My husband's family have a whats app group.
I get overlooked on my birthday despite other conversations going on!
I never get any gifts and I totally understand this, as life is busy and expensive but surely just a happy birthday on a group chat costs nothing?
I desperately wannt to leave the chat for the good of my mental well being but how do I do this without being offensive?
The strange digs and lack of birthday wishes has been going on for many years even when my dad died and my mum got a debilitating illness.
When I try and discuss this with my husband he just gets really nasty and says what do I want him to do about it.
I'm getting so fed up with having to tolerate such a lack of respect and it caused so many arguments between me and my oh.