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School children should receive free bus travel before pensioners?

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Itchthescratch · 01/09/2026 17:02

My child is starting a school where it will cost around £2k for bus travel. This school is local and one of the closest schools to us. The other schools close to us are much worse in terms of opportunities and academic outcomes. I can afford the bus fare easily but I worry that some poorer families will really struggle to send their children to the higher achieving school because of the cost.

I understand that there isn't an endless pot of money but surely it would make sense to give school children free travel ahead of other groups like pensioners? School children are statistically much more likely to suffer from poverty (child poverty is almost double pensioner poverty)and it seems crazy that we aren't supporting social mobility whilst we let all pensioners travel for free on buses.

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Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 12:26

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:50

I posted earlier in the thread. There are 3 state secondary schools in my town. One is around 111 in the Scottish league table. My old school is around 200 and the other school is in the bottom six. If a parent wanted exceptional results -they would send their kids to private school. Because these schools don't outperform private schools. Telling someone that they are wrong just because their area isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they are wrong.

Again, let's remember what you actually wrote

In some areas there better performing state schools but if a parent wants exceptional results -they have to go private
This is very badly written and I understood it to mean that whilst some areas might benefit from better performing state schools that only private schools can achieve exceptional results. I think what you actually meant is that some areas have no high performing schools and so the parents that live there will have to go private to give their children the opportunity of achieving exceptional results.

Yes, this may be true but still if you had the option to attend the school that ranked 111th of the school in the bottom 6 which would you want to attend? Imagine you can get a place at the 111th school but your parents can't afford the bus fare. This could have a very meaningful impact on your life and future opportunities. You have never been in the position to influence your financial position so why should you be penalised for having poor parents?

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Differentforgirls · 09/09/2026 11:11

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:50

I posted earlier in the thread. There are 3 state secondary schools in my town. One is around 111 in the Scottish league table. My old school is around 200 and the other school is in the bottom six. If a parent wanted exceptional results -they would send their kids to private school. Because these schools don't outperform private schools. Telling someone that they are wrong just because their area isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they are wrong.

Just looked. My sons' is 53rd and husband and mines is 69th.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 11:04

I know someone who made the decision to send his kid to private school. He's a shopkeeper and landlord. His kid got good results in the local primary school but he made the decision to send him to the nearest private school around 12 miles away. It costs him around 14k a year and around 15 quid in taxis daily.

Btw. I did Scottish Highers at two schools in my area. One the school I went to for six years and one as a mature student. There's nothing wrong with either school in my view but they absolutely do not outperform the local private school.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:58

I had neighbours who were drug users and dealers. The family had six kids. One is dead.The mum's partner is dead (overdose). The other two are in and out of jail. All 3 girls were pregnant before the age of 18. The family had social work intervention for a long time

Do you think a free bus pass would have made life easier for these kids ?

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:50

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 10:28

Yes, in some cases it takes more but in other cases it can make a real difference. It takes more than a bus pass to completely eradicate pensioner poverty or any other kind of poverty.

Also you are completely wrong. There are definitely state schools have exceptional results and outperform the majority of private schools.

You are trying to suggest an element of hopelessness that isn't actually true. Statistics like this prove the point:

"Of the 50 places with the highest social mobility, 42 were in London, where children travel free on public transport throughout their education. While many factors contribute to London’s success, free travel gives children access to the full opportunities of their city in a way that many others simply do not have*

Transport is key to social mobility.

I posted earlier in the thread. There are 3 state secondary schools in my town. One is around 111 in the Scottish league table. My old school is around 200 and the other school is in the bottom six. If a parent wanted exceptional results -they would send their kids to private school. Because these schools don't outperform private schools. Telling someone that they are wrong just because their area isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they are wrong.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:32

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 10:28

Yes, in some cases it takes more but in other cases it can make a real difference. It takes more than a bus pass to completely eradicate pensioner poverty or any other kind of poverty.

