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OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters

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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 10:36

SALaw · 04/09/2026 10:34

This story makes zero sense. She was issued with an on air warning “via Andi’s earpiece”? She wouldn’t hear such a warning? Surely if anything was said via Andi’s earpiece it was to Andi and it was up to him to issue the warning to her? It doesn’t sound like he did, or that he said something about the gallery getting nervous but not really stepping in and warning her.

He does though, in an amenable way, close it down.

TorroFerney · 04/09/2026 10:35

mumumental · 03/09/2026 22:50

I don’t particularly like crude language in a public setting, but I expect that a good chunk of the outrage is from those who find it inconvenient that she is Jewish, but very much against what is happening in Palestine , and she is also anti Zionist.

Well it took a while but had to happen. I mean I suppose it’s better than the idiots who go on fb and just write free Palestine on every post they see.

expand on your point, are you suggesting that people don’t really object to the racism or bad language or delight in telling “shocking” stories , they object to her doing it as a Jewish woman who supports Palestine so a bit like Zak goldsmith? Such a very lazy and ineffective way to try to shut down debate isn’t it. I know she’s Jewish but had no idea on her stance on Palestine , so why don’t I like what she does?

SALaw · 04/09/2026 10:34

This story makes zero sense. She was issued with an on air warning “via Andi’s earpiece”? She wouldn’t hear such a warning? Surely if anything was said via Andi’s earpiece it was to Andi and it was up to him to issue the warning to her? It doesn’t sound like he did, or that he said something about the gallery getting nervous but not really stepping in and warning her.

SummerColdAgain · 04/09/2026 10:33

Bringing up race or religion or sexuality etc without context is very ‘othering’. When you are having a conversation and someone brings up that you are Asian/Jewish/gay etc completely
randomly, it is quite an unpleasant and jarring feeling. It sounds like not a big deal but it can be quite disappointing and uncomfortable when it happens. If you haven’t experienced it, you may not understand.

emuloc · 04/09/2026 10:32

JuRoo · 04/09/2026 09:15

She asked if he was mixed race in a pleasant, curious manner, he said he wasn’t & she said they call his colour tone ‘high yella’ in America. He laughed & seemed interested to hear that. A normal conversation, nothing rude said, just a question. She’s just herself, genuine, likeable.

Maybe she should have been wearing classes, if she was being genuine by asking if he is mixed race. That question alone was bonkers, and using the term that she did, was totally inappropriate, and he would never have fitted that outdated, offensive description anyway. She was talking complete nonsense!

TorroFerney · 04/09/2026 10:27

Lalgarh · 03/09/2026 20:30

She does that on page 57

Chapeau

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 10:25

Watching it AP deals with it very well. The clip was from the Irish accent part to ok we’ll end there.

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 10:24

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 10:23

Sorry. I meant to add, the one I posted is on YouTube, there’s a few on there

Ok, thank you 👍🏼

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 10:23

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 09:59

Thanks, I'm not on X or FB, but I'll look upthread.

Sorry. I meant to add, the one I posted is on YouTube, there’s a few on there

EarthaKittsVoice · 04/09/2026 10:16

suburberphobe · 04/09/2026 00:21

Haha, she always makes me laugh, as does Graham Norton.

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too. They come in all shades.
You would never guess that a high-blonde with a very dark-skinned adult son were in anyway related.
Where I live there's all kinds of mixed race (adult) kids, asian, african, south american.

Mumsnetters getting their knickers in a twist.....

I think it's quite o.k. to ask people if they are mixed race, I myself have one and many women and friends I know do too

What do you have one of?

Butterflyvillage · 04/09/2026 10:11

GreyBeeplus3 · 04/09/2026 10:03

@Butterflyvillage
Well, there was a time when she did?
And I suppose being rich and white will always as such "cushion" you and your actions won't it?
But it's your right to defend her if you feel you like you should......

You are allowed to criticise her but get your facts correct. I am not defending her just correcting you saying she lives in the USA where she obviously picked up her racist habits!

SummerColdAgain · 04/09/2026 10:09

JuRoo · 04/09/2026 09:15

She asked if he was mixed race in a pleasant, curious manner, he said he wasn’t & she said they call his colour tone ‘high yella’ in America. He laughed & seemed interested to hear that. A normal conversation, nothing rude said, just a question. She’s just herself, genuine, likeable.

Bringing up someone’s race out of context is a form of racism.

EasternStandard · 04/09/2026 10:08

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 09:59

Thanks, I'm not on X or FB, but I'll look upthread.

