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AIBU to consider moving to Scotland because I cannot cope with heat?

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bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 19:32

I can't stand the heat. I holiday pretty much only in snowy places, some of which get dark very early. I have not coped well this summer. I also have a heart problem that isn't helped by hot weather. It's making me seriously consider moving to Scotland. My mum and dad, in their 70s, are somewhat open to also making the move with us - we are close emotionally and geographically and they wouldn't want to be away from my daughter.

The problem is this. I have lived within the same 10 miles for the majority of my nearly 40 years of existence (aside from uni, and living in Europe 3 times briefly). We have good friends here, it's a nice area, we have a lovely home. A nice primary school round the corner etc. Good neighbours. Parents round the corner. We both are happy in our work and can work remotely. Nothing is technically 'wrong' aside from how hot the summers are becoming. For example, there were loads of local things I didn't go to/do this summer because it was too hot.

I feel sick at the thought of leaving everything and jumping into the unknown. But part of me doesn't want to live and die within the same 10 miles anyway. I feel like I've exhausted almost everything here. I can't think of anywhere new to go any more and I find that utterly depressing.

My partner and I have always loved Scotland. Always. The nature and the space, the friendly people. So it's not an idea plucked out of thin air. It's been something that I've wondered about on/off for years.

Is it normal to feel so sick at the prospect of making such a big move? If I stay here will I regret not having tried it? Do you think the weather (and writing off 3 months each summer) is reason enough to do this? I can't settle on one idea. Sometimes I just think it's easier to do nothing but everything suggests that hot summers are going to be our new 'normal'.

OP posts:
Sahara123 · 27/08/2026 13:22

MuffinCHeeler · 27/08/2026 13:11

We're free from midges here in Edinburgh. Never seen one!

It's 21 here but cloudy. I love it, I can go for walks comfortably without getting too hot.

It’s lovely isn’t it. I know midge clouds are a thing in boggy peaty areas but they certainly don’t affect my everyday life

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 27/08/2026 13:21

user1476613140 · 27/08/2026 12:32

Well, move out of Scotland if you don't like paying high taxes. No one is forcing a gun to your head to stay.

As a household with an income of multiple hundreds of thousands, I reckon they can afford the extra few grand in tax.

Madamefroufrou · 27/08/2026 13:12

OPP, realistically, wherever you moved away to, you are not going to know
until you are there whether you can or will settle, or if you have made a terrible
mistake
homesickness is real
as is the possibility this was an exceptional unusually heated summer

MuffinCHeeler · 27/08/2026 13:11

Sahara123 · 27/08/2026 13:02

It’s gorgeous here today ! I’m rural, north of Glasgow. 21 degrees, light breeze, I’m having lunch in the garden. It’s been a lovely summer for me, upper 20’s at the most. Barely a midge to be seen , unless you visit boggy peaty areas. I notice the evenings getting a bit darker now, autumn to look forward to. My only complaint is that there’s not enough cold frosty days, or snow 🤣 we only had one day of skimpy snow last winter !
All the preconceived ideas of Scotland being in the dark 6 months of the year and knee deep in midges the rest are quite funny.

We're free from midges here in Edinburgh. Never seen one!

It's 21 here but cloudy. I love it, I can go for walks comfortably without getting too hot.

Sahara123 · 27/08/2026 13:09

TaraRhu · 27/08/2026 12:41

Trust me , it will be less appealing when you realise you haven't seen a clear sky of temperature above 16 degrees for years on end. You'll envy seeing the news and actual summers and not having the heating on year round. Plus they skin you for income tax and stamp duty.

This is absolute nonsense, do you actually live here ?! I’m sitting out in 21 degrees right now, it’s lovely!

Sahara123 · 27/08/2026 13:02

Dollymylove · 26/08/2026 23:04

Dont bother. The weather is back to normal now. Grey and depressing.

Just like Scotland is for most of the year 🤣🤣

It’s gorgeous here today ! I’m rural, north of Glasgow. 21 degrees, light breeze, I’m having lunch in the garden. It’s been a lovely summer for me, upper 20’s at the most. Barely a midge to be seen , unless you visit boggy peaty areas. I notice the evenings getting a bit darker now, autumn to look forward to. My only complaint is that there’s not enough cold frosty days, or snow 🤣 we only had one day of skimpy snow last winter !
All the preconceived ideas of Scotland being in the dark 6 months of the year and knee deep in midges the rest are quite funny.

MuffinCHeeler · 27/08/2026 12:51

Winters are lonnnnnnnng. It does feel a bit like an endurance test.

