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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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WinterGold · 06/09/2026 12:31

pigsDOfly · 06/09/2026 10:24

Agree.

I'm older - 77 - and I would never talk to someone the way that Miriam Margoyles does.

She's always been unpleasant. Unpleasant old people tend to be unpleasant when they're young; and looking at social media, it's clear to see that there are plenty of unpleasant younger people around.

The mobs of racist thugs you see on the news attending right wing marches are generally not made up of 'old people' they tend to be young or middle aged. Those people are the ones that will go on to be racist old people.

And yes, generalising that all old people are racist/homophobic/sexist and so on is ignorant ageism and yes, there's a hell of a lot of that on MN.

Generally agree, although there is a fair proportion of affluent elderly people at some quite Left wing protests.

It’s always been a standing joke in our household that the only people that supported Just Stop Oil were students or the elderly as both groups were the only ones that had the time to attend. The rest of the population were out there trying to earn a decent living and just trying to get to and from their place of work.

But that’s a whole new thread.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 11:43

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 11:37

She also went to Cambridge, i know you are trying to differentiate between upper and middle class, but I consider MM quite posh.

Well, I think you consider her posh because that’s what she wants us to think.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 11:37

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 11:35

I guarantee HE wasn't.
Skin colour is not a taboo subject, something to be hidden away.
Like I said, context is all.

Yeah you can really hide skin colour.

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 11:37

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:43

GPs were simply middle class professionals, and MM went to a GDST school not a smart boarding school which might explain were she picked up some of her affectations.

She also went to Cambridge, i know you are trying to differentiate between upper and middle class, but I consider MM quite posh.

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 11:35

JHound · 05/09/2026 20:34

I guarantee she was rolling her eyes at you. And likely told her group chat later.

I guarantee HE wasn't.
Skin colour is not a taboo subject, something to be hidden away.
Like I said, context is all.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 11:32

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 10:53

Wow I did not know this, she seems super posh, it would explain her constant struggle with placing where other people fit on her personal racism assessment scale

She’s a very strange woman.

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 11:32

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

Alexander Armstrong is the son of a GP and he’s as posh as anything. As is Hugh Laurie. Being the child of a GP doesn’t automatically make you not posh.

HolidayHideaway · 06/09/2026 11:20

Puppylucky · 06/09/2026 10:59

It's actually a slaver term from the USA. Slave owners used to categorise their slaves by skin colour as lighter colours were more valuable. The term used denotes a lighter skin .

MM is v well read, she’ll have known this.

Puppylucky · 06/09/2026 10:59

Bumcake · 03/09/2026 12:48

Why would you think that? An oddly precise guess.

I’d say it’s more likely from the 70’s.

It's actually a slaver term from the USA. Slave owners used to categorise their slaves by skin colour as lighter colours were more valuable. The term used denotes a lighter skin .

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 10:53

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

Wow I did not know this, she seems super posh, it would explain her constant struggle with placing where other people fit on her personal racism assessment scale

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:45

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 10:40

That is just how actors of a certain time were expected to speak Maureen Lipman and my grandmother were both of the time and also put on the posh voices. Maureen is from Hull and my grandmother was from East London. It is the old fashioned bbc or theatre voice.

Maureen speaks with a northern accent.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:43

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 10:37

Because being a Gp before the NHS was probably seen as quite prestigious and he would have been held in high regard, between that and Miriams upbringing of being "better " and private education she will have mixed with high handed types who were prone to othering and being seen as some sort of white saviour. Is what I meant. MM was also involved with a workers party with other people like herself so thought they were representing people who couldn't help themselves, this is probably where her attitude stems from.

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GPs were simply middle class professionals, and MM went to a GDST school not a smart boarding school which might explain were she picked up some of her affectations.

Quicknamechange2025 · 06/09/2026 10:42

EarthaKittsVoice · 03/09/2026 13:32

A mixed race person is, a mixed race person. Could be mixed with black+white, black+indian etc etc. A 'high yella' person is not just a decription of the person's skintone but of their bio makeup. So, a very lightskin black person is just that, and some use the term 'high yella'. Yes, some of these have a white person intheir bloodline but it'll be a grandparent/great grandparent

Sometimes even further back especially if previous generations have married those with a similar skin tone. I call this generationally mixed but still black.

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 10:40

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

That is just how actors of a certain time were expected to speak Maureen Lipman and my grandmother were both of the time and also put on the posh voices. Maureen is from Hull and my grandmother was from East London. It is the old fashioned bbc or theatre voice.

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 10:37

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:29

? I know her father was a GP I was the one who made that point, but she born in 1941. She’s not in her 90s.

The point is she just an ordinary middle class doctor’s daughter from Glasgow and her grandparents were themselves immigrants. So the Lady Muck I’ve never met a black person schtick is really odd.

Because being a Gp before the NHS was probably seen as quite prestigious and he would have been held in high regard, between that and Miriams upbringing of being "better " and private education she will have mixed with high handed types who were prone to othering and being seen as some sort of white saviour. Is what I meant. MM was also involved with a workers party with other people like herself so thought they were representing people who couldn't help themselves, this is probably where her attitude stems from.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:29

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 10:11

My god her father was a Gp in the 30s and 40s! Your condescension is affecting your understanding!

? I know her father was a GP I was the one who made that point, but she born in 1941. She’s not in her 90s.

