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Is this unprofessional?

257 replies

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:11

Job interview for 12pm

10 candidates all booked in for 12pm being seen individually by one person.

So whoever is here last will presumably be interviewed an hour later than booked.

OP posts:
Bigcat25 · 02/09/2026 14:44

Good for you op! Please update us if they reply. What an ass.

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:43

Teuchterlass · 02/09/2026 14:41

Is it in Cheshire by any chance?

No, it was East Sussex. Can there be two places this unprofessional?!

OP posts:
Teuchterlass · 02/09/2026 14:41

Is it in Cheshire by any chance?

PrettyPickle · 02/09/2026 14:39

The only time that has happened to me in my very long career, is when the recruitment has required several screenings, so you are prewarned about elimination round sif you like. The first "interview" you are all invited at the same time to undertake some type of test. Those selected from that go through to the next round where you may need to do an exercise and then the final candidates still standing get interviewed 1:1.

I have only ever experience the above for senior roles or mass recruitment, i.e a new call centre opening and the want 20 people.

What you’re describing isn’t a normal interview process at al, it’s either a badly organised mass‑recruitment day or a screening exercise where they haven’t bothered to explain the format. In a standard professional setting, you’re given an individual time slot and seen at that time. If ten people are all told “12pm” and one interviewer is working through them one by one, that’s just poor planning.

Turning up to a mystery cattle‑call with no structure is disrespectful to people who’ve taken time off work or rearranged childcare. As for the trackies and trainers, that usually signals people attending because they’re required to by the benefits system, not because they’re genuinely trying to secure the job. If I’d taken annual leave for something run this chaotically, I’d walk too - it tells you everything you need to know about how the organisation operates.

TheWeeDonkeyFella · 02/09/2026 14:39

That's infuriating OP. What a disgusting way to treat hopeful applicants.

I hope a decent opportunity, with a sensible recruitment process, comes up soon.

40andwingingit · 02/09/2026 14:38

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:35

Rightly or wrongly, I have sent the below…

Hi B***,

I was unfortunately unable to interview today due to the lack of professionalism shown by the company.

I arrived first out of the 10 plus candidates that were booked for interviews within a hours time frame.

However after a hour of waiting while candidates who arrived over half an hour later than myself were seen I resigned myself to a wasted journey and a silver lining that at least I learned about your disastrous management prior to accepting a job offer.

Kind Regards,

Dead People

@Mindthenicedeadpeople brilliant email well done! What an absolute shit show the dental practice is, completely unprofessional and they need to be told.

SerendipityJane · 02/09/2026 14:37

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:11

Job interview for 12pm

10 candidates all booked in for 12pm being seen individually by one person.

So whoever is here last will presumably be interviewed an hour later than booked.

At least we know why the UK has such pisspoor productivity.

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:35

Rightly or wrongly, I have sent the below…

Hi B***,

I was unfortunately unable to interview today due to the lack of professionalism shown by the company.

I arrived first out of the 10 plus candidates that were booked for interviews within a hours time frame.

However after a hour of waiting while candidates who arrived over half an hour later than myself were seen I resigned myself to a wasted journey and a silver lining that at least I learned about your disastrous management prior to accepting a job offer.

Kind Regards,

Dead People

OP posts:
Thecatspantaloons · 02/09/2026 14:28

Omg it's definitely a test 😩 and probably an indication of the current job market, I fear.
It definitely has a feel of one of those group interviews for canvassing gigs where only the absolute desperate stick with it until the bitter end.

There's definitely no HR department.

TinytToddler · 02/09/2026 14:19

I would totally say why you left! You sound like a great catch.
Bonkers to give everyone the same time and not see in the order arrived!

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:19

Hi all!

Back home now and phone on charge.

I’ll be honest and say the fact I went down to 15% was what prodded me out the door! I would’ve let it play out otherwise.

Position was Dental Receptionist. I couldn’t see any process to what order people were called in. It wasn’t by order of arrival as I was first. Most of those there were ‘younger’ and 4 of those were called in as well as 2 of the ladies that appeared to be more my age. So I was the last ‘older’ one standing. So not sure it was appearance as he called names so wouldn’t have known what they looked like. Then 5 more interviewees arrived over a 45 min period from 12 to 12.45.

When it was booked by who I assumed was practise manager there was no mention of this and she mentioned I could’ve interviewed tomorrow. So I guess they’re doing it all again then!

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AllergictoWerewolves · 02/09/2026 14:17

15 candidates?! We're lucky if we get one bother to turn up.....

