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AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK?

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CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 09:40

This is some dystopian lord of the flies hell. Those poor women. Burned on the boat. Wth. Poor man stabbed to death. Why are the people that did this then going to be roaming free in the UK? Why are they allowed to enter the UK in the first place? Why are gangs not being 'smashed'?

Why won't the government tell us the truth about their crime rates?

AIBU to be deeply concerned about the sheer number of unchecked undocumented unknown men coming into the UK.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

Channel chaos as migrant dies, two women burned and one stabbed on same boat

Forty-five of those on board continued towards the UK and were picked up by a British rescue vessel.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/2243693/english-channel-small-boat-migrant-dies

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CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 14:02

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 14:00

I’m not sure why the op can’t start threads. This one is 78% yanbu.

Obviously some won’t like women talking about this for various reasons, but tough really. They can hide the thread.

Some people Really don't like it do they.. Telling.. Bit like the Lab government spending tax payers money trying to suppress information we'd like to see.

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Tiredtaxpayer · 30/08/2026 14:02

@Firetreev it's not a country filled with resources. ( ! )

I don't think you've studied much UK history.

We had gold and slate (in Wales) and iron ore in Lincolnshire (especially around Scunthorpe), tin (in Cornwall) silver, and copper
The Weald (Sussex and Kent): Clay and sand beds provided shallow iron ore exploited from Roman times through the Tudor era for local smelting and cannon manufacturing
Later on when deep shaft sinking began in 1900s we had access to coal at deeper levels.
We had a prosperous fishing and shellfish industry.
We had extensive forests, especially of oak from which we made ships.

Parker231 · 30/08/2026 14:01

KatiePricesKnickers · 30/08/2026 13:09

You’ll be getting called thick, uneducated and racist for this post.

Anyone who thinks letting Windrush in was wrong are thick and stupid

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 14:00

Petrolitis · 30/08/2026 13:58

Pull the other one

I’m not sure why the op can’t start threads. This one is 78% yanbu.

Obviously some won’t like women talking about this for various reasons, but tough really. They can hide the thread.

Petrolitis · 30/08/2026 13:58

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 11:38

What 'real life action' do you suggest?

And btw - raising awareness and increasing debate - giving sunlight to issue, ensuring people don't feel they are the only ones with certain views, always helps. Though admittedly - I think many people in the UK population see this issue now.

Perhaps more traction now AB is installing asylum seekers in the Cotswolds (or which ever posher leavy suburbs he chooses. Perhaps the Cheshire village he grew up in).

Pull the other one

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 13:55

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EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 13:54

Yanbu op I don’t think many will be ok with this.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 13:52

Parker231 · 30/08/2026 11:59

You’d have no independent review of proposed legislation? The Supreme Court was deciding whether the government’s proposed scheme complied with existing UK law and the UK’s legal obligations. It didn’t.

It was overruled by legislation.

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 13:51

Firetreev · 30/08/2026 12:05

Kindly OP, the Guardian is not the left wing version of the Daily Mail. The left wing of the DM would be The Mirror. The Daily Mail and The Mirror are tabloids, and are accessible to those with a reading age 8 years plus. The Guardian is a broadsheet, and broadsheet generally requires a reading age of 12/13 years plus. This might sound snooty, but it's a fact that outlets such as the Daily Mail, The Sun, The Daily Express are aimed at those with lower educational levels. The quality of their journalism is generally much poorer and they have often been found to be on the wrong side of history. The Daily Mail was all for Hitler in the 30s! The Sun and it's smearing of Hillsborough etc.

Most of the tabloids are about preserving the interests of the very wealthy, as are some of the broadsheets. What's in the interest of the very wealthy at the moment is preserving their wealth, we live in the most unequal time in recorded history, and the easiest way to so this is to sow division. Divide and conquer and sadly a lot of people are lapping it up. And as before, I want the small boats to stop and agree that immigration has been to high, especially since Brexit.

😂😆 Aw you're so cute. Kindly 😆

Hate to update your antiquated the mirror is the left wing version of the daily mail crap, but wake up. It's embarrassing for you. Honestly. Things have changed A LOT since eg. the Hillsborough days. In those days for example, Labour really was the party of the working people.

Listen - I'm self confident enough to be able to post an article by the mail, the express, the sun, the times, the guardian, al jazeera, sky news, the spectator and many more. You see I don't just judge an article by the organisation which presented it. Unlike you, check yourself and your questionable assumptions. It'll benefit you. And others.