The point is she just an ordinary middle class doctor’s daughter from Glasgow and her grandparents were themselves immigrants. So the Lady Muck I’ve never met a black person schtick is really odd.

pigsDOfly · 06/09/2026 10:24

Cardisncocktails · 05/09/2026 10:38

'It's well known..' Is it????
My own mother is 89 and would be horrified to hear what MM said, and would NEVER use language like that nor judge a person on the colour of their skin. Still less would she think it was appropriate to randomly ask a black person about their parents, and/or use offensive terminology.
Generalising incorrectly about older people is ageist but on MN it appears to be a form of discrimination which is seen by some-many apparently-as acceptable. It is not.
Miriam Margoyles is not an offensive racist because she is older. She is that way because she is a deeply unpleasant woman.

Agree.

I'm older - 77 - and I would never talk to someone the way that Miriam Margoyles does.

She's always been unpleasant. Unpleasant old people tend to be unpleasant when they're young; and looking at social media, it's clear to see that there are plenty of unpleasant younger people around.

The mobs of racist thugs you see on the news attending right wing marches are generally not made up of 'old people' they tend to be young or middle aged. Those people are the ones that will go on to be racist old people.

And yes, generalising that all old people are racist/homophobic/sexist and so on is ignorant ageism and yes, there's a hell of a lot of that on MN.

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 10:11

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:06

In the 30s and 40s 😆 how old do you think she is? 110?

My god her father was a Gp in the 30s and 40s! Your condescension is affecting your understanding!

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:06

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 09:56

Being a GP in the 30s and 40s is hardly down the mines, it is would have been a nice middle class lifestyle and her mother was in property development apparently, Miriam went to an all girls private school then Cambridge, she sees herself as "quite well to do"

In the 30s and 40s 😆 how old do you think she is? 110?

Lomonald · 06/09/2026 09:56

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

Being a GP in the 30s and 40s is hardly down the mines, it is would have been a nice middle class lifestyle and her mother was in property development apparently, Miriam went to an all girls private school then Cambridge, she sees herself as "quite well to do"

WinterGold · 06/09/2026 09:50

AirportParking · 06/09/2026 09:12

Her saying that she is being 'welcoming' and 'inclusive' to Andi (despite his blackness I assume) is infuriating.

He is at his place of work, in his country of birth, why on earth does she think she has the authority to welcome him?

She absolutely knew what she was saying and how awful it was.

Edited

Exactly.

By referring to his colour/race in the first place, for a supposedly educated enlightened person, she’s perpetuating the anachronism that black people are still “different”

If it was part of an ongoing discussion about ancestry and origins, it might have been slightly more acceptable, but in the context of the interview, she just showed a peculiar fascination with Andi. Why didn’t she therefore ask Christine Lampard about her ancestry too because she has dark hair and brown eyes and therefore not “standard and generic” English colouring?

I didn’t realise, she had even asked Andi previously in the interview, “What accent is normal for you?” That is horrendously patronising; was she seriously under the impression that he usually spoke with a Caribbean patois and adopted a conversational accent merely for TV?

I’ve thought for many years she was just a tiresome, pretentious bore, who for some reason was a useful filler for a talk show. I see now a very unpleasant and insidious personality who, following this episode, should quickly be put out to grass and disappear from our screens.

GoldTie · 06/09/2026 09:46

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 09:36

Having seen the full clip, it seems she was speaking in a northern Irish accent first to the woman presenter and then Andi asked her something like do we have to do it in a northern Irish accent first, and said that with the accent, as though he may have been pulling her up on it (my interpretation) and then she took umbrage and turned on him because he’d embarrassed her and in her posh racist view had ‘got above his station’.

It’s very textbook narcissist rage, if that’s what happened, so she went straight into the racist ‘what would your usual accent be?’ And ‘what are you?’
it’s from personal experience of a couple of people who were nasty to me , if I ever challenged or stood up to them they would make ‘innocent’ comments like that in a seemingly harmless way and say things during / after like ‘don’t worry’ or ‘I haven’t upset you have I?’
very hard to complain because it would look like I was over sensitive and they didn’t mean anything by it’ or were possibly ’a bit gauche’.

She really gave herself away with the ‘what would your usual accent be’. She’d just been speaking to him ffs, she had heard his ‘usual accent’.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

Lalgarh · 06/09/2026 09:43

God love Christine Lampard but she's not Kirsty Wark or Vic Derbyshire in terms of comebacks from awkward interviews

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 09:36

Having seen the full clip, it seems she was speaking in a northern Irish accent first to the woman presenter and then Andi asked her something like do we have to do it in a northern Irish accent first, and said that with the accent, as though he may have been pulling her up on it (my interpretation) and then she took umbrage and turned on him because he’d embarrassed her and in her posh racist view had ‘got above his station’.

It’s very textbook narcissist rage, if that’s what happened, so she went straight into the racist ‘what would your usual accent be?’ And ‘what are you?’
it’s from personal experience of a couple of people who were nasty to me , if I ever challenged or stood up to them they would make ‘innocent’ comments like that in a seemingly harmless way and say things during / after like ‘don’t worry’ or ‘I haven’t upset you have I?’
very hard to complain because it would look like I was over sensitive and they didn’t mean anything by it’ or were possibly ’a bit gauche’.

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