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AIBU to ask what is happening in Middlesbrough at the moment?

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Netcurtainnelly · 26/08/2026 13:16

What's going on in Middlesbrough anyone live there?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gmrz8d31mo

This house fire may be linked to criminal activities at the weekend, where the policemen were killed.

Just before the crash on Saturday somebody's house had been rammed with a vehicle doing extensive damage to the house? They set out in their car trying to find them and retaliate.

It said it's happened to other houses as well?

Is this all linked to drugs?

It's horrible. Where's it going to end? Why would you want to be mixed up in all that?
Is it worth your life?

A police officer is stood facing a badly burnt property. The roof has caved in and exposed the wooden beams. An alley runs down next to the property and it has a wooden fence on one side

Middlesbrough murder investigation as two people die in fire

Cleveland Police says it "cannot rule out any links to wider organised crime" after the fire near Middlesbrough.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gmrz8d31mo

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DooDallyHallie · 27/08/2026 07:50

Vallies · 26/08/2026 16:50

I think the families' point is that the "boys" were chased onto the A66. If there hadn't been a chase, they wouldn't have been going the wrong way on that road. Not that any of that changes the fact that responsibility lies with them.

Well, the driver! We can't say for sure whether the passengers were to blame too.

DooDallyHallie · 27/08/2026 07:52

MMUmum · 26/08/2026 21:15

Middlesbrough is a town of 2 halves, one half is high end, wealthy, beautiful houses, the other half is feral and almost lawless with a massive drig problem. The current problems involve organised crime groups, the police haven't ruled out a connection between the house fire and the crash, possibly rival gangs, maybe not, but they are keeping an open mind

Where are the beautiful houses and wealth?

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 08:25

Sartre · 27/08/2026 07:15

The NE has been neglected for many years, they regularly obtain the lowest qualifications of any region. Yes Middlesbrough is “technically” North Yorkshire but it’s the north east really. In some areas of Middlesbrough 35% of residents have no qualifications at all. Wherever poverty, low education and government neglect are, crime will follow.

Your last sentence nails it.

strawberrybubblegum · 27/08/2026 08:45

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 08:25

Your last sentence nails it.

Low education, low aspirations, no regard for the law or sense of personal responsibility, yes. But I'm not convinced you can blame government neglect or lack of investment.

Did you miss the post where @GarlicAnything said:

"There's some grand-scale local government corruption going on. Someone's been caught running a flipping scam on land marked for industrial developments, but there's so much more. Billions have probably been spirited out of the local government purse over the past several years"

Throwing yet more taxpayer money at the same people doesn't solve the problem.

Chelseagreen · 27/08/2026 08:46

Apologies, I’ve not read the whole thread but my understanding is that the 7 year old girl and her aunt who were the victims in the house fire murder were connected to one of the boys who died in the A66 crash and police are not ruling out that it could be linked to people who rammed the house of one of the boys’ father which was the start of the whole incident.

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 09:14

DooDallyHallie · 27/08/2026 07:52

Where are the beautiful houses and wealth?

Oh come on.

I don't know the area at all, so I just looked on Rightmove to get an idea of housing.

You've got 3 bed semis in Ormesby selling for £80,000:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/169806932?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Or you've got detached houses literally no more than a five minute drive up the road in Nunthorpe selling for a million:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/88038354?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Don't say "Where are the beautiful houses and wealth".

Someone upthread said it's a town of two halves, and indeed it is.

If you were a young man, brought up in extreme poverty, with poverty and bleakness all around you, and parents or a single parent using drugs and alcohol around you, a school system that likely failed you, and you left school with no qualifications, had no college or trainjng course to go on to, no adults invested in trying to help or support you in finding the right path in life, couldn't get anyone to employ you for a job so earnt no money and found yourself trapped in the cycle of poverty, and on a 5 minute drive round your town you saw houses like the 2nd link I posted, saw their cars on the drive, knew how well they lived whilst you faced zero prospects....I think eventually you'd start feeling angry.
And anger combined with the feeling of an unfair life (these young men didn't ask to be born into poverty) and absolutely no hope for their futures whilst surrounded by organised criminals preying on them and dangling promises in front of them saying "Do this job for me and I'll pay you money for it" in order to lure them in......sorry, but you're going to take it. And once you do, you're trapped. Trapped by crime. Trapped by violence. Trapped by threats to your life, to your families' lives. Real threats that you know will be carried out if you don't do what they tell you.

