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AIBU to be so sick of tradespeople/ cleaners asking for cash in hand?

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Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:21

So my cleaner charges £21/hour cash, but just said she wants more if I pay by bank transfer, because bank transfer means she can’t dodge declaring it. As if paying by transfer (i.e. traceably) is some kind of favour/ privilege I should pay extra for.

Same with some work I got a quote for- it’s the attitude that if I don’t want to pay in cash, I’m the one ‘hurting’ their bank balance or being awkward.

I’m freelance B2B myself. No sick pay, no employer pension contributions, no paid holiday, I know exactly what it’s like to carry your own tax and NI. But I still pay tax on every invoice, because that’s the deal.

I’m so sick with the fact that self-employed people in one sector get to treat tax as optional while others pay for their healthcare, schools etc.

and yes, I’m getting a new cleaner.

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bafta16 · 03/09/2026 09:34

I don't care. I have ( to the best of my knowledge) never cheated the system. Paid into, still paying in. If somebody will do a job I don't care if they want cash.

There are much bigger crooks out there.

ilovesooty · 03/09/2026 09:33

MellowSubmarine · 03/09/2026 07:51

Yes, how many threads are there on here from women with an ex who won’t pay anything for his own child(ren), and where CMS can’t help because his income is technically small/non existent.

I reported someone on Next Door who openly said he was looking for cash in hand work to avoid paying child maintenance.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 09:32

OfficiallyOnVacation · 03/09/2026 09:31

That’s a GREAT point

And women who do it to protect themselves in financially controlling relationships.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 03/09/2026 09:32

CarrieOakie · 03/09/2026 07:06

I've heard people make the arguement that they don't use public services at all so don't see why they should pay tax

anyone would be hard pressed not to use pavements, street lights, roads, or rubbish collections

Edited

I get particularly exorcised by this argument... I was in ED with elderly relative .... A tradie bloke in next cubicle was whinging that a customer was insisting on not paying him in cash... And how it was 'a liberty' 😱🙄

As he was having active treatment and about to go for surgery in an NHS hospital for a badly broken leg... ... 😱

OfficiallyOnVacation · 03/09/2026 09:31

Sartre · 03/09/2026 06:49

Let’s not also forget the many men who do it to dodge child maintenance… It’s dodgy, you’re right.

That’s a GREAT point

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 09:29

And again, there are many, many legitimate reasons to ask for cash. Asking for cash does not mean a business is avoiding tax.

ilovesooty · 03/09/2026 09:29

Ineffable23 · 03/09/2026 07:39

Starling bank has no fees (except for cash deposits!) and no charges for transactions in or out:

https://www.starlingbank.com/business-account/

I assume you'd have to set up a card machine separately though, so there may be other options that are easier if that's your major transaction source.

My clients pay me by bank transfer into my Starling business account.

Dragonscaledaisy · 03/09/2026 09:29

Hellohelga · 03/09/2026 09:12

Report them to HMRC then.

I assume many people do given the number that are under investigation.

justasking111 · 03/09/2026 09:29

My hairdressers won't take cards but she's such a good cutter with my wavy hair. My cleaner who's brilliant will only take cash.

I do think that the vat threshold should be raised.

AnnesPuffedSleeves · 03/09/2026 09:29

There are so many people dodging tax like this: builders, plumbers, hairdressers, nail techs, private tutors etc etc etc. It infuriates me that these people will be happy to complain about the NHS or schools but don’t pay the tax they should that contributes to these this. Whenever there is a discussion about raising taxes, it always focuses on big companies and the wealthy (which is important) but ignores all the every day folk paying next to no tax and earning what are often very good salaries (in the case of trades).

Samewrinklesnewname · 03/09/2026 09:29

I’m happy to pay probably up to a couple of thousand in cash-what they do with it is between them and their accountant

DustyMaiden · 03/09/2026 09:28

I agree 100%. I recently moved house the removal company wanted cash, several thousand pounds. I said no and went somewhere else and paid more. They thought I was crazy. I’m sure if everyone paid their tax there would be enough in the government’s purse.

Monty36 · 03/09/2026 09:25

The issue happens when it becomes so prolific that it impacts on the money available from central government to give out to prop up society.
Less money equals less for us as a society. Anything from schools, roads, hospitals, benefits, you name it. Society relies on taxes being paid to function.

BermudaRhombus · 03/09/2026 09:24

Vulturesoverhead · 03/09/2026 09:21

People think it’s the rich dodging tax, but I can tell you it’s THIS behaviour that creates the black economy. I refuse to pay cash, ever.

That is so bizarre. Cash is a completely normal form of payment for goods and services. How on earth have we ended up like this?! There are numerous legitimate reasons why some businesses prefer cash payment - just read some of the posts on this thread.

Pushmepullu · 03/09/2026 09:24

We Had to take a builder to court when work he carried out was defective. We would have had a hard job proving that we had paid him had we not transferred money to him. Although we gave him some in cash, we had a trail, either email or text msgs, so he couldn’t deny it.

Topseyt123 · 03/09/2026 09:23

I pay my window cleaners in cash and will continue to do so. They do a great job and can reach all the areas I can't.

