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AIBU to be so sick of tradespeople/ cleaners asking for cash in hand?

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Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:21

So my cleaner charges £21/hour cash, but just said she wants more if I pay by bank transfer, because bank transfer means she can’t dodge declaring it. As if paying by transfer (i.e. traceably) is some kind of favour/ privilege I should pay extra for.

Same with some work I got a quote for- it’s the attitude that if I don’t want to pay in cash, I’m the one ‘hurting’ their bank balance or being awkward.

I’m freelance B2B myself. No sick pay, no employer pension contributions, no paid holiday, I know exactly what it’s like to carry your own tax and NI. But I still pay tax on every invoice, because that’s the deal.

I’m so sick with the fact that self-employed people in one sector get to treat tax as optional while others pay for their healthcare, schools etc.

and yes, I’m getting a new cleaner.

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DrPrunesqualer · 04/09/2026 10:39

Friendlygingercat · 03/09/2026 12:12

what do these anti-tax people think the money for public services come from? NHS, education, social care etc - are they just so selfish that they're happy for the rest of us to pay for all that while they count their piles of money?

Yes its very selfish for people like me who are child free to be paying for your subs and handouts and facilities for your kids - facilities which we do not want and cannot use. 22% of my council tax goes on children's services and I begrudge every penny of it.

Yet those children will be paying taxes to keep the country going when you need services like the nhs etc and are not paying in

TallSturdyGirls · 04/09/2026 10:39

ilovesooty · 03/09/2026 06:53

I'm self employed. I don't take cash.

I agree with you. I won't use businesses that do this.

Im self employed and do take some cash but declare it. Such a goodie two shoes.

GasPanic · 04/09/2026 10:38

justasking111 · 04/09/2026 08:18

The government have advised us to stock up on water, tinned food, torches, candles, CASH etc because of whatever they're anticipating this winter. Cash maybe very useful in the near future.

Cash is largely useless in an apocalyptic scenario.

It may have some uses if the banking system goes down for a few days.

But that in itself will probably lead to an apocalyptic scenario quite quickly.

Badbadbunny · 04/09/2026 10:34

Pinkju · 04/09/2026 09:37

Taxation is theft

I assume you're happy to opt out of the NHS and state pension and pay for private health insurance and private pensions then? Happy to not use the road or public transport networks? Happy for Russia to bomb us if we have no defence?

Badbadbunny · 04/09/2026 10:33

Bolon · 04/09/2026 08:26

We need to do what other eu countries do and drop the VAT threshold to about £10k. This would exclude those who have a little hobby while including every business whatever the size. Then there’s no worry about you being VAT registered and a rival but.

And watch as inflation rises when everything bought from small traders goes up by 20%. Nice!

ImogenBrocklehurst · 04/09/2026 09:52

Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:47

Didn’t expect such a unanimous agreement- although the poll shows a few ‘cashiers’ have voted!

I had one guy say ‘do you mind paying it in cash as I’m on the VAT threshold and don’t want to have to register’ which means he had an income of £90k per year for a man and van business.

That turnover, not income.

MrsCillian · 04/09/2026 09:52

Can i just give the other side to this. My DH is a tradesman, prefers bank transfer. What are we supposed to do with cash that we can't put into the bank? Most shopping is online now etc. Anyway, the amount of customers who ask him for a cash price is getting more and more! It's often the customer who wants to save paying the VAT and asks to pay cash. It's of no benefit to us at all and is an inconvenience. He has lost work because he doesn't want someone to pay him £10,000 in cash!

ButtercupYellow26 · 04/09/2026 09:48

MoltenLasagne · 03/09/2026 06:26

Nope, I hate it and use it as a barometer for whether I hire someone or not. I don't want to be contributing to the problem.

You sound very judgemental. You shouldn't really be judging anyone for anything and hate is a very strong word.
Do you identify as God?

Beepen · 04/09/2026 09:39

Bolon · 04/09/2026 09:34

This just shows the rift in morals between people. Each and every person needs to report tax dodgers every time. It’s are moral duty to do so. Do you know why the Greeks had an IMF bail out? It had far too many people dodging tax and people turning a blind eye to it. Taxes pay public services for everyone. You’d do well to remember that. ‘Grass’! Are you twelve???

