Basically it’s in the title, he won’t come to bed at reasonable time like every other human. He works standard office hours, 6 days a week so no shift work. He is often awake until 1/2am watching tv, films, on his phone, goodness knows what else. I’m often exhausted from working full time & in full blown menopause since I was 36 so often in bed between 10pm-11pm sometimes earlier. I struggle with sleep massively due to menopause he knows this. Every night he disturbs me coming to bed, I hear him locking everything up, flushing toilet, banging around, frequently he will leave our kitchen window open for our cats to come in & out of so is then calling out of it to get them to come in. He sometimes falls asleep on the sofa leaving everything open for someone to easily break in putting me & my children at risk. I’ve spoken to him but he does nothing to change! AIBU that he should come to bed earlier?!