A lot of people are looking at this from the comfort of their middle class lives, which is why they can't understand. I'm not for a second excusing what these 5 males in the car did. But they weren't born bad. Their lives and experiences and what they've been exposed to since birth made them the people they turned in to.
And in my opinion, that's the fault of our society and of our successive local and national governments.

Check out this 3 bedroom terraced house for sale on Rightmove

3 bedroom terraced house for sale in Ainstable Road, Ormesby, Middlesbrough, TS7 9NF, TS7 for £80,000. Marketed by Orange Sales and Lettings, Stockton-On-Tees

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/169806932#/&channel=RES_BUY

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 09:36

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 09:14

Oh come on.

I don't know the area at all, so I just looked on Rightmove to get an idea of housing.

You've got 3 bed semis in Ormesby selling for £80,000:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/169806932?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Or you've got detached houses literally no more than a five minute drive up the road in Nunthorpe selling for a million:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/88038354?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Don't say "Where are the beautiful houses and wealth".

Someone upthread said it's a town of two halves, and indeed it is.

If you were a young man, brought up in extreme poverty, with poverty and bleakness all around you, and parents or a single parent using drugs and alcohol around you, a school system that likely failed you, and you left school with no qualifications, had no college or trainjng course to go on to, no adults invested in trying to help or support you in finding the right path in life, couldn't get anyone to employ you for a job so earnt no money and found yourself trapped in the cycle of poverty, and on a 5 minute drive round your town you saw houses like the 2nd link I posted, saw their cars on the drive, knew how well they lived whilst you faced zero prospects....I think eventually you'd start feeling angry.
And anger combined with the feeling of an unfair life (these young men didn't ask to be born into poverty) and absolutely no hope for their futures whilst surrounded by organised criminals preying on them and dangling promises in front of them saying "Do this job for me and I'll pay you money for it" in order to lure them in......sorry, but you're going to take it. And once you do, you're trapped. Trapped by crime. Trapped by violence. Trapped by threats to your life, to your families' lives. Real threats that you know will be carried out if you don't do what they tell you.

A lot of people are looking at this from the comfort of their middle class lives, which is why they can't understand. I'm not for a second excusing what these 5 males in the car did. But they weren't born bad. Their lives and experiences and what they've been exposed to since birth made them the people they turned in to.
And in my opinion, that's the fault of our society and of our successive local and national governments.

What should society have done differently? Genuine question?

putupwhatever · 27/08/2026 10:06

I know Middlesbrough well. There are some lovely houses in Nunthorpe, like any area it has some wealthy areas. However in general the town is one of the most deprived areas in the country. I would describe it as small pockets of wealth rather than a 'town of two halves'.

Purplemoors · 27/08/2026 10:09

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 09:14

Oh come on.

I don't know the area at all, so I just looked on Rightmove to get an idea of housing.

You've got 3 bed semis in Ormesby selling for £80,000:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/169806932?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Or you've got detached houses literally no more than a five minute drive up the road in Nunthorpe selling for a million:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/88038354?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Don't say "Where are the beautiful houses and wealth".

Someone upthread said it's a town of two halves, and indeed it is.

