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AIBU to be so sick of tradespeople/ cleaners asking for cash in hand?

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Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:21

So my cleaner charges £21/hour cash, but just said she wants more if I pay by bank transfer, because bank transfer means she can’t dodge declaring it. As if paying by transfer (i.e. traceably) is some kind of favour/ privilege I should pay extra for.

Same with some work I got a quote for- it’s the attitude that if I don’t want to pay in cash, I’m the one ‘hurting’ their bank balance or being awkward.

I’m freelance B2B myself. No sick pay, no employer pension contributions, no paid holiday, I know exactly what it’s like to carry your own tax and NI. But I still pay tax on every invoice, because that’s the deal.

I’m so sick with the fact that self-employed people in one sector get to treat tax as optional while others pay for their healthcare, schools etc.

and yes, I’m getting a new cleaner.

OP posts:
HeneralClux · 03/09/2026 08:17

NotAllSunFlowers · 03/09/2026 06:59

VAT threshold is done on turnover. Not profit.

example being builder on a job that pays 80k could have 45k of materials to buy. And be making 35k income/profit. Once they got over 90k turnover they need to pay /charge VAT so like to keep under the threshold so not to price themselves out of jobs by needing to add 20% to the bill.

asking for cash doesn't mean someone's not paying tax. I can mean they can pay for materials in cash, or pay another trade in cash. I wouldn't just to the conclusion that they aren't paying tax.

Yes, this. While OPs cleaner does sound like a benefit fraud/tax avoidance, there are reasons other than tax avoidance why a sole trader/small business might prefer cash. Card transactions cost a small business 2% upwards per transaction and thats alot to loose. I am a sole trader and I don't have a card machine so its either bank transfer, paypal at over 2%, or cash. I don't like my customers being all "nudge nudge, wink wink" with me because they are giving me cash, and I declare it all. The price remains the same too!

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 08:17

JustTryingToBeMe · 03/09/2026 08:13

Can the (currently) 20% explain why it’s okay to dodge paying tax and NI?

Can you justify why you automatically assume cash payment is a tax dodge? Lots of people seem to think this even when the price is the same! How or when did using cash become such a dirty thing? It’s bonkers.

Kingfisherfan65 · 03/09/2026 08:17

AuburnBatFlight · 03/09/2026 07:08

Same here. I’ve never had anyone ask for cash. It would fuck up all our insurances for a start.

In what way? Cash is legal tender. As long as there is a record of it (invoice) how would it affect your insurance?

Iocanepowder · 03/09/2026 08:16

GreenSedan · 03/09/2026 08:06

I know this isn't the point of the thread, but £21/hour? That's loads!

I’m in the South East and we pay £20. It’s fairly standard I believe.

flowertoday · 03/09/2026 08:15

For me it depends- £20 in cash to the window cleaner is very different to £200 or even £2000 in cash to a tradesman.

I have sympathy for tradespeople though , and people should remember that the majority of tax not being paid is by huge multi billion revenue companies, not your local plasterer / cleaner. What really annoys me is this state sanctioned tax evasion.

Iloveeverycat · 03/09/2026 08:15

Opheliamay · 03/09/2026 07:51

A self employed cleaner has absolutely no need for a business bank account. They just use a separate personal account. I’ve been a self employed sole trader for decades and I’ve never needed a business bank account.

This, I am a sole trader and never had business account. I don't even think you need a separate personal account if you keep all the records you need.

CrispySquid · 03/09/2026 08:14

JuliettaCaeser · 03/09/2026 08:07

I had a builder client he was paying me for my service and wanted to pay cash in hand to avoid VAT. Err no. He had several adult kids all on benefits. No wonder the economy is stuffed.

Exactly. It's not just tax avoidance and child maintenance avoidance but also by keeping their claimed income as artificially low, a lot of people can claim benefits they otherwise wouldn't be entitled to.

A lot of people here are also deliberately conflating your local lovely fish n' chips shop preferring cash over card to avoid the card transaction fee on each order for a card payment (happy to give cash over in this situation if I have it) with seasoned tradesmen asking for cash for very large amounts. Above all else, paying by card or bank transfer gives you paper trails, rights to raise disputes or claim back costs for undelivered goods or services.

JustTryingToBeMe · 03/09/2026 08:13

Can the (currently) 20% explain why it’s okay to dodge paying tax and NI?

GoldTie · 03/09/2026 08:12

Years ago I had a builder suggest I pay £25k in cash for a loft conversion, I can’t remember what discount he was suggesting. I said yes because I was a bit bewildered and naive. Later thankfully said no as realised he was a lunatic and his business website was using photographs from other companies. I’ll give cash if requested for smaller jobs, it’s up to them to sort out their morals around tax.

FirmSnake · 03/09/2026 08:11

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 08:00

Be very careful what you wish for!

Why?

