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AIBU to consider moving to Scotland because I cannot cope with heat?

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bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 19:32

I can't stand the heat. I holiday pretty much only in snowy places, some of which get dark very early. I have not coped well this summer. I also have a heart problem that isn't helped by hot weather. It's making me seriously consider moving to Scotland. My mum and dad, in their 70s, are somewhat open to also making the move with us - we are close emotionally and geographically and they wouldn't want to be away from my daughter.

The problem is this. I have lived within the same 10 miles for the majority of my nearly 40 years of existence (aside from uni, and living in Europe 3 times briefly). We have good friends here, it's a nice area, we have a lovely home. A nice primary school round the corner etc. Good neighbours. Parents round the corner. We both are happy in our work and can work remotely. Nothing is technically 'wrong' aside from how hot the summers are becoming. For example, there were loads of local things I didn't go to/do this summer because it was too hot.

I feel sick at the thought of leaving everything and jumping into the unknown. But part of me doesn't want to live and die within the same 10 miles anyway. I feel like I've exhausted almost everything here. I can't think of anywhere new to go any more and I find that utterly depressing.

My partner and I have always loved Scotland. Always. The nature and the space, the friendly people. So it's not an idea plucked out of thin air. It's been something that I've wondered about on/off for years.

Is it normal to feel so sick at the prospect of making such a big move? If I stay here will I regret not having tried it? Do you think the weather (and writing off 3 months each summer) is reason enough to do this? I can't settle on one idea. Sometimes I just think it's easier to do nothing but everything suggests that hot summers are going to be our new 'normal'.

OP posts:
Dynababy · 27/08/2026 23:07

We Scots need others to stay put, we need to space to ourselves soz!!

hotmumshit · 27/08/2026 22:42

Yanbu, Edinburgh calls me by name

MaidOfSteel · 27/08/2026 22:42

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 26/08/2026 22:32

One that hates the English.

Absolutely. It’s called ‘ABE.’ Anyone but England.
It’s worst in the Glasgow area.

Sahara123 · 27/08/2026 22:41

WinterTreacle · 27/08/2026 21:38

Had a quote for 4-5K to get air conditioning for our south facing rooms upstairs and downstairs - cheaper than moving!

Don’t you want to go outside occasionally? I spent lots of time in my garden this summer, in Scotland, and without being devoured by midges - in fact in 30 years I’ve rarely seen one ! I swear I live in a different Scotland to half the posters here, it’s been warm and sunny, no midges, it’s not dark for 6 months of the year and I haven’t had heating on for months ! If anything I’d like slightly colder winters in my bit, frosty mornings, and some snow , we only had one day of a light covering last winter.

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 27/08/2026 22:27

Scotland is a very underrated beautiful country but parts of it can be very, very cold and wet.

Think about an extended holiday or rental stay near the coast. For a more than a few months before you move

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ElectricLegs · 27/08/2026 22:26

Try Avon Skin So Soft. The midges don't like it. I don't sell Avon by the way! Alternatively drink loads of bitter lemon. It contains quinine, which they don't like either. Don't wear dark coloured clothes as they are attracted to that. If none of that helps get a head net. You will look a proper fool, but you will be the unbitten one.

I should have mentioned the Moray Coast for a great climate. Very touristy in the summer though and a lot of the houses have been snapped up for holiday lets. Good for tourists but leaves some of the villages like ghost towns/villages out of season. The area is fairly flat so great for cycling. There is a disused railway line to cycle along, which connects up to other cycling routes. Portsoy is worth a visit for the ice cream - Turkish Delight ice cream - wonderful. Go to Cullen for Cullen Skink soup.

Frillysweetpea · 27/08/2026 21:56

DJKATIE · 27/08/2026 18:19

Scotland is stunningly beautiful but oh the super midges when near water are horrendous. We had to come home from a caravan holiday early as we all had well over a 100 bites each.

Why didn't you move the caravan to one of the many, many parts of Scotland that do not have midges?!

WinterTreacle · 27/08/2026 21:38

Had a quote for 4-5K to get air conditioning for our south facing rooms upstairs and downstairs - cheaper than moving!

coe78 · 27/08/2026 21:38

bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 19:42

I currently live near the rainiest city in the UK. So I am used to rain. I don't care about it.

Pretty sure that's Glasgow!
We were discussing this during summer (in Scotland). Our abroad holiday was way too hot for us. Genuinely thinking about a summer holiday in south of England next year.
On the other hand, by Easter time I am usually very very sick of the constant rain and darkness for the preceding 6 months....

robinslittlehelper · 27/08/2026 21:33

giddyboo · 26/08/2026 21:25

I understand as I hate the heat but isn't Scotland full of midges.

Only on the west coast we get few on the east . I have not seen one this summer . Aberdeen prices are quite low but the snow in winter can be bad . Edinburgh prices are really high . If you have a good life and good friends do not move . It is not always easy to get new ones .

