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AIBU to feel panicked about Russia bombing the UK?

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Downtherabbithole34 · 27/08/2026 20:29

Currently having an actual panic attack about Russia bombing the UK and me and my kid dying.

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SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 19:22

I watch slow horses

We have had terror attacks on our soil i don't understand what us doing anything abroad means for our safety with not just leaking borders but open borders controlled by the IRG ?

maximc · 29/08/2026 18:59

I agree you need help. We can become fixated on scary news as a displacement for things happening in our own lives. Would recommend a chat with your GP to look into medication & counselling options..

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 18:42

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:37

What are we giving and how does that help us when the irg are rooted in the UK etc ?

Lol what on Earth makes you think I could - or would - tell you?????

Surely you have some idea of the reach and scope of our Security Services? Done any reading? Know the history of our Intelligence Network?

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:37

What are we giving and how does that help us when the irg are rooted in the UK etc ?

Sideorderofchips · 29/08/2026 18:37

BlackeyedSusan · 27/08/2026 20:37

Very very unlikely as then it would trigger article 5 of NATO. They do not want that.

Article 5 is no guarantee that other members of nato would actually get involved. It is only the ability to ask for help

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 18:35

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:32

@BMW58 I don't understand the stance of your posts.

I am simply saying that you appear to think we are taking it but not giving it.

You appear to think we are helpless and defenceless.

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:32

@BMW58 I don't understand the stance of your posts.

JennyAuker · 29/08/2026 18:32

terrifiedgran · 27/08/2026 20:52

I assume you get in this much of a state getting in a car? Much more likely to die a horrible death with your children then.

Wow, nasty.

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 18:31

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:16

Everything I've just said ? The IRG are running boat operations into the UK ?
A power plant was closed down for a week in the UK by the IRG.
How many people can our security forces reasonably keep tabs on ? They have thousands here already and thousands who come in on the sly ?
Russia and the IRG work hand in glove

What makes you think we are so safe ?w

Also we know the last defence secretary resigned over the spending (although that looks like it may have been fake now ) but still defence chiefs have said we were very weak and woefully unprepared for any form of conflict

Honestly why are you so naive? You don't think we are doing same - if not worse - elsewhere???

Why do you think we are so passive and toothless?

LilyBunch25 · 29/08/2026 18:29

Any Russian attack will be cyber, not bombing, to disrupt pur services and technical infrastructure. That's what they do and have already wormed their way into a lot of our social media, etc. You can make minor, calm preparation for cyber attacks if you're concerned, such as ensuring you have cash to hand, supplies for power or water cuts. Not much else you can do, other than talk over your anxiety with someone if its really affecting you.

Parky04 · 29/08/2026 18:16

Doesn't bother me at all. Death doesn't worry me. We all have to die at some point!

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:16

Everything I've just said ? The IRG are running boat operations into the UK ?
A power plant was closed down for a week in the UK by the IRG.
How many people can our security forces reasonably keep tabs on ? They have thousands here already and thousands who come in on the sly ?
Russia and the IRG work hand in glove

What makes you think we are so safe ?w

Also we know the last defence secretary resigned over the spending (although that looks like it may have been fake now ) but still defence chiefs have said we were very weak and woefully unprepared for any form of conflict

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 18:12

Spiderx
You are defining his Sanity by comparison to your Morals. Not the same thing at all.
He's a Cunt - but certainly not insane.
Your attitude is pretty arrogant.

SoThatwasSummer
Yes, but I don't understand why you seem to think we are helpless ninnies standing around doing fuck all in retaliation - or even instigation!

Why do you assume we are so utterly helpless?

EasternStandard · 29/08/2026 18:07

Spiderx · 29/08/2026 17:59

Yes true , but that doesn't make it a sane act to keep throwing cannon fodder at the " enemy" ...honestly Putin has a very shallow learning curve ...as do many other world leaders. It's all ok as long as it's someone elses relatives that are getting blown to bits and not Putins kids or Trumps. How on earth is that an act of sanity ?

It really is awful, poor people.

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 18:02
  • of course we have covert operators watching but watching people from airport and trains is one thing ,adding thousands arriving by boat is another ( and lorries ) how on earth do they keep track of so many people ? They just can't.
SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 17:59

@BMW58 wow I envy your confidence!

A power plant was shut down for 1 week recently by the IRG.
Russia helps Iran against the USA and they do buisness together. Why is it such a leap to see Russia and the IRG which I believe could be wrong is allowed in the UK ? We know they are organising and funding boat stuff .
Is it such a leap ?

Spiderx · 29/08/2026 17:59

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 16:31

Russians have never been appalled by huge losses. Look up their losses in the Revolutions, WW 1 and 2, those millions starved, deported to Gulags or just killed under Stalin.

They don't turn a hair at it. Seriously.

