AIBU to really dislike DH after our holiday?

Did you miss the bit where he saw an 8 year old boy beat his children at pool good naturedly so he proceeded to challenge him as an adult and then be very aggressive when playing?!

On what planet is it OK to bully an 8 year old and attempt to humiliate him in perceived retribution for being better at pool than your own kids 🤯

He sound absolutely vile, and cruel. I could not live like that, or put my Children through it either.

Somebody signpost Botanicalf to a thesaurus tool....please.

Somebody signpost Botanicalf to a thesaurus tool....please.

Read the room… you’re boring, attacking women and derailing a thread.

At least it is to me in my brain but then I’m always very emotional so I can’t rely on my own judgement sometimes

First one, I understand his frustration at having to take out maltesers multiple times where a 15 year old boy is involved. He needs to be firmer/clearer with the boy, it seems. He was rude to the shop
attendant.

Pool? I don’t know. Did you just want him to let the kid win? If the boy was as good as you say, I don’t see anything wrong with him playing him competitively, unless he’s a professional himself or something. I don’t know how pool sam be played aggressively or non aggressively. You need enough force to putt? Not too much not to little. He wouldn’t play well with aggression, I would imagine.

Airport, travelling can be stressful. People say or do things in haste during travel when anxious.
I wouldn’t let this be the deciding factor. However if you have already made up your mind based on previous situation, thrm that’s different.

If he’s autistic but won’t get the help he needs, that’s hard and not fair on yhe family.

All the best in your decision

Of course🙄Heaven forbid anybody disagreeing with posters could be anybody other than the op’s husband.

I think OP’s husband might have entered the chat 🙄

I think OP’s husband might have entered the chat 🙄

The thing is what are we disagreeing with? Someone who has used the phrase psychological analysis so many times on this post I think they must be a failed psychology student or something. And also has disdain and disregard for the actual experiences of abuse survivors. An absolute charmer.

Disdain from inflating the examples in the op to abuse and psychologically analysing a child they’ve never met over the internet.

And as for failed psychology student🙄, because somebody disagrees with you. Yet more inflating ..

The thing is what are we disagreeing with? Someone who has used the phrase psychological analysis so many times on this post I think they must be a failed psychology student or something. And also has disdain and disregard for the actual experiences of abuse survivors. An absolute charmer.

Oh god will you stop with this 'psychological analysis' thing. First hand accounts absolutely and categorically DO give survivors of abuse the right AND ability to contribute. None of whom are doing a bloody psychological analysis! Presumptious or otherwise. So first hand accounts of everything are utterly irrelevant are they? Be careful, as that will get you into serious hot water with people from all walks of life who have experienced abuse, atrocities, the list is endless. Your narrative basically says their experiences are worthless. As you have approximately 10 words in your vocabulary I'd be backing off.

Omg way to prove her point by calling a woman hysterical for daring to disagree with you

I, at least three of my kids and my sister are a mixture of AuDHD or ASD.....you know what none of us are? Cunts.

Being ND is not a free pass on being a cunt. And as he wont actually seek a dx, then I think you need to take his word for it that he is simply a cunt for no other reason than.....he is choosing to be a cunt.

Do with that information what you will. But for your son's sake dont let him think that his father's behaviour can be excused.

Nope. First hand accounts do not in anyway give anybody the right or ability to do a very presumptuous psychological analysis of a child they’ve never met.

Just hysterical! Yet more hugely inaccurate armchair analysis.

This poster obviously can't identify abusive behaviour, and given their aggressive, minatory, dismissive approach on this thread, it wouldn't surprise me that they themselves are abusive in their own relationships. We here have the good fortune of being able to ignore this person, unlike the poor people who have to share physical space with them.

I don't know why you want to dismiss learning on this issue and the first hand accounts of people on the thread to defend the husband of a stranger on the Internet. Perhaps you have just dug a hole for yourself now and feel compelled to defend your silly comment.
Either way, it's not helpful to the OP so we'll leave it there. It's up to OP which comments resonate.