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AIBU to ask what is happening in Middlesbrough at the moment?

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Netcurtainnelly · 26/08/2026 13:16

What's going on in Middlesbrough anyone live there?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gmrz8d31mo

This house fire may be linked to criminal activities at the weekend, where the policemen were killed.

Just before the crash on Saturday somebody's house had been rammed with a vehicle doing extensive damage to the house? They set out in their car trying to find them and retaliate.

It said it's happened to other houses as well?

Is this all linked to drugs?

It's horrible. Where's it going to end? Why would you want to be mixed up in all that?
Is it worth your life?

A police officer is stood facing a badly burnt property. The roof has caved in and exposed the wooden beams. An alley runs down next to the property and it has a wooden fence on one side

Middlesbrough murder investigation as two people die in fire

Cleveland Police says it "cannot rule out any links to wider organised crime" after the fire near Middlesbrough.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4gmrz8d31mo

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LittleBearPad · 30/08/2026 15:42

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 10:50

When an ID card is just a stand-alone ID (similar to our passports), it's OK.

The problem is the push to unify citizen information through centralized, interconnected Digital ID system - which is the bit Labour are keeping.

That allows them far more surveillance and control over citizens - which frankly I don't trust them with.

I also don't particularly trust the government's competence in keeping that data safe and out of the hands of criminals.

They’ve managed with driving licenses and passports which are linked so I’m sure they are capable when they put their minds to it.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/08/2026 10:50

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 30/08/2026 09:07

ID cards could actually be valuable at the moment. Europe manages with them and it would be much better to have a state produced ID than constantly requiring ID which not everyone can afford to get - I’ve recently had to produce a load and I’m grateful I had it, there’s been times when I wouldn’t have had it due to expense. But I agree about the ‘hurty words’ rubbish.

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When an ID card is just a stand-alone ID (similar to our passports), it's OK.

The problem is the push to unify citizen information through centralized, interconnected Digital ID system - which is the bit Labour are keeping.

That allows them far more surveillance and control over citizens - which frankly I don't trust them with.

I also don't particularly trust the government's competence in keeping that data safe and out of the hands of criminals.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 30/08/2026 09:07

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 18:51

But there is a worrying trend towards increasing government control including ID cards (the U-turn is just for the physical cards, not the information centralisation), more arrests for 'hurty words' and controlling information to manage the population.

In that context, I do find it unsettling.

ID cards could actually be valuable at the moment. Europe manages with them and it would be much better to have a state produced ID than constantly requiring ID which not everyone can afford to get - I’ve recently had to produce a load and I’m grateful I had it, there’s been times when I wouldn’t have had it due to expense. But I agree about the ‘hurty words’ rubbish.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 30/08/2026 09:02

Democratic socialism failed in Britain in the 80s and the only power here IS special interest groups aka private corporations. Working people have no power. Benefit takers have more rights and we are not allowed to question them: you get a mouthful if you try, moving to threats, and then get left wing led crap at work about how it was your fault for not ‘de escalating’. It’s a peculiar mix of left wing oppression at work, for the low paid - liberal fascism as it was termed - and right wing corruption at the top of society.

One thing you can guarantee about the house burners - it will be men. The values of our society are exploit, extract, and power is right. It’s a recipe for the lowest common denominator of male violence, and sadly they do seem to like their burnings don’t they?

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 18:51

But there is a worrying trend towards increasing government control including ID cards (the U-turn is just for the physical cards, not the information centralisation), more arrests for 'hurty words' and controlling information to manage the population.

In that context, I do find it unsettling.

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 18:47

38thparallel · 29/08/2026 18:14

Perhaps we should take note of the current suggestion to disarm farmers in the UK

Strawberry why does the government want to disarm farmers? Is it because in the case of civil war they are worried that farmer might be on the ‘wrong’ side?

Sorry, @38thparallel , that was actually a bit tongue in cheek - I don't really think the government are planning for a UK civil war.