If you were a young man, brought up in extreme poverty, with poverty and bleakness all around you, and parents or a single parent using drugs and alcohol around you, a school system that likely failed you, and you left school with no qualifications, had no college or trainjng course to go on to, no adults invested in trying to help or support you in finding the right path in life, couldn't get anyone to employ you for a job so earnt no money and found yourself trapped in the cycle of poverty, and on a 5 minute drive round your town you saw houses like the 2nd link I posted, saw their cars on the drive, knew how well they lived whilst you faced zero prospects....I think eventually you'd start feeling angry.
And anger combined with the feeling of an unfair life (these young men didn't ask to be born into poverty) and absolutely no hope for their futures whilst surrounded by organised criminals preying on them and dangling promises in front of them saying "Do this job for me and I'll pay you money for it" in order to lure them in......sorry, but you're going to take it. And once you do, you're trapped. Trapped by crime. Trapped by violence. Trapped by threats to your life, to your families' lives. Real threats that you know will be carried out if you don't do what they tell you.

A lot of people are looking at this from the comfort of their middle class lives, which is why they can't understand. I'm not for a second excusing what these 5 males in the car did. But they weren't born bad. Their lives and experiences and what they've been exposed to since birth made them the people they turned in to.
And in my opinion, that's the fault of our society and of our successive local and national governments.

I think it's a stretch to call the house beautiful, its been fairly savagely destroyed by someone with a footballers wives aesthetic.

And I agree with @putupwhatever . It's not a town of two halves. It's an almost relentlessly poor and ground down town with a few pockets of affluence on the periphery.

It's been horribly abandoned and it's such a shame

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 10:10

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 09:36

What should society have done differently? Genuine question?

Do you not think the poster has already answered that? They’ve pulled out education, community, opportunity, poverty, crime prevention

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 10:25

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 10:10

Do you not think the poster has already answered that? They’ve pulled out education, community, opportunity, poverty, crime prevention

Unfortunately some sections of society couldn't care less. In fact community in this case is part of the problem - young boys being part of the criminal going ons, they start them early as we have seen, it's there cultural capital. How does crime prevention work? There is no respect for Police.

I do think bringing back Sure Start Centres and opportunities for disadvantaged mums and kids would be a good step. However some communities don't want to know and abide by their own culture and rules. They need healthy good role models, that's the problem. But the role models won't be (and shouldn't be for obvious reasons) middle class, I suppose the working classes have been displaced in society.

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Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 10:34

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 10:25

Unfortunately some sections of society couldn't care less. In fact community in this case is part of the problem - young boys being part of the criminal going ons, they start them early as we have seen, it's there cultural capital. How does crime prevention work? There is no respect for Police.

I do think bringing back Sure Start Centres and opportunities for disadvantaged mums and kids would be a good step. However some communities don't want to know and abide by their own culture and rules. They need healthy good role models, that's the problem. But the role models won't be (and shouldn't be for obvious reasons) middle class, I suppose the working classes have been displaced in society.

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That’s quite different to your question, in fact you seem quite aligned with what the poster said.

when you have a community problem you need a community solution. There is NO DOUBT that some people in society are untouchable and unsupportable. They have always been there and always will be. But that shouldn’t be mixed go with a community problem

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 10:47

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This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 10:53

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 10:34

That’s quite different to your question, in fact you seem quite aligned with what the poster said.

when you have a community problem you need a community solution. There is NO DOUBT that some people in society are untouchable and unsupportable. They have always been there and always will be. But that shouldn’t be mixed go with a community problem

I wasn't in opposition to their view. What's going on is heartbreaking.

The school system serves those from middle class homes who value education and are generally already doing well in life. There needs to be MUCH more opportunity post 16 (even post 15 perhaps) and no, not just college, some 16 year olds don't want to sit in class and learn. Let them work.

itsgettingweird · 27/08/2026 11:15

Absolutely agree it’s starts due to disenfranchisement. And when you have parents and grandparents who are already there they raise kids who feel that way from a young age.

Agree about surestart. No - you won’t touch everyone in society. But take an area with a population say of 1000 and 600 of those are disenfranchised. 200 value education and 200 live in poverty but not crime.

Over 50% of a community have influence over the other 40%.

Of we can reach 200/3/400 of those 600 we tip the scales.

The reason crime spread through communities is community cohesion. Easier to join them than beat them.