Also you are completely wrong. There are definitely state schools have exceptional results and outperform the majority of private schools.

You are trying to suggest an element of hopelessness that isn't actually true. Statistics like this prove the point:

"Of the 50 places with the highest social mobility, 42 were in London, where children travel free on public transport throughout their education. While many factors contribute to London’s success, free travel gives children access to the full opportunities of their city in a way that many others simply do not have*

Transport is key to social mobility.

In my area there are good state schools but not exceptional. I said this earlier in the thread. Does that clarify. I live in a small town in the west of Scotland. Hth

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:30

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 10:22

I don't know why every discussion goes back to your mum. Obviously I can't comment on her specific scenario as I don't know her but it's a fact that most pensioners haven't paid enough into the system to pay for the benefits they get out of it. This is a fact. You have to include NHS treatment, pensions, WFA... Basically every interaction that they have with a state funded organisation.

Again, what does 'fair' share even mean? You imply that there is a definitive amount of tax that each of us should be paying to be fair but it doesn't work like that. It's all subjective and based on loads of value judgements. For example, if I go out for a meal with my friend who is poor should I pay more of the bill because I have more money? Some would say yes, some would say no. How much more would be appropriate? Should I pay the entire bill or a bigger proportion? Don't individuals have a responsibility to fund the majority of their own costs themselves wherever they can? Why doesn't this principal extend from the private goods and services to services provided by the state? Why is it morally acceptable to live a whole lifetime with the expectation that you should be subsidised by everyone else? Some people have tried their best and been unable to escape poverty but many haven't even tried. It's all a lot more complex than you like to portray.

I'm talking about companies who exploit loopholes so they don't pay the tax that they should. Like Amazon. Sorry if talking about my mum offends you. I was a youth worker for over 20 years so I do have some practical experience working with kids in poverty and it takes more than free bus travel to sort out generational poverty

Sorry if my mum doesn't quite fit the rich grasping pensioner you are trying to portray on this thread

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 10:28

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:08

Not everyone takes up the free bus pass. The same as not everyone under 22 in Scotland takes up that bus pass either. So basically -if we means test pensioner bus passes and give free bus passes to kids it's going to ensure that kids are mobile enough to go to a better school and get a better education? There are kids from poor families who leave school as soon as they are legally able. It takes much more than a bus pass to solve generational poverty.

That's not how it's working in Scotland just now. As I said earlier in the thread in some areas there better performing state schools but if a parent wants exceptional results -they have to go private.

Yes, in some cases it takes more but in other cases it can make a real difference. It takes more than a bus pass to completely eradicate pensioner poverty or any other kind of poverty.

Also you are completely wrong. There are definitely state schools have exceptional results and outperform the majority of private schools.

You are trying to suggest an element of hopelessness that isn't actually true. Statistics like this prove the point:

"Of the 50 places with the highest social mobility, 42 were in London, where children travel free on public transport throughout their education. While many factors contribute to London’s success, free travel gives children access to the full opportunities of their city in a way that many others simply do not have*

Transport is key to social mobility.

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Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 10:22

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 09:59

My mum paid tax for around 36 years. She doesn't expect a "raft of benefits and concessions". In Scotland everyone gets the same concessions. Free eye tests, prescriptions. The only thing she gets is a state pension that she worked all her days to pay into, private pension ditto and a bus pass.

Back to the "hedge fund billionaire argument". Why don't we get everyone who should be paying their taxes in the UK to pay their fair share.

I don't know why every discussion goes back to your mum. Obviously I can't comment on her specific scenario as I don't know her but it's a fact that most pensioners haven't paid enough into the system to pay for the benefits they get out of it. This is a fact. You have to include NHS treatment, pensions, WFA... Basically every interaction that they have with a state funded organisation.

