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Free school breakfast for every child

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greyingunderneath · 31/08/2026 21:22

Is this a good use of funding? I am not very well off financially but I don’t mind providing a slice of toast for my child and can’t say it will make any difference to me financially if they provide it instead.
I don’t know how much this is costing the government but it seems like a waste of resources to me.

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FreddystarrateMyhamster · 01/09/2026 11:13

My children’s school have been in partnership with a charity called “magic breakfast” for some years now.

The school get free bagels and have a rota of two staff to have them out on the playground on a hot tray at morning drop off for everyone to have.

They don’t do a breakfast drop off club though as they has never had much interest from parents when they floated the idea in the past. It’s a very deprived area (57 % of school on FSM), and to be honest, not enough families work to make before or after school care viable. It’s also quite a cheap place to live, so many people who work just have one parent working and one at home, like we do.

Sartre · 01/09/2026 11:06

Ablondiebutagoody · 01/09/2026 10:25

@rathersleepy

Agreed because we enable it.

Can't be arsed to work? Here have a house and truckloads of cash. In fact, have some more kids and we'll give you even more!

Not feeding your child? It's ok, we'll do it. You concentrate on other stuff.

The incentives are the total opposite of what they need to be for things to change.

Edited

I think people have massively missed the point. The free breakfast clubs aren’t to feed the kids of feckless parents who otherwise wouldn’t, they’re to provide free wraparound care for working parents who currently pay for it. At least that is my interpretation. I’m grateful for it as a full time worker who isn’t eligible for any benefits. It’s literally the only labour policy we benefit directly from.

Anyone who thinks school isn’t a form of childcare is frankly delusional, of course it is. That’s why “keyworker” children still went in during lockdown.

aterriblemiddleclassfanny · 01/09/2026 11:06

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/09/2026 08:41

Speaking as someone who ran themselves ragged, was always chasing deadlines to get to and from school, did without in order to put food on the table - yes.

Just get organised. Feed your kids. Reduce working hours if necessary. I fed mine before school.sent packed lunch if necessary. Paid for school lunches if necessary. Gave afternoon snacks after school - which is a time when kids are hungry. Put decent meal on the table in the evening. Milk was always available. Kids need milk.
Most of the mums at school were the same. We took it for granted that we had a responsibility to look after our kids.

Im now awaiting all the bile and vitriol from mumsnet.

Children do not need (cows) milk. I am not saying (before I get jumped on) that feeding a child who's otherwise starving a bottle of milk isn't better than nothing, but let's not perpetuate a dairy-industry funded myth.

aterriblemiddleclassfanny · 01/09/2026 10:52

dustabsorber · 01/09/2026 00:07

Yet more dumming down.

I hope this is satire.

aterriblemiddleclassfanny · 01/09/2026 10:50

Livelovebehappy · 31/08/2026 23:56

It’s just transferring what should be the responsibility of the parents to the school. Again. Maybe spend the money educating parents on how to parent. If a parent has to be advised that their child needs feeding in a morning before school, then they shouldn’t be having children. Breakfast is not expensive for a child.

That is true, but neglectful/incapable parents unfortunately DO have children. The government can't stop them doing that. If we removed every child whose parents were incapable (or couldn't be bothered!) taking care of them properly, where would we put all these children? Who'd have them? Bring back orphanages/workhouses? Educating someone whose drug habit or criminal activity or relationship is more important than their children (to them) does nothing. Educating someone with the IQ of an amoeba also does nothing.

emuloc · 01/09/2026 10:35

Ablondiebutagoody · 01/09/2026 10:25

@rathersleepy

Agreed because we enable it.

Can't be arsed to work? Here have a house and truckloads of cash. In fact, have some more kids and we'll give you even more!

Not feeding your child? It's ok, we'll do it. You concentrate on other stuff.

The incentives are the total opposite of what they need to be for things to change.

Edited

Sigh! 🙄

Ablondiebutagoody · 01/09/2026 10:25

@rathersleepy

Agreed because we enable it.

Can't be arsed to work? Here have a house and truckloads of cash. In fact, have some more kids and we'll give you even more!

Not feeding your child? It's ok, we'll do it. You concentrate on other stuff.

The incentives are the total opposite of what they need to be for things to change.

Lmnop22 · 01/09/2026 10:20

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/09/2026 08:18

I am generally not in favour of school breakfasts. I think if people have kids they should feed them. It's a basic parental responsibility to feed and clothe your kids. I honestly don't understand why people have kids. Why? Why?

Also, school dinners are absolutely rubbish. They are not nutritious. My offspring chose to take packed lunches. Then complained sandwiches were boring. Schools also employed lunch box stasi, although school meals were rubbish. My offspring would have school lunches for a while then demanded packed lunches again.

I believe it is not the responsibility of the tax payers to feed the kids of the feckless. Im talking about the feckless who have the latest phone and shiny nails, but don't feed their kids.

I do agree with other posters that maybe breakfast is not the best meal. I once visited a school where kids had a slice of toast at morning break. They absolutely loved it. I think they paid for it. Also, a small bottle of milk would be easy to consume and much more nutritious.