Moremelanzaneparmigiana · 02/09/2026 14:09

So disrespectful of your time

And the interview are 8 minutes long it definitely sounds like the sort of thing where they literally just check if the face fits and if you will fit into the team rather than discussing experience etc

Greenseacat · 02/09/2026 14:05

tripleginandtonic · 02/09/2026 12:23

Common practice in a lot of jobs

I doubt it. No decent, well organised company would conduct interviews this way.

They are being disrespectful and arrogant.

OP, I would have just walked out.

This is just a giant red flag.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 02/09/2026 14:02

Hotpants123 · 02/09/2026 13:54

Can I just say this happened to me years ago.
I was just made redundant and desperately needed a job. I went to an interview which turned out to be an open evening kind of thing (no prior warning), they were recruiting for a lot of roles (again no prior warning). I had to wait around 2 1/2 hours, I nearly walking out a number of times. But I stayed in the end I got the job, they were bought out a few years later, I continued to work for the parent company and gained promotion after promotion, working for a total of 18 years. Started on £30k left on £115k. Sometimes it is worth hanging around, I wonder where I would be now if I hadn't stayed. Right place, right time sort of thing.

Edited

Unlikely to be the same for the OP, given the scenario.

IMightMentionGriddlebone · 02/09/2026 14:01

I've seen accounts on social media (LinkedIn etc) claiming that they run businesses and they interview this way. Apparently the idea is the last person standing gets the job, having proven that they are so desperate for a job they will submit to workplace mistreatment have the most patience and endurance.

All it would prove is the people who left first had self-respect and/or other commitments that day.

Maybeitllneverhappen · 02/09/2026 13:57

Pretty stupid time for an interview even if there's only a couple of candidates. When are people supposed to eat??!

Gengha · 02/09/2026 13:57

tripleginandtonic · 02/09/2026 12:23

Common practice in a lot of jobs

Not in any professional workplace

Hotpants123 · 02/09/2026 13:54

Can I just say this happened to me years ago.
I was just made redundant and desperately needed a job. I went to an interview which turned out to be an open evening kind of thing (no prior warning), they were recruiting for a lot of roles (again no prior warning). I had to wait around 2 1/2 hours, I nearly walking out a number of times. But I stayed in the end I got the job, they were bought out a few years later, I continued to work for the parent company and gained promotion after promotion, working for a total of 18 years. Started on £30k left on £115k. Sometimes it is worth hanging around, I wonder where I would be now if I hadn't stayed. Right place, right time sort of thing.

DrBlackbird · 02/09/2026 13:50

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:26

Well one out, and one in. Still waiting. Maybe it’s to see who will crack.

Wait, what? You’ve all been given the same interview time of 1200 noon, but he then randomly called people in? And didn’t even interview in the order that people arrived?? Just what kind of rude and disorganised person does that?

Definitely wouldn’t be a dentist I’d want to be seen by.

Edited to see that it was the age / appearance of the interviewee that determined the order that they were called in for their interview. My god how creepy of the dentist. Like every bad dentist ‘hitting on young women in their chair’ story going.

Chucklebunnie · 02/09/2026 13:47

honeylulu · 02/09/2026 12:27

That is dreadful. Until you updated that it was a dentist surgery I was going to suggest it sounded like recruitment for one of these "chugger" set ups. My son got enticed into one of those, turned up for an "interview" for a Sales & Marketing Assistant role and found himself in a room with 7 others at which point they were told it was not an interview but an induction and they were expected to stay for the rest of the day and then start chugging the next!

oh yes, my son nearly fell for something similar, straight out of university, thought he was going for an interview for a sales job. they bought him breakfast and tried to give him the hard sell to accept the 'job' selling gas and electricity supplies, persuading customers to switch. No salary, just some commision if he persuaded anyone...

holidayromancenotforme · 02/09/2026 13:47

LlynTegid · 02/09/2026 13:25

If you are unsuccessful, please leave feedback. Let the Job Centre know as well- I'd be tempted given what you have witnessed to be letting the professional body know.

Huh? For what? That the interview process isn’t done very well?🤣

OneHardyRobin · 02/09/2026 13:43

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

That will be someone on jobseekers, not wanting a job, but having to apply for them to keep their JSA.

Flocke · 02/09/2026 13:41

LlynTegid · 02/09/2026 13:25

If you are unsuccessful, please leave feedback. Let the Job Centre know as well- I'd be tempted given what you have witnessed to be letting the professional body know.

Professional body won’t give a toss about someone wasting an hour or two of peoples time during interview process.

Newname26 · 02/09/2026 13:34

RainRainKeepComing · 02/09/2026 13:28

what was the position?

Dental asst?
Receptionist?
Dentist?

I don't think its matters if its Dentist or Cleaner you don't waste that many people's time for interviews or tell people to all come at the same time.
Even if its a cleaner narrow it to 2 or 3 people with 15min between them