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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

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Doseofreality · 26/08/2026 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

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Frequency · 27/08/2026 17:53

OonaStubbs · 27/08/2026 17:50

No restaurant with a Michelin Star is dog-friendly. Make of that what you will.

This isn't true.

Pied à Terre, a Michelin-star French restaurant, goes so far as to have a canine-friendly menu for their four legged diners.

Greedybilly · 27/08/2026 17:53

You can smell if someone has a dog or has had a dog in a room just like you can smell if someone's a smoker/had a fag. Doesn't make you dirty necessarily but it's pretty obvious isn't it?

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/08/2026 17:52

OonaStubbs · 27/08/2026 17:50

No restaurant with a Michelin Star is dog-friendly. Make of that what you will.

I suggest you actually use Google before making a bold claim like that.

OonaStubbs · 27/08/2026 17:50

No restaurant with a Michelin Star is dog-friendly. Make of that what you will.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 27/08/2026 17:46

@BringBackCatsEyes - we have always left our dogs home alone - not regularly, and not all day, but they are perfectly happy if we go out for a few hours. I think it depends on the dog, but I also think it is something most dogs can learn.

Greedybilly · 27/08/2026 17:46

@Mooselove- out of interest are dog owners that don't agree with you 'dog haters' ?

Frequency · 27/08/2026 17:45

Norwaygirl · 27/08/2026 17:41

Frequency - To quote you back why should businesses exclude a large group of people because dog owners won't compromise and leave pooch at home or drive further themselves. There will never be a happy ending to this situation because dog owners won't ever see anything wrong in taking their dog into eating establishments.

Because they make more money from the other large group of people who do frequent them, and their sole reason for existing is to generate profit.

It really is very simple.

Norwaygirl · 27/08/2026 17:41

Frequency - To quote you back why should businesses exclude a large group of people because dog owners won't compromise and leave pooch at home or drive further themselves. There will never be a happy ending to this situation because dog owners won't ever see anything wrong in taking their dog into eating establishments.

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/08/2026 17:35

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/08/2026 16:55

People also let their dogs roam the streets during the day. They also used to leave babies in prams outside shops.
Times change.

I mean what’s changed with dogs that they “don’t like being left on their own” anymore?

DuckDowned · 27/08/2026 17:34

In Spain, I saw dog owners washing away dog urine with a water bottle. People here would not do that.

Frequency · 27/08/2026 17:28

Norwaygirl · 27/08/2026 17:26

mrsm43 - dog owners certainly do try to take dogs into dog free places and have a childish tantrum if they aren't allowed. They also pretend they are therapy dogs when they aren't to get round the rules.
And why should I eat in a garden centre in the day or drive miles because local pubs and cafes are full of dogs? As dog owners you don't have to do any research any more because virtually everywhere is dog friendly.

To echo your question: why should businesses ban a profitable customer group and lose money just because you don't want to drive a bit farther to find a business that caters to your specific needs?

https://www.petbusinessworld.co.uk/trade-news/other-trades/welcoming-dogs-into-premises-can-boost-business-by-up-to-50.html

Norwaygirl · 27/08/2026 17:26

mrsm43 - dog owners certainly do try to take dogs into dog free places and have a childish tantrum if they aren't allowed. They also pretend they are therapy dogs when they aren't to get round the rules.
And why should I eat in a garden centre in the day or drive miles because local pubs and cafes are full of dogs? As dog owners you don't have to do any research any more because virtually everywhere is dog friendly.

Jane379 · 27/08/2026 17:09

Mooselove · 27/08/2026 17:06

Don't go to Europe then, especially France, as dogs are allowed just about everywhere and have been for many many years.

We lived there over 20 years ago and took our dog everywhere. Hotel owners would look at us like we were crazy when we asked if they allowed dogs. Often when we sat outside a restaurant they would tell us to come in with our dog even though he was a fairly big dog.

At last the UK have caught up. Hilarious really when the UK is meant to be a nation of animal lovers

I suspect though that France has higher standards of Dog behavior generally than the ones we seem to have at the moment too often (though many owners here are of course fine).

For instance, French dogs must wear a muzzle on public transport, which I think should be the case here.

Rottweilers and some other breeds must be muzzled in public.

Also, dogs must be kept on a lead in all public parks, gardens, and urban streets . Many parks and public gardens completely ban dogs, even on a leash. I think we should also look at rules like this. Dogs in France seem fine.