If kids have to be fed at school, I'd rather they have toast and milk mid morning. Most kids will eat 50/50 bread.

And don't get me started on wraparound care. Adults have restricted working hours. Yet, it's ok for kids to be dumped in school from 8.00 am until 6.00pm. 10 hours a day.
No it's not ok. It's really not. They are exhausted.

What do you expect parents to do if they have to work full time to make sure they can feed and clothe their kids and keep a roof over their heads?

Not everyone can have a job that’s 9-3 Monday to Friday and wraparound care is absolutely essential. Also, they don’t sit and learn during that time, they often play outside or do crafts or whatever so it’s only the sorts of things they’d be doing at home.

Makes me so angry that some people think working full time and using childcare options is somehow abusive. You should see the state my kids would be in if I (single mother) could only work part time or not at all.

Lmnop22 · 01/09/2026 10:16

dustabsorber · 01/09/2026 00:07

Yet more dumming down.

Dumbing*

Oh the irony 😂

Lmnop22 · 01/09/2026 10:13

BerryTwister · 01/09/2026 00:20

@Lmnop22 I thought the point was that breakfasts were going to be offered for free? I’m not sure what you mean.
Oh hang on, do you mean that breakfast club fees (the fee for the time) will be put up to cover the cost of the “free” breakfast?

Actually that’s a good point - if free food is available for all, then surely more kids will come, and more staff will be needed

The point is that everyone who sends their kids to school for their breakfast is being lumped together in this thread as lazy and refusing to prioritise the needs of their children.

There are plenty of kids (like mine) who get “free” breakfast because they are entitled to it but during breakfast club which is an activity costing me £100s per month.

So I disagree that all children who eat breakfast at school come from households with lazy parents who can’t afford a loaf of bread and, actually, it’s likely because of those paying parents that a lot of other kids are fed for free.

Of course parents who just don’t bother to feed their kids are abhorrent but this thread is suggesting it’s negligent parenting not to have given some home cooked and well balanced dieticians’ dream breakfast every morning for any reason at all and there are plenty of good reasons why that’s not practical for families that certainly don’t require social services intervention!

Somethinggg · 01/09/2026 09:22

Sartre · 01/09/2026 08:59

Ha this is such a Mumsnet trope and it’s just bullshit. Of course it’s childcare.

I understand why people don't want school to be childcare, but we have a system where it absolutely functions as that. To that end, I agree this is as much about that childcare aspect of schooling as anything else. Trying to reduce one of the barriers to parental employment.

Worth pointing out that this is happening in the context of childminder numbers contracting, meaning parents may not have access to other options. Also the numbers wanting other forms of wraparound are going to be dropping just because of birth cohort numbers, so other provision may get less viable.

SideBob · 01/09/2026 09:17

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 31/08/2026 21:52

If you can't feed your child before they go to school then what the hell is wrong with you.

Some people have to get up early and race to work.

Im sorry but wtf is up with these comments? Parents waking up at the crack of dawn to take their children to breakfast club are doing so out of need. They’re the last people to be lazy.

I WFH 4 days a week and I can see this, why is this so hard for some of you to understand??

Icecreamandcoffee · 01/09/2026 09:14

LaterBabies · 31/08/2026 21:45

I suspect you are right, nursery from 9 months and breakfast clubs for all and I think it will mean more pressure on UC claimants

It's absolutely this. If breakfast club is free for all primary school age pupils you completely get around the "I can't start until 9" issue that is a barrier to mum's going back into the workforce. Instead UC argue, they can go to breakfast club. Hence you can now start at 8/ 8.30.

I'll be honest, I would like to see the removal of some of the cliff edge benefits like FSM and 30 hours funding for WORKING parents. I know so many families (especially women) who are not going for promotions/ not going back full time/ shoving money into salary sacrifice ect in order to keep under that 100k for the 30hours. If 30 free hours was universal there would be more tax money as people with nursery age children would not be turning down promotions. Universal FSM would remove school meals stigma. It would also relieve pressure of household budgets who are packing children up for school. Just because parents earn well, does not mean they are fed well.

whengodwasarabbit1 · 01/09/2026 09:10

Lmnop22 · 31/08/2026 21:44

Clearly not written by a working single mother 😬

I have two children, one in nursery and one in breakfast club - they both (and me!) need to be up, washed, dressed and ready by 07:15 and they refuse to eat first thing when they wake up because they’re tired and groggy. Giving my children some toast at breakfast club is the difference between my 6 year old eating in the morning at all or not.

Also, just to be clear, even if they would eat in the first half hour of the day, there’s zero chance I’m in the kitchen cooking up scrambled eggs at 6am when I’m trying to shower and get three people up and ready for the day alone 😂

Absolutely agree. My children go to a childminder in the morning for 45minutes before school so I can get to work on time. A school breakfast club would really help me. I'm a single parent too.

MalteserGeezee · 01/09/2026 09:01

Hankunamatata · 31/08/2026 21:45

Total waste of money imo unless a very deprived area.

Be better providing decent snack mid morning for kids who need it.