That's all I want and I am not going to preach at them about the morals of it all.

Most other tradespeople doing bigger jobs want bank transfers, so that's what they get.

In the end, I just want someone able and willing to do a proper job and to me that is all that matters. I am widowed and my income is modest. If paying cash allows me a couple of hundred pounds off here and there then I'll take that provided I can be confident of the job being done to a good standard.

Monty36 · 03/09/2026 09:23

Even hairdressers are self employed these days. Years ago they never used to be.

Vulturesoverhead · 03/09/2026 09:22

UnpopularOpinionsIWouldUsuallyKeepToMyself · 03/09/2026 09:18

Absolutely.
I have had a few largish gardening jobs done by a local company. The first two times they asked to be paid, cash, 50% halfway through and 50% on the final day. I didn’t assume VAT dodging, I hadn’t been given two quote, and I did get an invoice. The next time they did a job I was told bank transfer for payment at the end of the job please. The guy didn’t mind telling me it was because he now knew I was a good payer and wasn’t going to scam him like so many people do today. Only yesterday a builder I use often told me he’d had his first ever non payer, but it was a lot of money. Told him to consider asking for cash instalments with new clients. Not every tradesman asking for cash is a scammer, sometimes they’re trying to avoid being scammed themselves.

People can stand on their doorstep and make a bank transfer. I think it’s a good cover for potential abuse.

venus7 · 03/09/2026 09:22

Endlesspasswords · 03/09/2026 06:47

Didn’t expect such a unanimous agreement- although the poll shows a few ‘cashiers’ have voted!

I had one guy say ‘do you mind paying it in cash as I’m on the VAT threshold and don’t want to have to register’ which means he had an income of £90k per year for a man and van business.

Not income of £90,000; turnover.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 03/09/2026 09:21

NotAllSunFlowers · 03/09/2026 06:59

VAT threshold is done on turnover. Not profit.

example being builder on a job that pays 80k could have 45k of materials to buy. And be making 35k income/profit. Once they got over 90k turnover they need to pay /charge VAT so like to keep under the threshold so not to price themselves out of jobs by needing to add 20% to the bill.

asking for cash doesn't mean someone's not paying tax. I can mean they can pay for materials in cash, or pay another trade in cash. I wouldn't just to the conclusion that they aren't paying tax.

All these people needing to be paid in cash, why? Surely the only reason for people to be paid in cash is that they're avoiding something:

  • tax
  • national insurance
  • being VAT registered
  • paying for their children

I won't be part of it to help them dodge their responsibilities...

Vulturesoverhead · 03/09/2026 09:21

People think it’s the rich dodging tax, but I can tell you it’s THIS behaviour that creates the black economy. I refuse to pay cash, ever.

Mistachio · 03/09/2026 09:20

Our local Chinese is strictly cash only. They must make a fortune (cookie).

UnpopularOpinionsIWouldUsuallyKeepToMyself · 03/09/2026 09:18

Lobelia123 · 03/09/2026 08:54

To play devils advocate . . . it may also be a way your cleaner ensures she is paid upfront and timeously and doesnt have t go through the song and dance of 'Ill transfer tonight' . . . 'I transferred yesterday, it will take a couple of days to reflect' etc etc while she is the last on the list of priorities for clients. My cleaner said exactly this, that she likes to walk in, see the envelope on the kitchen counter and know she isnt going to have to chase for proof of payment and keep an eagle eye on her bank account to monitor that that electronic payment is in fact paid....a lot of people use it as an opportunity for 'extension of credit'.

Absolutely.
I have had a few largish gardening jobs done by a local company. The first two times they asked to be paid, cash, 50% halfway through and 50% on the final day. I didn’t assume VAT dodging, I hadn’t been given two quote, and I did get an invoice. The next time they did a job I was told bank transfer for payment at the end of the job please. The guy didn’t mind telling me it was because he now knew I was a good payer and wasn’t going to scam him like so many people do today. Only yesterday a builder I use often told me he’d had his first ever non payer, but it was a lot of money. Told him to consider asking for cash instalments with new clients. Not every tradesman asking for cash is a scammer, sometimes they’re trying to avoid being scammed themselves.

WinterGold · 03/09/2026 09:18

CarrieOakie · 03/09/2026 06:57

Try finding a nail bar that accepts anything but cash, there are thousands of them up and don’t the country. They avoid income tax and business rates

thousands of people getting their nails done & they must realise what’s happening?

Yep. We have one in my town exactly the same. I used it once, but won’t again on principle because I strongly suspect the place might be some sort of cover for an illegal set up. The employees all looked exhausted, had their young children with them, weren’t wearing masks when using the electric files to work on gels nor disposable gloves doing pedicures.

The whole set up had a very temporary air about it and again, because it was cash only, everyone is untraceable and presumably have no contracts, employee rights or safety protection.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 03/09/2026 09:17

Hellohelga · 03/09/2026 09:12

Report them to HMRC then.

Yes... and with a lot of nail bars, not paying tax may only be the tip of the iceberg of what the authorities need to investigate them for.