MuffinCHeeler · 27/08/2026 12:50

Nooooooooo. We don't want everyone moving up here and making our property prices higher. Stay down there please.

Just kidding. 😁

It's great here, we had a really nice summer with 27 degrees at some points and the rest a nice 22 ish. I hate the heat so it's perfect for me.

Rest of the year though - bloody Baltic. Come, but don't moan about how cold it is the rest of year. We know!

ThisChirpyLemonUser · 27/08/2026 12:42

I was born in the lake District I miss it sooo much perfect weather for me.

TaraRhu · 27/08/2026 12:41

Trust me , it will be less appealing when you realise you haven't seen a clear sky of temperature above 16 degrees for years on end. You'll envy seeing the news and actual summers and not having the heating on year round. Plus they skin you for income tax and stamp duty.

user1476613140 · 27/08/2026 12:32

Willope · 27/08/2026 09:23

We pay £680 a month more in income tax here. We paid stamp duty of £62k. In England it would have been £32k. And for what? The SNP are absolutely sure. Health, Eduvation, Transport. All totally and utterly run into the ground.

Well, move out of Scotland if you don't like paying high taxes. No one is forcing a gun to your head to stay.

Roseshavethorns · 27/08/2026 12:19

We used to joke about people moving up to escape the heat and pollution but now it is genuinely a reality. People are also taking "coolcations" literally short breaks to escape the unrelenting heat at home.
I know that this year was exceptionally hot but soon enough these temperatures will be the norm.
If you can't comfortably live with the heat where you are then I would think about moving sooner rather than later (to wherever) because it's not going to get any better.

Packetofcrispsplease · 27/08/2026 11:34

Hi 👋 I live near Edinburgh and while we did get spells of hot weather it’s been nothing like some parts of the SE , London , the Midlands etc .
I think the hottest we got was the odd day here and there with “ feels like “ temperatures of 30c ( BBC weather app was showing the temperature as mid 20s but Netweather and some other sites were more accurate)
Bear in mind that some places in the Scottish Borders can get really very hot on those days eg Melrose , Innerleithen, Peebles.
But if you live in Edinburgh and the Lothians you’ll find the coast feels nice and cool and is very accessible.

Willope · 27/08/2026 11:26

Scandinavia is a lot hotter than Scotland in the summer!

Willope · 27/08/2026 11:24

LorenaWood · 27/08/2026 10:47

@scotlandundersiege

Nothing says ‘we welcome diversity’ quite like then stereotyping people according to their nationality, race and age and explaining which ones you try to avoid. And then blaming an entire country for Brexit rather than the people who actually voted for it. Quite the commitment to avoiding sweeping generalisations 😀

Also do one with "English settlers". - she's moving from one part of the uk to another!!!!!

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Edited

And people were thinking the anti English bigotry had ended. Nope! Alive and kicking sadly. Why do you think the SNP keep getting voted in despite being truly terrible at governing?

Firetreev · 27/08/2026 11:14

EvieBB · 27/08/2026 00:02

In what way please? I'm curious....

The English are more reserved, and less direct. Scots beat around the bush a lot less, yet are more welcoming and warm. Also, just look at how Scotland has voted in comparison to England over the last 80 years - this in itself shows how Scotland is much less individualistic than England. Of course there is conservatism, but not to the same extent as in England.

shecanbe · 27/08/2026 11:09

I think there will be a new type of 'climate migration' in the next ten years or so. Not necessarily people moving to Scotland or Scandinavia permanently, but people buying holiday homes in those regions. People from Southern England will stop going to Mediterranean countries in summer - 'for some sun.' What is the point when it's in the 30s here for weeks / months on end? We're in London and I think today is the first morning since about April that the sky looks overcast. It may have even rained a little overnight! The grass is like straw and the parks look like mini deserts.

When I was younger in the 70s, 25 degrees was a hot summer. Now I'd say that is a quite cool summer day when you can actually walk about and breathe. Even 30 degrees feels just about manageable now, but above that and particularly when it hits 38 degrees? You become so unproductive and feel exhausted all the time. People in Southern England are going to have to adapt and get air con. With these summers, I think lots more people will definitely be heading north for holidays rather than south and tourism is going to change a lot. Get ready Inverness, Tromso Oslo and Stockholm!

Nicelynicelyjohnson · 27/08/2026 10:48

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 26/08/2026 21:12

Cardiff is the wettest place in Britain then Glasgow then Huddersfield then Plymouth and Swansea then Belfast then Blackpool then Bournemouth then Cheltenham. So ideally you want to be in the west but not necessarily Scotland.