This is actually a really good point. Some mid morning carbs (none of this fruit bullshit, and apple won't fill a kid up) is a great compromise. But as previous posters have noted, I think part of this is about freeing up parents to get to work.

Sartre · 01/09/2026 08:59

PleaseDontAsk · 01/09/2026 08:58

School isn't childcare

Ha this is such a Mumsnet trope and it’s just bullshit. Of course it’s childcare.

PleaseDontAsk · 01/09/2026 08:58

Sartre · 01/09/2026 08:51

I think you’re missing the point. It isn’t to provide their kids with food, it’s the childcare element.

School isn't childcare

Sartre · 01/09/2026 08:51

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/09/2026 08:41

Speaking as someone who ran themselves ragged, was always chasing deadlines to get to and from school, did without in order to put food on the table - yes.

Just get organised. Feed your kids. Reduce working hours if necessary. I fed mine before school.sent packed lunch if necessary. Paid for school lunches if necessary. Gave afternoon snacks after school - which is a time when kids are hungry. Put decent meal on the table in the evening. Milk was always available. Kids need milk.
Most of the mums at school were the same. We took it for granted that we had a responsibility to look after our kids.

Im now awaiting all the bile and vitriol from mumsnet.

I think you’re missing the point. It isn’t to provide their kids with food, it’s the childcare element.

WhatNextImScared · 01/09/2026 08:50

And @Gooseinthewoodits not a social care issue, it’s a finance issue. Local housing allowance is divorced from the cost of housing. Lots and lots of parents are choosing to pay rent over providing breakfast as they know that school at least provides lunch.

putupwhatever · 01/09/2026 08:50

I appreciate the breakfast as am also shepherding kids out the house at the crack of dawn but it is literally cereeal and toast

tamade · 01/09/2026 08:49

Nice idea, but it will be crap though won't it?
Sugary commercial cereal, margarine and jam on sliced white bread and porridge which apparently everyone thinks is healthy.
Their blood sugar will be up and down like a yo-yo and they will be hungry again by half past nine.
But there will be companies queuing up to make a fortune shoveling shit at our kids

putupwhatever · 01/09/2026 08:49

we have piloted the new breakfast clubs at my kids primary. I still have to pay for wraparound as it's only funded from 8.20 which for a lot of people deosn't give time to get to work. Generally what has happened is those who need the breakfast club to get to work are still paying for the earlier start and those who can use the free half hour tend me those who wouldn't use wraparound (either SAHM or those with more flexibility with work/part time/ WFH). So in some ways it seems a bit pointless. I'm sure there are a few winners. I think it is supposed to be with enabling people to get to work but it needs to be earlier!

emuloc · 01/09/2026 08:49

Chillyegg · 01/09/2026 06:51

I have worked in schools my whole professional life as TA then a teacher.

The amount of children that come into school with out breakfast/lunch is huge.
There are children coming into schools in clothes that are so significantly small for them they break. As in tear apart / fall apart Infront of you.

The whole my taxes shouldn't be paying for that child's bread argument gives me such a swift eye roll I get nausea.

Some families simply do not have food at home.

Some families do not have money . At All.

Some families have no furniture not even carpets.

Some families are struggling to balance life -the mornings are manic and it's taken everyone's hard work to get a specific child into school that day.

Some families do not have the capacity to feed their child healthy balanced protein filled breakfasts but this does not meet a social care threshold.

Some people ( a minority) abuse/ neglect their children .

Many countries provide state funded meals to support children.
It blows my mind that in 2026 we begrudge children food who are victims to circumstances they were born into .

Many teachers already provide snacks in class for free out of their own wage to support young children get through the day.

Honestly I think the cost of living is getting worse and more families are struggling - of course our government should subsidise meals it's the best use of money. It guarantees children come to school as they know they'll get fed.keeps them nourished and gaining an education.

Thank you for this. I am getting fed up of the posts that seem to imply that children not receiving breakfast is down to parents who simply can't be bothered, without even trying to understand what could be going on in some people's homes. I am glad that this is happening. I only hope that the food is of a decent quality, and will help those children who will really benefit.

WhatNextImScared · 01/09/2026 08:49

Gooseinthewood · 31/08/2026 21:27

Absolutely appalling idea. It's junk food, white bread and puffed cereal. Working parents have to use wraparound to get to work on time, but then the child ends up having sugary cereal instead of a proper breakfast like scrambled eggs.

My sister has a nightmare as her children either end up eating twice or eating much poorer quality food than she would give them.

If children are not fed in the morning it's a social care issue. They should be fed, but separately at school from the wraparound whilst social care sort out why the child isn't being fed.

This is much less important a social consideration for state spending than the needs of the child who arrives at school with nothing to eat at all.

Hardsell · 01/09/2026 08:45

Binnyforthewin · 01/09/2026 08:08

Child Benefit should be reduced to fund it. We already give people child benefit to help feed their children. This feels like double dipping.

There are already families going to food banks. Cutting children benefit would make that worse. Alot of these parents probably didn't go to food banks before the cost of living.

Also as some people have already mentioned vulnerable children likely won't go to breakfast club because the parent won't get there on time. So the child's still missing breakfast on top of that the child benefit is cut.