.

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Firefliesdancing · 05/09/2026 07:26

I found a page with the full interview on and was open mouthed the entire time. She is vile in every way, I don’t understand why this nasty piece of work is given air time.

LetterBetter · 05/09/2026 01:49

WinterGold · 04/09/2026 23:06

Watching again, it’s actually quite a blatant bit of whitesplaining to Andi Peters with her making a clear attempt to “educate” him following her pompous flex of the term, high yalla.

“I know and understand something more about black culture than even you do”

When the awkwardness escalates and producers panic, she frames her invasive probing as an act of noble open-mindedness ("it's about inclusion"), positioning herself as an enlightened educator while completely steamrolling Peters' lived experience.

Edited

Completely agree with this.

She 'othered' him as a power move, the whole 'we're inclusive' indicating a hierarchy whereby she nobly accepts him, the other, as though he needs her permission to be accepted.

It was disgusting on every level.

zanahoria · 05/09/2026 00:15

Miriam Margolyes needs to grow up

article in the i

Cardisncocktails · 04/09/2026 23:54

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:19

I'm not going to oppose a genocide I don't see. She's an omnicause PITA.

I loathe her. She's a gobshite who rode the bandwagon of 'eccentric' but underneath the facade she's just an entitled, bigoted old cow.

Cardisncocktails · 04/09/2026 23:51

Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

She is a horrible old woman.
I genuinely dont understand all this 'national treasure' shite which some saddos suggest.
The sooner she is binned the better.

JHound · 04/09/2026 23:28

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:02

You have to wonder what the make up is of 34 per cent of voters tellingly the OP she is being unreasonable.

A number of people will have said that because OP started the thread with no context.

moderate · 04/09/2026 23:13

WinterGold · 04/09/2026 23:06

Watching again, it’s actually quite a blatant bit of whitesplaining to Andi Peters with her making a clear attempt to “educate” him following her pompous flex of the term, high yalla.

“I know and understand something more about black culture than even you do”

When the awkwardness escalates and producers panic, she frames her invasive probing as an act of noble open-mindedness ("it's about inclusion"), positioning herself as an enlightened educator while completely steamrolling Peters' lived experience.

Edited

And very much positioning herself as the benificent native welcoming him into her country, despite him being British born and bred.

WinterGold · 04/09/2026 23:06

Watching again, it’s actually quite a blatant bit of whitesplaining to Andi Peters with her making a clear attempt to “educate” him following her pompous flex of the term, high yalla.

“I know and understand something more about black culture than even you do”

When the awkwardness escalates and producers panic, she frames her invasive probing as an act of noble open-mindedness ("it's about inclusion"), positioning herself as an enlightened educator while completely steamrolling Peters' lived experience.

Temptree · 04/09/2026 20:26

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:20

They can change their vote though.

True, but someone upthread said it made them annoyed that they had to scroll down to find my second post to find details about what MM said. So I suppose they're still annoyed and therefore stand by their vote.
Others upthread have made digs about me describing my morning scene in the opening of my post. And someone criticised me for making them read an entire paragraph about myself before getting to the point of this thread. I guess these people still think I am BU so they stand by their vote.

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LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:23

Haha right wing 😆 🤣 😂

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:20

Temptree · 04/09/2026 20:18

I think some of these YABU votes might have been against me personally, not about what MM said, because I opened a thread about this without explaining in my first post exactly what MM had said to Andi.
I've had a couple of digs about it from posters on this thread, so I suspect others felt the same about my OP and voted accordingly.

They can change their vote though.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:19

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 20:18

The telegraph article is good up to a point.
i wish people wouldn’t keep conflating Miriam with being a ‘lefty’ as though it’s a score against all socialist values.

she speaks out in support of causes which are often supported by people who are left wing but not always.
she is vocal about lgbt causes because she’s lesbian and she speaks out against genocide and I think she’s spoken about farage but that doesn't necessarily equate with socialism.
anyone who is anyone should be anti genocide and most people can see farage is an odious greedy liar.

everything else about her is completely boorish, fits her posh accent and oxbridge education perfectly and ties in far more with people on the right than anything else

I'm not going to oppose a genocide I don't see. She's an omnicause PITA.

Temptree · 04/09/2026 20:18

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:02

You have to wonder what the make up is of 34 per cent of voters tellingly the OP she is being unreasonable.

I think some of these YABU votes might have been against me personally, not about what MM said, because I opened a thread about this without explaining in my first post exactly what MM had said to Andi.
I've had a couple of digs about it from posters on this thread, so I suspect others felt the same about my OP and voted accordingly.

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Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 20:18

The telegraph article is good up to a point.
i wish people wouldn’t keep conflating Miriam with being a ‘lefty’ as though it’s a score against all socialist values.

she speaks out in support of causes which are often supported by people who are left wing but not always.
she is vocal about lgbt causes because she’s lesbian and she speaks out against genocide and I think she’s spoken about farage but that doesn't necessarily equate with socialism.
anyone who is anyone should be anti genocide and most people can see farage is an odious greedy liar.

everything else about her is completely boorish, fits her posh accent and oxbridge education perfectly and ties in far more with people on the right than anything else

comeoncolleen · 04/09/2026 20:10

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:02

You have to wonder what the make up is of 34 per cent of voters tellingly the OP she is being unreasonable.

That will include some people who think this is an AI propaganda thread.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 20:02

Neverstopwondering · 04/09/2026 20:00

Definitely

You have to wonder what the make up is of 34 per cent of voters tellingly the OP she is being unreasonable.

Neverstopwondering · 04/09/2026 20:00

moderate · 04/09/2026 18:56

Ironically the worst offenders are often white people, speaking "on behalf" of non-white people.

Definitely

bafta16 · 04/09/2026 19:56

I am at the stage in life where I wondering what kind of old person I will be ( it won't be long)
Not like her, hideous.

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