Differentforgirls · 27/08/2026 21:04

Chipsahoy · 27/08/2026 20:34

Agree! It’s 8.30 and we’ve just come in after being in the garden all day. No heat here since spring and we have a cold farmhouse and live high up. It’s been a alright summer.

Yes! Our house is a cold one too. High ceilings!

HelenEilidh · 27/08/2026 20:58

It pretty much rained the whole of the summer on Skye - with the odd nice day. Averaged around 17 degrees. Everything has been very green. Skye has very light summer evenings when it doesn’t really get dark - and dark, windy, winters. In Edinburgh (where family are) it’s been relatively pleasant and much cooler than England. If you’re concerned about moving I would choose Edinburgh, maybe close to Holyrood Park. It’s a walkable city, good train / transport links, close to sea, lots of cultural activities, good restaurants and great parks. It gets dark around 11pm in the height of summer.

Chipsahoy · 27/08/2026 20:34

Differentforgirls · 27/08/2026 16:27

I’m in Scotland. Haven’t had my heating on since April

Agree! It’s 8.30 and we’ve just come in after being in the garden all day. No heat here since spring and we have a cold farmhouse and live high up. It’s been a alright summer.

LionelMushroom · 27/08/2026 20:19

If you can work remotely could you rent your house out and rent somewhere in Scotland to try it before making it permanent?
We were in Scotland for a few days in July and I think there’s an expectation amongst some that more people will want to move north.

anon666 · 27/08/2026 19:50

No!! You just swap heat for humidity. Its just as uncomfortable.

I kid you not, we went to Spain this summer. We were coming out of endless London heatwaves, flew to Madrid which was even hotter.

So I diverted us north to the Asturia coast where it was 22 degrees in contrast to 34 in the desert. The hot / dry was better. The clammy 80% humidity nearly finished me. I was uncomfortably sweaty all the time, but my feet were also cold.

Never again.

Move because you like the place. Not the weather.

Doone22 · 27/08/2026 19:43

Whats the chances of doing a trial. Find a holiday rental up there for the whole summer and rent yours out in return?

GoldenGail · 27/08/2026 19:09

sunseasand25 · 26/08/2026 19:55

And have a look at how much more income tax you’ll need to pay as well!

Its more than made up for by all things you don’t have to pay for! And the difference is actually very little

Amusedatlife · 27/08/2026 19:03

Scottish girl here, also not a heat lover. Even in Scotland summer was too hot for me. Holidayed near Inverness and was 30°c 🥵! Seriously considering either installing aircon or moving to Iceland.

FudgeFudy · 27/08/2026 18:54

You'd be forgiven for thinking that the OP was considering moving to Pluto with the way some people are on about the cold, dark, and isolation. I reckon that if you think you'll like it, and you're not the sort to start your day with a good splutter over the Daily Mail, then you probably will. Now could the people saying that Scotland is actually quite nice and not a freezing dingy socialist hellhole please be quiet as I want to buy a house there in a few years time.

ElectricLegs · 27/08/2026 18:53

I could see the way the summer temperatures were going when I lived near the south coast of England, so moved to Scotland over 20 years ago, to one of the islands. I met some racists in the population, but the vast majority were kind and friendly. Let's face it, there are plenty of towns in England with a far right following, flags on lampposts, gullible people voting in the man of the people, yet multi millionaire politician. My area was staunchly Tory, so I was only too happy to move to overwhelmingly leftist Scotland for less of a me me me society.

I found it difficult to get a job at first as the locals tend to look after their own before incomers. Fair comment. The same happened in English towns and cities in southern England, where I was the beneficiary.

Eventually I found a job and somewhere to rent. My savings had dwindled and so buying a house was off the agenda. I soon found myself in temporary housing from the council. A lovely little chalet on the edge of town. Hop over the fence in the morning, making my way through a field of sheep and then along the roads into a different part of town and work.

That first summer had been the best in years according to the locals, but they warned me of long grey winters and mentioned that I probably wouldn't make it through the winter, as many incomers before me had left.

There was considerably less traffic here and the area felt much safer, although one of my experiences threw me at first. Four men were walking down the road towards me. The evenings were staring to get darker. I instantly feared for my safety, already had a big bunch of keys in my hand ready to defend myself. I could tell that they had been drinking the nearer they call. One called out to me and asked me if I had had a good evening. I said yes and asked after their's. They too had enjoyed themselves too. They were all smiles and I need not have worried.

I noticed some other things that were strange to me too. Young kids, probably about 6 or 7 walking to school hand in hand, no parents in sight. They would stop when they came to the 'busier' roads, and some adult would be walking along and help them cross the road. In the newspaper that week the front page was a story about a bicycle being stolen, and how only two weeks ago a mobile phone had been stolen. The latter of which had been handed in.

When the winter came it was long and grim. Greyness abounds and the sun is a rare sight. Even moving into spring, when relatives in southern England were telling me about the daffodils that had sprung up and later died at the end of their season, mine were only just coming up.

In the summer the midges could be a trial, but only then on days with practically no wind, rarity in itself.