Where are these stats from?
Nothing I've online matches this.
(Interested as I live very close to one of these places and don't think it's particularly wet)

LorenaWood · 27/08/2026 10:47

scotlandundersiege · 26/08/2026 21:58

All the naice towns are definitely becoming mini England. English escaping England.
I would say that Scotland mostly welcomes the added diversity that it brings, lots of different English cultures and multi cultural influences although there seems to be a draw to the islands which seems predominantly white english settlers over 50 looking for themselves through art, candles and general shite. I try to stay away from those ones.

I would like to point out that I am not an SNP fan, couldn’t organise a piss up in a brewery and all that. I like the free movement of people which is why I cannot stand the fact that it’s because of England that we are out of the European Union!

@scotlandundersiege

Nothing says ‘we welcome diversity’ quite like then stereotyping people according to their nationality, race and age and explaining which ones you try to avoid. And then blaming an entire country for Brexit rather than the people who actually voted for it. Quite the commitment to avoiding sweeping generalisations 😀

Also do one with "English settlers". - she's moving from one part of the uk to another!!!!!

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Coldwetlettuce · 27/08/2026 10:46

middleagedandinarage · 27/08/2026 06:58

Really? Is that not a bit of an old fashioned stereotype these days?

I’d be interested to know if it is an old stereotype or if it’s still quite prevalent…when I was growing up in Scotland in the 90s/early 2000s there was a lot of anti-English sentiment and this was in a big city. The few English kids in my school always got teased for their accent and some properly bullied just cos they were English. If England were playing in the World Cup there would be pubs full of people passionately cheering for whoever the other team was. I agree the Scottish mindset is pretty different to southern English, the humour is different, the whole culture is pretty different

ProfessorofDarkArts · 27/08/2026 10:41

I spent a few days in the Highlands this summer for work and it was such a relief from the relentless heat in SE England. I appreciate it would be very different in the depths of winter though.

I thought it was a beautiful area and couldn’t get over how friendly everyone was having been led to believe Scottish people were generally grumpy and hated the English!

SunshineOnARainyLeith · 27/08/2026 10:40

scotlandundersiege · 26/08/2026 19:44

Go for it. Move to the borders/lothian. Closer to civilisation and trips back home than moving to the highlands.

Edinburgh was still unbearably hot this summer. Inverness is markedly cooler with train/air links to London etc.

Coldwetlettuce · 27/08/2026 10:37

I’ve been thinking that house prices in Scotland are going to skyrocket in the next few years cos people down south are going to get sick of the heat. I’d move if I were you, especially if your parents move too. You’ll make new friends and find a new community. I grew up in Scotland (not the beautiful, peaceful part unfortunately!) but be warned, the winters can be brutal, especially up north, constant rain and feels like it never really gets properly light outside, always overcast and winter goes on for a really long time. I personally don’t mind this but I know a lot of people do. Also the midges in the north of Scotland shouldn’t be underestimated, when it’s warm and not windy you literally cannot sit outside they’re so bad sometimes. I don’t know how old your daughter is but if she’s still primary age, I’d move while she’s still young, integrating as a kid with an English accent into a Scottish school can be difficult and the older she gets the more difficult it might be

UnctuousUnicorns · 27/08/2026 10:32

Lou7171 · 27/08/2026 10:20

Try north east England, it's pretty much always freezing and windy here.

Ha ha, yes. My dad's from Walker so we often visit family back there. I couldn't get over how biting the wind was in winter - it seemed to cut right into my cheeks.

AspiringDreadfulMiddleAgedWoman · 27/08/2026 10:24

Willope · 27/08/2026 09:24

You think that but it’s really not, as social attitudes surveys show time and again.

Agreed. Looking at it politically, in the 2026 regional ballot, Reform came second to the SNP, replacing the Scottish Conservatives as the largest right-wing party.

Scottish National Party (SNP): 625,949 votes (27.2%)
Reform UK: 383,425 votes (16.6%)
Scottish Labour: 368,785 votes (16.0%)
Scottish Greens: ~322,000 votes (14.0%)

That breakdown doesn't speak strongly to me of a massive difference in political or social attitudes between England and Scotland. The main difference is the Scottish pro-independence dynamic versus England's multi-party gridlock.

Anyway, I've lived in both countries, there are pros and cons of both. Although, rather than uprooting my whole family, I'd probably try getting an air-con unit fitted first. It's a tab cheaper than moving house nowadays!