I couldn’t see it earlier but people have uploaded in the meantime. I’m not on those either but YouTube has the clip.

She went off beam and the producers are saying to Andi Peters to rein her in.

It seems to be her thing, it sounds like she’s earned a lot of £ from it, perhaps it has a shelf life after all.

SummerColdAgain · 04/09/2026 10:07

Linnende · 04/09/2026 08:57

OMG! People are so easily offended these days. I personally do not like Miriam, that is why I choose not to watch her. What I dislike even more these days, is the fact we all have to watch what we are saying, for fear of offending anyone. It is called a sense of humour. If you are easily offended, turn the TV off or do not read the newspapers. Simple!

The thing is, for Andi P, this will have felt personal. He is a consummate pro so will probably not say much in public. But this comment will have had some impact. He will have recognised it as racism. It wasn’t one comment; it was all small acts of racism. Why did she need to ask anything at all about his race. How dare she decide he is welcome here. That slur was just bizarre. Every small racist act can hit home. I speak from experience.

It’s not just about offending viewers. it is about the impact on the individual and many PoC who would understand and relate to their own experiences. It’s about condemning it in public and creating a better world for future generations. I am not crying about this, but think her behaviour needs calling out. It will help the next generation of PoC too, including mixed race kids like my own.

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 10:03

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 10:01

I've always loved AP. Always chirpy, inoffensive and (sickeningly!) Never seems to age.

He is excellent at his job. Great demeanour, friendly and interested, understands live tv. He's 56, looks amazing!

GreyBeeplus3 · 04/09/2026 10:03

@Butterflyvillage
Well, there was a time when she did?
And I suppose being rich and white will always as such "cushion" you and your actions won't it?
But it's your right to defend her if you feel you like you should......

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 10:01

ZoeCM · 03/09/2026 23:43

Margolyes has spent years coasting off her image of "old lady who says inappropriate things, which people find hilarious and endearing." She obviously thought a racist comment would be one of those hilarious and endearing things, but it's backfired on her.

Poor Andi. She was very disrespectful to him, but he handled it well.

I've always loved AP. Always chirpy, inoffensive and (sickeningly!) Never seems to age.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 09:59

Not a single thought for other mixed race people and their parents. She seems to believe not having filters is a minor thing.

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 09:59

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 09:58

I posted one upthread, there’s loads on x and fb too, just put their names together in google you’ll see straightaway

Thanks, I'm not on X or FB, but I'll look upthread.

Holidaymodeon · 04/09/2026 09:58

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 09:33

I haven't seen it, good point

I posted one upthread, there’s loads on x and fb too, just put their names together in google you’ll see straightaway

LuckyHazelFox · 04/09/2026 09:56

MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 04/09/2026 09:12

Ridiculous. Nothing on the BBC site, but they've got room for "Gromit was nearly a cat"? I can't believe how this is just being minimised.

Pound to a pinch of it's getting minimised because she's a leftie luvvie and Pro Palestine.

SulkingInTheCatio · 04/09/2026 09:56

Lomonald · 04/09/2026 09:46

So you thought a 50+ man had "got with" an 85 year old woman who so happens to be a lesbian and now you want to distract the thread with AP is he isn't he ?

🤷‍♀️

I didn’t know she was gay actually and I was pretty sure I’d read that AP was openly gay. Apologies if I got that wrong. Certainly didn’t want any speculation if he hasn’t said anything himself. It was more a light hearted comment in reference to the thread title with no context other than two names

GreyBeeplus3 · 04/09/2026 09:51

@JuRoo
If you think that was "polite conversation"
Then you probably have fond and insensitive memories of the 60s/70s/80s don't you?
I lived through those years in a multicultural area and let me tell you being seen "as other" even though I was born in the UK was no fun for the casual racism constantly encountered under the surface of most days....

Lomonald · 04/09/2026 09:46

SulkingInTheCatio · 04/09/2026 09:40

Saw the thread title and thought you were going to say they’d got it together. Which would have surprised me for numerous reasons not least because I think AP is gay isn’t he?

So you thought a 50+ man had "got with" an 85 year old woman who so happens to be a lesbian and now you want to distract the thread with AP is he isn't he ?

🤷‍♀️

SameBoatSally · 04/09/2026 09:45

JuRoo · 04/09/2026 09:15

She asked if he was mixed race in a pleasant, curious manner, he said he wasn’t & she said they call his colour tone ‘high yella’ in America. He laughed & seemed interested to hear that. A normal conversation, nothing rude said, just a question. She’s just herself, genuine, likeable.

There’s nothing likeable about this.

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