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Free school breakfast for every child

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greyingunderneath · 31/08/2026 21:22

Is this a good use of funding? I am not very well off financially but I don’t mind providing a slice of toast for my child and can’t say it will make any difference to me financially if they provide it instead.
I don’t know how much this is costing the government but it seems like a waste of resources to me.

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WonderingWanda · 01/09/2026 07:11

Lmnop22 · 31/08/2026 21:49

Too idle?? Don’t you realise that most of the people using breakfast club are doing so because they work a 40+ hour week and need the early childcare arrangements? Honestly, the obtusity of some people immediately assuming that if you can’t cook up a healthy nutritious breakfast every morning before dawn for multiple kids who won’t just sit and eat it like civilised robots because they’re young kids with big feelings means you’re idle 🤯🤯

I really don't think this poster was calling working parents like you who currently pay for breakfast club idle. I think it was the idea that there are kids out their missing out and not being fed and their parents claiming they couldn't afford to feed them, that those parents were a problem because how much does a loaf of bread cost.

Ineffable23 · 01/09/2026 07:06

I mean I tend to think that we ought to be offering more things as universal benefits/offers rather than fewer - saying "we ask everyone to pay taxes, with those who earn more paying more, but with everyone receiving something back from the state as well". So e.g. no cut off at 100k for childcare. Maybe we should even be offering after school club free as well, if we want plenty of parents to work. So I'm generally on board with this, usually combined with offering some sort of childcare from circa 8am.

Shatenoeuf · 01/09/2026 06:59

The sad reality of life is - all the help in the world often struggles to reach the chaotic families.

The kids who need this breakfast most wont be sent in for it.

The biggest pool of kids who will take it up are the kids whos parents already pay to send their DC to breakfast club, and well off working parents who can't resist 30 minutes of free childcare.

Fredthefrog · 01/09/2026 06:58

I think the quality of food is por and would rather feed my own kids. I am happy for kids who aren't being fed to get breakfast though. For some kids something is better than nothing.

PJ98 · 01/09/2026 06:57

rhubarbqueen · 31/08/2026 22:13

If you lay the table the night before it’s fine!
I work, but I also consider it my responsibility to give my children a good breakfast to start the day. I don’t expect the state to take my child’s care and needs away from me.

Do you consider all tbe people who have to start work earlier than you, or do we all just do the exact same job as you?

Chillyegg · 01/09/2026 06:51

I have worked in schools my whole professional life as TA then a teacher.

The amount of children that come into school with out breakfast/lunch is huge.
There are children coming into schools in clothes that are so significantly small for them they break. As in tear apart / fall apart Infront of you.

The whole my taxes shouldn't be paying for that child's bread argument gives me such a swift eye roll I get nausea.

Some families simply do not have food at home.

Some families do not have money . At All.

Some families have no furniture not even carpets.

Some families are struggling to balance life -the mornings are manic and it's taken everyone's hard work to get a specific child into school that day.

Some families do not have the capacity to feed their child healthy balanced protein filled breakfasts but this does not meet a social care threshold.

Some people ( a minority) abuse/ neglect their children .

Many countries provide state funded meals to support children.
It blows my mind that in 2026 we begrudge children food who are victims to circumstances they were born into .

Many teachers already provide snacks in class for free out of their own wage to support young children get through the day.

Honestly I think the cost of living is getting worse and more families are struggling - of course our government should subsidise meals it's the best use of money. It guarantees children come to school as they know they'll get fed.keeps them nourished and gaining an education.

Mespher · 01/09/2026 06:15

The school milk we had in the morning when I was a child was probably just as nutritious and a lot easier to dole out.