Exactly. And if I can work through chronic illness and disability and pay my taxes then I expect others to pay their taxes too

Beepen · 04/09/2026 09:37

LauritaEvita · 04/09/2026 09:27

This is such a snobby thread that I cannot relate to at all. The people gleefully saying that they report people who’ve they’ve asked for a quote to HMRC are repulsive and alien to me. What a load of grasses.

Really? Where's the snobbery in protecting people like me - a single mum who often went hungry while my ex earnt a fortune cash in hand?

Pinkju · 04/09/2026 09:37

Taxation is theft

Bolon · 04/09/2026 09:34

LauritaEvita · 04/09/2026 09:27

This is such a snobby thread that I cannot relate to at all. The people gleefully saying that they report people who’ve they’ve asked for a quote to HMRC are repulsive and alien to me. What a load of grasses.

This just shows the rift in morals between people. Each and every person needs to report tax dodgers every time. It’s are moral duty to do so. Do you know why the Greeks had an IMF bail out? It had far too many people dodging tax and people turning a blind eye to it. Taxes pay public services for everyone. You’d do well to remember that. ‘Grass’! Are you twelve???

LauritaEvita · 04/09/2026 09:27

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2026 20:51

I think that’s shows a complete lack of understanding what life is like for some people. Before I moved from the UK I did a chunk of volunteering for an organisation that provided support to some of the poorest in society who’d got into the most terrible financial messes, in many cases as a result a combination of circumstances behind their control. These were people who ended up owing credit companies, utility companies, banks what would be seen as small amounts of money to many of us, but insurmountably large when your current account is almost always in an unauthorised overdraft, who have debt collectors knocking at the door, attachment of earnings or benefits orders and so on. Any money sent to their bank account gets swallowed by the usurious bank charges that rack up when you’re almost always in an unauthorised overdraft. For them, being paid in cash is what let them buy food for their children, put some credit on their prepaid electricity meter, buy a bus ticket. They are people who can’t just tap and pay, because their card won’t be authorised. And there are a y many of them on the fringes of society. It’s easy to take for granted that a quick trip to M&S and a quick tap of your phone will result in some food. Not so easy when your races are frozen/maxed out. So I don’t judge those cleaners, odd job people or whatever who prefer cash because life is tough at the bottom. Of course, paying for a new roof in cash is at the other end of the spectrum, and is clearly the black economy.

Having said that, I don’t think HMRC are overly bothered about small fry like that, even the roofers. When I called my bank to get £5k in cash as a slush fund in case I had problems opening an account overseas, Barclays just told me to go the ATM inside the bank, where I could take out £2k at a time without bothering them!

This is such a snobby thread that I cannot relate to at all. The people gleefully saying that they report people who’ve they’ve asked for a quote to HMRC are repulsive and alien to me. What a load of grasses.

Bolon · 04/09/2026 08:26

Badbadbunny · 03/09/2026 23:45

Nail on the head. I’ve loads of clients working fewer hours or opening fewer days to avoid breaching the £90k threshold. It’s definitely holding back small business growth and employment.

We need to do what other eu countries do and drop the VAT threshold to about £10k. This would exclude those who have a little hobby while including every business whatever the size. Then there’s no worry about you being VAT registered and a rival but.

justasking111 · 04/09/2026 08:18

The government have advised us to stock up on water, tinned food, torches, candles, CASH etc because of whatever they're anticipating this winter. Cash maybe very useful in the near future.

Vulturesoverhead · 04/09/2026 08:18

Footloosenotfancy · 04/09/2026 07:43

It's MN and the over privileged. It's fairly common here to see people putting money into pensions to avoid penalties when their salaries top £100k and other dodges, it's good financial planning apparently. But they are so keen to stiff the people who are cleaning their toilets. It disgusts me.
We need cash for many reasons. Banks already have too much control, they've withdrawn services from so many towns across the country. My elderly parents struggle badly with this and now use cash as much as possible. My sister's small business was crippled when her bank froze her account, she had done nothing wrong, she takes as much cash as possible now and yes, she pays her taxes.

Dodges? Perfectly legitimate financial planning. Bloody hell I’ve read it all now.

