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AIBU to charge loads for after-school childcare and evening care?

39 replies

bookmarkymarky · 02/09/2026 22:23

I am an occasional babysitter and day time childcarer.

I get asked at least 3 x per week if I can collect children from school and look after them until parents home from work. I could fill the slot 100 times over.....

(During that time cook and feed them their tea, do their homework or reading with them, make them get ready for bed - generally what when my own children were very young would often turn into the witching hour with very tired little people needing rest and quiet .)

....I have always said no, because it breaks the day up into a very short and inconvenient shift and it normally at between £12 and £15ph.

People seem desperate. WIBU to charge quite a lot for doing this shift for one family - £20 to £25ph? More?

I truly wonder what some people would pay, and what they do end up paying with other options?

OP posts:
Theheatishot · 02/09/2026 23:28

I earn £180 to care for 2 secondary school age children.
They are independent, but need an adult in the house overnight.
6pm - 8.30am
i have dinner with them, chat to them, go to bed at night and check they are ok/have everything for school. They make their own packed lunch and breakfast.
It’s a delightful little job.

Tiptopflipflop · 02/09/2026 23:27

I'd happily pay that for a kind nurturing person to pick my child up from school and care for them at home. Just wish I could find someone!

Sartre · 02/09/2026 23:22

Charge as you feel fits the market, what do others charge for this service? I’d expect to pay £25ish per hour for it. I currently pay £6 per child for afterschool club as it stands and feel this is a bargain but if someone sorted their tea and got them ready for bed too? Definitely 100% would pay the £50-75

bababamama · 02/09/2026 23:21

A flat rate for 3-7pm even if they don’t need the whole slot makes sense because you can’t get a second job if it ends at 5pm. I would price at the higher end and see what happens

AllIneedAreMyFamilyandDogs · 02/09/2026 23:17

You can charge whatever you want and see where the market is. I would only consider this sort of thing if it seemed worthwhile to me, so YABU.

Stompythedinosaur · 02/09/2026 22:57

Seems reasonable to me!

BlueKangaroo2 · 02/09/2026 22:55

I do similar for a local family a couple of days a week and charge the equivalent of 18pounds an hour for after school, likely to increase at the end of the year. I mainly do after school and holiday care, and have a day rate for the holidays. Occasionally they ask for before school and I have a minimum charge of 2 hours, though they usually only need 45mins or so. Just set out your terms and they can accept them or not.

PurpleThistle7 · 02/09/2026 22:45

I see no reason not to test the market if you’re being asked that often. Everything is worth what someone will pay! What would make it worthwhile to you? £100? More?

maggisimpson · 02/09/2026 22:34

Where are you based? £20ph is pretty typical for a nanny in London.

A childminder can easily be £7 an hour per child so if they have three kids then £20-25ph to get all the benefits of someone at home, doing cooking and homework etc is a bargain.

CrispySquid · 02/09/2026 22:33

Market forces. Exactly. Your time is worth what the market deems its worth. Go as high as you can go without attrition in demand. I did this with tuition. I first started out offering £25 an hour for physics, biology or chemistry tuition, had so much business and requests that I realised I could very easily double my price. Whenever I increased my prices, I did it for new customers but kept my existing customers on the original lower rate or at the very least gave them a large amount of notice that I was increasing my prices.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 02/09/2026 22:32

You might like it when you are earning a days wage in 3 hours. So it seems like a good thing to try. (I am biased though, because I couldn’t have done without this type of childcare).

Shinyandnew1 · 02/09/2026 22:31

I’m surprised people are still asking three times a week even if you’re saying no! What are all the people who you say no to, doing instead? Or is it the same three asking every week 😂

I’d say £30 an hour and see what happens.

ManyATrueWord · 02/09/2026 22:28

It's market forces. If someone is earning £50 an hour why shouldn't it they pay you to enable them to work more? Especially at short notice.

Bleppington · 02/09/2026 22:27

I think it's fine.

Decide on a sum of money that makes doing the inconvenient hours worth it to you.

Tell everyone who asks that this is the price.

See what happens...I bet someone will pay it.