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To say firmly and definitively I won’t miss it

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toomanytakeawaysthissummer · 30/08/2026 13:42

I realised far too late parenting is not for me, although I still hope things will get better. I had a very unrealistic idea of just how much work small children are.

As a result the last few years have been some of the most miserable of my life and I’ve been wrung out, stressed, exhausted and depleted in every single way from every single part of my life.

Like I say, I am hoping it might get better.

But I’m told by others often with a game chuckle that I’ll miss it one day. That these are the best days (can’t see it myself) and I’ll long for these days in ten years.

Are they fucking mental or what?

OP posts:
stillavid · 30/08/2026 13:45

I love having teen/young adult children - I do not miss the baby or toddler years at all.

MageKing · 30/08/2026 13:44

I dont miss the early years at all and never will.

I love my children but enjoy them far more as older, more independent, more interesting people.