But I do think that Labour misunderstand and under-value the countryside - and that they should take on board farmer recommendations rather than forging ahead based on whatever idea has popped into their head today (influenced by animal rights pressure groups).

@NancyThompson that's truly shocking.

38thparallel · 29/08/2026 18:14

Perhaps we should take note of the current suggestion to disarm farmers in the UK

Strawberry why does the government want to disarm farmers? Is it because in the case of civil war they are worried that farmer might be on the ‘wrong’ side?

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 17:46

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 17:26

Good point!

Perhaps we should take note of the current suggestion to disarm farmers in the UK (despite the recognised need for farmers to have guns for pest-control)

www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/5e652a5b110098ca

Let's at least hope they don't do a South Africa there too - they tightened up handgun ownership rules, people surrendered their firearms and received destruction notices... and the firearms were promptly sold off to criminal gangs. So that went well.

Sorry, didn't mean to derail so far.

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 17:26

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 17:23

Probably a lot more quickly in countries where the population tends to be armed, at a guess!

Good point!

Perhaps we should take note of the current suggestion to disarm farmers in the UK (despite the recognised need for farmers to have guns for pest-control)

www.telegraph.co.uk/gift/5e652a5b110098ca

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 17:23

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 17:16

I think that's how it starts: with people grouping together around a common identity and providing for themselves the services the state no longer provides.

I suppose the question is: at what point does the interest group become (militarily?) powerful enough to stop the state from taking significant amounts despite providing no benefit to the group?

Probably a lot more quickly in countries where the population tends to be armed, at a guess!

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 17:22

The interesting one in this context is security: at what point does a group decide that paying for their own protection against these kind of low-lifes is more effective than continuing to pay them off in ever-increasing benefits and misappropriated 'investment'?

I know that gated communities are very common in South Africa.

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 17:16

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 17:08

If you look at South Africa that's a good example of where it's already happening - there are special interest groups that are building their own towns, universities etc now.
One rung below, there is a massive private security industry, private healthcare etc. Basically, as more and more of the state fails, it's propped up by the vastly more efficient private businesses.

The state's role is now predominantly to provide very basic, failing services to people too poor to pay for anything privately, give these people tiny amounts of welfare payments, hinder private business with bizarre racial quotas, tax what they can, and loot most of the tax takings. They're also currently trying to hijack the private health provision.

I think that's how it starts: with people grouping together around a common identity and providing for themselves the services the state no longer provides.

I suppose the question is: at what point does the interest group become (militarily?) powerful enough to stop the state from taking significant amounts despite providing no benefit to the group?

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 17:08

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 16:40

Agreed.

Nothing will ever be enough.

Just as the low living standards (to the point of population starvation) were the proof that communism structurally doesn't work... I'm rather afraid that this is the unravelling of the democratic socialism we've had for the past 70 years.

I can see actually see a route to the type of future written about in dystopian novels like Neal Stephenson's, where nation states cease to be a unifying power, and instead specific interest groups create their own collectives - managing taxes, security etc.

It's a far less efficient structure than high-trust nation states, but if national cohesion fails to the point that a high-trust social contract is no longer viable, then it's a natural progression.

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If you look at South Africa that's a good example of where it's already happening - there are special interest groups that are building their own towns, universities etc now.
One rung below, there is a massive private security industry, private healthcare etc. Basically, as more and more of the state fails, it's propped up by the vastly more efficient private businesses.

The state's role is now predominantly to provide very basic, failing services to people too poor to pay for anything privately, give these people tiny amounts of welfare payments, hinder private business with bizarre racial quotas, tax what they can, and loot most of the tax takings. They're also currently trying to hijack the private health provision.

strawberrybubblegum · 29/08/2026 16:40

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 13:24

What I don't get is why so many of these groups are such nasty little cunts. I mean they burned a child in her home?
Even the younger ones, I've soon footage of them swaggering down a street smashing windows and cars. An ordinary, working-class street as well.