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SoThatwasSummer · 30/08/2026 13:49

putupwhatever · 30/08/2026 13:25

I am concerned for women and girls. I live in a tiny village of 700 people which will now have a 1500 asylum camp for single men in the middle of it. The village is isolated and you can't get to anywhere else from it. I have 4 daughters. My teenagers will probably have to stop biking, meeting their friends in the park and have the new found teenage independence taken away from them. I don't think it is racist to have concerns about the scale of this and how it will totally skew the demographic of a community. Women and girls will be outnumbered 6 to 1. Living rurally most of our hobbies involve walking the dog along the filed and lanes. But it is very isolated. I have seen the news and stats that asylum seekers from the countries that will be in this camp are over-represented in crime statistics, particularly sex crimes. I'm not without sympathy for the state of the countries these people are coming from like Yemen, Afghanistan etc. I think it must be truly awful there. But like someone above says two things can be true at the same time. Huge numbers of single men with nothing to do from very different cultures are not going to have no impact on the communities they are put in. The world is changing hugely and for all sorts of reasons more people are going to be coming. We need to really consider the implications of it

And yet imagine if that was 1500 women and children instead!

hourglass2 · 30/08/2026 13:48

Sav34 · 30/08/2026 13:39

MNers will say "but we have domestic rapists too"

Yes I'm waiting for someone to say that, of course we have male rapists in the UK but it not deemed normal or acceptable in modern society, we have enough of our own without importing any more..in some cultures women are just viewed as male property to be used and raped at their pleasure, marrying off females at 9 years old is seen as normal, we don't want those values in the UK..

SoThatwasSummer · 30/08/2026 13:47

@Catza I don't understand what you mean ?
The migrants have phones ,the internet and they have real human contacts and networks .

They don't need mumsent or anything like us to tell them what they can get here.

Which is housing, money ,food ,doctors a bus to the local town and somerimes games thrown in .

Or they just meet their contacts already here and dissapear into the black ecconomy.

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 13:43

hourglass2 · 30/08/2026 13:36

Not forgetting the government issued a leaflet to these men saying it's not normal or acceptable to rape women...

And they have promised to not house asylum seekers next door to schools and nurseries.. Therefore fully accepting and admitting there is a problem. Just like wot we voters say there is.

(Granted none of us (save 70 people near Manchester) actually voted for our current PM, as we weren't given the option of doing so)

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CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 13:40

CoventryCity · 30/08/2026 11:44

Wonder why.

Don't they have a shortage of doctors, lawyers and engineers?

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Sav34 · 30/08/2026 13:39

hourglass2 · 30/08/2026 13:36

Not forgetting the government issued a leaflet to these men saying it's not normal or acceptable to rape women...

MNers will say "but we have domestic rapists too"

Puzzledandpissedoff · 30/08/2026 13:37

Fortunately the days of the left shutting down any unease and concern about the huge numbers of people, particularly men, who have no desire to integrate and whose cultures are incompatible with Western values are over

It is indeed fortunate that those days are over, @LoveItaly, but a lot of people had a lot of fun telling anyone who raised these issues - no matter how rationally - how racist they were and you can't expect them to appreciate others waking up

And we can't "make" France do anything, @Parker231, though we could certainly stop paying them millions to take measures they've no intention of adopting.
As ever the French will prioritise what suits them - something we could perhaps learn from - but I'm not sure what's to stop us intercepting boats, towing them back to the French coast and leaving them there. I don't imagine they'd be pleased, but with enough effort the issue could well solve itself once it was absorbed that they're really not going to reach the UK like this

hourglass2 · 30/08/2026 13:36

smallglassbottle · 30/08/2026 11:07

And yet the attacks continue.

Not forgetting the government issued a leaflet to these men saying it's not normal or acceptable to rape women...

FirmSnake · 30/08/2026 13:33

putupwhatever · 30/08/2026 13:28

It also worries me that the only people who will talk about it are Reform. I think the reluctance of parties to talk about the issues will push people onto reform even if they don't agree with them, as they are the only party talking about it.

Why do you say Reform are the only ones talking about it? That isn't remotely true.
Reform loudly promise things that they can't deliver, but that doesn't mean they are the only ones talking about it.

putupwhatever · 30/08/2026 13:32

Firetreev · 30/08/2026 12:05

Kindly OP, the Guardian is not the left wing version of the Daily Mail. The left wing of the DM would be The Mirror. The Daily Mail and The Mirror are tabloids, and are accessible to those with a reading age 8 years plus. The Guardian is a broadsheet, and broadsheet generally requires a reading age of 12/13 years plus. This might sound snooty, but it's a fact that outlets such as the Daily Mail, The Sun, The Daily Express are aimed at those with lower educational levels. The quality of their journalism is generally much poorer and they have often been found to be on the wrong side of history. The Daily Mail was all for Hitler in the 30s! The Sun and it's smearing of Hillsborough etc.

