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Is this unprofessional?

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Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:11

Job interview for 12pm

10 candidates all booked in for 12pm being seen individually by one person.

So whoever is here last will presumably be interviewed an hour later than booked.

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Miyagi99 · 04/09/2026 19:29

Eh? I don’t understand this, my interview was 2 hours!

Surgz · 04/09/2026 08:02

How old is his son. Set up to see how you engage with kids or if older to observe demeanour/ patience of interviewees?

Waitfortheguinness · 04/09/2026 07:39

Sorry, haven’t got time to read the whole thread…… but wondered if the order people went into the interview room was by their boob size 😂😂 perhaps it’s a new, unknown prerequisite for a dental receptionist?

TheChickenRun · 03/09/2026 23:37

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:18

Tempted to see it through.

It’s for a dental surgery.

Is this to show what the patients experience and establish which candidates can get their points/skills across in the time of a GP/NHS dentist appointment??

JudgeJ · 03/09/2026 23:31

Morepositivemum · 02/09/2026 16:26

Gloriia

Honest I’d have thought that too but maybe that comes from the privilege of being told from school age that you dress professionally for interviews- I wore a shirt and suit trousers age 15 to a pound shop interview! Some people may not have been told this

A year or so ago I related the story of how a Year 10 pupil had turned up to school in the morning wearing a low slung pair of jeans and a cropped top to show of her belly piercing, she was going to her mock interview as a part of work experience programme later in the day. I told of how I had talked to her, in private, about dressing appropriately for certain events and the following day her mother phoned to complain about me. On this site a few said I had humiliated the girl, it was none of my business. Trying to give advice can be tricky it seems!

Oooono · 03/09/2026 23:12

I would be interested which town this dental practice is in …

ThistleTits · 03/09/2026 22:43

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

When you don't want the job.

Volpini · 03/09/2026 22:11

Ive only ever done this once, but about 15 years ago I was waiting for an interview and they left me waiting for 40 minutes. There were two reception desks and I went to both repeatedly to check that I hadn’t got it wrong/ they hadn’t forgotten me or called me and I hadn’t heard. I tried to contact the recruiter too. But after 40 minutes I was so annoyed that I just decided I wanted to leave - and leave I did.
The recruiter was not happy with me and implied I didn’t turn up which was not the case at all. I decided in that 40 minutes that I didn’t want to work for or with these people.25 years customer service experience that I am bloody good at. Totally their loss 15 years ago and today, OP. Good luck with your job quest.

Newname26 · 03/09/2026 22:11

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 03/09/2026 22:02

For teaching jobs it used to be an all day affair ... tour, meet the team, observations then interviews. We did let them go after their interview and asked them to keep their phones on ... nearly had a mutiny once when they were still all waiting for a decision at 6 pm

If people know that's the case then fine.

But for a standard interview the norm would be 2 or 3 for interview and maybe a one for a second interview.

Its certainly not normal to meet 13 people for interview, who in their normal day job has time to spend 2 full days interviewing people.

They obviously never even attempted to whittle it down based on the CVs. How else do you get people in and out in 15mins?

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 03/09/2026 22:02

For teaching jobs it used to be an all day affair ... tour, meet the team, observations then interviews. We did let them go after their interview and asked them to keep their phones on ... nearly had a mutiny once when they were still all waiting for a decision at 6 pm

weirdoboelady · 03/09/2026 22:00

PurpleDiva22 · 03/09/2026 21:55

Is it not "an hour"?

It's actually "an hour's". Or better, "within the time-frame of an hour".

PurpleDiva22 · 03/09/2026 21:55

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 14:35

Rightly or wrongly, I have sent the below…

Hi B***,

I was unfortunately unable to interview today due to the lack of professionalism shown by the company.

I arrived first out of the 10 plus candidates that were booked for interviews within a hours time frame.

However after a hour of waiting while candidates who arrived over half an hour later than myself were seen I resigned myself to a wasted journey and a silver lining that at least I learned about your disastrous management prior to accepting a job offer.

Kind Regards,

Dead People

Is it not "an hour"?

Beingseenisneedy · 03/09/2026 21:53

holidayromancenotforme · 02/09/2026 12:28

Personally I can’t imagine slagging off the place I’m about to interview at online!

Agree, and being on the phone the whole time.

MsGreying · 03/09/2026 20:57

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

It's the way to keep the job centre happy. You go to interviews but don't try too hard.

Gwenhwyfar · 03/09/2026 20:35

Contain4 · 02/09/2026 20:06

Do people really only give themselves 1 hour for an interview?

I would have thought most people try and leave themselves a good 2 hours before going back to work etc.

Obviously if you’re a single parent then you may need to leave but if I was OP and the interviews were only a few minutes each, then I would have waited 30 minutes more to at least have been interviewed.

I wouldn’t have been pleased sitting there for an hour or more but if there’s only 1 staff member then it makes sense why she didn’t stagger it.

I usually take a half day off work, but I can imagine that not everybody does.
I wouldn't wait much in this situation because it shows a lack of self-respect. Also, people who treat non-employees badly will treat their employees much worse.

Besidemyselfwithworry · 03/09/2026 19:59

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:20

Also as an aside when did it become normal to wear trackie bottoms and old trainers to an interview?

Maybe the job centre sent them and they don’t even want the job???

bananaobama · 03/09/2026 19:59

exaltedwombat · 03/09/2026 18:03

A dentist hadn’t thought through how to run an interview session. Doesn’t necessarily make him a bad employer. Perhaps he needs you to get his office organized.

do me a favour. He presumably has attended interviews in his life and understands how basic appointments and scheduling work

bananaobama · 03/09/2026 19:58

@Morepositivemum

are you for real? This is utterly abysmal to treat job hunters in this way

i work in recruitment and would expect a shit tonne of complaints if I handled my job like this. it’s totally abnormal

OP dodged a bullet. He sounds like he enjoys this hunger games style interview

bananaobama · 03/09/2026 19:49

How many jobs are available?

seeing 13 for one job is bad enough but not allocating individual time slots is abysmal

run, don’t walk

pollymere · 03/09/2026 19:34

It sounds like they tried to interview everyone who applied!

Maybe the nine year old was the one actually making the decision? Seeing how you all reacted in a room full of people? Or if you offered to help him? I'd have got chatting to him anyway.

F63C · 03/09/2026 19:08

Mindthenicedeadpeople · 02/09/2026 12:47

I have been here an hour.

The dentist is looking for a love interest.

I worked for a vet in the 80's who interviewed staff to try and find a wife. It worked after a few goes.

rb124 · 03/09/2026 19:03

Very unprofessional IMO - if they can't organise a simple thing like a schedule of appointments, how is the rest of the Company run?

exaltedwombat · 03/09/2026 18:03

A dentist hadn’t thought through how to run an interview session. Doesn’t necessarily make him a bad employer. Perhaps he needs you to get his office organized.

whynotwhatknot · 03/09/2026 12:12

good luck today op

you dont want to work for a dentist theyre highly strung not good timing managment they overbook to get more money which leaves you stressed and trying to sort it all out

Newname26 · 03/09/2026 11:56

Good luck today.

TBH I'd expect most interviews to be an hour.
Unless it was a very basic job (cleaner, waitor type role) that doesn't need much experience. And really just a quick chance to meet someone, make sure the hours suit.