I come from a country that is ranked Least Developed, there is serious, absolute poverty there and I have NEVER witnessed that kind of antisocial behaviour - if a group of teens walzed around destroying people's meagre possessions, they'd get beaten in the street by the men.

Whereas here, schools, medical care, homes and food are all provided and they just act like total psychopaths?

Agreed.

Nothing will ever be enough.

Just as the low living standards (to the point of population starvation) were the proof that communism structurally doesn't work... I'm rather afraid that this is the unravelling of the democratic socialism we've had for the past 70 years.

I can see actually see a route to the type of future written about in dystopian novels like Neal Stephenson's, where nation states cease to be a unifying power, and instead specific interest groups create their own collectives - managing taxes, security etc.

It's a far less efficient structure than high-trust nation states, but if national cohesion fails to the point that a high-trust social contract is no longer viable, then it's a natural progression.

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 13:30

itsgettingweird · 29/08/2026 13:26

They’ve discounted a connection with the house fire.

Two people still arrested for it though. I can understand, sort of, gang related killings, but with a child in the house?!

itsgettingweird · 29/08/2026 13:26

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 13:24

What I don't get is why so many of these groups are such nasty little cunts. I mean they burned a child in her home?
Even the younger ones, I've soon footage of them swaggering down a street smashing windows and cars. An ordinary, working-class street as well.

I come from a country that is ranked Least Developed, there is serious, absolute poverty there and I have NEVER witnessed that kind of antisocial behaviour - if a group of teens walzed around destroying people's meagre possessions, they'd get beaten in the street by the men.

Whereas here, schools, medical care, homes and food are all provided and they just act like total psychopaths?

They’ve discounted a connection with the house fire.

NancyThompson · 29/08/2026 13:24

What I don't get is why so many of these groups are such nasty little cunts. I mean they burned a child in her home?
Even the younger ones, I've soon footage of them swaggering down a street smashing windows and cars. An ordinary, working-class street as well.

I come from a country that is ranked Least Developed, there is serious, absolute poverty there and I have NEVER witnessed that kind of antisocial behaviour - if a group of teens walzed around destroying people's meagre possessions, they'd get beaten in the street by the men.

Whereas here, schools, medical care, homes and food are all provided and they just act like total psychopaths?

38thparallel · 29/08/2026 13:22

There’s only one answer - tax the rich. Get the Royal Family to pay their taxes, and take it from the aristos.

@SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet
Why just them? What about other rich people like the Beckhams or Gary Lineker?
Also, there’s nothing to stop the ‘aristos’ from selling up and moving abroad. As you say, you can’t pack up hundreds of acres but you can sell them. I should think for quite a few it would be a relief.

Badbadbunny · 29/08/2026 12:30

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:29

I believe they will just go after the better off and not the rich. A levelling down.

Sadly I agree. Too many politicians seem to be in the pockets of the real rich who have too much power/influence.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/08/2026 12:29

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:14

I won't vote Green whilst they have this unholy alliance with Islamists, plus an open door migrant policy. They are the only party suggesting anything close to what PP have suggested. Plus I think they will tax the old out of their homes and take their state pension away, replacing it with UBI, which would mean we have worked for nothing.

It’s true, there’s a problem with Greens and Labour both (I’ve tried joining both in the past). Politicians are not representative of real public interest in this country. I keep in touch with the Equality Trust, but the lack of good statesmen is a problem.

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:29

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/08/2026 12:25

As I said there is plenty of money in this country. Neoliberalism has enabled it all to accrue in a few places. The number of billionaires has gone through the roof.

There’s only one answer - tax the rich. Get the Royal Family to pay their taxes, and take it from the aristos. Contrary to one recent report which all started as marketing from a wealth management agency, that kind of wealth does not pick up and leave, you can’t pack up hundreds of acres.

