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AIBU to consider moving to Scotland because I cannot cope with heat?

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bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 19:32

I can't stand the heat. I holiday pretty much only in snowy places, some of which get dark very early. I have not coped well this summer. I also have a heart problem that isn't helped by hot weather. It's making me seriously consider moving to Scotland. My mum and dad, in their 70s, are somewhat open to also making the move with us - we are close emotionally and geographically and they wouldn't want to be away from my daughter.

The problem is this. I have lived within the same 10 miles for the majority of my nearly 40 years of existence (aside from uni, and living in Europe 3 times briefly). We have good friends here, it's a nice area, we have a lovely home. A nice primary school round the corner etc. Good neighbours. Parents round the corner. We both are happy in our work and can work remotely. Nothing is technically 'wrong' aside from how hot the summers are becoming. For example, there were loads of local things I didn't go to/do this summer because it was too hot.

I feel sick at the thought of leaving everything and jumping into the unknown. But part of me doesn't want to live and die within the same 10 miles anyway. I feel like I've exhausted almost everything here. I can't think of anywhere new to go any more and I find that utterly depressing.

My partner and I have always loved Scotland. Always. The nature and the space, the friendly people. So it's not an idea plucked out of thin air. It's been something that I've wondered about on/off for years.

Is it normal to feel so sick at the prospect of making such a big move? If I stay here will I regret not having tried it? Do you think the weather (and writing off 3 months each summer) is reason enough to do this? I can't settle on one idea. Sometimes I just think it's easier to do nothing but everything suggests that hot summers are going to be our new 'normal'.

OP posts:
FaceIt · 26/08/2026 22:35

As long as you’re ok with lots of wet weather and biting midges in the summer, you’ll be fine.

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 26/08/2026 22:32

middleagedandinarage · 26/08/2026 22:06

Interested to know what you mean? What sort of mindset do they have?

One that hates the English.

Carryitjoyfully · 26/08/2026 22:24

DH and I have had exactly the same conversation. The only thing that is putting me off right now is how hard I find the dark of February in the north of Scotland. Perhaps the south though.

Faircastle · 26/08/2026 22:20

I'm happy living in South East England from September through to May. The summers are challenging but we go north for our summer holidays which helps.
Our recent summer holidays have been to Northern Ireland, North Wales, Northumberland, the Yorkshire Coast, and Norway.

liveforsummer · 26/08/2026 22:18

Hiredgun · 26/08/2026 20:22

The last two Summers in Scotland have been decent, especially 2025. Not too hot but solid blocks of warmish weather.

But 2024 was horrendous and the winters can be very long and bleak.

Beyond that, Scotland has many of the same problems that most other places have. Our largest city Glasgow is in a sorry state and even Edinburgh is looking pretty unkempt.

Yes 2024 basically rained from January. Dc ride and events were cancelled all spring and early summer due to water logged ground. There was a small reprieve in early June then the day schools broke up for the holidays the rain came back on and that was that. Some days hot rain, some days cold, but rain all the same. It was depressing. We’ve had 2 ok summers so probably due another of those soon. We’re definitely due a bad winter or 2 after the last couple being reasonable.

StylesSluttyShorts · 26/08/2026 22:10

AgnesX · 26/08/2026 19:55

In Glasgow where it's raining just now. I hate getting wet going to/coming from work. Remember it gets colder here too. Cold and wet's no fun either

There's many times this summer when it's grey and dull, warm, as in 20 degrees and very humid.
That's the absolute worst.

liveforsummer · 26/08/2026 22:10

bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 19:43

This is what I'm wondering. And I wonder whether it's better to do it now than in 5 years times when more and more people want to move.

In 5 years time we could have had a couple of crap rainy summers and everyone will be wishing they could move to SE England where they’d managed some sun

NotMyRealAccount · 26/08/2026 22:10

You don't have to go as far as Scotland to find somewhere that is normally spared the unbearably high temperatures in summer but is cold, wet and dark for six months of the year. Cumbria, or at least the north of the county, is very similar. Overall, though, moving north is not a ridiculous idea at all.

middleagedandinarage · 26/08/2026 22:09

Honestly i wouldn't move to scotland, yes the summers are cooler but for the last 2 Januarys we've been snowed in for a week, kids have missed school etc. SNP have totally f**d the place, no industry left. Seriously thinking about moving away to give my children better prospects and opportunities.