If you become a much smaller piece of the pie as a criminal and cannot groom
the generation to join in it becomes harder for you to increase your “gang” and to continue.

Raising hope makes people feel listened to and valued. Feeling valued stops them fighting against authority. It’s that fight that makes them blame authority - eg the police - when it goes wrong.

They been conditioned to blame everyone else for their problems. This is why reform and restore do so well in these types of areas.

The responsibility for all this crime and the murders lies firmly at the feet of those responsible.

However if anyone thinks it’ll just go away without some serious investment into the area and making them
feel as a community there’s a different and better way - they are deluded.

Imprisoning those responsible just leaves a gap in the market without real change alongside.

Netcurtainnelly · 27/08/2026 11:29

WonderingWanda · 26/08/2026 17:02

It's outragous that the parents are going down this route. Do they think should just let the criminals do what they want and not try to catch them or bring them to justice. How dare the police attempt to catch them. Their own poor decision making couldn't possibly be to blame 🙄

One of the boys older brothers was also a scumbag, who'd been in trouble with the police.
Shitty family obviously.

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SadiraOfTyr · 27/08/2026 11:34

folliesdue · 27/08/2026 10:53

I wasn't in opposition to their view. What's going on is heartbreaking.

The school system serves those from middle class homes who value education and are generally already doing well in life. There needs to be MUCH more opportunity post 16 (even post 15 perhaps) and no, not just college, some 16 year olds don't want to sit in class and learn. Let them work.

"Let them work" Doing what exactly? Businesses and industry have zero requirements for untrained and unqualified 16 year-olds with an authority problem. The number of unskilled manual jobs drops every year.

Eightfor15 · 27/08/2026 11:39

likelysuspect · 26/08/2026 22:41

Its always been the case that killing or injuring a police officer is treated as incredibly significant because they are keeping law and order, if society goes after the people charged with keeping us safe, its completely lawless.

But they didn't kill police officers in that context, they killed two people who happened to be police officers.

Netcurtainnelly · 27/08/2026 11:39

MulberryWedges · 27/08/2026 09:14

Oh come on.

I don't know the area at all, so I just looked on Rightmove to get an idea of housing.

You've got 3 bed semis in Ormesby selling for £80,000:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/169806932?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Or you've got detached houses literally no more than a five minute drive up the road in Nunthorpe selling for a million:
https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/88038354?utm_campaign=property-details&utm_content=buying&utm_medium=sharing&utm_source=copytoclipboard#/&channel=RES_BUY

Don't say "Where are the beautiful houses and wealth".

Someone upthread said it's a town of two halves, and indeed it is.

If you were a young man, brought up in extreme poverty, with poverty and bleakness all around you, and parents or a single parent using drugs and alcohol around you, a school system that likely failed you, and you left school with no qualifications, had no college or trainjng course to go on to, no adults invested in trying to help or support you in finding the right path in life, couldn't get anyone to employ you for a job so earnt no money and found yourself trapped in the cycle of poverty, and on a 5 minute drive round your town you saw houses like the 2nd link I posted, saw their cars on the drive, knew how well they lived whilst you faced zero prospects....I think eventually you'd start feeling angry.
And anger combined with the feeling of an unfair life (these young men didn't ask to be born into poverty) and absolutely no hope for their futures whilst surrounded by organised criminals preying on them and dangling promises in front of them saying "Do this job for me and I'll pay you money for it" in order to lure them in......sorry, but you're going to take it. And once you do, you're trapped. Trapped by crime. Trapped by violence. Trapped by threats to your life, to your families' lives. Real threats that you know will be carried out if you don't do what they tell you.

A lot of people are looking at this from the comfort of their middle class lives, which is why they can't understand. I'm not for a second excusing what these 5 males in the car did. But they weren't born bad. Their lives and experiences and what they've been exposed to since birth made them the people they turned in to.
And in my opinion, that's the fault of our society and of our successive local and national governments.

Alot of people pull themselves out of poverty and change their situation.
I can think of two people I know who grew up with a single parent in a council estate.

