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Dh says the U.K is f***** and he never wants to go back

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Chippednailtoepolish · 26/08/2026 14:55

These were his words this morning.

We live abroad in a place where a lot of people are coming to live, escaping the uk and America.
He says with everything on the news, the way it's going and what the people coming to where we are tell him, that we'd be mad to return.
Is he being realistic? I want to return to be with family desperately and have a strange feeling that I need to do it soon

Would we be mad to return at this time? If yes, then when!

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EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:11

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 17:10

Ditto.

Have you been to Australia? Because your misconceptions sound really off.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 17:10

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:09

This really does show a misunderstanding.

Ditto.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 17:09

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 17:03

What’s the part you are not understanding? It’s easier and safer to get from the countries people are fleeing from into Europe than it is to get all the way to Australia, as they are geographically closer and easier to get to, so far easier to put them off heading to Australia than to Europe. Europe also doesn’t have as many convenient underpopulated large islands near its coastlines to shove migrants onto while they are being processed.

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This really does show a misunderstanding.

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Walkaround · 30/08/2026 17:03

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:55

What’s the part you’re not understanding?

You’ve almost got there with why it worked.

What’s the part you are not understanding? It’s easier and safer to get from the countries people are fleeing from into Europe than it is to get all the way to Australia, as they are geographically closer and easier to get to, so far easier to put them off heading to Australia than to Europe. Europe also doesn’t have as many convenient underpopulated large islands near its coastlines to shove migrants onto while they are being processed.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:59

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:57

It could be the next scandal, of course - UK wastes huge amounts of taxpayers’ money paying poor African countries to take our refugees, only for them to slip out and come back to Europe to try again.

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Yes you’re missing the why it worked for Aus.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:58

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:57

It could be the next scandal, of course - UK wastes huge amounts of taxpayers’ money paying poor African countries to take our refugees, only for them to slip out and come back to Europe to try again.

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We would need to take biometrics of course, and part of the deal would include taking back returnees.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:57

It could be the next scandal, of course - UK wastes huge amounts of taxpayers’ money paying poor African countries to take our refugees, only for them to slip out and come back to Europe to try again.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:57

Dersie · 30/08/2026 16:54

Wow, I didnt read that poster saying anything such. Stop twisting ones post to suit your own narrative or opinion.
Why are you do angry?

Thanks @Dersie , I'd missed that one.

@soddingspiderseason what I'm actually trying to achieve is pressure on the government to stop making policy for the benefit of absolutely anyone other than the UK: the country they are elected to represent.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:55

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:54

What bit of the different context are you not understanding? Australia used Nauru and Papua New Guinea - nearby places - for offshore processing. We know France doesn’t want to be our Nauru. We also know, in our heart of hearts, that Rwanda was a big bluff that was not going to work on a massive scale.

What’s the part you’re not understanding?

You’ve almost got there with why it worked.

bafta16 · 30/08/2026 16:54

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:52

We had a deal with Rwanda all set up.

Performative nonsense.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:54

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:51

And that was easily crossed by small boats with people in the thousands. Until the laws changed.

What bit of the different context are you not understanding? Australia used Nauru and Papua New Guinea - nearby places - for offshore processing. We know France doesn’t want to be our Nauru. We also know, in our heart of hearts, that Rwanda was a big bluff that was not going to work on a massive scale.

Dersie · 30/08/2026 16:54

soddingspiderseason · 30/08/2026 12:57

Oh for goodness sake. What are you actually trying to achieve? Be honest. You want people to fear anyone who doesn’t look like them. Well mist of us are tired or this right wing diatribe and just want to get on with our normal multi-cultural, community focused lives. Support for Reform is falling; people are tired of this divisive hatred.

Wow, I didnt read that poster saying anything such. Stop twisting ones post to suit your own narrative or opinion.
Why are you do angry?

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:54

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:51

I also don’t think Nauru would welcome us sending our immigrants there from the UK.

Why does it have to be the same place?

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:53

They would probably be willing to reinstate the deal, although the price might have gone up due to Labour messing them about.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:52

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:51

I also don’t think Nauru would welcome us sending our immigrants there from the UK.

We had a deal with Rwanda all set up.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:51

I also don’t think Nauru would welcome us sending our immigrants there from the UK.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:51

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:48

Australia is nearly 100 miles from the nearest mainland and Papua New Guinea is nothing like France and the rest of the EU.

And that was easily crossed by small boats with people in the thousands. Until the laws changed.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:48

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:37

No you think Australia is geographically removed when the distance is pretty close.

Australia is nearly 100 miles from the nearest mainland and Papua New Guinea is nothing like France and the rest of the EU.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:45

It could get a bit tense if we just dumped immigrants back on their beaches, but we would presumably speak to France first.

Tbh, we're pushing at an open door. All the EU countries have problems with illegal immigration. It's not sustainable, and it's getting worse - see Ceuta. Things are going to change.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 16:42

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:35

What happened in the UK when we last wound the French up?

Ermm... they burned some tyres at the ports? Confused

Don't think they will mind too much if we deport illegal immigrants to Rwanda somehow.

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:37

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:36

Your answers are based on a misconception.

No you think Australia is geographically removed when the distance is pretty close.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:36

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:35

Yes but your reasons are based on a misconception.

Your answers are based on a misconception.

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:35

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:32

@Walkaroundsame as pp what has happened to Australia? Other than all citizens in agreement that the policies should never be voted out.

What happened in the UK when we last wound the French up?

EasternStandard · 30/08/2026 16:35

Walkaround · 30/08/2026 16:33

I am asking you about the UK and Europe - I have already pointed out it is a fantasy to pretend Australia’s behaviour in 2013 can be replicated in the English Channel in 2026. We can’t send our unwanted immigrants to the same places Australia sent theirs back to - it’s a bit far removed.

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Yes but your reasons are based on a misconception.

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