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A quick one, so excuse the blatant use of aibu, but which are the best pure silk pillowcases?

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Whatwaswrongwiththatusername · 27/08/2026 08:58

Hi, I need a fairly quick shortlist of good silk pillowcases (from reputable stores/sites, not cheaply made, or fake polyester satin etc, time sensitive so preferably within a week delivery). In particular if anyone has any of the lilysilk ones and how they are? I would have gone directly to lilysilk at the top of the list , and whilst I like their silk the quality of their silk bonnets has not impressed me; I bought two different styles and the elastic went on both after a quite short period. However I have a beautiful pair of long pjs (a gift and which I’m too fat for! Sob) and the silk is lovely with those, I haven’t been able to wear/wash those much due to rather quickly becoming too much of a massive heffer, and so do not know how they’d be after a while. But I still keep coming back to them to look at their pillowcases, so if anyone has any I’d love to know how you find them, and also which ones you have.

I would also like to know what other brands have been bought and can be recommended.

My preferable list of needs/wants (these will be a gift for me, but not from me, I just need to find some to put on my wishlist):

  1. preferably 20 momme or above
  2. silk on top and underneath (not a silk top with cotton under)
  3. the smooth side of the silk on both - not the matte side on the bottom
  4. typical 75-50cm (standard size for uk pillows)
  5. maybe machine washable, I wash bonnets etc by had usually but have also machine washed
  6. i think I’d prefer plain to oxford or patterned silk, unless it is a beautiful pattern, not just something g like boring stripes (unless a beautiful colour)
  7. a selction of colours to choose from - would usually go for a silver/grey, but maybe also some bright jewel tones for something different, rather than the usual pastel/light colours, but not so important
  8. zippered would be good, but not against envelope
  9. Any current deals like bogof, or half price
  10. i think that’s pretty much it really.
I may be being totally U just for posting for traffic, but time pressure. So thank you if you’ve read this far - I know it’s turned out long - and can help me out, also, am I allowed to post in more than one topic at the same time, as wondering if style & beauty might also be a good place to post. Thank you 🤗

(am using a different username as this it very outing if read by certain people)
eta: can’t change the title but I meant a quick response please, not a quick read, as you can see, sorry 😁 also, how do I turn the poll off? Apologies if that’s still there but let’s say I am being unreasonable because I want good quality because they’ll be a gift for me so someone else is paying, I am not being unreasonable because if you can’t ask for a luxury item as a gift, when can you? And the gift giver is totally prepared! 😁

OP posts:
TrunkElliot · 27/08/2026 10:44

I have bought quite a few things from the Ethical Silk Company. Very happy with them.
theethicalsilkco.com/

Ilovemyshed · 27/08/2026 10:43

Its worth looking at bedding shops in outlet centres.

SandrenaIsMyBloodType · 27/08/2026 10:43

I use Blissy. I am happy with everything, except perhaps the longevity but mine probably don’t last as long as they should for me because I don’t wash them as gently as I should.

martha79 · 27/08/2026 10:41

I've got Dorma ones, I really like them and they machine-wash well. They're about £30 each.

Whatwaswrongwiththatusername · 27/08/2026 10:37

cloudtreecarpet · 27/08/2026 10:00

Oh boo, I thought from the thread title that you were recommending the best silk pillowcase...
Oh well, I will watch to see if anyone else does.

Oh no! You’re right, I didn’t really think about it reading that way. I’ll see if I can get the title edited and then hopefully there might be some recs! Thanks for pointing that out.
eta, have reported and asked for title to be changed to be more clear.

OP posts:
cloudtreecarpet · 27/08/2026 10:00

Oh boo, I thought from the thread title that you were recommending the best silk pillowcase...
Oh well, I will watch to see if anyone else does.

Whatwaswrongwiththatusername · 27/08/2026 09:03

Purplemoors · 27/08/2026 09:01

Following!

Good luck too!

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Whatwaswrongwiththatusername · 27/08/2026 09:03

Just to say, whilst I’m not against Amazon, per se, I have already been burned twice with two different pillowcase purchases which promised 22momme silk etc etc but were blatantly polyester satin. However the hundreds/thousands of reviewers clearly had no idea of the difference! So I would be a little reluctant unless anyone can genuinely recommend one that they know is silk, and even done the burn test to confirm.

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Purplemoors · 27/08/2026 09:01

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