RaraRachael · 26/08/2026 22:07

The East coast isn't that wet and there aren't midgies but we had a really rubbish summer this year.
The short winter days don't bother me as they're offset by the long summer ones.

Willope · 26/08/2026 22:06

Midgies, the diabolical SNP, income tax and stamp duty are sky high.

I do like the weather here though.

middleagedandinarage · 26/08/2026 22:06

Firetreev · 26/08/2026 20:11

It's not. Scottish people are quite different from the English. There's a different mindset and attitude to life in Scotland.

Interested to know what you mean? What sort of mindset do they have?

Nousernameideaaga · 26/08/2026 22:05

If you are all happy with the climate then absolutely go for it.
You sound like you have already moved there in your heart anyway OP ☺️

HauntedBungalow · 26/08/2026 22:03

Ime living far north isn't just about temperature. It affects circadian rhythms too. Maybe you won't be sensitive to that, maybe you will. I'd do a winter there first to find out. Plus there's midgies. They are absolute fuckers that literally eat into whatever summer you do have.

Thecatspantaloons · 26/08/2026 22:01

I loved living in Scotland for the couple of years I was up there, but I missed our warmer weather so much.

HouseMouseSamosa · 26/08/2026 22:01

I’ve been thinking the same, I love the heat, but this year it’s been too much, for too long. I’ve also felt really sorry for my dogs, they’d have a much better life somewhere cooler. And it pisses it down all winter here anyway so that wouldn’t be much different.

scotlandundersiege · 26/08/2026 21:58

All the naice towns are definitely becoming mini England. English escaping England.
I would say that Scotland mostly welcomes the added diversity that it brings, lots of different English cultures and multi cultural influences although there seems to be a draw to the islands which seems predominantly white english settlers over 50 looking for themselves through art, candles and general shite. I try to stay away from those ones.

I would like to point out that I am not an SNP fan, couldn’t organise a piss up in a brewery and all that. I like the free movement of people which is why I cannot stand the fact that it’s because of England that we are out of the European Union!

AgnesMcDoo · 26/08/2026 21:58

Firetreev · 26/08/2026 20:11

It's not. Scottish people are quite different from the English. There's a different mindset and attitude to life in Scotland.

We really aren’t any different

AgnesMcDoo · 26/08/2026 21:57

giddyboo · 26/08/2026 21:25

I understand as I hate the heat but isn't Scotland full of midges.

On the west coast yes.

East coast not really unless near water

AgnesMcDoo · 26/08/2026 21:56

It’s not been higher than 25C on my part of Fife - and that was only for a few days.

Mostly it’s been below 20C

bobdylanlover · 26/08/2026 21:55

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 26/08/2026 21:12

Cardiff is the wettest place in Britain then Glasgow then Huddersfield then Plymouth and Swansea then Belfast then Blackpool then Bournemouth then Cheltenham. So ideally you want to be in the west but not necessarily Scotland.

Cardiff is where I live. It's been unbearably hot. And soon it'll be unbearably wet. And possibly unbearably hot and unbearably wet at the same time. This is why I think I can cope with rain in Scotland. I'm used to it. I just want it to be cold and wet not hot and wet.

OP posts:
NosnowontheScottishhills · 26/08/2026 21:38

scotlandundersiege · 26/08/2026 19:45

Scotland is like mini England now anyway.

Is it? Not where I live or where my DS lives or where his girlfriends parents live. 3 very different regions none like a "mini England".

TheeNotoriousPIG · 26/08/2026 21:32

Some of the Scottish islands are too small (and coastal) for many midges.

I came back from a Scottish island and was yearning for the 12 degrees and wearing jumpers up there (compared to up to 29 in North Wales, and struggling in shearing vests)!

giddyboo · 26/08/2026 21:25

I understand as I hate the heat but isn't Scotland full of midges.

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 26/08/2026 21:12

Cardiff is the wettest place in Britain then Glasgow then Huddersfield then Plymouth and Swansea then Belfast then Blackpool then Bournemouth then Cheltenham. So ideally you want to be in the west but not necessarily Scotland.