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 08:10

Savoury · 03/09/2026 08:06

Pretty agist comments and entirely untrue in my experience. The older people I know take a dim view of tax evasion but so do those impacted by loss of childcare assistance or by scamming ex partners who don’t pay enough maintenance.

Edited

The older people I know take a very positive view of using cash.

Friendlygingercat · 03/09/2026 08:08

Many people have a side hustle and see their taxes being wasted on perks for corrupt MPs, vanity projects, overseas aid and asylum seekers. It salves their conscience to withhold part of their income from sucking off the tax man. The days of a welfare state funded by taxing labour are numbered anyway, although I doubt I will see the end in my lifetime. We have an ageing population (who have more than paid their share) a falling birth rate, and a generation of young people who cannot find work (thanks Rachel from Accounts) Therefore an ever diminishing tax base. The system cannot be fixed with the tools we currently have at hand.

Weeellokthen · 03/09/2026 08:08

HenriettaHippopotamus · 03/09/2026 06:42

I agree and try to avoid it. My partner is even more so a believer than me and avoids take away that don’t accept cards which is annoying as there are some nice places we miss out on. He works for HMRC so I guess he’s in the right job.

Chinese takeaways near me do not take card payments so I avoid those as well. It's so obviously a tax dodge.

JuliettaCaeser · 03/09/2026 08:07

I had a builder client he was paying me for my service and wanted to pay cash in hand to avoid VAT. Err no. He had several adult kids all on benefits. No wonder the economy is stuffed.

Annoyedbyhusband · 03/09/2026 08:07

I have put that you are unreasonable. Because many trades do take bank transfer and you are obviously going for cheaper rates, find reputable firms and pay the correct rates for the work. The ball is in your court to ask at the first phone call if they take bank transfers as that’s how you want to pay. Then they will give you the relevant rate for that work including their margins for tax, insurance etc.

MyOtherProfile · 03/09/2026 08:06

Plinketyplonks · 03/09/2026 06:31

Yes, we uncovered loads of problems with our walls (old house) during decoration and urgently needed a plasterer. Decorator recommended one who might squeeze us in. He came round to quote - £1800 if cash in hand, £2,200 if bank transfer. Why should he get away with not paying tax? 😡

Edited

So you are then paying his tax plus extras? Nice work if he can get it!

GreenSedan · 03/09/2026 08:06

I know this isn't the point of the thread, but £21/hour? That's loads!

Savoury · 03/09/2026 08:06

Sc0tlandbye · 03/09/2026 08:03

Yeah i had a relative who used to have a massive bee in his bonnet about this re self employed having it easy and avoiding tax.
I used to think "then why didnt you go self employed instead of sitting in your cushy academia job for which you were under qualified for 30 years you lazy fuck"!
Its normally entitled salaried boomers who have an issue with this

Pretty agist comments and entirely untrue in my experience. The older people I know take a dim view of tax evasion but so do those impacted by loss of childcare assistance or by scamming ex partners who don’t pay enough maintenance.

overnightangel · 03/09/2026 08:04

It’s up to the tradesperson to accommodate the customer. If you want me to pay cash so you can not declare it that’s your business how you submit your SA return, but you’ll have to incentivise it for me for my inconvenience by taking off some of the 20% you’ll save on tax as it’s easiest for me to pay by bank transfer.

Sc0tlandbye · 03/09/2026 08:04

Its swings and roundabouts though because these people might get away with paying less tax but then find themselves unable to get a decent mortgage

cumbrians · 03/09/2026 08:04

Dontjumptoconclusions · 03/09/2026 07:30

No because the VAT was more like £350

But £200 off is still less, not more?

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 08:04

I know someone who prefers to be paid cash because she is in a financially controlling relationship. I know another who struggles with budgeting/spending and finds it easier with cash. Many older people prefer cash. The list goes on and on.

Sc0tlandbye · 03/09/2026 08:03

Yeah i had a relative who used to have a massive bee in his bonnet about this re self employed having it easy and avoiding tax.
I used to think "then why didnt you go self employed instead of sitting in your cushy academia job for which you were under qualified for 30 years you lazy fuck"!
Its normally entitled salaried boomers who have an issue with this

Savoury · 03/09/2026 08:03

I agree with you OP entirely.

People’s willingness to be complicit in tax evasion also fuels illegal immigration, be that a cheap building job, cleaning or nails. We make the UK more attractive because there’s plenty of work at an unrealistically low price.

I also don’t think people realise there’s no comeback if there is a problem either. An acquaintance’s nanny stole from the family and because it was all “cash in hand”, they didn’t feel able to report it or chase it too hard. All their childcare was fully legit after that.

comeoncolleen · 03/09/2026 08:01

You can avoid the people who ask for this or else pay the whole amount by bank transfer. Or shop them to HMRC if you want- I never have. I hate it too.

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