Yes true , but that doesn't make it a sane act to keep throwing cannon fodder at the " enemy" ...honestly Putin has a very shallow learning curve ...as do many other world leaders. It's all ok as long as it's someone elses relatives that are getting blown to bits and not Putins kids or Trumps. How on earth is that an act of sanity ?

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 17:53

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 16:41

Russia has apparently been helping Iran against the USA and the IRG shut down a power station for four days recently.

So with the IRG operating smuggling routes into the UK and bringing irg operatives in who knows what will happen ? We are wide open arnt we

You seriously don't think we also have covert systems operating or ready to go into operation??

What on Earth leads you to believe we are " wide open"?
Russia is living in the past and has been for decades. I know. I've been there. I saw what they really have compared to what they project.

MeganM3 · 29/08/2026 16:50

I have horrible fearful anxiety about something else (my youngest getting trapped under a bus or a car) and so I do understand the irrational fear of it being on your mind. And the feeling is real. It’s awful. Even if you know it’s unlikely to happen it’s still there - it’s anxiety.

FWIW I think more likely to be killed in a road traffic accident then by Russia. But I’m biased because that’s where my fear lives.

SoThatwasSummer · 29/08/2026 16:41

Russia has apparently been helping Iran against the USA and the IRG shut down a power station for four days recently.

So with the IRG operating smuggling routes into the UK and bringing irg operatives in who knows what will happen ? We are wide open arnt we

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 16:38

*Tens of millions of deaths have occurred in Russia and the former Soviet Union since 1900 due to major wars, famines, political repressions, and natural mortality.

Major Historical Catastrophes (1900–Present)

  • World War I (1914–1918): Approximately 2.8 to 3.4 million Russian military deaths. 1]
  • Russian Civil War and Famine (1917–1922): Estimated 7 to 12 million deaths from combat, disease, and starvation.
  • Stalinist Repressions and Gulags (1930s–1950s): Estimates range from 3 to 10+ million deaths including executions, forced labor, and political purges.
  • World War II / Great Patriotic War (1941–1945): An estimated 27 million Soviet military and civilian deaths.
  • Soviet Famines (e.g., 1930–1933): Millions died across the Soviet Union, heavily affecting regions like Kazakhstan and Ukraine. 1]
  • Modern Conflicts (2014–Present): Tens to hundreds of thousands of casualties in ongoing military engagements like the Russo-Ukrainian War. 1]*

Thought I'd save you the bother. Obviously the Ukraine Invasion stats are outdated.

Russian casualties of war - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_casualties_of_war

BMW58 · 29/08/2026 16:31

Spiderx · 29/08/2026 15:48

Aaah, sorry, I got it wrong ...one and a half million ( YES MILLION) of his young population killed or injured and for still no Ukranian defeat in sight and he keeps pushing them to the frontline to be slaughtered ...if thats not the sign of a madman then I would be very interested to hear what your criteria would be for one ?

Russians have never been appalled by huge losses. Look up their losses in the Revolutions, WW 1 and 2, those millions starved, deported to Gulags or just killed under Stalin.

They don't turn a hair at it. Seriously.

Spiderx · 29/08/2026 15:48

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 29/08/2026 15:05

Yes it is, it's just a lazy trope.

Vladimir Putin is not "insane", a "nutter", or any other word you might choose to describe the same thing. He's an intelligent, cunning, and manipulative man, he's also callous, venal, vain, and yes, self-aggrandising, but he isn't crazy or deranged, and he's not about to pitch the world toward nuclear armageddon just for the lols.

Trump definitely is in cognitive decline, but the issue with him is more a fundamental lack of intelligence to begin with. He's a moron.

Aaah, sorry, I got it wrong ...one and a half million ( YES MILLION) of his young population killed or injured and for still no Ukranian defeat in sight and he keeps pushing them to the frontline to be slaughtered ...if thats not the sign of a madman then I would be very interested to hear what your criteria would be for one ?

dizzydizzydizzy · 29/08/2026 15:10

I’m not particularly worried about conventional war but I am worried about more devious stuff -
For example increased levels of cybercrime, especially that targeted to sabotage key infrastructure.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 29/08/2026 15:05

Spiderx · 29/08/2026 14:59

Not propaganda at all . Both he( Putin) and the other , orange, idiot across the Atlantic care only about their own aggrandisement and short term popularity . It wouldn"t take much for either of them to be be nudged into pressing the ' nuke 'em" button . Both warmongers, both losing wars they should not have entered/ started.

Yes it is, it's just a lazy trope.

Vladimir Putin is not "insane", a "nutter", or any other word you might choose to describe the same thing. He's an intelligent, cunning, and manipulative man, he's also callous, venal, vain, and yes, self-aggrandising, but he isn't crazy or deranged, and he's not about to pitch the world toward nuclear armageddon just for the lols.

Trump definitely is in cognitive decline, but the issue with him is more a fundamental lack of intelligence to begin with. He's a moron.