SulkySeagull · 01/09/2026 05:49

@Lmnop22 but why does it need to be free? That’s the point. No one’s disagreeing with breakfast club. But taxpayers paying for it for every child is ridiculous

MissChanandlerBonng · 01/09/2026 05:37

JemimaTiggywinkles · 31/08/2026 22:52

Universal catches everyone - including the kids who try to hide their parent’s ineptitude (and those kids are really hard to identify and reach). It prevents stigma and lets kids who are not having a normal childhood feel normal. We have real trouble convincing some parents to apply for the free school meals they’re entitled to as they’re ashamed of being poor. They see themselves the same way some posters on here see them - as failures. Even when the poverty is caused by serious health problems they had no control over.

At one of our schools locally, the head has been begging people to send their DC, even if they don’t need to. As ‘you go to free breakfast club’ has become a playground slur. The stigma is still there

Apacketofbiscuitsaday · 01/09/2026 05:36

rathersleepy · 31/08/2026 23:41

Agree but there are a lot of useless, neglectful parents. This is a “simple” way the government can help. They should really be providing extra staff though and not expecting teachers to give up more time.

Regarding extra staff. It's not for the want of trying. They just can't get the staff. Nobody wants to do those hours as more often than not those that staff it have their own kids to sort.

MyFreeOpinion · 01/09/2026 02:56

Lots of posters are focussing on the merits of kids eating breakfast (undeniable) rather than the merits of rolling out a government-funded program in which breakfast is available to all students, irrespective of financial need.

Depending on how this is rolled out, the cost of this could be huge.

Schools cannot just order a few loaves of bread from Tesco each day, and put the children in a room with a toaster. They'll need adults to supervise and, most likely, be involved in food preparation. They'll need to think about allergens, who is doing the cleaning up, etc. If they are really serious about health and wellbeing (and not just getting a government subsidy for minimal effort), kids will need to be offered a range of items, not just Rice Bubbles and breakfast bars, and given adequate time to eat their food.

If this is too much for schools to resource, it might instead be provided by an external company. However, on occasion after occasion, we see a huge inflation of costs as soon a such services are put out to tender. Remember Covid lockdown, and the outrage over the contents of some food parcels delivered to homes to replace free school meals?

My point is that we might all agree on all kids having access to nutritious food, and that the state should help provide this for some kids. The question is whether it is desirable to have a policy in which free school breakfast is universal, with the tab ultimately picked up by taxpayers.

Given the huge financial challenges facing the UK, I'd like to see a properly-costed policy before giving this policy the thumbs up.

CinnamonJellyBeans · 01/09/2026 00:41

Like previous PP, I agree that the state needs to step in for hungry children whose parents cannot be bothered to get up and feed their own kids.

But there's a small minority of parents who neglect their children and we're just sending these parents the message that this is OK, and will encourage them to stop the other stuff, like tooth-brushing, checking for headlice, dental appointments, eye tests.

caringcarer · 01/09/2026 00:37

Actually you might be surprised at the number of DC who come to school hungry having not eaten since 5pm the night before. Their blood sugar dips and they have poor concentration. All DC should eat before learning. It's one of the few Labour policies I actually agree with.

BerryTwister · 01/09/2026 00:20

Lmnop22 · 31/08/2026 23:12

You do realise those working parents are paying for breakfast club and covering the cost of their toast slice don’t you? I spend £400 a month on wraparound care for my primary aged child and £1600 a month on nursery full time for my other child. Think that probably covers the 2p a slice if bread costs and the 1 minute of electricury and staff wages to run the toaster and butter the bread

@Lmnop22 I thought the point was that breakfasts were going to be offered for free? I’m not sure what you mean.
Oh hang on, do you mean that breakfast club fees (the fee for the time) will be put up to cover the cost of the “free” breakfast?

Actually that’s a good point - if free food is available for all, then surely more kids will come, and more staff will be needed

SemperIdem · 01/09/2026 00:17

Further encroachment on parental duties by the state under the guise of being helpful.

It has never been easier in the UK, from a historical perspective, to feed one’s own children than it is now.