Again, what does 'fair' share even mean? You imply that there is a definitive amount of tax that each of us should be paying to be fair but it doesn't work like that. It's all subjective and based on loads of value judgements. For example, if I go out for a meal with my friend who is poor should I pay more of the bill because I have more money? Some would say yes, some would say no. How much more would be appropriate? Should I pay the entire bill or a bigger proportion? Don't individuals have a responsibility to fund the majority of their own costs themselves wherever they can? Why doesn't this principal extend from the private goods and services to services provided by the state? Why is it morally acceptable to live a whole lifetime with the expectation that you should be subsidised by everyone else? Some people have tried their best and been unable to escape poverty but many haven't even tried. It's all a lot more complex than you like to portray.

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Differentforgirls · 09/09/2026 10:19

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:08

Not everyone takes up the free bus pass. The same as not everyone under 22 in Scotland takes up that bus pass either. So basically -if we means test pensioner bus passes and give free bus passes to kids it's going to ensure that kids are mobile enough to go to a better school and get a better education? There are kids from poor families who leave school as soon as they are legally able. It takes much more than a bus pass to solve generational poverty.

That's not how it's working in Scotland just now. As I said earlier in the thread in some areas there better performing state schools but if a parent wants exceptional results -they have to go private.

Neither my husband or I have applied for the free pass.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 10:08

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 09:07

Previous generations have run up the credit card and it is hardly unexpected that young generations now are angry and resentful. Nobody is saying that older people always had it easy, but the reality is much of the debt we accrued has benefited them and they will be paying very little back compared to younger generations.

Much of what we are spending now on pensioners is unsustainable. Many economists and international bodies repeatedly tell us this and yet few old people are willing to recognise and accept this. Clinging to the triple lock when it has been proven to be unviable in the long term. Clinging to free bus passes when many can afford their own.

Not everyone takes up the free bus pass. The same as not everyone under 22 in Scotland takes up that bus pass either. So basically -if we means test pensioner bus passes and give free bus passes to kids it's going to ensure that kids are mobile enough to go to a better school and get a better education? There are kids from poor families who leave school as soon as they are legally able. It takes much more than a bus pass to solve generational poverty.

That's not how it's working in Scotland just now. As I said earlier in the thread in some areas there better performing state schools but if a parent wants exceptional results -they have to go private.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 09:59

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 07:21

If they haven't paid enough into the system for all this stuff then of course they should feel grateful. Most pensioners haven't paid enough into the system and expect a whole raft of benefits and confessions. Great, but don't expect those who are actually contributing, and often contributing a great deal, to accept overly high tax bills when they can and will move elsewhere. Ultimately this means less money to fund the precious bus passes and everything else.

You are so hung up on the moral argument, you can't see how practically it doesn't work if people can just leave the country.

My mum paid tax for around 36 years. She doesn't expect a "raft of benefits and concessions". In Scotland everyone gets the same concessions. Free eye tests, prescriptions. The only thing she gets is a state pension that she worked all her days to pay into, private pension ditto and a bus pass.

Back to the "hedge fund billionaire argument". Why don't we get everyone who should be paying their taxes in the UK to pay their fair share.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 09:54

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 09:07

Previous generations have run up the credit card and it is hardly unexpected that young generations now are angry and resentful. Nobody is saying that older people always had it easy, but the reality is much of the debt we accrued has benefited them and they will be paying very little back compared to younger generations.

Much of what we are spending now on pensioners is unsustainable. Many economists and international bodies repeatedly tell us this and yet few old people are willing to recognise and accept this. Clinging to the triple lock when it has been proven to be unviable in the long term. Clinging to free bus passes when many can afford their own.

It's not the fault of people like my mum that the Government have chosen to keep the triple lock. The same as its not her fault that Thatcher brought in right to buy or deregulated the buses or energy companies. Or the fact that Governments brought in student loans as opposed to grants.

YourGoldLurker · 09/09/2026 09:51

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 08:59

No, that's not my argument. I actually think free bus passes should ideally be means tested which would actually bring about the opposite scenario where those who have paid enough into the system are least likely to be eligible. It isn't 'fair' but ultimately giving free bus passes to people that can afford to pay isn't a good use of taxpayer money. So many people blindly insist that mens testing is too difficult/expensive so we are stuck having to select whole age groups like we do with pensioners now.

