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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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Aydel · 07/09/2026 18:39

I lived in Nigeria twenty years ago and Nigerians used to call mixed race people “yellow.” I don’t know if they still do. We had a mixed race receptionist and customers would often say that they spoke to the “yellow lady” before.

NovemberMorn · 07/09/2026 18:30

PerkingFaintly · 07/09/2026 16:39

Absolutely.

Maybe she didn't get quite the media attention she wanted with the Andi Peters interview.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/09/2026 16:51

BirdsSinginInTheSycamoreTrees · 07/09/2026 15:16

Friends in the right places

I watched a bit of This Morning the day after the incident and there was a discussion about audio books and Giles Brandeth was suddenly mentioning her, saying she was a beautiful speaker, a wonderful audio book narrator etc directly to Andi Peters when that wasn't what the discussion had been about. I thought that was a show of establishment friends in action right there.

Fucking hell, it gets worse.

PerkingFaintly · 07/09/2026 16:39

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 16:19

She has to be on the wind up doesnt she.

Absolutely.

thefourthbeatle · 07/09/2026 16:34

frenchnoodle · 07/09/2026 12:54

I really like Andi Peter's, I didn't grow up in the UK in the 80's and 90's but I've heard him say how proud he was for being a role model for minority and ethnic race children, back when only Trevor Mcdonald, Moria Stuart, Derrek Griffiths and lenny Henry were the regular Black people on TV.

And this isn't something he boasts about or tries to claim is amazing, he was just saying he's proud of that.

Don't put Lenworth ("Reparations for Slavery NOW") Henry in the same category as Andrew Peters & the rest, please!

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 16:19

She has to be on the wind up doesnt she.

Gloriia · 07/09/2026 16:11

Holidaymodeon · 07/09/2026 16:05

Fucking hell 🤦🏽‍♀️

Cripples? Wtaf is wrong her her why doesn't she know what is inappropriate to say?!

HaileyBailey · 07/09/2026 16:11

Cripples???!!! Just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse …

Holidaymodeon · 07/09/2026 16:05

Lalgarh · 07/09/2026 14:52

From metro

https://metro.co.uk/2026/09/07/miriam-margolyes-speaks-backlash-describing-andi-peters-racist-term-29552358/

"I wanted to know what he thought about it because that’s what interests me. How do Black people feel? How do Brown people feel? How do cripples feel? How do fat people feel?’ she listed, using an offensive term for disabled people.

She continued: ‘You see what I mean? All of us feel something about who we are and how people see us, what they think of us.’

The host interjected to summarise that ‘in other words you wanted to discuss his identity with him’, to which Margolyes was in full agreement.

Fucking hell 🤦🏽‍♀️

PerkingFaintly · 07/09/2026 15:37

BirdsSinginInTheSycamoreTrees · 07/09/2026 15:16

Friends in the right places

I watched a bit of This Morning the day after the incident and there was a discussion about audio books and Giles Brandeth was suddenly mentioning her, saying she was a beautiful speaker, a wonderful audio book narrator etc directly to Andi Peters when that wasn't what the discussion had been about. I thought that was a show of establishment friends in action right there.

More ewwww.

PerkingFaintly · 07/09/2026 15:36

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 15:13

And I really liked the way in the presentation to her audience where she addressed the issue, she says shes not sure who Andi Peters is!!

Thats EXACTLY like the little X clip up thread somewhere, the parody of her!!!

Ewwww.

Lomonald · 07/09/2026 15:22

Giles Brandeth was suddenly mentioning her, saying she was a beautiful speaker, a wonderful audio book narrator etc directly to Andi Peters when that wasn't what the discussion had been about. I thought that was a show of establishment friends in action right there.

Oh did he! poor Andi Peters just wanting to go to work without being hassled and "put in his box"

BirdsSinginInTheSycamoreTrees · 07/09/2026 15:16

bafta16 · 07/09/2026 12:10

Her sex talk makes me puke.

Friends in the right places.

Friends in the right places

I watched a bit of This Morning the day after the incident and there was a discussion about audio books and Giles Brandeth was suddenly mentioning her, saying she was a beautiful speaker, a wonderful audio book narrator etc directly to Andi Peters when that wasn't what the discussion had been about. I thought that was a show of establishment friends in action right there.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 15:13

And I really liked the way in the presentation to her audience where she addressed the issue, she says shes not sure who Andi Peters is!!

Thats EXACTLY like the little X clip up thread somewhere, the parody of her!!!

Aluna · 07/09/2026 15:06

Cardisncocktails · 07/09/2026 14:50

And there you go again... sweeping generalisation really are your thing, aren't they??
Nice try at deflection, but I see you.
Mindless ageism is an ugly thing @Aluna

I see you picking up fag ends. What utter nonsense.

This is my parents’ generation. If you think you can provide a summary of attitudes, feel free to have a crack.

