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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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Gloriia · 04/09/2026 08:15

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

You think she's funny desperately talking about her farts, or 'creaming her knickers' or telling Daniel Radcliffe bizarrely that his balls had dropped?

She is a silly attention seeker and I'm really surprised her 'what are you' question to Peters hasn't been widely and loudly condemned by high profile commentators in the media.

GoodkneeBadKnee · 04/09/2026 08:15

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

Yeah, crack on with that. Arse.

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 08:14

There’s a few of these knocking around now too , it’s an excruciating watch , has made me feel anxious, especially having been on the receiving end of similar

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Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 08:10

Holidaymodeon · 03/09/2026 22:53

Nope.
we are very much aligned when it comes to her pro Palestine stance and I don’t hate Jewish people.
Everything else I know about her completely repels me.
I’m also not a pride, am left wing and like a bit of vulgarity in context but I can’t bear seeing or hearing this person anywhere

Edited

Should say ‘not a prude’ 🙈

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 08:09

WiltonGal · 04/09/2026 07:57

Someone loves her, she is absolutely minted. She earns a lot of money from Cameo. She has a custom built house in Australia (she has an Australian passport as well as British), a house in London, a house in Tuscany (where her wife now lives) and a house on the South East coast which is a holiday rental/used for location filming. She has written a lot of books now in later life, which flowed out from her autobiographies, advice to the nation. Lots of travelogues and documentaries. What propelled her to these riches in later life were her shocking stories on Norton, and on This Morning when Holly and Phil were at the helm. The latter used to massively encourage her to misbehave. One time they had a phone in where she gave advice on viewers problems - she was surprisingly wise and thoughtful doing those. But she has surely reached the end of her popularity now, the shock has worn off and she is now a bore.

She’s actually touring at the moment. I don’t think her light will dim anytime soon.
despite this, I’ve complained to offcom and to itv, nobody is above reproach, she needs taking to task and itv should apologise publicly for allowing this.

i found some more grotesque comments, she will be building a new fan base, all the ones who hated her for her pro Palestine stance will be loving her ‘she says it like it is’ approach, and she’ll be the pride of the hatie kopkins brigade

OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters
OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters
OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters
WiltonGal · 04/09/2026 07:57

Someone loves her, she is absolutely minted. She earns a lot of money from Cameo. She has a custom built house in Australia (she has an Australian passport as well as British), a house in London, a house in Tuscany (where her wife now lives) and a house on the South East coast which is a holiday rental/used for location filming. She has written a lot of books now in later life, which flowed out from her autobiographies, advice to the nation. Lots of travelogues and documentaries. What propelled her to these riches in later life were her shocking stories on Norton, and on This Morning when Holly and Phil were at the helm. The latter used to massively encourage her to misbehave. One time they had a phone in where she gave advice on viewers problems - she was surprisingly wise and thoughtful doing those. But she has surely reached the end of her popularity now, the shock has worn off and she is now a bore.

CandidLurker · 04/09/2026 07:53

Have never been able to stand the woman. I think it’s yet another example of how class still plays a very large part in how successful you get to be in this country. Repeating what others have said, but if she behaved like she does with an a not posh accent she wouldn’t be on the tv at all but somehow speaking like she does has got her a pass for years . The way she spoke to Andi Peters was awful. Apart from the content she was so condescending. Who are the people who’d go to watch her show? I can’t imagine.

MoonDancer1 · 04/09/2026 07:21

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

In a work context? You've had meetings at work and asked a Black person about their parentage and used a racist term to them? In front of others?
Actually why is it relevant if anyone is mixed race? why would you ask them in any context? That person on the Facebook link was correct though. People shouldn't have kept inviting her on things when they know what she's like. She's a gross attention seeker and now she's done it on daytime TV.

OvernightBloats · 04/09/2026 06:50

Calling Miriam a national treasure is a joke. She is nowhere near a national treasure; she is an embarrassment. Also think that the words 'legend' and 'icon' are used far too freely for people who don't deserve that status.

Doubt she will be on live TV ever again now that she has done this. Wish she would retire.

Palomiino · 04/09/2026 06:03

HobgoblinNorFoulFiend · 03/09/2026 12:37

He should have replied “No, was one of yours a cunt?”

🤣🤣🤣 touché

PhaedraTwo · 04/09/2026 05:59

HolidayHideaway · 04/09/2026 02:03

Or maybe she was just showing her knowledge for other words meaning mixed? Why flag anything at all apropos of nothing?

Edited

I hadn't heard the term she used but took a guess that it's offensive. It is. By your reason there's another word meaning black, maybe she could use that too.

