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AIBU to think the new sixth form outfit looks like something from "The Handmaid'sTale"

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joanjett · 03/09/2026 08:58

I am surprised the school did not add a cloak and a "chastity bonnet"

AIBU to think the new sixth form outfit looks like something from "The Handmaid'sTale"
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Pearlstillsinging · 03/09/2026 13:32

Sartre · 03/09/2026 09:13

It’s weird some sixth forms insist on uniform when colleges don’t. Surely a horrible uniform like that will drive girls out of the sixth form and into the freedom of college.

I would think that many 6th Firms like students to colleges where it is normal to wear their own clothes and be treated like the young adults that they are

SparkyBlue · 03/09/2026 13:28

My daughter has an almost ankle length skirt. They all love it and see it as a bit of a fashion statement.

dh280125 · 03/09/2026 13:21

That skirt is insane.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/09/2026 13:12

Rugby has long skirts. It’s the modesty trend!

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 03/09/2026 13:12

BCBird · 03/09/2026 13:08

The skirt is too long to.be practical- going upstairs etc

Yet thousands of private school pupils have with them for decades without tripping over or falling down stairs.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 03/09/2026 13:11

We wore ankle length skirts to school in the noughties as did a lot of private schools 🤷‍♀️ my old school still has them although sixth form can wear trousers if they want.

BCBird · 03/09/2026 13:09

Was glad we wore a uniform when I was at 6th form- cheaper and no need to worry about what to wear.

BCBird · 03/09/2026 13:08

The skirt is too long to.be practical- going upstairs etc

Federica1864 · 03/09/2026 13:03

I would hate to wear this. Totally impractical

FancyBlueNewt · 03/09/2026 12:59

At least they are allowed to wear skirts. Daughters school are making all the girls wear trousers! They were going to be light grey too till a lot of mums pointed out the problems with that if the girls have heavy periods, so they changed it to black.

GreenCa · 03/09/2026 12:55

This uniform is fine if there was an alternative choice e.g trousers or knee length skirt. This is totally impractical for everyday activities e.g. running for the bus, cycling etc. For centuries women were oppressed by the clothes they wore, in my opinion this is opressive.

theturtleswims · 03/09/2026 12:52

CornishGem1975 · 03/09/2026 11:44

Rugby School have had these long skirts for girls forever. They all seem to wear them quite happily.

They look great don't they! And yes, the girls do seem to like them. DD would have happily worn it had we been able to afford to send her there!

AIBU to think the new sixth form outfit looks like something from "The Handmaid'sTale"
CherryRipe1 · 03/09/2026 12:52

It's giving me Colonel Rosa Klebb, James Bond villain vibes but I quite like it!

8TinyToeBeans · 03/09/2026 12:50

I love it! But then I got told off in school for wearing an ankle length skirt, so I’d have loved it to be part of the uniform!

IAmInTheHouseSidney · 03/09/2026 12:49

joanjett · 03/09/2026 10:46

Its the "enforced modesty" that makes it "handsmaid's tale"

Long skirt option is not forced modesty. Why do people think long skirts are all about modesty? I grew up in place with no uniforms so I find them odd overal, but I can hand on heart say that I never liked skirts above knee, which seems to be standard here. Having long skirt option is not forced modesty. It's allowing preference. Not all of us young girls like shorter skirts.
Long skirts are bliss in summer.

billycat321 · 03/09/2026 12:41

And why do the majority of schools make girls wear ties?

KarcherK5 · 03/09/2026 12:41

EgregiouslyOverdressed · 03/09/2026 12:00

I've been critical of the OP and she is quite stunningly wrong about the uniform but she hasn't claimed that it's a girls' school as far as I can see.

You’re right, I don’t know why I thought she’d said that! Maybe another poster speculated that it was a religious school for girls and I thought op had said that.

ElBandito · 03/09/2026 12:39

If the girls are unhappy wearing it I'm sure a spoonful of sugar will sort them out.

Kiwi09 · 03/09/2026 12:39

Long skirts seem to be very popular at the local school even though short skirts and trousers are also an option.

The main problem with the uniform pictured is the grim colour choice and the poor cut of the blazer! A bit of colour would help.

Htcunya · 03/09/2026 12:26

DeftGoldHedgehog · 03/09/2026 12:07

Oh God, that is fucking hideous. Which school is it? Why do they need a uniform in sixth form?

When my school had a sixth form in the early 1990s the dress code was to wear black and white, which I think was chosen by the sixth formers themselves.

My sixth form college which got very good results had very little in the way of dress code, let alone uniform. I think it was something like no very short clothing, no ripped jeans (that one did get pushed against slightly), no cropped tops.

How did we get back to the Edwardian era? I mean if girls want to dress in long skirts, that's a nice look and one I certainly embraced in 1992 at sixth form. But not in shitty Teflon uniform fabric with matching blazer and a man's shirt and tie. Such default male shite imposed on girls, and even men hardly wear ties for work these days.

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I agree it's a ridiculous uniform but the normal uniform is a trouser suit. They can choose to wear that skirt as an alternative.
OP was factually wrong in insisting that the skirt was the only option and was extremely rude to a poster who pointed this out (post has been deleted).

Underconstruction · 03/09/2026 12:23

Rugby School has long skirts too - very odd. Always looks to me like they are once again changing the girls so the boys don't have to behave like decent humans.

AgathaDanbury · 03/09/2026 12:20

I quite like it, but I think the top half suggests a lack of imagination.

Why not go the whole hog and mandate an anachronistic hat and cloak?

NoticeTheFlame · 03/09/2026 12:10

CornishGem1975 · 03/09/2026 11:44

Rugby School have had these long skirts for girls forever. They all seem to wear them quite happily.

This is it. Some girls like it! Nobody is listening. The 16y old I know is a non-religious extrovert, swimming and tennis-loving confident young woman. She lives in tracksuit bottoms usually. She chose the long skirt over the trousers! She likes the look and the air wafting under her skirt. Not all girls hate this!

FloofyKat · 03/09/2026 12:07

Migalow · 03/09/2026 11:35

Or just do what 99% will do and buy their daughter a dark trousers suit of her free choice instead.

The skirt is only given as an alternative for those who don't want to wear a trouser suit. I expect it actually is for modesty - that they have had at least one girl in the past who was not even allowed to wear a trouser suit for modesty reasons, so they had to come up with something she could wear.

Didn’t know there was a trouser option. Thought OP said there wasn’t. And my comment still stand for short legged girls who prefer skirts!

DeftGoldHedgehog · 03/09/2026 12:07

Oh God, that is fucking hideous. Which school is it? Why do they need a uniform in sixth form?

When my school had a sixth form in the early 1990s the dress code was to wear black and white, which I think was chosen by the sixth formers themselves.

My sixth form college which got very good results had very little in the way of dress code, let alone uniform. I think it was something like no very short clothing, no ripped jeans (that one did get pushed against slightly), no cropped tops.

How did we get back to the Edwardian era? I mean if girls want to dress in long skirts, that's a nice look and one I certainly embraced in 1992 at sixth form. But not in shitty Teflon uniform fabric with matching blazer and a man's shirt and tie. Such default male shite imposed on girls, and even men hardly wear ties for work these days.

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