Jane379 · 27/08/2026 17:07

Cadeaukatze · 27/08/2026 16:21

Not read the full thread but there are chains that don't allow dogs (Pizza Express maybe)? But on the whole it's very difficult to find places that are dog-free these days.

People on holiday used to use kennels or dog-sitters, they didn't take them everywhere with them. And pub gardens are still an option.

If places do allow dogs maybe one per party would be a better idea - three sounds over the top for one table! Although I suppose it depends if it's a table for 4, or a table for 20.

I remember a few years ago we were on holiday out of season (so it wasn't busy in the hotel) and when we came in for breakfast the waiting staff wanted us to sit next to someone with a big dog. We politely demurred. That said, it's happened to me when there hasn't been a dog, waiting staff like to cram everyone onto adjacent tables it seems.

Yes, Pizza Express, also Gail's and Gregg's among others.

I wonder if the decrease in using kennels and dogsitters is due to money being tighter now? Also as I said above the lockdown puppy generation is probably more anxious and less able to cope with kennels.

Mooselove · 27/08/2026 17:06

FrostyPalms · 27/08/2026 15:30

I totally agree. I live in the US where the only dogs allowed in eating establishments are service dogs, which of course is absolutely fine and isn't something you see very often.

It always surprises me (and grosses me out) to see dogs in pubs when I'm in England.

Don't go to Europe then, especially France, as dogs are allowed just about everywhere and have been for many many years.

We lived there over 20 years ago and took our dog everywhere. Hotel owners would look at us like we were crazy when we asked if they allowed dogs. Often when we sat outside a restaurant they would tell us to come in with our dog even though he was a fairly big dog.

At last the UK have caught up. Hilarious really when the UK is meant to be a nation of animal lovers

Mooselove · 27/08/2026 17:02

mrsm43s · 27/08/2026 15:49

You can be clean and have a dog.
You can be filthy and not have a dog...

Exactly. The dog haters get more and more idiotic

gannett · 27/08/2026 17:01

You can be "done" if you want. No one's stopping you from not going to restaurants if the sight of a dog is really too much for you.

I'm not a dog owner but I love to see dogs out and about, and I've almost never seen them cause an issue. A dog in a restaurant wouldn't bother me, and wouldn't bother most people I know, and from the evidence of more restaurants welcoming dogs, it looks like this is the majority feeling.

There will always be some restaurants where dogs aren't welcome though. Just go to those.

Mooselove · 27/08/2026 17:00

SinisterGreenMan · 27/08/2026 16:13

They do. All dogs smell.

However clean the dog's owner tries to keep their home, it will always stink of dog.

I know a number of dog owners with high standards of personal hygiene and whose homes look immaculate, but the moment you step through their front doors, the smell of dog assaults your nostrils.

There is nothing you can do about the smell. It goes wherever the dog goes and lingers long after the dog has left.

BULLSHIT

Mooselove · 27/08/2026 16:58

AgnesMcDoo · 27/08/2026 15:33

Sorry but they do all smell.

You are just used it the smell and don't notice it.

Oh the old chestnut that all dogs smell and dog owners just don't notice it. What absolute bullshit. NOT ALL DOGS SMELL. You want it to be true but it isn't.

I have lots and lots of friends with dogs and some of their houses smell of dog and some don't. How do you reckon that works then? I don't notice the smell in some but do in others? That is plainly ridiculous.

Different breeds have different types of fur/hair and some just do not smell. Quite a few of my friends whose houses do not smell have the same breed of dog.

ByKindNavySwan · 27/08/2026 16:56

Lampsandlightsandotherthings · 27/08/2026 07:51

It is not a case that we won’t get ill! Dogs lick their own arses, if given a half chance will eat shit, drop their hair everywhere !! So hmm I’d rethink one. I see people dogs on laps sniffing their tables it’s grim. I’ll just leave this for you 👷Bacterial and Germ Carriage: Dogs carry various bacteria, such as Campylobacter and Salmonella, in their mouths and on their fur.

If you're that worried about about bacteria, I really hope you're not typing that on a phone as statistically it's likely to have far more bacteria than a dog.

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/08/2026 16:55

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/08/2026 16:52

What's changed with dogs in the last 50 years?
When I was growing up, the people I knew who had dogs never took them to the shops or restaurants. They were left at home having been taken on a good walk.

People also let their dogs roam the streets during the day. They also used to leave babies in prams outside shops.
Times change.