I agree about personal responsibility but don't you see that the child is personally not responsible for their own financial situation? You and I chose to have two children as this was the sensible thing to do financially but those born into irresponsible families are there for no fault of their own. I also don't think we should be financially rewarding irresponsible parents for having more children than they can afford so I don't think our views are enormously different.

I do think though that direct intervention for children born into these poor families is important otherwise they will be trapped in a poverty cycle. This is why I support giving them free bus travel to school. We know education and a good one at that, is one of very few mechanisms that can assist children in getting out of poverty and building a better future for themselves.

Poor pensioners are not the most vulnerable group in society at all. Poor children are. They have virtually no autonomy over their lives and have had no opportunity to improve the situation they happen to have been born into. They are also twice as likely to be living in poverty. By the time you get to old age then most of us have had the chance to further their situations. Especially the current generation of pensioners who are the richest ever. Both my grandparents came from poor families and are now financially comfortable from working blue collar jobs.

Ah right so everything is now the fault of "irresponsible families". Presumably the same poor families that you were feeling sorry for earlier in the thread because they couldn't afford 2k bus fares to the better school that your daughter is going to ? How will free bus travel help kids get a good education if they can only go to one of the poorer schools you were talking about earlier ?

Not everyone has a choice of better schools on their doorstep like you do.

I grew up in a single parent family. I went to a very ordinary state school. One of the ones you were slating earlier in the thread. I have 3 BA degrees. Two with honours and two post grads.

The Scottish government is doing all they can to lift the poorest families in Scotland out of poverty.

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 09:07

Seymour5 · 09/09/2026 08:40

I’m a pensioner of long standing, I suppose I am ‘grateful’ for my bus pass. I was also grateful to get my state pittance at 60. Far less than any younger mother who is retiring now would be entitled to. I’m grateful in the same way younger people are grateful for free and subsidised childcare; for child benefit for their first child; for home responsibilities NI credits; for improved maternity benefits; for pension schemes available to all workers; to in work top up benefits.

It’s quite sad to see so much resentment towards parents and grandparents, many of whom will have had their own struggles as young families.

Previous generations have run up the credit card and it is hardly unexpected that young generations now are angry and resentful. Nobody is saying that older people always had it easy, but the reality is much of the debt we accrued has benefited them and they will be paying very little back compared to younger generations.

Much of what we are spending now on pensioners is unsustainable. Many economists and international bodies repeatedly tell us this and yet few old people are willing to recognise and accept this. Clinging to the triple lock when it has been proven to be unviable in the long term. Clinging to free bus passes when many can afford their own.

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Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 09:03

Lludmilla · 09/09/2026 08:53

are you happy to pay 60% tax yourself?

If I was super rich, yes. Yes I would be happy to. Because I wouldn't need it all myself, and because contrary to what certain political figures have posited in the past, there is such a thing as society.

No, not just if you're super rich. There aren't enough of them to fund everything tax should be funding. I'm talking about ordinary people paying this much. The difference between us and Scandinavia for example isn't that the rich are paying much less, but the middle and lower earner pay a considerably higher proportion of their income as tax. You need a broad tax base paying a decent contribution to raise big money.

So what percentage more are you willing to pay in tax?

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Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 08:59

Greebocat · 09/09/2026 07:53

So your argument is if you haven’t paid enough into the system , you do not get a free bus pass but the children of millionaires get free travel to school.
if you haven’t paid enough into the system you have more than likely spent alot of your life on the poverty line. You are targeting one of the most vulnerable groups (pensioners in poverty), so all children can have free travel.

It comes down to personal responsibility, we stopped at two children so we could give them a good life, if people choose to have more children than they can afford or have lots of children surely that is their responsibility. I know it’s not the child’s fault, but the government can’t cover everything. You want free travel, someone else will say school uniform is too expensive for less well off families do we cover that as well. Trips, school resources. Tutors, why should some children have tutors, sod it, maybe the government should just pay for private education for all children.

