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AIBU to ask my neighbour to tidy their garden before viewings?

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RaspberryRoad · 28/08/2026 19:24

I’m selling my detached house, valued at £385,000 (not sure if that’s relevant) It’s a relatively new-build property, so the houses are fairly close together.
My next-door neighbour’s garden is currently very overgrown, particularly the grass, and it will be quite noticeable when viewings start and in the estate agent’s photos.
Would I be unreasonable to politely ask them if they would mind cutting the grass before my house goes on the market? Alternatively, would it be reasonable to offer to cut it for them myself, so they don’t feel I’m asking them to do work purely for my benefit?
I obviously don’t want to offend them or create any awkwardness, but I’m conscious that first impressions matter when selling a house.
What would you do?

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RaspberryRoad · 28/08/2026 21:46

Maray1967 · 28/08/2026 20:10

If your potential buyers are like me they will ask you if any of the neighbours have a large aggressive dog and you need to answer honestly. There is no way I’m living next to an XL bully or similar.

Edited

Fair point. I’ve only ever seen it twice (its a German shepherd not an XL Bully) and they told me last week it probably only has a few weeks left to live so it might not be an issue.

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ByQuaintAzureWasp · 28/08/2026 22:06

A friend is selling ... hes mowed two adjacent gardens! Its rubbish I know.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 28/08/2026 22:08

MyArtfulGreySloth · 28/08/2026 20:35

No the price isn’t relevant and you have absolutely no right to ask them to tidy! How rude and entitled.

She's trying to sell her house and scruffy neighbour gardens are not conducive to that.

RaspberryRoad · 28/08/2026 22:10

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 28/08/2026 22:08

She's trying to sell her house and scruffy neighbour gardens are not conducive to that.

Yup - correct! Thanks x

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UsernameHoarder · 29/08/2026 00:54

If you do go and mow, beware the dog shit and be prepared to do a poo patrol.

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