BringBackCatsEyes · 27/08/2026 16:52

somewhereintheworld · 27/08/2026 16:46

I love to see dogs in restaurants. I don't understand why it bothers you. Dogs are part of the family and don't like being left on their own. I can't see how it's unhygienic either if they're not bothering you. Obviously if they're jumping on you or trying to get your food it's a different matter, but if they're just sitting quietly what's the problem? I love dogs personally, but my dog barks a lot so we don't take her to restaurants.

What's changed with dogs in the last 50 years?
When I was growing up, the people I knew who had dogs never took them to the shops or restaurants. They were left at home having been taken on a good walk.

mrsm43s · 27/08/2026 16:50

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/08/2026 16:43

When I see comments like that, I imagine a small child holding their nose saying "you smell".

I know! And the worse thing is it stops sensible conversation. There absolutely should be compromise and consideration between all, with dog owners respectfully researching and sticking to dog friendly places, and those who want a dog free spaces researching and sticking to dog free places, but once the 'I hate dog brigade' start throwing around petty insults, it becomes clear that they're just entitled muppets stamping their feet and wanting everything to centre on what they want with no intention of reasonable discussion or compromise.

somewhereintheworld · 27/08/2026 16:46

I love to see dogs in restaurants. I don't understand why it bothers you. Dogs are part of the family and don't like being left on their own. I can't see how it's unhygienic either if they're not bothering you. Obviously if they're jumping on you or trying to get your food it's a different matter, but if they're just sitting quietly what's the problem? I love dogs personally, but my dog barks a lot so we don't take her to restaurants.

Frequency · 27/08/2026 16:45

Lowlagal · 27/08/2026 16:40

They do. I’ve heard plenty of Americans complain about dogs with their noses in fresh produces at trader joes and how people are abusing the assistance dog claim over there.

I remember a woman I used to follow on Twitter way back in 2016 was posting about her neighbour who was complaining about her having an “emotional support dog” in their dog free apartment complex in Seattle . She posted a picture and it was a pitbull 😬

But I suspect it depends on the state. I don’t remember seeing dogs in restaurants as much in say Houston or Charlotte as I did in NYC or Chicago.

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I saw a dog in my local Tesco not long ago wearing this vest

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Belababy-Breathable-Adjustable-Training-Assistance/dp/B083BGTF17/ref=sr_1_16?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NQT0Rn5_auwz34L4Eaqok24GduY5WOEyPsT6PxDCh1D2G48TOOAfp-PYh0wXLIF2Iklhq8NcEgy8an45cCaZCJR12-M_NPlcu7xKibJw9yYqpnplieuXputz_Igrz4BzIRmYMoaMxC4it36oZEcxBEcNRrQTFPFhWw2879MzsMfsmAP2k1xWMH6N5IKKfehz_Xxlg4GkPydgCJeGoJ_Of9IfkwfQgFZHKAdMiak_QaaCEbtsSbrNBtZCFbbgQlwi5y7mLJR5cm9xiE8OI_vXj01fLaSE27AvU7JmAbPm2UA.6nexmnyMO1kqdHp4evlUtvTv2bCWLmkZ3Wj0PGemdMo&dib_tag=se&keywords=Service%2Bdog&qid=1787845330&sr=8-16&th=1

It clearly was not a service dog, nor was it training to be one, but it was a very happy doggo, just doing his thing, wagging his tail furiously at anyone who walked past him. No one seemed to mind him being there, but I do agree that the owners were taking the piss.

Taking him into a dog-friendly establishment would have been fine, but he shouldn't have been in Tesco, no matter how friendly and happy he was.

Amazon

Amazon

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Belababy-Breathable-Adjustable-Training-Assistance/dp/B083BGTF17/ref=sr_1_16?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NQT0Rn5_auwz34L4Eaqok24GduY5WOEyPsT6PxDCh1D2G48TOOAfp-PYh0wXLIF2Iklhq8NcEgy8an45cCaZCJR12-M_NPlcu7xKibJw9yYqpnplieuXputz_Igrz4BzIRmYMoaMxC4it36oZEcxBEcNRrQTFPFhWw2879MzsMfsmAP2k1xWMH6N5IKKfehz_Xxlg4GkPydgCJeGoJ_Of9IfkwfQgFZHKAdMiak_QaaCEbtsSbrNBtZCFbbgQlwi5y7mLJR5cm9xiE8OI_vXj01fLaSE27AvU7JmAbPm2UA.6nexmnyMO1kqdHp4evlUtvTv2bCWLmkZ3Wj0PGemdMo&dib_tag=se&keywords=Service%2Bdog&qid=1787845330&sr=8-16&th=1&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-5571208-dogs-in-restaurants-i-am-done

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