They both got married, had jobs and own their own property now. Not everyone gives up and blames others.
Their parents are no doubt proud.
The five men could have got together and set up a business, or transformed their area, made the community proud.
Everyone has equal opportunities when it comes to business. Plenty of start up support you can access.
It's down to.the individual to have the passion want and desire to be different.

Alot of now rich people grew up poor
They were motivated to create a different life for themselves legally.
These louts were not motivated.

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Netcurtainnelly · 27/08/2026 11:40

SadiraOfTyr · 27/08/2026 11:34

"Let them work" Doing what exactly? Businesses and industry have zero requirements for untrained and unqualified 16 year-olds with an authority problem. The number of unskilled manual jobs drops every year.

Set up a business. Do good for your community.

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Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 11:42

itsgettingweird · 27/08/2026 11:15

Absolutely agree it’s starts due to disenfranchisement. And when you have parents and grandparents who are already there they raise kids who feel that way from a young age.

Agree about surestart. No - you won’t touch everyone in society. But take an area with a population say of 1000 and 600 of those are disenfranchised. 200 value education and 200 live in poverty but not crime.

Over 50% of a community have influence over the other 40%.

Of we can reach 200/3/400 of those 600 we tip the scales.

The reason crime spread through communities is community cohesion. Easier to join them than beat them.

If you become a much smaller piece of the pie as a criminal and cannot groom
the generation to join in it becomes harder for you to increase your “gang” and to continue.

Raising hope makes people feel listened to and valued. Feeling valued stops them fighting against authority. It’s that fight that makes them blame authority - eg the police - when it goes wrong.

They been conditioned to blame everyone else for their problems. This is why reform and restore do so well in these types of areas.

The responsibility for all this crime and the murders lies firmly at the feet of those responsible.

However if anyone thinks it’ll just go away without some serious investment into the area and making them
feel as a community there’s a different and better way - they are deluded.

Imprisoning those responsible just leaves a gap in the market without real change alongside.

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💯 this! People are so focused on throwing young groomed gang members into prison, not realising that all that does is create a job vacancy on the street. Impriosned, killed whatever- they’re replaced in hours

that's exactly the reason the police aim to smash the gangs, and target minor street gang members less. It’s a hiding to nothing as they’re completely disposable. Disrupt the supply and you get somewhere

Vallies · 27/08/2026 11:44

Netcurtainnelly · 27/08/2026 11:40

Set up a business. Do good for your community.

Oh lovely idea. Do you know how many small businesses fail in their first year? How do you imagine a business employing disenfranchised youths would fare? Would you buy a coffee/insurance/double glazing from them? That's if they even turn up and don't have their hand in the till.

It woukd be lovely if there were more businesses employing young people but they're not going to be employing these young people.

AndyKitten · 27/08/2026 11:44

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 11:42

💯 this! People are so focused on throwing young groomed gang members into prison, not realising that all that does is create a job vacancy on the street. Impriosned, killed whatever- they’re replaced in hours

that's exactly the reason the police aim to smash the gangs, and target minor street gang members less. It’s a hiding to nothing as they’re completely disposable. Disrupt the supply and you get somewhere

that's exactly the reason the police aim to smash the gangs, and target minor street gang members less. It’s a hiding to nothing as they’re completely disposable. Disrupt the supply and you get somewhere

Is it working though?

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 11:44

Netcurtainnelly · 27/08/2026 11:40

Set up a business. Do good for your community.

Oh god do you have any understanding how complex that is, for anyone?

you think that an uneducated 18 year old will be able to pay tax, use accountants and lawyers, manage customer service? 🤣

Backedoffhackedoff · 27/08/2026 11:46

AndyKitten · 27/08/2026 11:44

that's exactly the reason the police aim to smash the gangs, and target minor street gang members less. It’s a hiding to nothing as they’re completely disposable. Disrupt the supply and you get somewhere

Is it working though?

How would you expect it to work?

Do you think unless there are zero gangs and drugs, it’s not “working” ??

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