Simonjt · 01/09/2026 00:14

Thesillysocks · 31/08/2026 21:52

Another advantage of eating breakfast at home and that the children can brush their teeth afterwards.

Seeing as that is damaging for teeth, I don’t see how its an advantage.

MageKing · 01/09/2026 00:11

Personally, I'd rather that schools provided the "mid morning" snack (usually at about 10am) and make it more substantial than a piece of fruit - some crackers, a yoghurt etc. As others have said, I think the chances are that the families/children who need it the most won't access it if it's only available before the school day starts. I also think it could help with children who have to be up early and don't find eating before school very easy. I was that child and as she gets older, DD is more and more that child. (Thank god, she's starting secondary now so I am just planning to send her "breakfast" to have at first break and before school she can have a small bowl of cereal or a smoothie or similar.)

dustabsorber · 01/09/2026 00:07

Yet more dumming down.

Newname26 · 01/09/2026 00:02

Shatenoeuf · 31/08/2026 21:32

I dislike this, as it tends to be offered early in the morning as a way to extend the school day. I strongly suspect its being pushed for by business lobbies, who detest wfh but have realised that they are stuck with a choice of:

  • pay staff sky high wages to allow them to live in cities with shorter commutes
  • return to 7 hour working days (many in london now want 7.5 or 8 which is bloody difficult around kids and commutes

All these offerings are not about ensuring children are fed decent food. The food on offer is always poor, because offering these schemes through schools is a very expensive way to provide food, with 4/5 of any funding going on admin, staffing, private provider profit etc.

These schemes are about forcing schools to provide ever longer hours so that parents have no excuse not to work 40 hour weeks.

Even a 7hr working day is hard,
7hr is 9am-5pm 1hour lunch. If school doesn't open until 8.30 even for toast that's still only 30min commute time, which isn't a lot of time if your trying to use public transport or deal with traffic

Livelovebehappy · 31/08/2026 23:56

It’s just transferring what should be the responsibility of the parents to the school. Again. Maybe spend the money educating parents on how to parent. If a parent has to be advised that their child needs feeding in a morning before school, then they shouldn’t be having children. Breakfast is not expensive for a child.

Hardsell · 31/08/2026 23:50

I think cost of living plays a oart as well. I got a top shop today. It was around 60.00 it didn't even fill one delivery crate.. in the past it would have filled around 3 crates.

There are people on very low income. People using food banks. So if free breakfast club helps them out . Feeds children then that's good.

rathersleepy · 31/08/2026 23:41

Ablondiebutagoody · 31/08/2026 23:37

Parents should feed their children. We should not expect school to be a substitute parent. They need to focus on teaching.

Agree but there are a lot of useless, neglectful parents. This is a “simple” way the government can help. They should really be providing extra staff though and not expecting teachers to give up more time.

Ablondiebutagoody · 31/08/2026 23:37

Parents should feed their children. We should not expect school to be a substitute parent. They need to focus on teaching.

DogAnxiety · 31/08/2026 23:32

The evidence that early years investment brings the most benefit is pretty incontrovertible.

You can criticise the current govt for many things but this ain’t one of them:

https://ifs.org.uk/articles/free-breakfast-clubs-schools-what-labours-plans-would-mean-pupils-and-families

Yes, absolutely, there are implementation considerations, but at least the will and the actual engagement with evidence is there.

Oooonoooot · 31/08/2026 23:28

Gooseinthewood · 31/08/2026 21:27

Absolutely appalling idea. It's junk food, white bread and puffed cereal. Working parents have to use wraparound to get to work on time, but then the child ends up having sugary cereal instead of a proper breakfast like scrambled eggs.

My sister has a nightmare as her children either end up eating twice or eating much poorer quality food than she would give them.

If children are not fed in the morning it's a social care issue. They should be fed, but separately at school from the wraparound whilst social care sort out why the child isn't being fed.

Junk food v scrambled eggs is better
Junk food v no food is better!

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