No, that's not my argument. I actually think free bus passes should ideally be means tested which would actually bring about the opposite scenario where those who have paid enough into the system are least likely to be eligible. It isn't 'fair' but ultimately giving free bus passes to people that can afford to pay isn't a good use of taxpayer money. So many people blindly insist that mens testing is too difficult/expensive so we are stuck having to select whole age groups like we do with pensioners now.

I agree about personal responsibility but don't you see that the child is personally not responsible for their own financial situation? You and I chose to have two children as this was the sensible thing to do financially but those born into irresponsible families are there for no fault of their own. I also don't think we should be financially rewarding irresponsible parents for having more children than they can afford so I don't think our views are enormously different.

I do think though that direct intervention for children born into these poor families is important otherwise they will be trapped in a poverty cycle. This is why I support giving them free bus travel to school. We know education and a good one at that, is one of very few mechanisms that can assist children in getting out of poverty and building a better future for themselves.

Poor pensioners are not the most vulnerable group in society at all. Poor children are. They have virtually no autonomy over their lives and have had no opportunity to improve the situation they happen to have been born into. They are also twice as likely to be living in poverty. By the time you get to old age then most of us have had the chance to further their situations. Especially the current generation of pensioners who are the richest ever. Both my grandparents came from poor families and are now financially comfortable from working blue collar jobs.

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Lludmilla · 09/09/2026 08:53

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 07:19

What is the system supposed to cover? Theoretically it should be covering a lot more than it is now as our health system is often providing a poor service, transport is unreliable, education system is patchy, social care is underfunded SEN costs are cripplingly local governments. Fundamentally the state has a whole host of unlimited costs and only limited means to raise the money to meet them. It's all very well imagining that the super rich should fund all this but in fact they often just leave which generates an even bigger gap for the rest of us to fill.

So tell me, if the tail wags the dog and tax is simply set at the level to meet all these needs, are you happy to pay 60% tax yourself? Perhaps it needs to be even higher. At some point, even you would suggest it's ridiculous and simply not value for money for the individual. Yes, most want to contribute to the greater good but after you're paying £300 million plus and it still isn't enough I can see why people get fed up and leave. Ultimately we as a country lose. Not them as indidvial. We need to be very careful that we aren't cutting off our nose to spite our face.

are you happy to pay 60% tax yourself?

If I was super rich, yes. Yes I would be happy to. Because I wouldn't need it all myself, and because contrary to what certain political figures have posited in the past, there is such a thing as society.

Seymour5 · 09/09/2026 08:40

YourGoldLurker · 08/09/2026 15:34

This.

Why should people need to feel grateful for having a bus pass at the age of 60 or at state pension age. There have been concessionary fares for pensioners in Scotland long before the bus pass was brought in. It just standardised things and made it easier to travel between different areas.

I’m a pensioner of long standing, I suppose I am ‘grateful’ for my bus pass. I was also grateful to get my state pittance at 60. Far less than any younger mother who is retiring now would be entitled to. I’m grateful in the same way younger people are grateful for free and subsidised childcare; for child benefit for their first child; for home responsibilities NI credits; for improved maternity benefits; for pension schemes available to all workers; to in work top up benefits.

It’s quite sad to see so much resentment towards parents and grandparents, many of whom will have had their own struggles as young families.

Greebocat · 09/09/2026 07:53

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 07:21

If they haven't paid enough into the system for all this stuff then of course they should feel grateful. Most pensioners haven't paid enough into the system and expect a whole raft of benefits and confessions. Great, but don't expect those who are actually contributing, and often contributing a great deal, to accept overly high tax bills when they can and will move elsewhere. Ultimately this means less money to fund the precious bus passes and everything else.

You are so hung up on the moral argument, you can't see how practically it doesn't work if people can just leave the country.