Alternatively we need to rethink the globalised financial system entirely and refound it on resources. Either way the right wing and super rich won’t like it. They’ve had everything their own way for 50 odd years and their grip will be hard to unpick as they have used it to buy power. But that is where the money is, it has been systematically removed from the public coffers for 50 odd years, and now we need it back. It exists. Take it back in the way it was taken from us in the first place. Nationalise services, give housing back into the control of local government, and the money will recirculate to the public purse instead of the billionaires.

I believe they will just go after the better off and not the rich. A levelling down.

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/08/2026 12:25

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:09

Where will the money come from?

As I said there is plenty of money in this country. Neoliberalism has enabled it all to accrue in a few places. The number of billionaires has gone through the roof.

There’s only one answer - tax the rich. Get the Royal Family to pay their taxes, and take it from the aristos. Contrary to one recent report which all started as marketing from a wealth management agency, that kind of wealth does not pick up and leave, you can’t pack up hundreds of acres.

Alternatively we need to rethink the globalised financial system entirely and refound it on resources. Either way the right wing and super rich won’t like it. They’ve had everything their own way for 50 odd years and their grip will be hard to unpick as they have used it to buy power. But that is where the money is, it has been systematically removed from the public coffers for 50 odd years, and now we need it back. It exists. Take it back in the way it was taken from us in the first place. Nationalise services, give housing back into the control of local government, and the money will recirculate to the public purse instead of the billionaires.

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:14

I won't vote Green whilst they have this unholy alliance with Islamists, plus an open door migrant policy. They are the only party suggesting anything close to what PP have suggested. Plus I think they will tax the old out of their homes and take their state pension away, replacing it with UBI, which would mean we have worked for nothing.

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:09

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · 29/08/2026 11:28

The first stop is law. Effective law. Policing and law is under-invested - like everything else in this rundown country. It has been very deliberately done. And prisons. No more crying that there is no money in a country with so much of it.

The second and bigger problem is to present an alternative way of life. A real, genuinely real alternative. For people on the bottom who have nothing, so many people in power live in a very different world. Everything has to be genuinely accessible to those who have nothing, who now own nothing more than the clothes on their back thanks to Landlording. And this is problematic, tying into questions of how we are going to live in future in an age of globalism, of computers, of over production. I can’t give you a simple quick answer on Mumsnet in 3 short words!

You can look at simpler starting methods, which again involve investment - training needs to be free again, wages need to pay again, we need to rebuild an economy where ordinary working people can buy goods produced locally. Trades too, as others say.

But wider economic change is a challenge in the technological age. We may need lower populations with more living on the land as we did in the 1930s and accept that ‘economics of scale’ are often directly harmful to societies. I’d like to see a reversal of the whole principles of globalisation and more emphasis once again on local production and local resilience. People have written entire libraries on this topic so I’m not going to be able to provide a road map here, but it would now take some unpicking after 30 years of shifts the other way. Accept national boundaries developed for a reason and the one world system is doomed to failure for various reasons both economic and cultural.

Cultural change is more problematic still than economic. We also need to stop the influx of American-led shit culture, violent movies films and music which glorify gangsta culture. Accept that that is a problem. Somehow reduce the impact of the internet - fortunately it does seem to be its own downfall in a lot of ways.

Unpick the ridiculous system that has led to all the wealth of the world tied up in a very few men and leaves the rest of us trading debt. As I said no more crying that there is no money. There’s loads. It’s the distribution that is the problem.

Rebuild the economy, unpick culture and completely change the global trading system. Oh and reinvigorate local democracy. Simple, no?? Pick somewhere and start sweeping. Britain always says nothing can be done because problems are too large.

They only get larger when they’re left. As we see.

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Where will the money come from?

38thparallel · 29/08/2026 11:56

@SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet
Thank you for answering my question at length. You make a lot of good points and I agree about violent movies films and music which glorify gangsta culture, and reducing the impact of the internet.
Though how this can be done without a dictatorship - right or left - I don’t know.

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