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To worry about all this sick leave

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Isthismykarma · 27/08/2026 13:17

Started new job in Feb. 6 weeks in caught a stomach bug both ends so had to stay off for 2 days.
I then had a procedure at the hospital for a gynae issue in July, they said I’d be fine to go in after but I booked the whole day as AL in case of delays etc. I ended up having complications so needed the following two days off and another trip to the hospital - work agreed to let me use these days as AL too.
It’s my first period since the procedure and I completely flooded through my trousers at work yesterday so had to go home, I’ve taken today off too because it’s still heavy and I feel dizzy when I walk around, and also so I can go to the gp.
That’s three times in just over six months. When I whatsapped my manager this morning to let her know I wouldn’t be in today she’s read it and not replied so I’m shitting myself now.
I was at my last job for four years and I think I had one or maybe two absences in that time but this just feels like a string of bad luck that I’ve been unable to help!

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aliasfrog · 27/08/2026 15:17

Stop worrying, that is a normal amount of sick leave. Are you public sector? I have had months off with long covid and nothing happened.

Isthismykarma · 27/08/2026 13:28

I was hoping they can’t use the second one against me as they approved it as AL, but I suppose I was still letting them down last minute ffs

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AirborneElephant · 27/08/2026 13:25

What a string of bad luck, poor you. I’d be worried too to be honest. Can you get your doctor to confirm in writing (sick note or something) that this episode of bellding is linked to the procedure? You really want to ensure this is recorded as two episodes of illness and not three.