So your argument is if you haven’t paid enough into the system , you do not get a free bus pass but the children of millionaires get free travel to school.
if you haven’t paid enough into the system you have more than likely spent alot of your life on the poverty line. You are targeting one of the most vulnerable groups (pensioners in poverty), so all children can have free travel.

It comes down to personal responsibility, we stopped at two children so we could give them a good life, if people choose to have more children than they can afford or have lots of children surely that is their responsibility. I know it’s not the child’s fault, but the government can’t cover everything. You want free travel, someone else will say school uniform is too expensive for less well off families do we cover that as well. Trips, school resources. Tutors, why should some children have tutors, sod it, maybe the government should just pay for private education for all children.

Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 07:21

YourGoldLurker · 08/09/2026 15:34

This.

Why should people need to feel grateful for having a bus pass at the age of 60 or at state pension age. There have been concessionary fares for pensioners in Scotland long before the bus pass was brought in. It just standardised things and made it easier to travel between different areas.

If they haven't paid enough into the system for all this stuff then of course they should feel grateful. Most pensioners haven't paid enough into the system and expect a whole raft of benefits and confessions. Great, but don't expect those who are actually contributing, and often contributing a great deal, to accept overly high tax bills when they can and will move elsewhere. Ultimately this means less money to fund the precious bus passes and everything else.

You are so hung up on the moral argument, you can't see how practically it doesn't work if people can just leave the country.

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Itchthescratch · 09/09/2026 07:19

Lludmilla · 08/09/2026 15:07

That's bound to happen in some cases, I agree. But it doesn't change my opinion. Personally I don't consider the British public to be 'greedy' for wanting the tax system to cover the things it's supposed to cover.

What is the system supposed to cover? Theoretically it should be covering a lot more than it is now as our health system is often providing a poor service, transport is unreliable, education system is patchy, social care is underfunded SEN costs are cripplingly local governments. Fundamentally the state has a whole host of unlimited costs and only limited means to raise the money to meet them. It's all very well imagining that the super rich should fund all this but in fact they often just leave which generates an even bigger gap for the rest of us to fill.

So tell me, if the tail wags the dog and tax is simply set at the level to meet all these needs, are you happy to pay 60% tax yourself? Perhaps it needs to be even higher. At some point, even you would suggest it's ridiculous and simply not value for money for the individual. Yes, most want to contribute to the greater good but after you're paying £300 million plus and it still isn't enough I can see why people get fed up and leave. Ultimately we as a country lose. Not them as indidvial. We need to be very careful that we aren't cutting off our nose to spite our face.

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YourGoldLurker · 08/09/2026 15:34

Lludmilla · 08/09/2026 15:07

That's bound to happen in some cases, I agree. But it doesn't change my opinion. Personally I don't consider the British public to be 'greedy' for wanting the tax system to cover the things it's supposed to cover.

This.

Why should people need to feel grateful for having a bus pass at the age of 60 or at state pension age. There have been concessionary fares for pensioners in Scotland long before the bus pass was brought in. It just standardised things and made it easier to travel between different areas.

Differentforgirls · 08/09/2026 15:25

Cardisncocktails · 08/09/2026 15:04

And tbh reading some of the comments on this thread from posters based in England about why pensioners shouldn't get benefits whilst their children should, is why I am SOOO glad and proud to live in Scotland.
I have NEVER heard people here heap the bitter, divisive comments on our older Scottish citizens that some of the (English) commenters here on MN make about pensioners in England!

Yes, threads like this make me even happier to live here than I already do.

Differentforgirls · 08/09/2026 15:22

YourGoldLurker · 08/09/2026 14:23

My mum doesn't drive and never has. I don't drive either but even if I could I wouldn't be able to afford to buy a car and run it. Some people obviously can't drive for medical reasons

I don't drive as I would be a danger to other people. The basic thing about knowing left from right is a thing I can't get my head round. I'm dyspraxic. All the other things are too stressful to even contemplate.

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