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AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK?

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CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 09:40

This is some dystopian lord of the flies hell. Those poor women. Burned on the boat. Wth. Poor man stabbed to death. Why are the people that did this then going to be roaming free in the UK? Why are they allowed to enter the UK in the first place? Why are gangs not being 'smashed'?

Why won't the government tell us the truth about their crime rates?

AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

Channel chaos as migrant dies, two women burned and one stabbed on same boat

Forty-five of those on board continued towards the UK and were picked up by a British rescue vessel.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

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GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:46

MaturingCheeseball · 01/09/2026 18:38

Please stay, @GunnelVallquist !

Aww thank you 😭

MaturingCheeseball · 01/09/2026 18:38

Please stay, @GunnelVallquist !

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:27

Ah ok, just seen your edit.

Thank you, but I don’t think I’ll bother.

Thank you anyway.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:26

TemperanceWest · 01/09/2026 18:25

Did your thread mention a particular currency which is digital? That would get it hidden automatically.

Eta: you need to email mnhq or ask in site stuff. The @ won't work.

Edited

No, not at all.

It was about ‘celebrities’/ famous people getting involved in politics.

But thank you for asking, I appreciate it.

TemperanceWest · 01/09/2026 18:25

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 17:56

I just posted (or so I thought) a new thread, but it’s not showing.

I don’t think I want to be part of this site anymore where insults are staying up for a good twelve hours whereas I’ve already had two posts deleted and now my thread is not showing.

What is the point?

Edited

Did your thread mention a particular currency which is digital? That would get it hidden automatically.

Eta: you need to email mnhq or ask in site stuff. The @ won't work.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:23

@mumsnet can you tell me why my thread wasn’t approved please?

Thank you.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 18:12

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 18:12

Haha I used to get got. Ik what to look out for now ;

Exactly 💯

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 18:12

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 18:08

We have all had posts deleted except for @Easternstandard because she's too smart 😆 🤣 takes a while to learn how to post and carefully.

Haha I used to get got. Ik what to look out for now ;

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 01/09/2026 18:10

Anonyanonay · 01/09/2026 11:12

I am always stunned that people on the 'I'm so virtuous' progressive left never ask themselves if it is morally acceptable to poach doctors and engineers from countries that sorely need them.

Heard something v interesting on the radio about this a while back, there's actually quite a cyclic pattern of immigrant doctors eventually returning to their home countries taking better medical practice and knowledge with them. There's a debate on how beneficial this is.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 18:08

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:05

Thank you @EasternStandard ❤️.

I am really upset right now because I like to think I always ‘play by the rules’,

We have all had posts deleted except for @Easternstandard because she's too smart 😆 🤣 takes a while to learn how to post and carefully.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:05

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 18:04

Don't go. That lets people win. You have some good mates on here x

Edited

Thank you 😭❤️

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:05

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 18:03

I hope you stay @GunnelVallquistik it can be frustrating at times. I really appreciate your take.

Thank you @EasternStandard ❤️.

I am really upset right now because I like to think I always ‘play by the rules’,

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 18:04

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 17:56

I just posted (or so I thought) a new thread, but it’s not showing.

I don’t think I want to be part of this site anymore where insults are staying up for a good twelve hours whereas I’ve already had two posts deleted and now my thread is not showing.

What is the point?

Edited

Don't go. That lets people win. You have some good mates on here x

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 01/09/2026 18:04

Smokeywater · 30/08/2026 09:48

Weak governments from Blair onwards

to add - will make me vote Restore or Reform regardless of the idiots running these parties - it's a last hope of someone doing something

Edited

What do you think they're going to actually do, that's legal and possible, and different to what current parties are looking at?

If you can't answer that without looking it up you've foolishly believed the same sort of rhetoric that got us into Brexit.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 18:03

So disappointed in mumsnet…fair enough I had some posts deleted this morning (although other people’s posts with hideous insults stayed up for 12+ hrs, but never mind)

But to not even post my thread when there was nothing remotely racist/ xenophobic/ inappropriate is really disappointing.

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 18:03

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 17:56

I just posted (or so I thought) a new thread, but it’s not showing.

I don’t think I want to be part of this site anymore where insults are staying up for a good twelve hours whereas I’ve already had two posts deleted and now my thread is not showing.

What is the point?

Edited

I hope you stay @GunnelVallquistik it can be frustrating at times. I really appreciate your take.

foursquares · 01/09/2026 18:00

Smokeywater · 30/08/2026 09:48

Weak governments from Blair onwards

to add - will make me vote Restore or Reform regardless of the idiots running these parties - it's a last hope of someone doing something

Edited

lol..should have finished those GCSEs

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 17:56

I just posted (or so I thought) a new thread, but it’s not showing.

I don’t think I want to be part of this site anymore where insults are staying up for a good twelve hours whereas I’ve already had two posts deleted and now my thread is not showing.

What is the point?

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 13:45

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 13:42

Yep. I’m glad others are too and can talk about it. Finally.

It’s been a long time coming.

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 13:42

Yep. I’m glad others are too and can talk about it. Finally.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 13:41

I’m so tired of all this shit.

EasternStandard · 01/09/2026 13:36

At least when the usual is we always thought it was dangerous these threads will show what women faced.

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 13:01

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 12:45

That was really arrogant - telling OP to wind the thread up.

It was.

But I think I’ve reached the point where I don’t give a shit anymore.

I’ve been angry for a long, long time. My home country has paid a high price for its ‘welcome culture’.

But for a long time those of us who hated it and could see where things were headed, were shouted down and called all names under the sun.

Well I don’t care anymore. I love this country and I like to think I’ve made a positive contribution to it (not just to my English husband 🤣).

If anything, me being a foreigner should mean something, as in it’s not just ‘British Gammons, knuckle draggers’ etc.

No, there are a lot of concerned citizens in this country. Homegrown and immigrants alike.

The left doesn’t get to dismiss us just because we don’t fit into their world view.

Instead of blindly following the ‘be kind’ narrative, open your eyes and ears.

And for the love of God, don’t keep dismissing articles from the Daily Mail etc because you think they ‘spread false news’ or ‘propaganda’.

As if the Guardian and the BBC aren’t biased!

And the Daily Mail was, if I remember correctly, one of the first papers to point out the lunacy of self ID.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 12:45

GunnelVallquist · 01/09/2026 11:54

Yes, on the very first page already ‘Third thread in as many days’ and ‘Why don’t you go and take the dog for a walk or sit in the garden OP?’

How dare we discuss this?

That was really arrogant - telling OP to wind the thread up.

LuckyHazelFox · 01/09/2026 12:43

Anonyanonay · 01/09/2026 11:48

They're also absolutely fine with rampant hypocrisy. Palestinians should have their ethnic homeland, but the English and white Europeans aren't allowed to even suggest they have one. Racism is just fine when it excludes white people, as DEI quotas often show. Constantly banging on about violence on the right while openly cheering the death of Charlie Kirk and Ann Widdecombe. Race swapping characters in books and history, but imagine the uproar if someone made a drama where a white European played a black or brown character. It's so fucking tedious.

Wish I could frame this post.