Most of the tabloids are about preserving the interests of the very wealthy, as are some of the broadsheets. What's in the interest of the very wealthy at the moment is preserving their wealth, we live in the most unequal time in recorded history, and the easiest way to so this is to sow division. Divide and conquer and sadly a lot of people are lapping it up. And as before, I want the small boats to stop and agree that immigration has been to high, especially since Brexit.

Talk about patronising!

The Guardian is also concerned with shoring up it's own version of power, through cultural capital and soft power. That those who are educated 'know best' and we should submit to their wisdom. The rest of us are uneducated oiks. Your post drips with this BTW

putupwhatever · 30/08/2026 13:28

Firetreev · 30/08/2026 13:02

People don't realise that once you vote in a fascist it's too late - your country will be destroyed and led by the worst people imaginable. Imagine the town low life being in charge of your local council. That's how it will end up. Lowe and his outfit will lead this country into the gutter. They won't solve any problems either, once the immigrants are 'dealt with' they'll move on to the disabled, the LGBT community, children with SEN etc. It'll be an endless list of scapegoats and eventually you'll probably find yourself or someone you love and care for on it. The very wealthy will get richer and everyone else will suffer.

It also worries me that the only people who will talk about it are Reform. I think the reluctance of parties to talk about the issues will push people onto reform even if they don't agree with them, as they are the only party talking about it.

putupwhatever · 30/08/2026 13:25

FrysChocolateCreams · 30/08/2026 11:26

Another anti immigration thread dressed up as faux concern for women. Like you really care.

I am concerned for women and girls. I live in a tiny village of 700 people which will now have a 1500 asylum camp for single men in the middle of it. The village is isolated and you can't get to anywhere else from it. I have 4 daughters. My teenagers will probably have to stop biking, meeting their friends in the park and have the new found teenage independence taken away from them. I don't think it is racist to have concerns about the scale of this and how it will totally skew the demographic of a community. Women and girls will be outnumbered 6 to 1. Living rurally most of our hobbies involve walking the dog along the filed and lanes. But it is very isolated. I have seen the news and stats that asylum seekers from the countries that will be in this camp are over-represented in crime statistics, particularly sex crimes. I'm not without sympathy for the state of the countries these people are coming from like Yemen, Afghanistan etc. I think it must be truly awful there. But like someone above says two things can be true at the same time. Huge numbers of single men with nothing to do from very different cultures are not going to have no impact on the communities they are put in. The world is changing hugely and for all sorts of reasons more people are going to be coming. We need to really consider the implications of it

Firetreev · 30/08/2026 13:11

Friendlygingercat · 30/08/2026 13:05

Its not just the latest batches though is it? Beginning with Windrush wave upon wave of large ethnic groups have been allowed into this country and given equal citizenship without any public consultation in the form of a referendum. I don't remember being asked if I wanted to vote for so called "multi ethnic society". I know what my vote would have been.

Probably should have a word with the dead, who declared all these people British subjects and gave them the right to citizenship. Britain is only the wealthy successful country it is now because of its Empire. Without the Empire, it would be a backwater country with very little wealth - it's not a country filled with resources. It's wealth was built through Empire.

Views like yours are dangerous. Why shouldn't people born here have equal rights just because they have more melanin than you? You aren't superior because you have white skin.

Catza · 30/08/2026 13:10

Friendlygingercat · 30/08/2026 13:05

Its not just the latest batches though is it? Beginning with Windrush wave upon wave of large ethnic groups have been allowed into this country and given equal citizenship without any public consultation in the form of a referendum. I don't remember being asked if I wanted to vote for so called "multi ethnic society". I know what my vote would have been.

I assure you people from India and Carribean were also not asked if they wanted British people to colonise their country.

MaturingCheeseball · 30/08/2026 13:09

A long-term solution is making the relevant laws and getting the knowledge out there that they cannot access benefits, state-provided housing and cannot bring family members .

Short-term they should absolutely not be able to wander freely when we do not know their background. That is madness and dereliction of duty to public safety.

Further any off-shore processing must be investigated. Falkland Islands maybe?

But mainly axe the incentives.

KatiePricesKnickers · 30/08/2026 13:09

Friendlygingercat · 30/08/2026 13:05

Its not just the latest batches though is it? Beginning with Windrush wave upon wave of large ethnic groups have been allowed into this country and given equal citizenship without any public consultation in the form of a referendum. I don't remember being asked if I wanted to vote for so called "multi ethnic society". I know what my vote would have been.

You’ll be getting called thick, uneducated and racist for this post.

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