The public bus service was very cheap and ran frequently using clean modern buses. Until recently there were no services to my area on a Sunday, but that has now changed. I used the bus every day to commute back and forth to work once the council gave me permanent accommodation out in the country. Also recently the maximum bus fair went down to £2 single, and everyone under 22 gets to travel for free. A bus pass is issued once you reach 60 to allow free travel. This covers the whole of Scotland and may cover England as well.

We have a ferry service to mainland Scotland from here, which is not cheap, but those aged 60 plus get four free single tickets per year for foot passenger. You can have a return trip with a cabin if you hand over your 4 e-tickets. Bicycles travel free, cars, vans, motorhomes etc. have to pay a charge for their vehicles. There is also an airline, and the prices are eye watering compared to what you would pay flying much longer distances from the UK mainland. It is considerably faster than the ferries though, but is not as reliable due to the airport getting fogged in. The ferries travel. in much worse weather, but even they can be halted by the weather.

Tourist season can be a trial here, with hugs cruise ships disgorging thousands of passengers every month into the one major town (pop. 7,000-ish). Thirty three thousand cruise ship passengers visited in June 2026. It really is overwhelming having that many people land here over one month. July and August numbers would have been higher.

Housing in Scotland is sold in a different way to the UK. The selling price is Offers Over £x. English people, especially those from London can sell their house then come here making offers above the asking price that the locals can't. One house recently was advertised for about £250k, detached house one the seafront - probably three bed, had an offer from an English couple for £75k over the asking price. There is a shortage of tradesmen who are willing to take on residential jobs compared to the demand. Trying to keep your house watertight is a fight in itself, but grants have recently become available for solar and new windows installations as well as heat pump installations. Electricity bills will be higher her as you will switch off heating later in the spring and earlier in the autumn.

Fuel for your vehicle is probably the most expensive in the UK on the Scottish Islands, and you will have less competition when buying a car. If you buy your car on the mainland, some garages turn their nose up at servicing your car as you have done them out of that sale.

Shopping is difficult here. There are very few High Street names here, so shopping will mean a trip back to the Scottish mainland, or more likely purchasing via the internet. Everything is more costly due to the distance you have to travel.

Despite the challenges, there is no place I would rather be. If I had to move from here I would move to the Scottish Highlands, somewhere remote. I wouldn't move to England under any circumstances, due to the politics there.

It's a fantastic place here, but if you come don't be a loudmouth, respect the locals and the way they do things. They tend to be more modest. Join in activities if you wish, but if you want to be left to your own devices the locals will respect that wish. Enjoy the great services, the safety and the more relaxed pace of life.

LilLadyScot · 27/08/2026 18:43

Do it! My in laws moved up to north-eastern Scotland to be near us a few years ago now for exactly this reason. Property prices are massively cheaper too. They can't get over how kind and inclusive everyone is- not that folk aren't in England, I think it's just a different way of life. Lots of good schools etc up here and 'civilisation' in the northern Scottish cities too. Look at Angus and Moray for ridiculous property prices, you can be within an hour of two major cities in either of those places. The larger towns within these areas have all the mod cons and great wee cafes, walks etc. I don't know anyone English who regrets moving up here (work in a hospital, lots of English doctors).

Differentforgirls · 27/08/2026 18:39

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 27/08/2026 18:31

That'll be because we have handy recent examples from both England and Wales which show that the alternatives are even more corrupt and incompetent.

And yet they get voted in year after year because the bigots love them

Yes, that's right. The reason Scotland continually re-elects one particular group of Scottish people to represent them over the other groups of Scottish people vying to do the same thing, is anti-English bigotry 🙄

Wonder how that poster will explain Jackie Baillie?

I must admit, I can’t 🤣.

OP we have several English MSPs.

Paddyshanks · 27/08/2026 18:31

I love Cardiff. I don’t think it’s any wetter than northern England but it’s a damn site warmer.

The people are friendly, as are Scottish people. But I couldn’t cope with the darkness in the winter that far north.

It has been very hot in Cardiff most of this summer and if global warning is to be believed, it will stay this way.

YANBU if you really can’t cope with the heat but I love it, personally

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 27/08/2026 18:31

Willope · 27/08/2026 11:24

And people were thinking the anti English bigotry had ended. Nope! Alive and kicking sadly. Why do you think the SNP keep getting voted in despite being truly terrible at governing?

That'll be because we have handy recent examples from both England and Wales which show that the alternatives are even more corrupt and incompetent.

And yet they get voted in year after year because the bigots love them

Yes, that's right. The reason Scotland continually re-elects one particular group of Scottish people to represent them over the other groups of Scottish people vying to do the same thing, is anti-English bigotry 🙄

justasking111 · 27/08/2026 18:29

MelonSorbet · 26/08/2026 20:09

It got up to 27 degrees where I live in Scotland this summer. That's still pretty hot btw.

We hit that for a few days not pleasant. We live in North Wales on the coast though so not too bad on the whole. I really can't imagine the summer many parts of Britain have endured this year. We've friends who go to the Shetland isles from April to September every year.

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