Iheartpasta · 04/09/2026 08:01

PigglyWiggle · 04/09/2026 07:05

So how did you pay them

Bank transfer in instalments as the work was completed

Footloosenotfancy · 04/09/2026 07:43

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 08:35

Do you really want to live in a society without cash? What becomes of the millions of people who do not have (and cannot open) bank accounts? Or those who do, but are debanked (not as rare as you’d think). How would the homeless manage? Do you want a society where you are forced to entrust all of your money to third parties (are banks always safe? - imagine not having a bit of cash for emergencies). What if you were in a financially controlling relationship and cash was the only way to protect your money? What happens when the banking system goes down - it happens and people don’t fully realise how vulnerable that system is. This is before we even get on to the question of freedoms and the state’s right to track absolutely everything you do. Honestly, there are so many reasons that cash is important and it’s crazy that some people would so willingly give it up.

It's MN and the over privileged. It's fairly common here to see people putting money into pensions to avoid penalties when their salaries top £100k and other dodges, it's good financial planning apparently. But they are so keen to stiff the people who are cleaning their toilets. It disgusts me.
We need cash for many reasons. Banks already have too much control, they've withdrawn services from so many towns across the country. My elderly parents struggle badly with this and now use cash as much as possible. My sister's small business was crippled when her bank froze her account, she had done nothing wrong, she takes as much cash as possible now and yes, she pays her taxes.

PigglyWiggle · 04/09/2026 07:05

Iheartpasta · 03/09/2026 07:26

Registering for vat is a whole world of complication for the business owner, so I can see why people try to avoid that. Having said that, we had workmen do our extension and wanted us to pay cash. £45k in cash?!?! First of all, no. I work for the nhs and that’s just wrong in so many ways. Second, how the hell am I going to take £45k out of the bank without triggering some sort of investigation. Dodgy AF. We still went with them though as they gave the best price and even the building inspector admired their work when he checked it all off.

So how did you pay them

Vulturesoverhead · 04/09/2026 06:34

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 21:25

I’m very sorry to hear that. Lawyering at HMRC is the absolute arse end of even the in-house spectrum. Just desperate.

Oh sooo funny. Cash only I assume.

Palomiino · 04/09/2026 05:12

Pinkju · 03/09/2026 21:42

It's their money. Why should anyone have to ask to withdraw their own money?

Money laundering.

Badbadbunny · 03/09/2026 23:45

Tryingtokeepgoing · 03/09/2026 20:35

I think you misunderstand me. I’m not saying that they should be avoiding VAT, I’m just setting out one of the (many) reasons why it happens, and the key difference between turnover (which is the trigger for VAT) and income, which is what’s taxed. These business are of course still paying, or are required to pay, tax even if they’re not VAT registered, either as a limited company and via payroll/dividend tax, or as a self employed sole trader. Your employer is perfectly at liberty to pay for your professional fees, training and equipment. If they don’t then I don’t see why it should be a race to the bottom by not letting anyone deduct perfectly reasonable expenses from their taxable income. If you need a vehicle for your job they can also provide that. And of course you, as the tradesman is required to do, will pay tax on the benefit in kind :)

The simple fact is that the UK tax system, which is one of the longest and most complex in the world, actively discourages business, especially small business and especially growth. It creates disincentives for the employed to not earn between £100k and £150kish, for a small business to grow beyond the VAT threshold, for anyone to hire employees, for anyone to invest because of constantly changing rules. And then complains there’s no growth in the economy and the consequent doom spiral of stagnant wages, rising taxes and increased borrowing, leaving ever worsening public public services and a dissatisfied electorate :)

Nail on the head. I’ve loads of clients working fewer hours or opening fewer days to avoid breaching the £90k threshold. It’s definitely holding back small business growth and employment.

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 03/09/2026 22:11

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 21:34

I think most of the people on this thread are commenting from a place of privilege where they just have absolutely zero understanding of the situation faced by people in poverty.

What was described wasnt people in poverty... It was people in debt.

It was describing people wanting cash as a means of avoiding payments being taken towards their various debts.

There are lots of people living in poverty and on tight budgets still perfectly able to use their bank card when they have just been paid into their account, not everyone has debts they are trying to avoid paying.

notnorman · 03/09/2026 22:07

You guys don’t want to live in Spain then!!!
The government can help itself out of your bank account … so gardeners/tradies- all want cash.

Pinkju · 03/09/2026 22:05

I'd avoid tax if I could