Minnie888 · 04/09/2026 05:39

This is definitely a side issue but having met her in real life as a young a woman I am so surprised that she is still generally accepted as a nice celeb. I worked in a restaurant where she was ‘acting’ nearby and I’ve never met someone so lewd and letchy towards young woman including myself. Her language gestures and physical inappropriateness was completely off the scale, it scared me and made me uncomfortable. I’ve never been able to stand the sight of her since.

Linnende · 04/09/2026 05:17

Iloveeverycat · 03/09/2026 12:21

She just asked him was one of his parents white and the other black.

Edited

What is offensive about that?

Jane379 · 04/09/2026 02:39

likelysuspect · 03/09/2026 23:16

She used to be very sharp, astute, articulate and erudite and genuinely funny. I would say over the past 15 years or so (perhaps more, time moves very fast), she has become disinhibited and Ive long thought she is getting ill

Your spouse is not able to make you or stop you doing anything. They dont even live together so probably dont even have a relationship. The wife may also be ill or unbable to know whats going on.

Your spouse is not able to make you or stop you doing anything. - that's true, especially as Margoyles seems outwardly well enough to make her own decisions.

Her wife has been retired for some time, no reports of her being ill but also possible. It does seem odd they have never lived together permanently but it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is fake.

HolidayHideaway · 04/09/2026 02:03

Or maybe she was just showing her knowledge for other words meaning mixed? Why flag anything at all apropos of nothing?

HolidayHideaway · 04/09/2026 01:51

Unfortunately, (understatement) I wonder if she was implying lighter skinned black people were more attractive & more patrician (& therefore Andi himself - giving him a compliment as she saw it) by using ‘that’ term? Movies/books plantation owners/Antebellum south & house staff. Which is how I’ve seen it historically referenced.

She said it was used in America as if it was current (!)

HaileyBailey · 04/09/2026 01:34

I saw it. I hadn’t heard that expression before and googled it. The first line described it as offensive and derogatory, which MM obviously knew.

Andi Peters handled it really well. She’s a disgusting woman. Can’t bloody stand her. I remember her on Graham Norton, I think it was, describing having a cavity search in a police station and how much she enjoyed it 🤮🤮🤮

aniloD · 04/09/2026 01:18

She's an ignorant pig. She thinks she's great, shocking people. She's not

OtterlyAstounding · 04/09/2026 01:02

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

I don't know why you'd ask, though? How is someone's racial background relevant, 99% of the time? If a blonde woman says, "oh, this is my son," about a man who is obviously mixed race, then clearly either he's adopted, or her husband is of another race. It's not exactly interesting information.
My own children are mixed race, and it's never been relevant for others to bring up in casual conversation, except when we've been talking about doing cultural activities that relate to their dad's heritage.

The way MM brought it up was unnecessary, insulting, and made use of racist terminology.

moderate · 04/09/2026 00:38

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one

You have a mixed race, or you have a person of mixed race?

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

LancashireButterPie · 04/09/2026 00:18

She knows exactly what she's doing.
No one is laughing at her vulva routine now so she's moved on to other shock tactics.
I hope the horrible, crude and offensive moron gets cancelled. She is utterly talentless and boring.

ZoeCM · 03/09/2026 23:43

Margolyes has spent years coasting off her image of "old lady who says inappropriate things, which people find hilarious and endearing." She obviously thought a racist comment would be one of those hilarious and endearing things, but it's backfired on her.

Poor Andi. She was very disrespectful to him, but he handled it well.

Aluna · 03/09/2026 23:36

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/09/2026 22:54

She made a very bad judgement. Nobody is disputing that. But her age is irrelevant here. This isn't about a lack of understanding or awareness, it is about racism and bad judgement.

We can agree it was bad judgement. I don’t agree about her age though. I agree with @Holidaymodeon that some of her generation have “stinking attitudes”. Pulling out an old slavery term is very characteristic of that generation and lack of awareness.

I actually got the impression she thought she was going to impress Andy with her US lingo.

BirdsSinginInTheSycamoreTrees · 03/09/2026 23:20

PussyGaylore · 03/09/2026 23:05

I really don’t like MM - the woman is so full of herself but I’m struggling to get all outraged by what she said . . . It’s a stupid thing to say but it’s her just trying to provoke attention. I just wish the ghastly woman would bugger off.

Nah, I'm far from being a snowflake but what she said was more than stupid. Suddenly referencing AP having one white parent (for no apparent reason) and then using a racial slur to describe his skin tone.

I feel very sorry for AP having to listen to that on national live tv, in 2026.

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