Lalgarh · 07/09/2026 14:52

From metro

https://metro.co.uk/2026/09/07/miriam-margolyes-speaks-backlash-describing-andi-peters-racist-term-29552358/

"I wanted to know what he thought about it because that’s what interests me. How do Black people feel? How do Brown people feel? How do cripples feel? How do fat people feel?’ she listed, using an offensive term for disabled people.

She continued: ‘You see what I mean? All of us feel something about who we are and how people see us, what they think of us.’

The host interjected to summarise that ‘in other words you wanted to discuss his identity with him’, to which Margolyes was in full agreement.

Miriam Margolyes responds to backlash after calling Andi Peters racist term

The 85-year-old actress addressed the live TV conversation during her book tour.

https://metro.co.uk/2026/09/07/miriam-margolyes-speaks-backlash-describing-andi-peters-racist-term-29552358/

Cardisncocktails · 07/09/2026 14:50

Aluna · 05/09/2026 10:50

Well racism is always is always elsewhere isn’t it? Not among my naice liberal circle who all have the correct opinions, I’ll have you know.

ime of that generation have some have some dodgy attitudes to race, some are not racist at all, and some are not racist but use anachronistic language so it’s difficult to tell their actual perspective unless you know then very well.

And there you go again... sweeping generalisation really are your thing, aren't they??
Nice try at deflection, but I see you.
Mindless ageism is an ugly thing @Aluna

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 13:29

nicepotoftea · 07/09/2026 13:05

She comes across as the least curious person in the world. She had no interest whatsoever in listening to Andi Peters. She just had a preconceived idea of who he was because of his skin colour and wished to convey that to him.

I meant in general in terms of documentaries she has done, not necessarily about that interaction which was out of context. Why she did it who only knows

What is quite amusing is the way she says I didnt want to embarrass Andi Peters, without any shadow of self awareness that people are expecting her to be embarrassed about what she said, not him!!!

Oh dear Miriam.

NovemberMorn · 07/09/2026 13:22

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 12:57

I hadnt read the full transcrpt of what she and they had said on the show, it was out of context for sure, but not inappropriate if talking about that as a talking piece. Not sure about that antiquated dispariging term, Im just talking about the discussion

In terms of her interest in people, I can believe that, she is one of those people who is forever curious, it does make people in the modern age feel uncomfortable. In other countries people do talk more openly about difference and who are you, where are you from, where are your parents from etc etc

Its not the social norm now in this country though.

I don't agree. If you have watched her on talk shows, she feigns interest so she can suddenly chip in with what she hopes will be a shocker...usually sex related.
It's all an act,

nicepotoftea · 07/09/2026 13:05

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 12:57

I hadnt read the full transcrpt of what she and they had said on the show, it was out of context for sure, but not inappropriate if talking about that as a talking piece. Not sure about that antiquated dispariging term, Im just talking about the discussion

In terms of her interest in people, I can believe that, she is one of those people who is forever curious, it does make people in the modern age feel uncomfortable. In other countries people do talk more openly about difference and who are you, where are you from, where are your parents from etc etc

Its not the social norm now in this country though.

She comes across as the least curious person in the world. She had no interest whatsoever in listening to Andi Peters. She just had a preconceived idea of who he was because of his skin colour and wished to convey that to him.

likelysuspect · 07/09/2026 12:57

I hadnt read the full transcrpt of what she and they had said on the show, it was out of context for sure, but not inappropriate if talking about that as a talking piece. Not sure about that antiquated dispariging term, Im just talking about the discussion

In terms of her interest in people, I can believe that, she is one of those people who is forever curious, it does make people in the modern age feel uncomfortable. In other countries people do talk more openly about difference and who are you, where are you from, where are your parents from etc etc

Its not the social norm now in this country though.

frenchnoodle · 07/09/2026 12:54

I really like Andi Peter's, I didn't grow up in the UK in the 80's and 90's but I've heard him say how proud he was for being a role model for minority and ethnic race children, back when only Trevor Mcdonald, Moria Stuart, Derrek Griffiths and lenny Henry were the regular Black people on TV.

And this isn't something he boasts about or tries to claim is amazing, he was just saying he's proud of that.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 07/09/2026 12:29

Aluna · 03/09/2026 13:46

Again. I have not said all. Stop inventing my position to try and goad an argument.

Not in my circles either, but in the country as a whole, for sure. Even people from who aren’t, on balance racist, from that generation can use inappropriate terms. Never heard anyone use “high yellow” though, since probably the 19th c.

I feel quite sorry for the posters arguing with you on this point. You, I, most of my social circles who have older parents, have already had the experience of hearing our non-racist relatives say the single or occasional word or phrase that is not acceptable in the UK today for a multi- cultural but also a highly diverse society in other ways. They have that experience and conversation still to come. And the shock that goes with it.

moderate · 07/09/2026 12:26

JHound · 07/09/2026 12:20

Just say you can’t answer it.

See above. You can’t even get basic facts correct.

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